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NSA · 18 - 53 years · 230 km
Virgin looking to explore and be trained up
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 90 km
Need a dom Essex Harlow
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 55 km

Dom male and sub female looking for a bisexual female to play, female can switch. All boundaries to be respected.
Kinky Date · 30 - 50 years · 50 km

I’m looking for a sub who is open minded, aged between 25-52 years old, must be either single or divorced. Looking for preferably long term, but willing to accommodate short term.
Now don’t be shy, tell me why I would be interested in you….
Kinky Date · 25 - 52 years · 25 km

I'm looking for an open-minded woman.
Not looking for long-distance relationships and would prefer more local.
Also, only single women who are not in a relationship or divorced, please.
I’m flattered by the spanks, but unable to see who sent them, so please just message.
Kinky Date · 18 - 55 years · 50 km
Hi I'm a virgin sub looking to have my first time I would rather talk and meet a bit before anything happens but overall kind if looking for a master/mistress figure
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 285 km
Looking for someone to do watersports with. Anyone free?
Kinky Date · 50 km

I am looking for a FWB-to help me develop a growing interest in S&M-
particularly, for my part, in Masochism. I have sampled some of the joys of Masochism and want to explore further, and yes, I do have some equipment and am happy to get more. For your part all I am asking is that you help me explore this Masochistic side of my personality. Anything else you want just ask, as long as it is based on an ongoing friendship
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 10 km
I just moved to the area and am wondering who is around me 🫢. Say hi if you are and let’s get acquainted
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 80 km
To meet for fun
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 75 km
🇨🇦 in the UK, 33
Princess energy with a bratty streak
Sweet, playful, and a little cheeky… but not as innocent as I look
I love feeling wanted, spoiled, and just a little put in my place
I’ll behave… if you give me a reason to 😉
Looking for confident daddy energy that can handle both.
Check my profile for more 😘
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Male sub looking to serve a goddess, particularly in the realm of skat…happy to discuss further for anyone interested
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 195 km
Looking to use or be used and even better if it's both around north London. Up for most things and curious to try a bit of everything.
Kinky Date · 18 - 35 years · 25 km
Is there a group chat on here
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 30 years · 35 km

I'm mature guy
In reality if I'm going to play its with wicked pr - Doms wanting to punish Slaves
Been in Fet for only a year or so
Really like being caned and would love to feel a single tail whip take my A*** off
After NSA and in a Vanilla relationship so need to discuss things like Marks
Dom/me Session · 18 - 50 years · 100 km

Have recently moved to bishops stortford and would love to meet some local kinksters in the area (bishops stortford/ Sawbridgeworth/ harlow)
I am mainly submissive but can switch with females , am submissive and bottom only with men !!
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
31 Male sub seeking a partner for life near london or online initially.
I present normal public.
Play guitar, walking, internet, philosophy, politics, Cooking for you and more.
I am into denial, chastity,, bdsm, *** desperation, humilation and sissy dress up among more.
I look forward to talking with getting to know and worshipping you. Hopefully more than that and having fun together.
serious or virtual or short term all possible. Women and fem types please. maybe trans. My contact methods;
Kik and snap loudanonsis
Skype - penelope.cdsiss (if you cant find it try live: infront it)
Hangouts penelope.cdsissy@***
Telegram @PenelopeCDsissyOmoHoe
Discord SissyGooner#5598
Love denial, *** & *** holding
Kinky Date · 20 - 50 years · 150 km
Hi, lovely to meet you.
I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.
Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.
I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.
As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.
Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.
At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.
I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.
Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

Looking to be degraded NSA. Message me for more. 💋💋
NSA · 5 km
Hey, I am a 6ft 5 guy in an ENM relationship. We are exploring separately and I am looking for someone to come over and dominate me. I can host and pick you up if needed. I don’t have a lot of limits
NSA · 18 - 25 years · 50 km
Hey I’m in Harlow looking for a hookup in the next couple of weeks. I can host and pick you up if we hit it off.
Looking to explore with an open minded person.
Kinky Date · 18 - 28 years · 70 km
Ladies in the Harlow area, who wants to get filthy?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
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