Elegant, firm, and naturally commanding, I am a Mistress who appreciates loyalty, respect, and genuine devotion. I am interested in building a meaningful long-term connection with a Sub who values honesty, consistency, and the strength found within a structured dynamic.
For me, true submission is not about temporary excitement but about trust, understanding, and mutual growth. I enjoy taking the lead, setting expectations, and guiding a willing partner who takes pride in pleasing and improving himself under my direction.
I admire intelligence, good manners, ambition, and clear communication. I have little interest in drama or time-wasters and prefer someone serious about creating a lasting bond built on respect and dedication.
In return, I offer stability, guidance, attention, and a deeply rewarding dynamic with a confident woman who knows her worth and expects the same level of commitment from her Sub.
New to here, but not Domming... with over a decade's experience, I like to play with my toys and break them...
I am married and in an ENM relationship, he is of a kinky mind, but we openly play apart from each other with a relationship that is built on trust and communication.
I enjoy being worshipped in all ways including being spoilt and expect to be thanked for the opportunity too...
I am open to *** such as giving CBT, flogging and pegging, but not exclusive to just these things. Please note if you give me a shopping list of demands I shall treat it as such and you will have to cough up for compensation of being so dam tedious. Address me correctly, ask if I would consider these things, tell me how you could be of service to me and my pleasure, then I would be more open to your needs also as I am being considered.
I am on other platforms too, and happy to share links in conversation.
I have a long list of kinks that I am always exploring and expanding upon...
If you wish to serve a Queen fully, give me a message telling me how you would do so....
oh and I am not joking about the being spoilt in every which way and being thanked for it...
Hi, I'm a body confident, voluptuous, curvy switch. if you want someone firm and toned I am not for you, and that's ok, everyone has specific types.
I love men to be Dom with me but I also like to be Domme with women. I do switch depending on the man/woman and situation but I do prefer to be sub with men, generally.
Most of all I just want to have fun with like minded genuine people who have kink in their soul. if you want to know my kinks, just ask.
If you like to chat, have naughty thoughts and can hold a conversation, just message me, let's see what happens.
Hello, I'm Sammie (f)..
Please read below before deciding whether we'd be a good mental fit.
This profile is for a couple of things, be nice if you fit both but not essential.
Would like to explore more 3 and mores with the right people.
An experienced Dom.
I am sub, always have been for me this is sexual, but more so mental; if you are not confident, articulate and experienced then we probably won't click.
I’m not a victim or mentally struggling with self esteem etc.
I am an outgoing, confident woman that loves to be able to sink into giving myself to someone completely.
I will not submit to someone just because they are Dom.
Please don't message me referring to me as sub.
I don't belong to you.
Please don't message me telling to do thing because I am sub.
I don't belong to you.
It will never work like that.
Even from 'my' Dom I will never expect to be ordered around. Asking will suffice.
There will have to be a built up trust and understanding before we moved forward.
I also do not EVER play with anyone who is attached and partner is in the dark. - no cheating husbands and wives.
Face photo in first message appreciated.
Discretion completely assured.
Please in your message say which (or both) of the roles you like above, ideally in more than a couple of lines. If a Dom, say where you are up to in your journey.
I'll always try and reply, say whether I think we'll click.
Submissive by nature—thoughtful, intentional, and grounded.
I value consent, communication, and trust above everything. I’m drawn to those who lead with confidence rather than ***, and who understand that submission is given, not taken.
Here to connect, learn, and explore safely and honestly.
Hi. I'm new, shy at first and just window shopping. Although you never know what window displays can really tickle your fancy until you experience them....Thank you for stopping by.
I'm a single independant female. I can manage my daily life but a partner would be nice to share my time with. In the long run, I'm looking for someone of a similar age to me. Who doesn't live the lifestyle 24/7 Just on the occasions where the need is overwhelming. I'm mainly shy so take the role of sub but given the right circumstances where my confidence is boosted I could be tempted to switch and play mistress. All within a monogamous relationship.
Please note I am not a Domme.
Happy with light bondage and flogging. Toys (of course, how does a single lady get through her days without them? Lol)
Come say Hi. I'll only bite if you ask me to 😉
RANT: Some men say they like a curvy girl but when I reveal to them my dress size is a 20-22 I immediately get blocked. I've been honest, now it's your turn. You either like it or you don't. And seriously....age appropriate. if you're more than 5 years younger or older we'll not have that much in common. Growing up in the 80s was amazing, and fun to reminisce about. Somewhere to start to break the ice...🤪
55 year old bi submissive *** queen with bratty middle (10) tendencies
Newly single
Just looking for on line chat at the moment however I do love going to sex clubs so that might be on the cards
SBBW, if that's not your thing then move on to the next one, do not insult me.
Please don't just message Hey or Hi and nothing else. I won't answer if you do, my inner brat wants more (always more) and I get a lot of messages. Make yours stand out.
Also if you have no face pic or an empty profile I won't answer.
Being submissive does not mean I won't stand up for myself when needed
Finally if you are under 30 I am unlikely to answer. I have a son that age so it just feels wrong. Sorry.
Also over 60 unlikely to answer you
If you have a beard I definitely won't answer because I hate them lol I can't stand how it feels so we will never meet. Sorry not sorry
Update.
I'm not new, I know what I'm doing I know what I want, if you're new to this lifestyle I'm not looking to train anyone.
Masochist.
Interested in exploring a dynamic built on trust and mutual engagement. Nothing LT and no strings. I’m a busy bee in the real world.
I’m drawn to service-oriented tops / doms confident, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely invested in my experience. I want to be challenged, and eventually able to let go fully.
I’m also switchy.
I enjoy surrendering control and taking it. I really enjoy responsiveness, when someone listens, adapts, and does exactly what they’re told.
Care and attentiveness matter to me.
I respond well to someone who notices the small things.
When I take control, I enjoy seeing the effect it has. Knowing I’ve brought someone genuine pleasure is very satisfying to me.
Safe, sane, communicative, consensual always.
5ft 2 and curvy ⏳🍑
Sass and sarcasm 💁🏻♀️
Best friend assessment: “bubbly, charismatic, dangerous, addictive”
I love someone who can challenge me and match my energy. Give it a go 😈
✨ Lady by day, feral by night ✨
Open to all kinds of connections currently but just be upfront about your intentions please.
Honesty, communication, respect and boundaries are essential for me.
I’m not likely to message first, I like a gentleman who can assert his dominance so prove it by starting a conversation.
Very open to exploring connections with women but it’s a relatively new area for me so guidance is always encouraged 💕
I'm a quiet person, looking for trust and intimacy. I love music and gaming. Respect me and my boundaries and we'll get along just well. I'm looking for a guy mainly who matches my energy, someone who can help me build and learn not just with kink but with life. I need guidance, patience and a firm hand now and then. I'm not someone you can step on, I'm not a pushover and even though I'm submissive, I expect to be worshipped and treated with respect.
If you plan on trying to be sexual right away or too own me straight away, don't bother.
I am currently owned and collared and love it, i am looking to just chat with like minded people men/women, whether it be kinky or just how your day has been.
30 something professional looking to explore more of my kink side.
Will happily share more pictures after I've established we don't work together or know one another.
I'm a switch so looking to explore both parts of my personality.
Turn ons;
Breeding, role play, cum play, praise, filming, public teasing, bondage, rimming.
If any of this sounds like your thing, drop me a message.
Fun adventurous very open-minded love to explore my sexual side and have a good laugh.i am to naughty for my own good sometimes love a rough play (cnc) being kept in my place.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Have fun push sexual boundaries..
Come say hi you never know where things could lead ;)
Perverted Disney Princess looking for a cute himbo, or sub leaning switch. I'm sweetly sadistic, very into D/s and looking for a FLR.
In a partner I need intelligence, someone I can admire and who is inspirational in their own way... And someone who loves wearing shirts is always a bonus.
📍York, travel for work a lot
I go to the gym 3x per week and am a really active person. I'll try everything. I am a lover of culture, languages, arts and I love doing any and all the activities. I travel a lot for pleasure, definitely a globe trotter and enjoy picking up active hobbies like diving, skiing, any water sports, hiking, bouldering etc.
In my spare time I enjoy making latex outfits, whips, learning about BDSM, listening to podcasts, socializing with friend over fancy drinks or at dinner parties, going to the theater, ballet, concerts classical and heavy metal, cooking (when I have time), going to BDSM events, tieing (I play with rope at least every week) and I love my job. I also love rabbits and pink. I don't drink much nor smoke, I'm not into ***. I like dancing and coffee.
I don't have kids, I've lived in countries other than England, and I've got a somewhat mixed identity.
I am extroverted and have endless energy. Additionally, I think it wouldn't be inaccurate to say I enjoy some snobbery, I like well presented things, but I am pretty down to earth overall.
I welcome golden retriever or good boy energy and someone who wants all of me in their life.
Completely new to this, so I'm pretty shy about it, but I'm open and want to grow my confidence here, interested in really experiencing things.
I don't think I'm a typical submissive, I'm not looking to be changed to certain lifestyles. I want to experience specific scenarios, explore kinks, dynamics. I could very much be a switch and have a mind to dominate. I still want control in the bedroom on my own terms and may submit to the right man, but you will have to prove to be that.
I am inclined heavily to enjoy a man in a good suit, so please, come my way.
In my life outside of this I enjoy poetry, art and singing. I'm attentive and sensitive and have a lot of energy to explore someone in a curious way.
Happy, curvy switch looking to have fun while I’m still young enough to enjoy it ;)
I have been enjoying learning more about my kinkier side and want to find like minded people for drinks etc.
Not looking for anything long term at the minute but open to the idea in future.
If you want my attention… GET IT 😈👀
Kink life
I love a good time and a positive, kind but fun personality. If I meet a girl with this, hey I’m all yours to do what you want with.
I get overwhelmed with the labels of sub and domme etc I enjoy being dominated and also to dominate but not the point I am being offensive.
I am an exhibitionist and sex where vanillas can see turns me on.
Other turn ons are
Being videoed
Kissing and exploring each others mouths down the body with the tongue and hands
I love touch and I’m very tactile and passionate
Making a lady happy means the world to me, as well as helping them fulfill their fantasy
Toys can be fun too!
My favourite is boobs, Gimmie boobs I’ll be wanting them all day every day!
In my vanilla life I work in a professional role so keep this side discreet
I like meeting friends for coffee or a social drink
I go running and love the outdoors especially country walks
Please send me a message to connect as friends/fun/FF/FFF/ FFM
I will always respond to messages.
I’m a submissive with a mix of traits — 24/7 mindset, bratty at times, but also a good, obedient bottom. I enjoy being guided, trained, and having a clear dynamic where I can grow into my role and follow your lead.
I’m much more comfortable with real, in-person interaction rather than just chatting online.
Please don’t ask me for nudes — that’s not something I’m comfortable with.
I have been in the community for 10 years now. I have two wonderful partners who are a big part of my life. kink has helped me alot along the years. my little space is completely none sexual. I'm quite a happy and bubbly person and get on with everyone unless you're a dick or start off been sexual straight away.
I love reading
music
gaming
cows
sunflowers
killerwhales
the beach
I'm a mix of sass and surrender — I'll challenge you just enough to keep things interesting, then let you win (maybe). Looking for someone who enjoys taking charge but can handle a little playful resistance. I love to be treated like a princess in the streets and a bratty little bitch in the sheets. I’m looking for a care giver as I age regress when I feel safe and I would prefer a financial domXx
I DON’T DO HOOKUPS
it’s been a very very long time since I found a Dom confident enough for me to be a sub to them so now I enjoy my feet/ass worshipped.
I’m in an ENM relationship
either one of these:
Ages 32 to 39 only
looking for hot males for a solid relationship of three, 2 guys 1 lass, must be near Harrogate and want the dynamic of a relationship xx
Only want Doms, Daddy vibes/ Built protectors 🥰 no sissies or small men.
Making you my one and only if you check all my boxes and are the man for me x
insta: Gothic_Chaos_maz
Elegant, firm, and naturally commanding, I am a Mistress who appreciates loyalty, respect, and genuine devotion. I am interested in building a meaningful long-term connection with a Sub who values honesty, consistency, and the strength found within a structured dynamic.
For me, true submission is not about temporary excitement but about trust, understanding, and mutual growth. I enjoy taking the lead, setting expectations, and guiding a willing partner who takes pride in pleasing and improving himself under my direction.
I admire intelligence, good manners, ambition, and clear communication. I have little interest in drama or time-wasters and prefer someone serious about creating a lasting bond built on respect and dedication.
In return, I offer stability, guidance, attention, and a deeply rewarding dynamic with a confident woman who knows her worth and expects the same level of commitment from her Sub.
Submissive by nature—thoughtful, intentional, and grounded.
I value consent, communication, and trust above everything. I’m drawn to those who lead with confidence rather than ***, and who understand that submission is given, not taken.
Here to connect, learn, and explore safely and honestly.
New to here, but not Domming... with over a decade's experience, I like to play with my toys and break them...
I am married and in an ENM relationship, he is of a kinky mind, but we openly play apart from each other with a relationship that is built on trust and communication.
I enjoy being worshipped in all ways including being spoilt and expect to be thanked for the opportunity too...
I am open to *** such as giving CBT, flogging and pegging, but not exclusive to just these things. Please note if you give me a shopping list of demands I shall treat it as such and you will have to cough up for compensation of being so dam tedious. Address me correctly, ask if I would consider these things, tell me how you could be of service to me and my pleasure, then I would be more open to your needs also as I am being considered.
I am on other platforms too, and happy to share links in conversation.
I have a long list of kinks that I am always exploring and expanding upon...
If you wish to serve a Queen fully, give me a message telling me how you would do so....
oh and I am not joking about the being spoilt in every which way and being thanked for it...
Hi. I'm new, shy at first and just window shopping. Although you never know what window displays can really tickle your fancy until you experience them....Thank you for stopping by.
I'm a single independant female. I can manage my daily life but a partner would be nice to share my time with. In the long run, I'm looking for someone of a similar age to me. Who doesn't live the lifestyle 24/7 Just on the occasions where the need is overwhelming. I'm mainly shy so take the role of sub but given the right circumstances where my confidence is boosted I could be tempted to switch and play mistress. All within a monogamous relationship.
Please note I am not a Domme.
Happy with light bondage and flogging. Toys (of course, how does a single lady get through her days without them? Lol)
Come say Hi. I'll only bite if you ask me to 😉
RANT: Some men say they like a curvy girl but when I reveal to them my dress size is a 20-22 I immediately get blocked. I've been honest, now it's your turn. You either like it or you don't. And seriously....age appropriate. if you're more than 5 years younger or older we'll not have that much in common. Growing up in the 80s was amazing, and fun to reminisce about. Somewhere to start to break the ice...🤪
Hi, I'm a body confident, voluptuous, curvy switch. if you want someone firm and toned I am not for you, and that's ok, everyone has specific types.
I love men to be Dom with me but I also like to be Domme with women. I do switch depending on the man/woman and situation but I do prefer to be sub with men, generally.
Most of all I just want to have fun with like minded genuine people who have kink in their soul. if you want to know my kinks, just ask.
If you like to chat, have naughty thoughts and can hold a conversation, just message me, let's see what happens.
Hello, I'm Sammie (f)..
Please read below before deciding whether we'd be a good mental fit.
This profile is for a couple of things, be nice if you fit both but not essential.
Would like to explore more 3 and mores with the right people.
An experienced Dom.
I am sub, always have been for me this is sexual, but more so mental; if you are not confident, articulate and experienced then we probably won't click.
I’m not a victim or mentally struggling with self esteem etc.
I am an outgoing, confident woman that loves to be able to sink into giving myself to someone completely.
I will not submit to someone just because they are Dom.
Please don't message me referring to me as sub.
I don't belong to you.
Please don't message me telling to do thing because I am sub.
I don't belong to you.
It will never work like that.
Even from 'my' Dom I will never expect to be ordered around. Asking will suffice.
There will have to be a built up trust and understanding before we moved forward.
I also do not EVER play with anyone who is attached and partner is in the dark. - no cheating husbands and wives.
Face photo in first message appreciated.
Discretion completely assured.
Please in your message say which (or both) of the roles you like above, ideally in more than a couple of lines. If a Dom, say where you are up to in your journey.
I'll always try and reply, say whether I think we'll click.
55 year old bi submissive *** queen with bratty middle (10) tendencies
Newly single
Just looking for on line chat at the moment however I do love going to sex clubs so that might be on the cards
SBBW, if that's not your thing then move on to the next one, do not insult me.
Please don't just message Hey or Hi and nothing else. I won't answer if you do, my inner brat wants more (always more) and I get a lot of messages. Make yours stand out.
Also if you have no face pic or an empty profile I won't answer.
Being submissive does not mean I won't stand up for myself when needed
Finally if you are under 30 I am unlikely to answer. I have a son that age so it just feels wrong. Sorry.
Also over 60 unlikely to answer you
If you have a beard I definitely won't answer because I hate them lol I can't stand how it feels so we will never meet. Sorry not sorry
5ft 2 and curvy ⏳🍑
Sass and sarcasm 💁🏻♀️
Best friend assessment: “bubbly, charismatic, dangerous, addictive”
I love someone who can challenge me and match my energy. Give it a go 😈
✨ Lady by day, feral by night ✨
Open to all kinds of connections currently but just be upfront about your intentions please.
Honesty, communication, respect and boundaries are essential for me.
I’m not likely to message first, I like a gentleman who can assert his dominance so prove it by starting a conversation.
Very open to exploring connections with women but it’s a relatively new area for me so guidance is always encouraged 💕
hey, I'm crap at these things, but it's better than a blank profile.
I'm Suz or Suzu, I'm 43, married and poly and in Scarborough.
I'm a plus size submissive with a love of ddlg and ropes.
I'm looking for a Daddy to play with
I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user. I can walk just not for too far or too long.
again, I'm very plus size. don't be surprised when my curves have curves.
please read so you don't waste your time!
I am a BBW, so if fat chicks aren't your thing, move along.
I have a Dom already, so not looking for that.
I am looking for couples and single ladies to join in some fun with me and the Dom.
Fairly new to this all!
very much submissive and brat, looking to be put in my place but also cared for and praised. Little masochist.
Into: Rough play (choking, biting, spanking, slapping, hair pulling), ***, free use, CNC, primal play!!!
Basically just wanted to be treated like a ragdoll, slap my ass and call me a good girl 🏻
Perverted Disney Princess looking for a cute himbo, or sub leaning switch. I'm sweetly sadistic, very into D/s and looking for a FLR.
In a partner I need intelligence, someone I can admire and who is inspirational in their own way... And someone who loves wearing shirts is always a bonus.
📍York, travel for work a lot
I go to the gym 3x per week and am a really active person. I'll try everything. I am a lover of culture, languages, arts and I love doing any and all the activities. I travel a lot for pleasure, definitely a globe trotter and enjoy picking up active hobbies like diving, skiing, any water sports, hiking, bouldering etc.
In my spare time I enjoy making latex outfits, whips, learning about BDSM, listening to podcasts, socializing with friend over fancy drinks or at dinner parties, going to the theater, ballet, concerts classical and heavy metal, cooking (when I have time), going to BDSM events, tieing (I play with rope at least every week) and I love my job. I also love rabbits and pink. I don't drink much nor smoke, I'm not into ***. I like dancing and coffee.
I don't have kids, I've lived in countries other than England, and I've got a somewhat mixed identity.
I am extroverted and have endless energy. Additionally, I think it wouldn't be inaccurate to say I enjoy some snobbery, I like well presented things, but I am pretty down to earth overall.
I welcome golden retriever or good boy energy and someone who wants all of me in their life.
I’m a submissive with a mix of traits — 24/7 mindset, bratty at times, but also a good, obedient bottom. I enjoy being guided, trained, and having a clear dynamic where I can grow into my role and follow your lead.
I’m much more comfortable with real, in-person interaction rather than just chatting online.
Please don’t ask me for nudes — that’s not something I’m comfortable with.
Update.
I'm not new, I know what I'm doing I know what I want, if you're new to this lifestyle I'm not looking to train anyone.
Masochist.
Interested in exploring a dynamic built on trust and mutual engagement. Nothing LT and no strings. I’m a busy bee in the real world.
I’m drawn to service-oriented tops / doms confident, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely invested in my experience. I want to be challenged, and eventually able to let go fully.
I’m also switchy.
I enjoy surrendering control and taking it. I really enjoy responsiveness, when someone listens, adapts, and does exactly what they’re told.
Care and attentiveness matter to me.
I respond well to someone who notices the small things.
When I take control, I enjoy seeing the effect it has. Knowing I’ve brought someone genuine pleasure is very satisfying to me.
Safe, sane, communicative, consensual always.
I'm a mix of sass and surrender — I'll challenge you just enough to keep things interesting, then let you win (maybe). Looking for someone who enjoys taking charge but can handle a little playful resistance. I love to be treated like a princess in the streets and a bratty little bitch in the sheets. I’m looking for a care giver as I age regress when I feel safe and I would prefer a financial domXx
I DON’T DO HOOKUPS
📍Catterick 📍 (Location bounces between 2 other locations when on work shift but unable to meet then due to my job)
/
⚠️Unsolicited dick pics are not welcome⚠️
Face pic preferred if none on your profile.
/
Been open-minded to various things for over 10 years. Not sure a vanilla lifestyle is for me anymore. Have been here before but nothing happened. Been single 6.5 years now. Looking to find someone that shares interests and thoughts especially sexual desires. And see how it goes. Preferably looking for a relationship. For me the term kinky dates isn't to meet for s*x but dates with like minded people.
Into bi guys too as that seems to be a rare thing lol.
/
I'm 5ft4. Size 18/20. Tattooed. Pierced. Curvy. Full of sarcasm and swear like a sailor. Feral. Witchy. Halloween Scare Actor 🎃
Enjoy intelligent chats, none of these one word messages back and forth. If you can't hold an intelligent conversation without jumping to sex I will lose interest very fast.
/
Not really into guys younger than. Prefer older than me. Max would be about a (young)/(silver fox) 50 though. Preference to dom over sub men.
Not interested in guys already in a relationship/married. Been there before. No ENM please.
/
I have learnt a lot about myself over the years and who I am and what I like, if this is something you're not keen on please pass me by. I class myself as alpha submissive.
/
Not married/never have been.
No kids/dont want them.
In long run would love to meet a dom as would suit my non vanilla needs. But I'm not desperate. I need someone I can trust.
/
I’m a plus size lady who enjoys various elements of kink. Happy to discuss details when we chat.
Looking to broaden my experience and knowledge.
Outside of dating in the kink world I love to travel the real world. I enjoy eating out, socialising and being in the outdoors.
I am a professional and therefore public photos are not an option but happy to share once we chat for a while.
I am not a fan of using honorific’s/monikers until it has been discussed and there is a degree of knowledge about eachother.
I am seeking connections that are real so if you live miles away and can’t travel then it’s a hard no from me. Not looking for remote/***/text relationship.
I am in an open relationship - no dynamic
it’s been a very very long time since I found a Dom confident enough for me to be a sub to them so now I enjoy my feet/ass worshipped.
I’m in an ENM relationship
either one of these:
Ages 32 to 39 only
looking for hot males for a solid relationship of three, 2 guys 1 lass, must be near Harrogate and want the dynamic of a relationship xx
Only want Doms, Daddy vibes/ Built protectors 🥰 no sissies or small men.
Making you my one and only if you check all my boxes and are the man for me x
insta: Gothic_Chaos_maz
I’m looking to meet people and maybe find a dom while I’m at it
I typically like older men and women. I like the submissive lifestyle, not just during sex. a lot of enjoyment for me comes from integrating kink into my daily life
Not looking for anything serious, new to exploring kinks and recently single.
if you’re into aggressively sarcastic, plus sized girls, feel free to drop me a message.
I don’t send pictures to random people so be prepared to have a conversation 👌
420 friendly🥸
k.. thanks… byeee😘
An advocate for the scientific method, prone to puns, puppets and dressing up.
Intersectional feminist killjoy
Unlikely hiker
From Yorkshire and moving back there.
Small fat. Body, sex and kink positive
Sun sign ADHD, rising sign Autistic. Auditory processing disorder makes phone calls hard for me
Looking for a connection where we make each other laugh or sigh, in a good way
Dogs always choose to sit by me at parties
30 something professional looking to explore more of my kink side.
Will happily share more pictures after I've established we don't work together or know one another.
I'm a switch so looking to explore both parts of my personality.
Turn ons;
Breeding, role play, cum play, praise, filming, public teasing, bondage, rimming.
If any of this sounds like your thing, drop me a message.
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