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Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Good boy with cute face, nice ass and big 🍆 are looking for his Mommy to serve, obey, listen and submit his whole life, body and mind to Mommy. I will listen to your voice, I will be more than happy to fulfil your needs Mommy.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

I'm now back on the market! I'm in need of a forever domme one who will look after me and treat me right. I'm in the uk. I don't bite!
Kinky Date · 35 - 50 years · 200 km
Don’t bark orders. Speak them low, steady, and certain. I’ll defy you. I’ll glare, I’ll pout, I’ll push — not to win, but to feel the edges of your control. Make them sharp. Make them real. Make me earn your approval with every gasp and every bruise.
Correct me because you care. Punish me not in anger, but in purpose. Turn my brat into obedience, one strike at a time, until I’m panting for your praise more than your belt. Until “yes, Sir” isn’t just an answer — it’s a need.
Make me remember the rules when your palm lands hard. Make me crave structure when the sting settles into heat. I’ll test you — because I need to feel that you won’t break. That no matter how far I push, you’ll be there, unshaken.
So teach me, Daddy. Show me where the line is — and be the one who holds it, every time I fall.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 28 - 47 years · 235 km
Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)
About Me as a Little
I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.
While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.
About Me as a Submissive
Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.
I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.
What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver
I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:
1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.
5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.
What I Offer as a Little and Submissive
As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
• Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
• Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
• Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
• Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.
My Favorite Little Space Activities
• Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
• Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed ***s, and imaginative activities.
• Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
• Caregiving Moments: Being fed, tucked in, or cuddled while you read to me.
• Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.
About Me as an Adult
Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.
I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.
What I Need From You
Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
• Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
• Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
• Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
• Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
• Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.
Important Notes
I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.
If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.
Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.
Warm hugs and Cuddles,
Diana
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 44 years · 235 km
**Age**: 20
**Little Age**: 2-4
**Name**: Kate
**Role**: Little/Submissive/ABDL
**Location**: London
**Sexual Orientation**: Straight
**Looking For**: Daddy Dom or Mommy between 24 and 40 years old
**Relationship Preference**: Unsure, possibly monogamous or closed triad
**Number of Partners**: 0
I know this is lengthy, but please read it!
**What I Want**:
- Someone who embraces the lifestyle
- A person who will love and support me during both my strong and *** moments
- Someone who appreciates my cuddly and clingy nature, like a koala, when I’m in little space
- A partner who can firmly guide me when I’m being bratty or mischievous
- Someone who recognizes that my little side and titles are earned, not automatically given
- A person who is understanding of my anxiety
- A caregiver who can also be my best friend
- Someone who knows they can rely on me when they’re struggling—it's okay for them to not be okay
- A partner who respects my safe words, limits, and past trauma
- Someone who is patient and understanding
- A communicator who addresses even the smallest details
- A person interested in an in-person relationship (online is fine initially)
- Someone who provides aftercare consistently
- A partner who values rules, rewards, and discipline
- Someone taller than me (I’m 5’3.78”)
- A person who is stern and firm
- A person with lot of rules and who is strict
- A disciplinarian
- Someone who seeks more than just sex or kinks
- A communicator who wants to build a strong foundation and trust
- Someone who acknowledges that I’m not theirs until I agree
- A partner who understands my headspace is entirely non-sexual
- Someone who wants a long term relationship
**Things I Don’t Want**:
- A caregiver focused on padding
- Someone who expects me to dominate (I’m NOT a switch!)
- Sharing with another little; I’m okay if the other person is a sub or pet, but not another little
- A caregiver with a little or pet side
- Conversations starting with explicit photos
- Conversations beginning with pet names or titles
- Jumping straight into a relationship
**What I Can Bring to a Relationship**:
- My submissive side (though I identify more as a little)
- My little self
- Friendship
- Cuddles!
- Emotional support during tough times (it’s okay not to be okay!)
- Patience (I’ve been waiting patiently for improvement)
- Respect for your boundaries, friends, and family
- Cute chaos 😂
- A large collection of stuffed ***s and onesies 🫣
- A love for being in little space
**Things I Enjoy**:
- Cartoons
- Disney movies
- Coloring
- Cuddling
- Head ruffles
- Butt pats
- Stuffed ***s
- Cute outfits
- Bubble baths
- Drawing
- Anime
- Manga
- Stargazing
- Gardening
- Cooking and baking
- Sports
My little self, Kate, is an ABDL with a little age of 2 to 4. I love cartoons, especially Barbie, Peppa Pig, and Bluey. I enjoy coloring and have a favorite stuffed *** named Crissy. I'm very cuddly and always seek attention! I describe myself as a koala bear (so please don’t call me clingy!). I can be quite mischievous and sometimes push boundaries, but I can also be well-behaved when I choose to be. I love butt pats forehead kisses and my favourite head ruffles!
My adult self is also Kate, 20 years old. I love anime, reading manga, and occasionally drawing. I'm a student who practices martial arts and enjoys basketball.
I deal with hay fever, anxiety, and two eating disorders, and I tend to overthink, (stemming past trauma).
In a relationship, I’m looking for a Daddy/Mommy dynamic, but I don’t expect it to be solely that—I’m more little than submissive. It would be great if you have a submissive partner who could also be my mommy.
As a person, I strive to be kind, caring, and patient. I focus on actions and personality rather than appearance, due to past experiences. I have a short attention span and can be lazy, but I work hard to improve myself.
As a little, I’m cute and playful! I love cuddles, butt pats, and head ruffles, and enjoy silly things like nose boops and forehead kisses. I like spending time with my partner, and while I can be well-behaved, I can also be cheeky and playful, like hiding remotes or sneaking cookies. My favorite colors are purple and blue, and I adore stuffed ***s! I easily get into and stay in little space, and I enjoy bubble baths and hair washing. I often use my “puppy eyes” and grabby hands, and I’m sometimes vocal. I wear diapers frequently because I love it. I would appreciate items like a car seat, high chair, bibs, feeding bottles, pacifiers, behaviour chart, reward chart, punishment chat, everyday chart, phone control apps on my phone laptop and tablet and other little accessories, and I'm open to being changed in public in a closed place when necessary.
I can be challenging at times, so I need someone who won’t give up on me easily.
I'm seeking a Daddy/Mommy who could be a couple or a Daddy with a sub who enjoys being a mommy. I prefer someone in the UK aged 24 to 40, who is kind, caring, and understanding, but also willing to be firm, strict and disciplined. I’m not comfortable sharing my Daddy with another little, as I’ve been hurt in the past.
I enjoy being little in public but can also behave as an adult when required. I want an in-person relationship, so please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for online interaction!
In an ideal scenario, my Daddy would be kind and caring when needed, but strict, stern and disciplined when I’m misbehaving. He would set rules and provide punishments and rewards, while also understanding that he can lean on me for support during tough times. I want him to view babying me as a joy not a chore or rather than a burden. and to look forward to our cuddle time as a way to unwind and destress. I want both of us to feel safe with each other.
I hope for open communication where we can share ***s, desires, and everything in between, as communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in this dynamic.
As my partner, I’d like you to treat me as an equal with care and respect, and to act as a gentleman in public. Holding hands and opening doors mean a lot to me. I want you to feel comfortable sharing anything with me and to see me as your little one.
**P.S.** I’d appreciate a bit more information when you message and I would also share a bit more with you.
I hope this gives you ample information to decide if you’d like to start a conversation!
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
**Age**: 20
**Little Age**: 2-4
**Name**: Kate
**Role**: Little/Submissive/ABDL
**Location**: London
**Sexual Orientation**: Straight
**Looking For**: Daddy Dom or Mommy between 24 and 40 years old
**Relationship Preference**: Unsure, possibly monogamous or closed triad
**Number of Partners**: 0
I know this is lengthy, but please read it!
**What I Want**:
- Someone who embraces the lifestyle
- A person who will love and support me during both my strong and *** moments
- Someone who appreciates my cuddly and clingy nature, like a koala, when I’m in little space
- A partner who can firmly guide me when I’m being bratty or mischievous
- Someone who recognizes that my little side and titles are earned, not automatically given
- A person who is understanding of my anxiety
- A caregiver who can also be my best friend
- Someone who knows they can rely on me when they’re struggling—it's okay for them to not be okay
- A partner who respects my safe words, limits, and past trauma
- Someone who is patient and understanding
- A communicator who addresses even the smallest details
- A person interested in an in-person relationship (online is fine at first)
- Someone who provides aftercare consistently
- A partner who values rules, rewards, and discipline
- Someone taller than me (I’m 5’3.78”)
- A person who is stern and firm
- A person with lot of rules and who is strict
- A disciplinarian
- Someone who seeks more than just sex or kinks
- A communicator who wants to build a strong foundation and trust
- Someone who acknowledges that I’m not theirs until I agree
- A partner who understands my headspace is entirely non-sexual
- Someone who wants a long term relationship
**Things I Don’t Want**:
- A caregiver focused on padding
- Someone who expects me to dominate (I’m NOT a switch!)
- Sharing with another little; I’m okay if the other person is a sub or pet, but not another little
- A caregiver with a little or pet side
- Conversations starting with explicit photos
- Conversations beginning with pet names or titles
- Jumping straight into a relationship
**What I Can Bring to a Relationship**:
- My submissive side (though I identify more as a little)
- My little self
- Friendship
- Cuddles!
- Emotional support during tough times (it’s okay not to be okay!)
- Patience (I’ve been waiting patiently for improvement)
- Respect for your boundaries, friends, and family
- Cute chaos 😂
- A large collection of stuffed ***s and onesies 🫣
- A love for being in little space
**Things I Enjoy**:
- Cartoons
- Disney movies
- Coloring
- Cuddling
- Head ruffles
- Butt pats
- Stuffed ***s
- Cute outfits
- Bubble baths
- Drawing
- Anime
- Manga
- Stargazing
- Gardening
- Cooking and baking
- Sports
My little self, Kate, is an ABDL with a little age of 2 to 4. I love cartoons, especially Barbie, Peppa Pig, and Bluey. I enjoy coloring and have a favorite stuffed *** named Crissy. I'm very cuddly and always seek attention! I describe myself as a koala bear (so please don’t call me clingy!). I can be quite mischievous and sometimes push boundaries, but I can also be well-behaved when I choose to be. I love butt pats forehead kisses and my favourite head ruffles!
My adult self is also Kate, 20 years old. I love anime, reading manga, and occasionally drawing. I'm a student who practices martial arts and enjoys basketball.
I deal with hay fever, anxiety, and two eating disorders, and I tend to overthink, (stemming past trauma).
In a relationship, I’m looking for a Daddy/Mommy dynamic, but I don’t expect it to be solely that—I’m more little than submissive. It would be great if you have a submissive partner who could also be my mommy.
As a person, I strive to be kind, caring, and patient. I focus on actions and personality rather than appearance, due to past experiences. I have a short attention span and can be lazy, but I work hard to improve myself.
As a little, I’m cute and playful! I love cuddles, butt pats, and head ruffles, and enjoy silly things like nose boops and forehead kisses. I like spending time with my partner, and while I can be well-behaved, I can also be cheeky and playful, like hiding remotes or sneaking cookies. My favorite colors are purple and blue, and I adore stuffed ***s! I easily get into and stay in little space, and I enjoy bubble baths and hair washing. I often use my “puppy eyes” and grabby hands, and I’m sometimes vocal. I wear diapers frequently because I love it. I would appreciate items like a car seat, high chair, bibs, feeding bottles, pacifiers, behaviour chart, reward chart, punishment chat, everyday chart, phone control apps on my phone laptop and tablet and other little accessories, and I'm open to being changed in public in a closed place when necessary.
I can be challenging at times, so I need someone who won’t give up on me easily.
I'm seeking a Daddy/Mommy who could be a couple or a Daddy with a sub who enjoys being a mommy. I prefer someone in the UK aged 24 to 40, who is kind, caring, and understanding, but also willing to be firm, strict and disciplined. I’m not comfortable sharing my Daddy with another little, as I’ve been hurt in the past.
I enjoy being little in public but can also behave as an adult when required. I want an in-person relationship, so please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for online interaction!
In an ideal scenario, my Daddy would be kind and caring when needed, but strict, stern and disciplined when I’m misbehaving. He would set rules and provide punishments and rewards, while also understanding that he can lean on me for support during tough times. I want him to view babying me as a joy not a chore or rather than a burden. and to look forward to our cuddle time as a way to unwind and destress. I want both of us to feel safe with each other.
I hope for open communication where we can share ***s, desires, and everything in between, as communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in this dynamic.
As my partner, I’d like you to treat me as an equal with care and respect, and to act as a gentleman in public. Holding hands and opening doors mean a lot to me. I want you to feel comfortable sharing anything with me and to see me as your little one.
**P.S.** I’d appreciate a bit more information when you message and I would also share a bit more with you.
I hope this gives you ample information to decide if you’d like to start a conversation!
Please start your message with keys so I know you read through it
BDSM/Fetish Family · 22 - 40 years · 165 km

Mature sin menLooking for a male submissive for a committed, monogamous dynamic. Must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Any messages from anyone requesting play outside of these parameters will be ignored/blocked. NO SMOKERS OR VAPERS
Please note I'm currently unable to host and not willing to have a purely online relationship or travel more than 20 miles from the Maidstone area.
The ability to **communicate** effectively is extremely important to me. Whilst experience isnt a necessity, please be **honest** about your desires, wants and needs. I will **respect** and honour your limitations, and build the **trust** needed to build a special connection.
I absolutely love to peg and make an arse nice and red with a good paddle. I also have soft spot for watching a sub drink my ***. ***, ***, sissification and being caged are also some of my favourite things. I will never participate in catheterisation. Likewise needles whilst im mentioning hard limits.
Despite being on the hunt for a sub, I would really like to would to chat with likeminded individuals looking for friendship.
One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your about me and see what people ask you.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 42 - 59 years · 35 km
Straight/throat-only *** running for President of Deep-Throat Destruction 2025.
Professional, discreet, zero reciprocation, zero chit-chat.
I show up already clamped, poppers loaded, on my knees the second the door locks.
Your job: fist my hair, ram past my gag reflex, and unload straight down my throat before you head to work. 15–20 minutes max. Longer if you wish i willI swallow every drop, thank you with teary eyes, and disappear until you need stress relief again.
What I bring:
• Trained throat that doesn’t tap out
• Remote estim clamps on my nipples (controlled live by my cruel Dom while you fuck my face)
• Strong poppers and a mouth that drools on command
• Zero drama, zero strings, zero safe-words once you’re balls-deep
What I want:
Aggressive, verbal, straight(ish) guys who treat my throat like a disposable Fleshlight and leave marks I feel all day. Bonus if you make the clamps spike while I ***.
If you can walk in hard, use me ruthless, and walk out calm for your 9 a.m. meeting, vote for me with your ***.
Tell me when and where. I’ll be waiting exactly how I’m told, nipples punished, throat starving.
Position applied for: Official Presidential Cocksucker.
References: the tears and mascara running down my cheeks when you’re done.”
NSA · 18 - 51 years · 55 km
Meet, Thurrock, Essex, for fun!!
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 35 km
Any hairy smelly men wanna swap all the fluids, hmu 👽
NSA · 28 - 80 years · 5 km
Any dominant women on here looking to help me explore my sub side?
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for a playmate that can drain my 8” cock on a regular basis for mutual pleasure, must be local, message me to meet or see my schlong x
NSA · 18 - 76 years · 30 km
I've done a lot of kinky things and enjoyed most of them. I'm not not looking for anything specific as it often works best if you both enjoy whatever you are doing.
As I wrote to someone recently: "D/s is a very broad church. Just because someone is a 'Dom' and someone else is a 'sub' doesn't mean they have enough in common.
Your age or experience or body type don't matter. Your desire to be restrained and enjoyed is what counts, ideally reasonably regularly.
Feel free to drop me a line if you fancy.
BDSM Play Partner · 5 km

[Sometimes CD - not trans.
Thanks for the likes and spanks, but I'm unable to see who they r from - drop a message instead, please.
Fully vaccinated and PrEPared.
STI negative.]
I`m sane and sensible, although, do have my kinky side. ;)
I'm a slim, bi guy, normally in E14, East London, UK, and may be able to travel further afield, passport in hand.
Looking for sexy and sensual girls and guys, trans, crossdressers, couples, Doms, subs, and others, to indulge in kinky fun. Hopefully, regular, unhurried meets, rather than wham bam; quality, not quantity. :)
Very open-minded and easygoing.
Enjoy sub/dom fun, roleplay, bondage, cuckold, massage, all forms of dressing and open to suggestions.
Going with the flow is key.
If interested, please drop by and say hello, when free. :)
Kinky Date · 5 km
Any woman in London 😈🔥
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 35 km
Anyone in London who wanna explore everything and be submissive and like hard and wild
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 59 years · 35 km
If you’re in London and like the look of my profile send me a message and let’s set up a date..
Kinky Date · 18 - 45 years · 115 km
Open minded fun, funny, wild
Kinky Date · 20 - 51 years · 15 km
Heya ***ps! I'm looking to put myself out there and try some new things. Fell off the dating wagon after the pandemic and I'm looking to meet new friends and possibly more!
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years · 25 km
I'm not too picky as I have so much I want to try, just no *** kinks/shitting kinks or raceplay!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 25 years · 25 km
I want to start a little group meet once or twice a month.. i will use different locations for a change of scenery and the 1st event maybe going ahead on the weekend of the 25th
Numbers are to be confirmed but I still waiting on a few deposits to come in…
Cheers
Jakey
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 76 years · 155 km
If anyone has 2 x spare tickets for 2 single girls at pleasures for tonight please let me know!!
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
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