Eyemblacksheep is always the voice of reason! I’ve been criticised by Eyemblacksheep on some of my posts, but their experience and sound, commonsensce advice maintains my respect nonetheless. Many many very valid points in their advice there, that only a fool would ignore...
Fisting really does it for me. To be filled so completely by somebody else, male or female, who has the complete power and dominance over you is an amazing feeling that can lead to the most intense and mind blowing orgasms ever, way more intense than anything you get from “regular” activity. An Read more… anal orgasm is simply several orders of magnitude better than a penile orgasm. It can lead to experiences that you wonder if you’ve ever really had or did you just dream it? We are talking out of body experiences here...!
To prepare for fisting however, you need to be ready to do some serious homework. Being really clean, no I mean REALLY clean, is essential. This is only really possible if you are willing to do and are experienced in performing, anal douching or enemas. The best way to do this is with a showerhead, but you need to understand your bodily physiology in order to be able to do this safely and without damaging yourself. Over pressurisation WILL cause seriously damaging injuries. You really don’t want to do that. Numerous attachments are now available that simply replace your shower head and facilitate proper cleaning, but a standard shower head is fine if you understand how to clean yourself out.
Being relaxed is foremost. It’s impossible to be relaxed if you don’t understand your own body. To understand your own body you need to have explored it fully beforehand. This means exploring your orifices, probably with your fingers, in the shower, and ensuring that you feel comfortable with all of that. If you’re not comfortable, you certainly will never willingly engage in being fisted. I would suggest that anybody who’s been fisted will have engaged in some serious large insertion activity beforehand. This could be shampoo bottles in the shower, drinks bottles or other items.
Having prepared, both physically and mentally, poppers helps massively to relax the muscles, reduce anxiety, reduce inhibition and facilitate easy penetration. Lube is a must. Massive amounts of lube. Inject it, smear it, push it, squirt it, but whatever you do, use loads of it! Lube and poppers: the ultimate combination to allow your partner to painlessly penetrate you. In the shower, hair conditioner is way better than shampoo, and NEVER use soap as it’s an irritant.
However, don’t think for one minute that that is all you need to do! Personal stretching, over a long period of time is key. With regular stretching, you’ll progress quickly to larger and larger items until you’re ready for a real human fist. But don’t rush it. Be patient. It’ll pay off. Women often tear during childbirth. It’s not nice. It takes months to heal after stitching. Tearing your anus is even worse. It can easily take over a year to heal after anal surgery. I had a small planned surgical procedure and it took over 9 months for me to be just about better. 18 months later and I have now fully recovered. So don’t push it: advice from the experienced!
I once had a partner ask me for anal sex. They hadn’t done it before and they hadn’t really “explored” themselves properly. It wasn’t a good experience for either of us. For me, the first time I was fisted, it was just amazing, BECAUSE I WAS READY for it. I had prepared. So if you’re going to do this, prepare and don’t rush. Surgery is not the best way forward! Self exploration, lube and a progressively larger selection of toys is the best way, believe me. I know, as I’ve had nearly 40 years of experience in this...
Okay, so now for the male perspective:
I’ve been fisted, anally, many times and would agree that the orgasm experienced is a whole body experience way beyond anything you normally get from a penile orgasm. Of course, being male, I don’t have a vagina and therefore can’t comment on that from my Read more… own personal experience, however I have also fisted a female partner and can therefore draw on that experience.
It did take quite a long time for me to get my hand inside my partners love tunnel the first time, but she was extremely relaxed, ready for it and we both really enjoyed the experience. We used lots of lube. Really, it should go without saying, any time you’re going to stretch any bodily orifices by shoving something big into them, you should use lots of lube!
Progressing on from there to lightly massage and tease the cervix is normal, but to try to push your whole hand through the cervix and into the uterus would, in my opinion, be almost impossible and very dangerous, not to mention the infection, muscle tearing, bladder complications and other problems that could occur by doing this.
Anal fisting is enjoyed by many women and if you couple this with vaginal fisting at the same time, the feeling of fullness would surely be overwhelming for most women.
17 doesn't seem to be accessible. Assuming I'm going to the right place. I search it, it shows up then I click it and it goes back to the kinks list
Edit: Never mind. I got it. Had to open it in a new tab for it to open though but now that I've done that it opens fine when I click on it normally Read more… too. Weird.