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heyy kinkers and frauds! I'm Sass thanks for having a nosey at my profile 😉 ✨I'M NOT INTERESTED IN BEING A SUB FOR ANYONE!✨ ✨I'M NOT YOUR DOMME, SUB, MUMMY, QUEEN OR GODDESS , PRINCESS✨ I'm not new to the lifestyle or to being a domme connection is a must for me.... vetting is a must....I will not just be a sexual domme it's a damn insult to the lifestyle! 😈SOME OF MY KINKS😈 ***/period play knife play domination Praise kink,(not just being called good girl 🙄) BDSM CNC *** and degrading *** Rough sex Voice kink cum play "cyber" play breeding CBT POT piggies ***d & orgasm denial
Female (34) Renfrewshire, Scotland
Just wanna have some conversations with like minded individuals. ♡ I'm fun-loving, carefree and love anime qnd video games... hence the name haha! ♡ Drop a message if ya wanna have a chat!
A strong minded Mistress with a calm presence and high standards. Drawn to loyalty, respect, and meaningful dynamics built on trust and communication
I expect respect, honesty, and discipline. My time is earned, not demanded. If you approach me, come with intention, maturity, and the willingness to follow directions. Earn my attention through actions, not empty words.
Stone Top | Beginner | IRL Only I’m a Stone Top looking for someone to explore and play with. I value physical presence and chemistry, so I’m only interested in in-person (IRL) meetups—online interaction just doesn't do it for me. What I’m into: • Public/Risk Play: I love the thrill of playing with a sub in public spaces without others knowing. • Exploring: As a beginner, I’m eager to try pegging and edging. What I’m looking for: • Communication: Good communication is a must. I expect a response within 24 hours—consistency is key. • Vibe: Someone who is reliable, communicative, and ready to explore these dynamics with me. Warning • Read the Bio: If you didn't read this, don't bother messaging. I value intelligence and the ability to follow instructions. • No Low-Effort Messages: If your first message is just "Hi" or something "horny," you will be ignored.
Female (25) Dundee, Scotland
I am a verified discreet, highly selective Mistress who values quality, trust, and genuine connection above all else. In a world full of noise, I seek one exceptional man, preferably a submissive at heart, ready to please and make his Mistress happy, who craves structure, purpose, and the freedom that comes from total surrender. As my Sub Pet you will be cherished as my devoted pet and personal plaything. I will use you for my pleasure, training you with firm guidance, teasing ***, and rewarding devotion. Your body, mind, and spirit will have purpose while you serve Me. In return, I will give your life deep meaning, clear direction, and the kind of fulfillment most only dream about. Under my care, you will discover true happiness, confidence, and the joy of living your best life, one shaped by service, discipline, and the intense satisfaction of being pleased while pleasing your Mistress. Discretion is non-negotiable. I am selective because I know exactly what I want: a man ready to kneel, obey, and thrive in my world. If you are ready, eager to please, and willing to commit fully, you may be the one I choose to own and elevate. Serious inquiries only. Prove yourself worthy, and I will transform your existence into something meaningful. Are you ready to begin?
Female (32) Glasgow, Scotland
I need a man who is ready to build and develop a long and strong relationship. For which family will come first. It is important for me that he loves ***, caring and gentle. So that he has goals that he wants to achieve, and so that I can help him in this. It is important to me that in our relationship is understanding and mutual assistance. I'm looking for a man for whom I will go in the fire and into the water
Hi everyone! I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for yet, I’m pretty new to the kink scene and I want to explore my kinks at my own pace and figured here would be a good place to start! I do lean towards more submissive roles though but I'm pretty open to most things. PSA if you're not into plus size girls or want me to be skinnier for you, don't bother messaging me, I don't appreciate people who want to shame me for who I am ! Feel free to send me a message if you want to chat, my inbox is always open !
Female (23) Edinburgh, Scotland
Just on to explore with my partner ScottishViking94 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Non-monogamist 100% Rope bunny 100% Brat 98% Submissive 96% Experimentalist 94% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 75% Primal (Prey) 75% Masochist 72% Degradee 60% Switch 56% Rigger 47% Degrader 41% Sadist 35% Dominant 30% Vanilla 22% Brat tamer 20% Slave 14% Primal (Hunter) 13% Pet 6% Owner 4% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer
Female (35) Glasgow, Scotland
I’m a confident, caring woman who values honesty, integrity, and meaningful connection. I believe in clear communication, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Family is important to me, and I approach life with both heart and purpose. I’m passionate about creativity, travel, and surrounding myself with beauty—whether that’s through inspiring spaces, new cultures, or thoughtful conversations. Life has taught me that true attraction comes from a person’s character and inner world, not just appearances. I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and values partnership, loyalty, and laughter. Someone who is comfortable being himself and ready to build something real together. I want to form a real connection with someone WITH GOOD adventures. I’m straight and single. so I suppose a normal loving relationship with with someone who is serious in a LTR.
Female (51) Midlothian, Scotland
I was always interested in BDSM but didn't have the right partner to explore it with. I'm particularly interested in becoming a shibari rigger. It's important to me to have a genuine connection for any play, whether it's sexual or not. No ONS or casual. I'm solo poly and have space for the right person.
Female (44) Edinburgh, Scotland
Chaotic goth gremlin with a soft spot for forehead kisses. Lifts heavy, laughs louder, will absolutely steal your hoodie and your snacks (and dare you to stop me). More caffeine than *** at this point. My face will absolutely be the reason im in trouble. Will absolutely judge horror movie decisions out loud (and expect you to agree) A little bratty, a little clingy — I’ll tease you, test you, and then melt the second you handle me right.
Female (27) Dundee, Scotland
I'm not looking to chat with anyone or meet people. I just enjoy being nosy and posting the occasional picture. Please don't message me looking to chat or hook up
Female (32) North Ayrshire, Scotland
🔅Sucker for a genuine human connection and the art of conversation. Part time gamer/Full time fool. Red-headed brat x Respectful interactions only, please come at me correct or don’t bother to come at all. == BDSM Test == 100% Brat 99% Experimentalist 96% Brat tamer 92% Masochist 88% Rope bunny 85% Sadist 83% Submissive 61% Primal (Hunter) 57% Rigger 53% Non-monogamist 49% Primal (Prey) 48% Dominant 48% Switch 47% Slave 45% Degradee 43% Daddy/Mommy 41% Master/Mistress 38% Degrader 36% Pet 18% Exhibitionist 13% Vanilla 12% Voyeur 11% Ageplayer 3% Boy/Girl 1% Owner
Female (27) Fife, Scotland
Have found my soul mate and Master for life has taken a while and forever grateful to the Doms i have met and played with i wouldnt be the sub i am. Together we will do more exploring. He has built me an amazing bed for fun and sleeping and forever grateful but always looking to add things to it so any hints and tips be grateful. Yes i ask daft questions and post wierd things but im inquisitive i need to know Ive met a few from here and have made great friends for life hoping to meet more, thank you for taking ne in as one if yours If anyone has a problem with me then please speak to @Getbackin but he will say GOOD LUCK as i say as feel and dont hold back Thank you for reading this and now if you wanna message please do but what i say i wont apologise for unless i have spoken to you already and know you you wont get my respect that needs to be earned xx Love you all have fun stay safe and lets have kinky time xx **Desires and Fantasies** learning new things everyday and exploring kinks i havent tried as they say TRY BEFORE YA BUY
Female (51) Edinburgh, Scotland
20 years old, single. Ive nit had much actual experience, but am into the kinky side of things and want to explore and try different things. Would love to see what the kinky community is like and maybe go to an event or something. **Desires and Fantasies** The only thing that is a definate no is giving oral, i cant handle anything un my mouth, i havent had anything really done to me, id love to be the sub, type Im kinda into older guys and the idea of being gangbanged, but thats probably a bit of a strange thing to like ? I like the idea of being sort of dominated and told what to do, etc. Lol
Hot MILF who loves to play rough with her subs.....but looks after them and likes when they look after her! Up for role swap and always up for trying now things. Enjoy, sexting, pic swaps, role play, GFE Cum say hi!
Female (41) Glasgow, Scotland
Looking for a bit of NSA fun to explore new kinks and learn my limits. Love to be held down, ***d, bruised. Aftercare is everything after a long hard fuck
Female (29) Renfrewshire, Scotland
Sub seeking Feminist Dom If I sent you a ‘kinky gift’, it’s because I’d like to ask you something sub woman to sub woman. Usually to be supportive of each other and look out for each other’s safety. It’s probably about someone we have both chatted with or are friends with on here. Hope you reply with a wee message! 😘😊 xxx I am currently looking for an experienced Dom to care for, teach and guide me. I will give more information about what I am looking for if we hit it off while chatting. Hot black men to the front please! Not 24/7. Not here for hookups or online only. Not interested in submissive men. Not interested in married people or those in a ‘primary’ or long term relationship. ❤️ I will not be used as someone temporary to fill a gap in someone’s life. I will not be used as anyone’s ‘rebound’ fling. I want someone who wants me as I am, and not as a temporary measure. I will not be second best to a wife/partner(s)/kids. I will be important to someone, not a bit on the side. I don’t submit to anyone who comes in trying to ‘dom’ me straight off the bat. That isn’t BDSM. That’s a red flag!🚩 🧡 I am hoping to find connection, care, protection, safety and nurture. I do prefer slightly younger men because I’m young at heart, but I’m also a professional, independent and staunchly feminist woman who has looked after herself her whole life. I am strong and fierce and brave. I just need a bit more care than some other people. 💛 I am happy to chat online, but I also want real-life connection with the right person/people, aged between 35 and 50. 💚 Happy to travel within reason. Things and stuff that I like: gigs cinema beaches travelling tea cats box sets plants science scuba swimming the sea lochs mid century anything eating out pals singing in a community choir being a good girl ☺️ being a naughty girl 💙 If you message me, please be respectful. 💜 I am not interested in anyone who hasn’t read my profile or who has not put any effort into their own.
Female (51) South Ayrshire, Scotland
I have a very kinky personality. I have spent a lot of time playing as a submissive over the last few years. At the moment I swaying more on the Dominant side although my submissive side could be drawn out by the right person that requires a mental approach. To be clear telling me you make women do things they don’t want to do is not going to get me to submit it is a major red flag! I currently own my sub in an online dynamic and although there is plenty that can be done in this capacity I am looking for women and trans, dominants to help with face to face meets while allowing me a say in certain aspects of the play. Hoping to find Women in south wales or he is working away in Manchester 29th January!
Female (40) Perth, Scotland
I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.
Female (29) Falkirk, Scotland
Love all things naughty, nice and a little bit of spice. Like visiting fun places, parties and travelling to beautiful outdoor scenery in Scotland and outside of Scotland. Dont be shy, i dont bite ... much.
Female (32) East Lothian, Scotland
Hey New to all this but very interested in trying new things out . I love dressing up in sexy clothes with heels and stockings . Also sex with food play ? Being spanked or spanking . Being tied up blindfolded , gagged..... X **Desires and Fantasies** Having sex outside trying not to be caught. Meeting up with a group of people to have sex . Getting a sex swing for the house.... Sex with food involved...
Female (40) Edinburgh, Scotland
I'm 37. I've been single for a long time, but have gotten more involved in the online world exploring my curiosities on fulfilling my sub self. taking a step into the online word to see if I can meet the right dom to start me on my journey
Female (38) Glasgow, Scotland

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I expect respect, honesty, and discipline. My time is earned, not demanded. If you approach me, come with intention, maturity, and the willingness to follow directions. Earn my attention through actions, not empty words.
A strong minded Mistress with a calm presence and high standards. Drawn to loyalty, respect, and meaningful dynamics built on trust and communication
I’m a confident, caring woman who values honesty, integrity, and meaningful connection. I believe in clear communication, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Family is important to me, and I approach life with both heart and purpose. I’m passionate about creativity, travel, and surrounding myself with beauty—whether that’s through inspiring spaces, new cultures, or thoughtful conversations. Life has taught me that true attraction comes from a person’s character and inner world, not just appearances. I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows who he is and values partnership, loyalty, and laughter. Someone who is comfortable being himself and ready to build something real together. I want to form a real connection with someone WITH GOOD adventures. I’m straight and single. so I suppose a normal loving relationship with with someone who is serious in a LTR.
Female (51) Midlothian, Scotland
I need a man who is ready to build and develop a long and strong relationship. For which family will come first. It is important for me that he loves ***, caring and gentle. So that he has goals that he wants to achieve, and so that I can help him in this. It is important to me that in our relationship is understanding and mutual assistance. I'm looking for a man for whom I will go in the fire and into the water
As a lifestyle mistress, I find discretion imperative for both Myself and My slave. My reputation as a Lifestyle Domme are important. I know exactly what I am putting you through. Therefore a submissive coming to Me will never be in danger of losing his self-respect. I have a penchant for caregiver-style roleplay as well as humiliating you for your misfortunes.You may call me Mistress, Goddess or Miss. my request is that you are mindful of your manners when you address me. I have a wicked desire to control, tease and deny, posses and use My subjects as I see fit. Furthermore, I have a steady and firm hand and whip for administering discipline and punishment, an expert at full body restriction captivating you in total rope bondage, long sexy fingernails to be worshipped to rake your flesh and pinch your nipples, the tying skills of a bondage enthusiasts for CBT. a consistent flow of verbal *** and *** for the needy and deserving mainly for My entertainment and for whatever is clever in everything else. To be submitted to Me is not a *** but rather an uplifting act!
I am a verified discreet, highly selective Mistress who values quality, trust, and genuine connection above all else. In a world full of noise, I seek one exceptional man, preferably a submissive at heart, ready to please and make his Mistress happy, who craves structure, purpose, and the freedom that comes from total surrender. As my Sub Pet you will be cherished as my devoted pet and personal plaything. I will use you for my pleasure, training you with firm guidance, teasing ***, and rewarding devotion. Your body, mind, and spirit will have purpose while you serve Me. In return, I will give your life deep meaning, clear direction, and the kind of fulfillment most only dream about. Under my care, you will discover true happiness, confidence, and the joy of living your best life, one shaped by service, discipline, and the intense satisfaction of being pleased while pleasing your Mistress. Discretion is non-negotiable. I am selective because I know exactly what I want: a man ready to kneel, obey, and thrive in my world. If you are ready, eager to please, and willing to commit fully, you may be the one I choose to own and elevate. Serious inquiries only. Prove yourself worthy, and I will transform your existence into something meaningful. Are you ready to begin?
Female (32) Glasgow, Scotland
Hello!I am an open and sincere girl who enjoys meeting new people.I love humor and easily create a light, pleasant atmosphere around me - I can even joke about myself if it cheers me up I like to travel and discover new cultures, traditions and lifestyles in different parts of the world. I am looking for a person with whom it will be interesting to communicate, laugh, share impressions.
Naturally submissive. Selectively impressed. Frequently sarcastic. No profile picture for now. Professional discretion rather than mystery, although I do enjoy a little of the latter too. I’m drawn to depth, meaningful conversation, and people who leave me thinking long after the interaction ends. Bonus points if you can challenge me without exhausting me. I have little interest in performance, but a great deal of interest in genuine connection. I have a primary partner and a well-established ENM D/s dynamic. It’s grounded in communication, trust, consistency, and a level of emotional maturity that has set the bar rather inconveniently high.
Female (45) North Ayrshire, Scotland
Stone Top | Beginner | IRL Only I’m a Stone Top looking for someone to explore and play with. I value physical presence and chemistry, so I’m only interested in in-person (IRL) meetups—online interaction just doesn't do it for me. What I’m into: • Public/Risk Play: I love the thrill of playing with a sub in public spaces without others knowing. • Exploring: As a beginner, I’m eager to try pegging and edging. What I’m looking for: • Communication: Good communication is a must. I expect a response within 24 hours—consistency is key. • Vibe: Someone who is reliable, communicative, and ready to explore these dynamics with me. Warning • Read the Bio: If you didn't read this, don't bother messaging. I value intelligence and the ability to follow instructions. • No Low-Effort Messages: If your first message is just "Hi" or something "horny," you will be ignored.
Female (25) Dundee, Scotland
almost 38, work long hours in the medical field and single mum happy go lucky and fluent in sarcasm, drink and swear like a sailor but great company I have osteoarthritis in my spine so a bit limited with positioning
Female (38) Glasgow, Scotland
I was always interested in BDSM but didn't have the right partner to explore it with. I'm particularly interested in becoming a shibari rigger. It's important to me to have a genuine connection for any play, whether it's sexual or not. No ONS or casual. I'm solo poly and have space for the right person.
Female (44) Edinburgh, Scotland
Equal parts curiosity and chaos, I’m here to explore the delicious space between control and surrender wherever that leads. I like laughter with my tension, wit with my wickedness, and real connection behind every spark. I don’t take myself too seriously, but I take chemistry very seriously. If you can make me think and make me smirk, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not chasing a checklist, I’m chasing energy, trust, and that moment where everything else fades out except the pulse of “oh, this is good.”
Female (36) North Ayrshire, Scotland
heyyy I'm Jessica a little from Dundee who's looking for a live in ddlg situation. I'm 18 years old but my little age is 2-4. I'm looking for a dynamic that has tasks rules and structure in it and ofc communication, trust and respect too. I love in the night garden and hello kitty and going on long late night drives. I love being snuggled up with a daddy and having my hair stroked and being taken care of my favourite place is definitely in a daddy's soft safe and loving arms. I just want a cute ddlg dynamic a none sexual one unless I'm big and then that's ok but when I'm little I don't want it to be sexual. Also I am polyamarus btw.
Female (20) Dundee, Scotland
I have a very kinky personality. I have spent a lot of time playing as a submissive over the last few years. At the moment I swaying more on the Dominant side although my submissive side could be drawn out by the right person that requires a mental approach. To be clear telling me you make women do things they don’t want to do is not going to get me to submit it is a major red flag! I currently own my sub in an online dynamic and although there is plenty that can be done in this capacity I am looking for women and trans, dominants to help with face to face meets while allowing me a say in certain aspects of the play. Hoping to find Women in south wales or he is working away in Manchester 29th January!
Female (40) Perth, Scotland
New to BDSM scene, looking for exploration. Bicurious Keen to find a dominant individual (m or f) and keen on having a mistress/master for a proper bdsm relationship. Happy to play with couples too for some fun. Privacy and discretion is a must until trust is built. Happy to chat on other platforms!
Female (25) Perth, Scotland
Chaotic goth gremlin with a soft spot for forehead kisses. Lifts heavy, laughs louder, will absolutely steal your hoodie and your snacks (and dare you to stop me). More caffeine than *** at this point. My face will absolutely be the reason im in trouble. Will absolutely judge horror movie decisions out loud (and expect you to agree) A little bratty, a little clingy — I’ll tease you, test you, and then melt the second you handle me right.
Female (27) Dundee, Scotland
I’m currently in a health crash. I will return when I’m well enough to chat again. I’m unable to respond to messages at the moment due to extreme exhaustion.
Female (40) Edinburgh, Scotland
I’m just back into bdsm and watching to explore. I need to say I was SA by an ex so am nervous to try but wanting to. I have a few hard limits but they can be discussed later. At work the app doesn’t load so if I go dark that’s why.
Female (29) Falkirk, Scotland
Just wanna have some conversations with like minded individuals. ♡ I'm fun-loving, carefree and love anime qnd video games... hence the name haha! ♡ Drop a message if ya wanna have a chat!
Sub seeking Feminist Dom If I sent you a ‘kinky gift’, it’s because I’d like to ask you something sub woman to sub woman. Usually to be supportive of each other and look out for each other’s safety. It’s probably about someone we have both chatted with or are friends with on here. Hope you reply with a wee message! 😘😊 xxx I am currently looking for an experienced Dom to care for, teach and guide me. I will give more information about what I am looking for if we hit it off while chatting. Hot black men to the front please! Not 24/7. Not here for hookups or online only. Not interested in submissive men. Not interested in married people or those in a ‘primary’ or long term relationship. ❤️ I will not be used as someone temporary to fill a gap in someone’s life. I will not be used as anyone’s ‘rebound’ fling. I want someone who wants me as I am, and not as a temporary measure. I will not be second best to a wife/partner(s)/kids. I will be important to someone, not a bit on the side. I don’t submit to anyone who comes in trying to ‘dom’ me straight off the bat. That isn’t BDSM. That’s a red flag!🚩 🧡 I am hoping to find connection, care, protection, safety and nurture. I do prefer slightly younger men because I’m young at heart, but I’m also a professional, independent and staunchly feminist woman who has looked after herself her whole life. I am strong and fierce and brave. I just need a bit more care than some other people. 💛 I am happy to chat online, but I also want real-life connection with the right person/people, aged between 35 and 50. 💚 Happy to travel within reason. Things and stuff that I like: gigs cinema beaches travelling tea cats box sets plants science scuba swimming the sea lochs mid century anything eating out pals singing in a community choir being a good girl ☺️ being a naughty girl 💙 If you message me, please be respectful. 💜 I am not interested in anyone who hasn’t read my profile or who has not put any effort into their own.
Female (51) South Ayrshire, Scotland
heyy kinkers and frauds! I'm Sass thanks for having a nosey at my profile 😉 ✨I'M NOT INTERESTED IN BEING A SUB FOR ANYONE!✨ ✨I'M NOT YOUR DOMME, SUB, MUMMY, QUEEN OR GODDESS , PRINCESS✨ I'm not new to the lifestyle or to being a domme connection is a must for me.... vetting is a must....I will not just be a sexual domme it's a damn insult to the lifestyle! 😈SOME OF MY KINKS😈 ***/period play knife play domination Praise kink,(not just being called good girl 🙄) BDSM CNC *** and degrading *** Rough sex Voice kink cum play "cyber" play breeding CBT POT piggies ***d & orgasm denial
Female (34) Renfrewshire, Scotland
Hot MILF who loves to play rough with her subs.....but looks after them and likes when they look after her! Up for role swap and always up for trying now things. Enjoy, sexting, pic swaps, role play, GFE Cum say hi!
Female (41) Glasgow, Scotland
Newbie and I want to start exploring my sub side after being in vanilla relationships Must be a male who likes to be dominat , enjoys humiliating slighty and must like to degrade with words Things I want to explore. Facial *** , fish hooking . Face slapping . Cum on face , tit and pussy slapping. Pussy grabbing . ***. Degrading . Face fucking . Hair pulling . Intimation . Not into bondage or whipping at this state . Must be cruel in dirty talk . I find a males voice a massive turn on. Would be happy if you could make me cry I sometimes like Dom like Jamie gillies but I think he's to hard for me at this stage also I sometimes like a creepy guy like max hardcore . Nice dicks to suck are welcome . my least favourite thing is too fuck as I only get pleasure in my clit . I can only make myself cum in my pussy . but i do enjoy being fucked for your pleasure and used as long as it not taking the *** and just banging little a weird wannabe porn star I know exactly what I want and I only want a person who likes similarly to me I may want to try ***d rimming later on and more!!!! Not into sexting much I'm straight forward please don't message about bdsm . I find instruments a turn off. I'm attracted to male hands ✋️
I'm 37. I've been single for a long time, but have gotten more involved in the online world exploring my curiosities on fulfilling my sub self. taking a step into the online word to see if I can meet the right dom to start me on my journey
Female (38) Glasgow, Scotland

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