I'm 37. I've been single for a long time, but have gotten more involved in the online world exploring my curiosities on fulfilling my sub self. taking a step into the online word to see if I can meet the right dom to start me on my journey

Just wanna have some conversations with like minded individuals. ♡ I'm fun-loving, carefree and love anime qnd video games... hence the name haha! ♡ Drop a message if ya wanna have a chat!

I'm not looking to chat with anyone or meet people. I just enjoy being nosy and posting the occasional picture. Please don't message me looking to chat or hook up

I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.

Queer (pansexual) neurodivergent sub leaning switchy rope bunny looking for friends and community. As much as kink is a huge part of who I am, I like to keep my identity private due to my job. I have photos in my private album of my face so if we chat you’ll be more than welcome to see!

Stone Top | Beginner | IRL Only I’m a Stone Top looking for someone to explore and play with. I value physical presence and chemistry, so I’m only interested in in-person (IRL) meetups—online interaction just doesn't do it for me. What I’m into: • Public/Risk Play: I love the thrill of playing with a sub in public spaces without others knowing. • Exploring: As a beginner, I’m eager to try pegging and edging. What I’m looking for: • Communication: Good communication is a must. I expect a response within 24 hours—consistency is key. • Vibe: Someone who is reliable, communicative, and ready to explore these dynamics with me. Warning • Read the Bio: If you didn't read this, don't bother messaging. I value intelligence and the ability to follow instructions. • No Low-Effort Messages: If your first message is just "Hi" or something "horny," you will be ignored.

Former sub / slave was in this relationship for 3 years. After some reading I'd be classed as old school sub lol anyway things changed 15 years later I find myself single once more. Had an awakening experienced which made me realise how much I missed the lifestyle single mum Iof two and uni student things can be chaos lol

Hot MILF who loves to play rough with her subs.....but looks after them and likes when they look after her! Up for role swap and always up for trying now things. Enjoy, sexting, pic swaps, role play, GFE Cum say hi!

I’ve put this in so many times and it keeps disappearing! I’m adventurous, inquisitive and a lil’ bit naughty. I like things most people find strange 😜. The people I like seem to like me though 😘

Looking for a bit of NSA fun to explore new kinks and learn my limits. Love to be held down, ***d, bruised. Aftercare is everything after a long hard fuck

Hey New to all this but very interested in trying new things out . I love dressing up in sexy clothes with heels and stockings . Also sex with food play ? Being spanked or spanking . Being tied up blindfolded , gagged..... X **Desires and Fantasies** Having sex outside trying not to be caught. Meeting up with a group of people to have sex . Getting a sex swing for the house.... Sex with food involved...

🔅Sucker for a genuine human connection and the art of conversation. Part time gamer/Full time fool. Red-headed brat x Respectful interactions only, please come at me correct or don’t bother to come at all. == BDSM Test == 100% Brat 99% Experimentalist 96% Brat tamer 92% Masochist 88% Rope bunny 85% Sadist 83% Submissive 61% Primal (Hunter) 57% Rigger 53% Non-monogamist 49% Primal (Prey) 48% Dominant 48% Switch 47% Slave 45% Degradee 43% Daddy/Mommy 41% Master/Mistress 38% Degrader 36% Pet 18% Exhibitionist 13% Vanilla 12% Voyeur 11% Ageplayer 3% Boy/Girl 1% Owner

Have found my soul mate and Master for life has taken a while and forever grateful to the Doms i have met and played with i wouldnt be the sub i am. Together we will do more exploring. He has built me an amazing bed for fun and sleeping and forever grateful but always looking to add things to it so any hints and tips be grateful. Yes i ask daft questions and post wierd things but im inquisitive i need to know Ive met a few from here and have made great friends for life hoping to meet more, thank you for taking ne in as one if yours If anyone has a problem with me then please speak to @Getbackin but he will say GOOD LUCK as i say as feel and dont hold back Thank you for reading this and now if you wanna message please do but what i say i wont apologise for unless i have spoken to you already and know you you wont get my respect that needs to be earned xx Love you all have fun stay safe and lets have kinky time xx **Desires and Fantasies** learning new things everyday and exploring kinks i havent tried as they say TRY BEFORE YA BUY

I’m a confident, caring woman who values honesty, integrity, and meaningful connection. I believe in clear communication, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Family is important to me, and I approach life with both heart and purpose. I’m passionate about creativity, travel, and surrounding myself with beauty—whether that’s through inspiring spaces, new cultures, or thoughtful conversations. Life has taught me that true attraction comes from a person’s character and inner world, not just appearances. I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and values partnership, loyalty, and laughter. Someone who is comfortable being himself and ready to build something real together. I want to form a real connection with someone WITH GOOD adventures. I’m straight and single. so I suppose a normal loving relationship with with someone who is serious in a LTR.

Hi everyone! I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for yet, I’m pretty new to the kink scene and I want to explore my kinks at my own pace and figured here would be a good place to start! I do lean towards more submissive roles though but I'm pretty open to most things. PSA if you're not into plus size girls or want me to be skinnier for you, don't bother messaging me, I don't appreciate people who want to shame me for who I am ! Feel free to send me a message if you want to chat, my inbox is always open !

Chaotic goth gremlin with a soft spot for forehead kisses. Lifts heavy, laughs louder, will absolutely steal your hoodie and your snacks (and dare you to stop me). More caffeine than *** at this point. My face will absolutely be the reason im in trouble. Will absolutely judge horror movie decisions out loud (and expect you to agree) A little bratty, a little clingy — I’ll tease you, test you, and then melt the second you handle me right.

heyyy I'm Jessica a little from Dundee who's looking for a live in ddlg situation. I'm 18 years old but my little age is 2-4. I'm looking for a dynamic that has tasks rules and structure in it and ofc communication, trust and respect too. I love in the night garden and hello kitty and going on long late night drives. I love being snuggled up with a daddy and having my hair stroked and being taken care of my favourite place is definitely in a daddy's soft safe and loving arms. I just want a cute ddlg dynamic a none sexual one unless I'm big and then that's ok but when I'm little I don't want it to be sexual. Also I am polyamarus btw.

Update 22/01/2022 Hi Guys Thanks for having a wee look around my updated profile. I am in a polyamorous Relationship with someone that’s not on this site. He sees and plays with other people/subs and so do I. Open communication is key to our relationship. So if I want to play with someone or if it turns to something more serious like a D’s then my partner will no about it. I identify as a slave… when I have a suitable master that earns my respect… that takes some doing. With a good master, I want to do anything and everything to please him/her. I have been living the BDSM life style since I was 18 after a holiday in Portugal. I have a very happy and outgoing personality and I love playing. Sometimes I need to take time for myself, for a few weeks at a time, to let myself heal and cool down. Well, you know.. with the right people, it’s hard to stop. I am evolving and I like to explore how far my limits let me push myself. It’s going better than I’d ever hoped. WARNING… I am tired of chancers sending rubbish and thinking I will be entertained by crap…I’m not! So write to me as though I am a Princess and don’t try and control or threaten me. I don’t respond to that. Be kind and thoughtful, if you are capable. If not DON’T WRITE. Be thoughtful with your brain and not your waste elimination system. I’m a huge *** junky and I love getting beaten to a pulp with lots of different toys: whips, canes, etc… etc. If you were to say to me 2 years ago that I’d be into this, I’d have told you that you were delusional. My words might be a bit more colourful though. Now, yup, I can just go for it with the right person who has earned my consent. I have my safe word and - YOU WILL RESPECT THAT. I have been to a lot of different events and munches and I’m still discovering and meeting new and exiting people. Even though I identify as a slave I do have my hard limits and you had better know them before you play. I have been a part of Fetish for a good fue years now and OMG what an amazing time I have had and hopefully much more to come. I am pretty open minded… but listen to me and entertain me with kindness and respect. I am currently playing and exploring my limits with several play partners who are pushing my *** threshold and what can I say? More please. I really enjoy meeting new people at munches, parties and clubs. So if you want to talk to me, please feel free to message me but DON’T attempt to add me as a friend until we have met at a public event. Come find me in Stirling Glasgow or Edinburgh and sometimes further afield. Please introduce yourself first and then talk to me for a while before even trying to add me. I only want friends who enjoy getting to know me and find out what I like. I have ZERO tolerance for ignorant masters or tops and unkindness or rudeness in behaviour or writing. I always meet people before I friend them and we all keep in touch at parties, munches and clubs etc. I value my friends and they are loyal and watch out for me. PLEASE NOTE my profile and photographs are personal. NO ONE has the right or permission to use or copy or share my pictures or videos. ANYONE caught doing this will be reported and blocked and legal action will be taken. Thanks very much for taking the time to read my profile. A truly submissive woman is to be Treasured,cherished and protracted For it is only she who can gave a man The gift dominance. **Desires and Fantasies** Ask and I may spill !

I need a man who is ready to build and develop a long and strong relationship. For which family will come first. It is important for me that he loves ***, caring and gentle. So that he has goals that he wants to achieve, and so that I can help him in this. It is important to me that in our relationship is understanding and mutual assistance. I'm looking for a man for whom I will go in the fire and into the water

Just on to explore with my partner ScottishViking94 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 98% Submissive 96% Experimentalist 94% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 75% Primal (Prey) 75% Masochist 72% Degradee 60% Switch 56% Rigger 47% Degrader 41% Sadist 35% Dominant 30% Vanilla 22% Brat tamer 20% Slave 14% Primal (Hunter) 13% Pet 6% Owner 4% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer

Having been here for a couple of weeks now, it was suggested to me that I might take a fresh look at my profile and update it. So here I am. I'm an English hippy chick living in Scotland. I thrive on the connections I have with the important people in my life, and the great outdoors. I'm not one for entertaining drama, or negative vibes and I'm very much a "my door is always open" person. I like to think I'm non-judgemental, down to earth and approachable. Always down for coffee, cake and a deep and meaningful conversation. In my free time, I can be found walking the Scottish hills, wild swimming in the lochs, listening to music, and spending hours (and a small fortune!) on a variety of arts and crafts. Shameless TV binge-watcher and big-book reader. I joined the community here to learn about my own kinks and other peoples. My biggest lessons to date have been learning what I DON'T want. I've worked out that while I am submissive, I need a dom who can challenge me intellectually and emotionally, and expect that back from me. I suppose that makes me a little bratty. Funishment > Punishment, mostly. I would like a dynamic built on a strong vanilla foundation and an appreciation for self-care, self-love, and personal and relationship growth. I want to find someone who can educate me, push my boundaries and yet treat me with the care and respect I deserve. I want a bond. I would love to make friends within the community. I hope to continue learning, and experience some in-person meets and events. Always down to chat with like-minded people and I can often be found in the Chat Room Lobby, but I'm absolutely not looking for T/b, M/s or D/s dynamic offers in opening pms, please and thanks. **Desires and Fantasies** Wanting to explore rope play, impact play and sensory deprivation.

Sub seeking Feminist Dom If I sent you a ‘kinky gift’, it’s because I’d like to ask you something sub woman to sub woman. Usually to be supportive of each other and look out for each other’s safety. It’s probably about someone we have both chatted with or are friends with on here. Hope you reply with a wee message! 😘😊 xxx I am currently looking for an experienced Dom to care for, teach and guide me. I will give more information about what I am looking for if we hit it off while chatting. Hot black men to the front please! Not 24/7. Not here for hookups or online only. Not interested in submissive men. Not interested in married people or those in a ‘primary’ or long term relationship. ❤️ I will not be used as someone temporary to fill a gap in someone’s life. I will not be used as anyone’s ‘rebound’ fling. I want someone who wants me as I am, and not as a temporary measure. I will not be second best to a wife/partner(s)/kids. I will be important to someone, not a bit on the side. I don’t submit to anyone who comes in trying to ‘dom’ me straight off the bat. That isn’t BDSM. That’s a red flag!🚩 🧡 I am hoping to find connection, care, protection, safety and nurture. I do prefer slightly younger men because I’m young at heart, but I’m also a professional, independent and staunchly feminist woman who has looked after herself her whole life. I am strong and fierce and brave. I just need a bit more care than some other people. 💛 I am happy to chat online, but I also want real-life connection with the right person/people, aged between 35 and 50. 💚 Happy to travel within reason. Things and stuff that I like: gigs cinema beaches travelling tea cats box sets plants science scuba swimming the sea lochs mid century anything eating out pals singing in a community choir being a good girl ☺️ being a naughty girl 💙 If you message me, please be respectful. 💜 I am not interested in anyone who hasn’t read my profile or who has not put any effort into their own.

I have a very kinky personality. I have spent a lot of time playing as a submissive over the last few years. At the moment I swaying more on the Dominant side although my submissive side could be drawn out by the right person that requires a mental approach. To be clear telling me you make women do things they don’t want to do is not going to get me to submit it is a major red flag! I currently own my sub in an online dynamic and although there is plenty that can be done in this capacity I am looking for women and trans, dominants to help with face to face meets while allowing me a say in certain aspects of the play. Hoping to find Women in south wales or he is working away in Manchester 29th January!

Professional massage therapist offering discreet, personalised sessions. Relax, unwind and let me tailor the experience to your needs. Kink packages available — message me to discuss. 😈

Independent woman based in Scotland 🏴 I run my own canine care business, working with breeding, training, buying, selling and rehoming dogs. I’m also here to meet interesting people, have genuine conversations and enjoy getting to know new faces.

Cute enough to distract you. Mean enough to ruin your focus. I like playful power exchange, mind games, flirting, edging, and keeping you guessing. Know your limits. Respect mine.. Looking for respectful, obedient, and confident subs who enjoy playful teasing, power exchange, and genuine chemistry. No entitlement. No time wasters. Communication, consent, and discretion come first.

Queer (pansexual) neurodivergent sub leaning switchy rope bunny looking for friends and community. As much as kink is a huge part of who I am, I like to keep my identity private due to my job. I have photos in my private album of my face so if we chat you’ll be more than welcome to see!

I’ve put this in so many times and it keeps disappearing! I’m adventurous, inquisitive and a lil’ bit naughty. I like things most people find strange 😜. The people I like seem to like me though 😘

I am a professional Dominant focused on high-protocol, psychological, and sensory dominance. My approach combines sophisticated authority with strict structure, catering to discerning submissives who value refined discipline, mental surrender, and impeccably maintained boundaries.

I expect respect, honesty, and discipline. My time is earned, not demanded. If you approach me, come with intention, maturity, and the willingness to follow directions. Earn my attention through actions, not empty words.

A strong minded Mistress with a calm presence and high standards. Drawn to loyalty, respect, and meaningful dynamics built on trust and communication

I’m a confident, caring woman who values honesty, integrity, and meaningful connection. I believe in clear communication, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Family is important to me, and I approach life with both heart and purpose. I’m passionate about creativity, travel, and surrounding myself with beauty—whether that’s through inspiring spaces, new cultures, or thoughtful conversations. Life has taught me that true attraction comes from a person’s character and inner world, not just appearances. I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and values partnership, loyalty, and laughter. Someone who is comfortable being himself and ready to build something real together. I want to form a real connection with someone WITH GOOD adventures. I’m straight and single. so I suppose a normal loving relationship with with someone who is serious in a LTR.

I need a man who is ready to build and develop a long and strong relationship. For which family will come first. It is important for me that he loves ***, caring and gentle. So that he has goals that he wants to achieve, and so that I can help him in this. It is important to me that in our relationship is understanding and mutual assistance. I'm looking for a man for whom I will go in the fire and into the water

Hello!I am an open and sincere girl who enjoys meeting new people.I love humor and easily create a light, pleasant atmosphere around me - I can even joke about myself if it cheers me up I like to travel and discover new cultures, traditions and lifestyles in different parts of the world. I am looking for a person with whom it will be interesting to communicate, laugh, share impressions.

Naturally submissive. Selectively impressed. Frequently sarcastic. Please don’t confuse calling yourself a Dom with having any automatic claim to my submission. That particular assumption is far more likely to earn you my sarcasm than surrender. No profile picture for now. Professional discretion rather than mystery, although I do enjoy a little of the latter too. I’m looking for a rare breed of man, preferably over 40 and a Daddy Dom. If you have a penchant for rope — get in line. If you also enjoy spanking — get to the front of the queue, you have my attention. I’m drawn to intelligence, curiosity and quiet confidence. Dominance that feels intrinsic rather than performative, and someone who actually wants to learn how I work rather than simply fitting me into their idea of what a submissive should be. Psychological dominance gets me far more than any particular kink. Anticipation, restraint, tension and being known well enough that eventually a look, a word or a tiny gesture can completely change my internal state. That’s where the magic is for me. I’m drawn to depth, meaningful conversation and people who leave me thinking long after the interaction ends. Bonus points if you can challenge me without exhausting me. I’d also quite happily spend the perfect Sunday night having an old-school make-out session on the sofa, deliberately falling short of escalation and letting the tension and anticipation do half the work. Honesty and communication are non-negotiable. It takes me a little time to trust someone and let them properly see me, and genuine submission is something you earn with me rather than something I hand over because of a label. If you’re going to send me a like and you’re genuinely curious, follow it up with a message, otherwise I will ignore it. I practise ENM and have a non-primary connection that is important to me. I’m happily non-monogamous, but I’m not wedded to it either - if the right person and relationship developed naturally, I’d be open to monogamy.

Stone Top | Beginner | IRL Only I’m a Stone Top looking for someone to explore and play with. I value physical presence and chemistry, so I’m only interested in in-person (IRL) meetups—online interaction just doesn't do it for me. What I’m into: • Public/Risk Play: I love the thrill of playing with a sub in public spaces without others knowing. • Exploring: As a beginner, I’m eager to try pegging and edging. What I’m looking for: • Communication: Good communication is a must. I expect a response within 24 hours—consistency is key. • Vibe: Someone who is reliable, communicative, and ready to explore these dynamics with me. Warning • Read the Bio: If you didn't read this, don't bother messaging. I value intelligence and the ability to follow instructions. • No Low-Effort Messages: If your first message is just "Hi" or something "horny," you will be ignored.

I was always interested in BDSM but didn't have the right partner to explore it with. I'm particularly interested in becoming a shibari rigger. It's important to me to have a genuine connection for any play, whether it's sexual or not. No ONS or casual. I'm solo poly and have space for the right person.

heyyy I'm Jessica a little from Dundee who's looking for a live in ddlg situation. I'm 18 years old but my little age is 2-4. I'm looking for a dynamic that has tasks rules and structure in it and ofc communication, trust and respect too. I love in the night garden and hello kitty and going on long late night drives. I love being snuggled up with a daddy and having my hair stroked and being taken care of my favourite place is definitely in a daddy's soft safe and loving arms. I just want a cute ddlg dynamic a none sexual one unless I'm big and then that's ok but when I'm little I don't want it to be sexual. Also I am polyamarus btw.

I have a very kinky personality. I have spent a lot of time playing as a submissive over the last few years. At the moment I swaying more on the Dominant side although my submissive side could be drawn out by the right person that requires a mental approach. To be clear telling me you make women do things they don’t want to do is not going to get me to submit it is a major red flag! I currently own my sub in an online dynamic and although there is plenty that can be done in this capacity I am looking for women and trans, dominants to help with face to face meets while allowing me a say in certain aspects of the play. Hoping to find Women in south wales or he is working away in Manchester 29th January!

New to BDSM scene, looking for exploration. Bicurious Keen to find a dominant individual (m or f) and keen on having a mistress/master for a proper bdsm relationship. Happy to play with couples too for some fun. Privacy and discretion is a must until trust is built. Happy to chat on other platforms!

Chaotic goth gremlin with a soft spot for forehead kisses. Lifts heavy, laughs louder, will absolutely steal your hoodie and your snacks (and dare you to stop me). More caffeine than *** at this point. My face will absolutely be the reason im in trouble. Will absolutely judge horror movie decisions out loud (and expect you to agree) A little bratty, a little clingy — I’ll tease you, test you, and then melt the second you handle me right.

I’m currently in a health crash. I will return when I’m well enough to chat again. I’m unable to respond to messages at the moment due to extreme exhaustion.

I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.

My name is Brooklyn and I’m a girl and I’m 20 years old and I like to be tied up for men and let them use and *** me

Just wanna have some conversations with like minded individuals. ♡ I'm fun-loving, carefree and love anime qnd video games... hence the name haha! ♡ Drop a message if ya wanna have a chat!

Sub seeking Feminist Dom If I sent you a ‘kinky gift’, it’s because I’d like to ask you something sub woman to sub woman. Usually to be supportive of each other and look out for each other’s safety. It’s probably about someone we have both chatted with or are friends with on here. Hope you reply with a wee message! 😘😊 xxx I am currently looking for an experienced Dom to care for, teach and guide me. I will give more information about what I am looking for if we hit it off while chatting. Hot black men to the front please! Not 24/7. Not here for hookups or online only. Not interested in submissive men. Not interested in married people or those in a ‘primary’ or long term relationship. ❤️ I will not be used as someone temporary to fill a gap in someone’s life. I will not be used as anyone’s ‘rebound’ fling. I want someone who wants me as I am, and not as a temporary measure. I will not be second best to a wife/partner(s)/kids. I will be important to someone, not a bit on the side. I don’t submit to anyone who comes in trying to ‘dom’ me straight off the bat. That isn’t BDSM. That’s a red flag!🚩 🧡 I am hoping to find connection, care, protection, safety and nurture. I do prefer slightly younger men because I’m young at heart, but I’m also a professional, independent and staunchly feminist woman who has looked after herself her whole life. I am strong and fierce and brave. I just need a bit more care than some other people. 💛 I am happy to chat online, but I also want real-life connection with the right person/people, aged between 35 and 50. 💚 Happy to travel within reason. Things and stuff that I like: gigs cinema beaches travelling tea cats box sets plants science scuba swimming the sea lochs mid century anything eating out pals singing in a community choir being a good girl ☺️ being a naughty girl 💙 If you message me, please be respectful. 💜 I am not interested in anyone who hasn’t read my profile or who has not put any effort into their own.