Hi there! When it comes to this whole side of things, I'm criminally unexperienced and I'm now looking to begin finding my way through here as well as discovering more about myself in the sense of what kinks I enjoy and such. Of course, this isn't a one man job! I'm looking for people who are willing to literally 'show me the ropes' (or not too, if that's not your thing) as well as people who are willing to share experiences/advice to do with this area.

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If Tom Allen and James Spader merged in Snorlax form ... Gothic soul, emo heart, autist brain, perverse sensibilities. Megustalations. Head shaved, mind depraved, enamoured of theatre and song. Rain on the roof and cuddles in quilts, these are a few of my favourite guilts. Along with vanlife, FetLife, and urbex. Oh my! Catch-22 is my humour. I'm into surrealism in all things. Also very much enamoured of well choreographed routines and linguistical limberness. I want a love that seeks my own, a soul that encompasses me, that feeds off of my attention and affection. Someone to dance with in the rain, in the woods, in supermarkets and silence. Time spent hiking, (also scooting - I'm spending far too much with Voi), hunting for abandoned and spooky places is time well spent. Indoor hobbies include perfumery, cooking, watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals and designing clothes and contraptions for fun. I'm looking for someone to make food shopping fun, stroke all the fluffs and floofs with, who'll send cute pictures to me, and that I can treat, tease and traumatise in all of the special ways we'll both love. The ideal is a romantic relationship built on fetishistic foundations. Especially through more subtly expressed intimacy, such as a hand slipping into mine, or a kiss gifted unexpectedly as I turn to see you. Talk to me about philosophy, psychology, stories and how these intertwine, in myth, in religion, in sexual fantasy and relaxation. Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it. Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine. Details of kinks can be found from my profile, or more ideally, learned through conversation.

Oxford-area. Seeking, ideally long-term, someone with dark deviances and unusual arousals which we can bring to life. I'm not looking to write fantasies for you, I am looking to bring them into reality. I am not wanting you to send me endless pictures, I will likely want a couple of precise SFW ones. If you're not comfortable having a spoken conversation relatively quickly, you're not going to be capable of what is required to realise your desires.

Looking for someone to give direction to me, in a PE style relationship. Caged and dressing at the moment with aims to slim down. Would love someone to be in charge of me and give direction and purpose to my life. I want to be kept femme, ditzy and sucking your cock as you work and relax, and ideally be taken to clubs by you and made available or put on display.

Looking for someone interested in exploring sexualization and sensuality. TPE and tasks. My profile goes into the overt detail of my kinks. Ideally, (though just the above is fine as I'm looking for pet projects, potential pun intended) I'm looking for a romantic and life partner too. Poly or ENM may be preferred by you. I'm not so bothered myself - was in such a relationship for years and had I believe a single solo dalliance - but platonic relationships are rare to find for me so I'll take them how I can. Catch-22 and MASH is my humour. I love horror and exploitation films, the more surreal and gory the better. Favourite films randomly thought of include the most recent Moulin Rouge, The Sadness, Yummy, Vampire Girl vs Frankenstein Girl, Willow, The Station Agent. Music wise a diverse sample list would be Mariachi el Bronx, Skindred, Ladybaby, Dead South, Eminem, Fallout Boy, The Smiths, Rubberbandits, The Bunny The Bear, Chopin, Oingo Boingo. I want someone to spend time with. To hold and cuddle and mildly manhandle as we watch and eat junk and listen to the rain pour down. To go to the gym and run and hike with. To take shopping and dress up in pretty things, take to events and have her screams drown out the music, to dance and pose together in the supermarkets and the streets.

I am looking for someone I guess who’s a switch. I would mainly want a Dom but I like to switch. I want to meet someone who can help me with shopping and clothing. Also someone to watch movies with

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Looking for feet to worship

Looking for a ONS tonight only

Single retired who's been involved with the BDSM kink world since 1998. Primarily looking for someone to chat with possibly go along and attend munches or BDSM related events Then if we can take it from there Unless you want me to serve you directly

I am looking for a sub to explore the kinky side of my personality. Ideally looking for something casual, no strings, but anything and everything can be discussed. I work in North London, so can meet round there if Oxford is not your thing.

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Want to release tension, stress, inhibtions and escape reality for a brief period of time. Enter that space where you left floppy, drained, unaware of surrounds but totally relaxed Want to find out more? DM me.

Looking for anyone interested in ropes

Someone who is kind down to worth and likes to explore new things

Looking for fun someone who can take control! I’m not scared of a little ***! I want to be humiliated!

Simply, I seek someone to bestow affection, attention and arousal on in the forms of affectionate ***ation, deviant displays and emotional and psychological sadism. I'm looking for a relaxed life - someone to pet and punish, as well as play boardgames and go exploring and traveling with. To shape and teach and sculpt into the culmination of our ideals. I enjoy innocence tainted and erotic irony. I love to make people choose debasement for their own satisfaction or as a humbling path to release, whether orgasmic or more generically physical. I'd love a giggly girly princess to pretty and pervert, to treat and traumatise. I want someone I can buy beautiful things for and dress up trashy, someone to sculpt into pure tainted innocence. I more emphatically also seek emotional connections, expecting you to come rest your head in my lap or pull my arms around you. To have you colouring in pornography at your desk as I write, to be servicing me as I read, or pulling at my hand as we go out on day trips and weekends away. I will want to talk and get to know every inch of you, inside and out. Your emotions and mental health are things I take very seriously and seek to safeguard, despite abusing them in our agreed upon ways for your arousal. Defined rules and requirements followed should appeal - holding my hand whilst we're out, eating and exercising properly, being dressed in/appropriately as dictated. Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more excruciating form of pleasing. Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns.

Hi there. Want to essentially own a little sub? I'm your guy My fantasy is such. I'm looking for someone who wants to dress me up as certain female characters and *** me to your hearts content. I really want to get into bondage and stuff like that

Lets have some fun

This site is proving difficult to meet folk, what on earth am I doing wrong, must be my age….😏

Any sexy subs or bi couples fancy fun at mine tonight. Telegram at lovinglife8371