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Would love to meet people who like to try new things and are open to new experiences. And most of all love to have NSA fun
NSA · 36 - 63 years · 225 km
Anyone down for a fling message me on IG@b77illy_10
NSA · 18 - 42 years · 85 km
A gentle cute and loving female/trans dominant
NSA · 18 - 40 years · 25 km
Im new here and would love to meet likeminded poeple to have safe fun and spontaneous adventure. Telegram@LemonAndLime01
Kinky Date · 18 - 54 years · 5 km
Im little / spankee / pet
and looking for a guy who fuck me hard, spank me hard, care me hard ;) Ill try to be a good girl!
I got so many messages - sorry for couldn't reply to all
Im looking for someone who actually can meet in this week (I live in East London)
and can give me experience that I can't get from Tinder!
I absolutely won't meet who married - sorry!
Kinky Date · 23 - 35 years · 25 km

Submissive that has been interested in the kinky lifestyle for many years but have yet to have had an opportunity to really try it so I'm currently looking to dip my toes in it.
Bi-Curious so all are welcome.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 30 km
I’m looking for a dominant, successful gentleman who enjoys a clearly defined power dynamic. By day, he indulges me—attentive, generous, and in control. By night, he takes what is already his, confidently and decisively, within a dynamic that’s been fully agreed upon.
I’m drawn to men who lead without hesitation, who understand consensual authority, and who thrive in a relationship where surrender is intentional and desired.
BDSM Play Partner · 43 - 80 years · 25 km
At the hotel, you pick up a spare key from reception. When you walk into the room, you'll see a blindfold and self-bondage straps attached to the bed. You know what to do.
I'll come in shortly after. Maybe with others. Maybe not. When I'm done with you I'll leave you to be freed by the self releasing timer. Then book you an uber to a bar where you'll see me for the first time.
You have to guess who I am.. and kiss me. Better choose wisely or it could be embarrassing.
To help you, I'll leave a remote vibrator inside you. The closer you get, the stronger the vibrations.
NSA · 18 - 40 years · 80 km
I want to meet women who are on pure filth and up for nsa
NSA · 25 - 80 years · 10 km
respect .............
Kinky Date · 25 - 45 years · 15 km
Looking to meet some hot chick anyone really down to meet
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Wanna worship feet and be trampled so bad and would love to be a slave owned long term by a goddess
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 70 km
Wanna be someone's play toy for them to use and *** me I'm very submissive and obedient and wanna serve a dominant queen
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 50 km
Any woman in London 😈🔥
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 35 km
Anyone in London who wanna explore everything and be submissive and like hard and wild
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 59 years · 35 km
Don’t bark orders. Speak them low, steady, and certain. I’ll defy you. I’ll glare, I’ll pout, I’ll push — not to win, but to feel the edges of your control. Make them sharp. Make them real. Make me earn your approval with every gasp and every bruise.
Correct me because you care. Punish me not in anger, but in purpose. Turn my brat into obedience, one strike at a time, until I’m panting for your praise more than your belt. Until “yes, Sir” isn’t just an answer — it’s a need.
Make me remember the rules when your palm lands hard. Make me crave structure when the sting settles into heat. I’ll test you — because I need to feel that you won’t break. That no matter how far I push, you’ll be there, unshaken.
So teach me, Daddy. Show me where the line is — and be the one who holds it, every time I fall.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 28 - 47 years · 235 km
Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)
About Me as a Little
I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.
While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.
About Me as a Submissive
Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.
I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.
What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver
I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:
1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.
5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.
What I Offer as a Little and Submissive
As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
• Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
• Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
• Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
• Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.
My Favorite Little Space Activities
• Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
• Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed ***s, and imaginative activities.
• Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
• Caregiving Moments: Being fed, tucked in, or cuddled while you read to me.
• Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.
About Me as an Adult
Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.
I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.
What I Need From You
Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
• Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
• Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
• Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
• Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
• Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.
Important Notes
I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.
If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.
Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.
Warm hugs and Cuddles,
Diana
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 44 years · 235 km
**Age**: 20
**Little Age**: 2-4
**Name**: Kate
**Role**: Little/Submissive/ABDL
**Location**: London
**Sexual Orientation**: Straight
**Looking For**: Daddy Dom or Mommy between 24 and 40 years old
**Relationship Preference**: Unsure, possibly monogamous or closed triad
**Number of Partners**: 0
I know this is lengthy, but please read it!
**What I Want**:
- Someone who embraces the lifestyle
- A person who will love and support me during both my strong and *** moments
- Someone who appreciates my cuddly and clingy nature, like a koala, when I’m in little space
- A partner who can firmly guide me when I’m being bratty or mischievous
- Someone who recognizes that my little side and titles are earned, not automatically given
- A person who is understanding of my anxiety
- A caregiver who can also be my best friend
- Someone who knows they can rely on me when they’re struggling—it's okay for them to not be okay
- A partner who respects my safe words, limits, and past trauma
- Someone who is patient and understanding
- A communicator who addresses even the smallest details
- A person interested in an in-person relationship (online is fine initially)
- Someone who provides aftercare consistently
- A partner who values rules, rewards, and discipline
- Someone taller than me (I’m 5’3.78”)
- A person who is stern and firm
- A person with lot of rules and who is strict
- A disciplinarian
- Someone who seeks more than just sex or kinks
- A communicator who wants to build a strong foundation and trust
- Someone who acknowledges that I’m not theirs until I agree
- A partner who understands my headspace is entirely non-sexual
- Someone who wants a long term relationship
**Things I Don’t Want**:
- A caregiver focused on padding
- Someone who expects me to dominate (I’m NOT a switch!)
- Sharing with another little; I’m okay if the other person is a sub or pet, but not another little
- A caregiver with a little or pet side
- Conversations starting with explicit photos
- Conversations beginning with pet names or titles
- Jumping straight into a relationship
**What I Can Bring to a Relationship**:
- My submissive side (though I identify more as a little)
- My little self
- Friendship
- Cuddles!
- Emotional support during tough times (it’s okay not to be okay!)
- Patience (I’ve been waiting patiently for improvement)
- Respect for your boundaries, friends, and family
- Cute chaos 😂
- A large collection of stuffed ***s and onesies 🫣
- A love for being in little space
**Things I Enjoy**:
- Cartoons
- Disney movies
- Coloring
- Cuddling
- Head ruffles
- Butt pats
- Stuffed ***s
- Cute outfits
- Bubble baths
- Drawing
- Anime
- Manga
- Stargazing
- Gardening
- Cooking and baking
- Sports
My little self, Kate, is an ABDL with a little age of 2 to 4. I love cartoons, especially Barbie, Peppa Pig, and Bluey. I enjoy coloring and have a favorite stuffed *** named Crissy. I'm very cuddly and always seek attention! I describe myself as a koala bear (so please don’t call me clingy!). I can be quite mischievous and sometimes push boundaries, but I can also be well-behaved when I choose to be. I love butt pats forehead kisses and my favourite head ruffles!
My adult self is also Kate, 20 years old. I love anime, reading manga, and occasionally drawing. I'm a student who practices martial arts and enjoys basketball.
I deal with hay fever, anxiety, and two eating disorders, and I tend to overthink, (stemming past trauma).
In a relationship, I’m looking for a Daddy/Mommy dynamic, but I don’t expect it to be solely that—I’m more little than submissive. It would be great if you have a submissive partner who could also be my mommy.
As a person, I strive to be kind, caring, and patient. I focus on actions and personality rather than appearance, due to past experiences. I have a short attention span and can be lazy, but I work hard to improve myself.
As a little, I’m cute and playful! I love cuddles, butt pats, and head ruffles, and enjoy silly things like nose boops and forehead kisses. I like spending time with my partner, and while I can be well-behaved, I can also be cheeky and playful, like hiding remotes or sneaking cookies. My favorite colors are purple and blue, and I adore stuffed ***s! I easily get into and stay in little space, and I enjoy bubble baths and hair washing. I often use my “puppy eyes” and grabby hands, and I’m sometimes vocal. I wear diapers frequently because I love it. I would appreciate items like a car seat, high chair, bibs, feeding bottles, pacifiers, behaviour chart, reward chart, punishment chat, everyday chart, phone control apps on my phone laptop and tablet and other little accessories, and I'm open to being changed in public in a closed place when necessary.
I can be challenging at times, so I need someone who won’t give up on me easily.
I'm seeking a Daddy/Mommy who could be a couple or a Daddy with a sub who enjoys being a mommy. I prefer someone in the UK aged 24 to 40, who is kind, caring, and understanding, but also willing to be firm, strict and disciplined. I’m not comfortable sharing my Daddy with another little, as I’ve been hurt in the past.
I enjoy being little in public but can also behave as an adult when required. I want an in-person relationship, so please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for online interaction!
In an ideal scenario, my Daddy would be kind and caring when needed, but strict, stern and disciplined when I’m misbehaving. He would set rules and provide punishments and rewards, while also understanding that he can lean on me for support during tough times. I want him to view babying me as a joy not a chore or rather than a burden. and to look forward to our cuddle time as a way to unwind and destress. I want both of us to feel safe with each other.
I hope for open communication where we can share ***s, desires, and everything in between, as communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in this dynamic.
As my partner, I’d like you to treat me as an equal with care and respect, and to act as a gentleman in public. Holding hands and opening doors mean a lot to me. I want you to feel comfortable sharing anything with me and to see me as your little one.
**P.S.** I’d appreciate a bit more information when you message and I would also share a bit more with you.
I hope this gives you ample information to decide if you’d like to start a conversation!
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
**Age**: 20
**Little Age**: 2-4
**Name**: Kate
**Role**: Little/Submissive/ABDL
**Location**: London
**Sexual Orientation**: Straight
**Looking For**: Daddy Dom or Mommy between 24 and 40 years old
**Relationship Preference**: Unsure, possibly monogamous or closed triad
**Number of Partners**: 0
I know this is lengthy, but please read it!
**What I Want**:
- Someone who embraces the lifestyle
- A person who will love and support me during both my strong and *** moments
- Someone who appreciates my cuddly and clingy nature, like a koala, when I’m in little space
- A partner who can firmly guide me when I’m being bratty or mischievous
- Someone who recognizes that my little side and titles are earned, not automatically given
- A person who is understanding of my anxiety
- A caregiver who can also be my best friend
- Someone who knows they can rely on me when they’re struggling—it's okay for them to not be okay
- A partner who respects my safe words, limits, and past trauma
- Someone who is patient and understanding
- A communicator who addresses even the smallest details
- A person interested in an in-person relationship (online is fine at first)
- Someone who provides aftercare consistently
- A partner who values rules, rewards, and discipline
- Someone taller than me (I’m 5’3.78”)
- A person who is stern and firm
- A person with lot of rules and who is strict
- A disciplinarian
- Someone who seeks more than just sex or kinks
- A communicator who wants to build a strong foundation and trust
- Someone who acknowledges that I’m not theirs until I agree
- A partner who understands my headspace is entirely non-sexual
- Someone who wants a long term relationship
**Things I Don’t Want**:
- A caregiver focused on padding
- Someone who expects me to dominate (I’m NOT a switch!)
- Sharing with another little; I’m okay if the other person is a sub or pet, but not another little
- A caregiver with a little or pet side
- Conversations starting with explicit photos
- Conversations beginning with pet names or titles
- Jumping straight into a relationship
**What I Can Bring to a Relationship**:
- My submissive side (though I identify more as a little)
- My little self
- Friendship
- Cuddles!
- Emotional support during tough times (it’s okay not to be okay!)
- Patience (I’ve been waiting patiently for improvement)
- Respect for your boundaries, friends, and family
- Cute chaos 😂
- A large collection of stuffed ***s and onesies 🫣
- A love for being in little space
**Things I Enjoy**:
- Cartoons
- Disney movies
- Coloring
- Cuddling
- Head ruffles
- Butt pats
- Stuffed ***s
- Cute outfits
- Bubble baths
- Drawing
- Anime
- Manga
- Stargazing
- Gardening
- Cooking and baking
- Sports
My little self, Kate, is an ABDL with a little age of 2 to 4. I love cartoons, especially Barbie, Peppa Pig, and Bluey. I enjoy coloring and have a favorite stuffed *** named Crissy. I'm very cuddly and always seek attention! I describe myself as a koala bear (so please don’t call me clingy!). I can be quite mischievous and sometimes push boundaries, but I can also be well-behaved when I choose to be. I love butt pats forehead kisses and my favourite head ruffles!
My adult self is also Kate, 20 years old. I love anime, reading manga, and occasionally drawing. I'm a student who practices martial arts and enjoys basketball.
I deal with hay fever, anxiety, and two eating disorders, and I tend to overthink, (stemming past trauma).
In a relationship, I’m looking for a Daddy/Mommy dynamic, but I don’t expect it to be solely that—I’m more little than submissive. It would be great if you have a submissive partner who could also be my mommy.
As a person, I strive to be kind, caring, and patient. I focus on actions and personality rather than appearance, due to past experiences. I have a short attention span and can be lazy, but I work hard to improve myself.
As a little, I’m cute and playful! I love cuddles, butt pats, and head ruffles, and enjoy silly things like nose boops and forehead kisses. I like spending time with my partner, and while I can be well-behaved, I can also be cheeky and playful, like hiding remotes or sneaking cookies. My favorite colors are purple and blue, and I adore stuffed ***s! I easily get into and stay in little space, and I enjoy bubble baths and hair washing. I often use my “puppy eyes” and grabby hands, and I’m sometimes vocal. I wear diapers frequently because I love it. I would appreciate items like a car seat, high chair, bibs, feeding bottles, pacifiers, behaviour chart, reward chart, punishment chat, everyday chart, phone control apps on my phone laptop and tablet and other little accessories, and I'm open to being changed in public in a closed place when necessary.
I can be challenging at times, so I need someone who won’t give up on me easily.
I'm seeking a Daddy/Mommy who could be a couple or a Daddy with a sub who enjoys being a mommy. I prefer someone in the UK aged 24 to 40, who is kind, caring, and understanding, but also willing to be firm, strict and disciplined. I’m not comfortable sharing my Daddy with another little, as I’ve been hurt in the past.
I enjoy being little in public but can also behave as an adult when required. I want an in-person relationship, so please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for online interaction!
In an ideal scenario, my Daddy would be kind and caring when needed, but strict, stern and disciplined when I’m misbehaving. He would set rules and provide punishments and rewards, while also understanding that he can lean on me for support during tough times. I want him to view babying me as a joy not a chore or rather than a burden. and to look forward to our cuddle time as a way to unwind and destress. I want both of us to feel safe with each other.
I hope for open communication where we can share ***s, desires, and everything in between, as communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in this dynamic.
As my partner, I’d like you to treat me as an equal with care and respect, and to act as a gentleman in public. Holding hands and opening doors mean a lot to me. I want you to feel comfortable sharing anything with me and to see me as your little one.
**P.S.** I’d appreciate a bit more information when you message and I would also share a bit more with you.
I hope this gives you ample information to decide if you’d like to start a conversation!
Please start your message with keys so I know you read through it
BDSM/Fetish Family · 22 - 40 years · 165 km
I'm not too picky as I have so much I want to try, just no *** kinks/shitting kinks or raceplay!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 25 years · 25 km
**About Me**
Soft-hearted disabled sub looking for a caring but confident dominant presence — Owner / Mommy / Daddy / Mistress. Loyal, communicative, and playful once I feel safe. I love games (video + board!) and cozy movie nights, especially when I can curl up with the person in charge. 🖤
**What I’m Looking For**
A patient, responsible Dom who understands that dominance is built on trust and care. Someone who enjoys giving structure, direction, and affection — a steady leader who appreciates devotion in return. Disability-aware and kink-educated is a huge plus.
**Interests**
• Gaming together — co-op, RPGs, or just hanging out in the same space
• Movie marathons & snacks
• Power exchange & service dynamics
• Pet/playful vibes & praise
• Comfort, closeness & cute rituals
**Boundaries & Values**
Consent first. Communication always. Accessibility matters. Real connection > rushing anything.
If you’re the kind of person who loves to take the lead — and wants someone who *loves* to follow — say hi.
Kinky Date · 18 - 25 years · 500 km
I'm looking for a loving and nurturing mommy/daddy and caregiver, someone who is patient, compassionate, and dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment. Ideally, this person will be attentive to emotional and physical needs, fostering a sense of comfort, security, and warmth in their care.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 24 years · 25 km
Open to recommendations
Kinky Date · 18 - 45 years · 35 km
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