Kinky women in Barnsley

I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.

Hi, I am a submissive looking for friends in the lifestyle. My Dom has been training me to be his slut so looking for men to join us. He will always be involved and nothing happens without his say so, so no you can't borrow me. I am bi-curious too so looking for a woman to join us (my Dom will be there but not involved with another woman) I do not respond to one line messages and prefer people that can actual have a conversation.

Quick Version for those that like to skim. * Ethically non monogamous. * Demisexual with bite. * Switch, not submissive. * No hook-ups, no hotels, no drives. * Connection, consent, and chemistry first, always. * Test regularly. Speak honestly. Play with intent. * Photos edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed. . . . Sexual Health Screening - 3rd January 2026 (link available for potential meets/play only) Chlamydia - Negative Gonorrhoea - Negative HIV - Negative Syphilis - Negative Get yours at sh.uk - no proof - no play. It's that simple. No excuses. . . . Contact details or meets outside events aren’t impossible, just earned. Most won’t have the patience for that, and that’s fine. Time, trust, and genuine connection open that door. If you’re still here, the full version is below... --- About Me Hi, I’m Rae, or Raven if you like it darker. My world runs on caffeine, chaos, and curiosity. I don’t do sexual talk give me wit, depth, and a reason to stay past the first message. I find calm in motion, open roads, beach walks with the salt wind biting at my skin, and the burn of a good session that leaves muscles humming. I’m happiest where the air feels alive and silence speaks louder than words. --- Kink & Connection I move slow on purpose, deliberately, provocatively. I like tension that lingers, breath that catches, control that feels earned. A bottom leaning switch with a Domme edge sharp enough to draw focus. I don’t submit; I choose when to yield, and that choice is rare. Ethically non-monogamous. Demisexual, greysexual and androsexual. Attraction builds from presence and intent, not pictures or pick up lines. STI/STD Testing, honesty, and consent are the baseline. After that, it’s about rhythm, the kind that can’t be faked. Beneath the armour, connection still wins: patience, wit, and curiosity are the real turn ons. The right person will know how to stoke a slow burn without reaching for the flame too soon. I like voices that stay calm while saying dangerous things, and eye contact that feels like a touch, held just a second too long. --- Boundaries & Etiquette * No hook-ups, no hotels, no car-park meetings. * No unsolicited NSFW content, blocked faster than a plague outbreak. * Don’t dump fetish scripts or copy-pasted fantasies into my inbox. * Contact info isn’t a right; it’s earned through time and trust. * Message filters exist for a reason, you’re not the exception. * I don’t owe attention to anyone. Earn it, or fade quietly. --- A Note to the Submissive Men Most approach like I’m a vending machine for their unmet desires. Don’t. I’m not here to perform, fix, or fill a checklist. If you’re genuinely self aware, respectful, and emotionally grounded, I see you. You’ll still have to prove you’re not like the ones who weren't, blame them for the armour. This isn’t a challenge. It’s a warning label. Read it twice before you step closer. --- Photos & Privacy / In Short My photos are always me, but some are edited for privacy, some tattoos, scars, and identifiers, that are easily seen are removed. Face photos are earned, not freely given. Privacy and safety come first. Nothing fake, just boundaries respected. Be honest. Be intentional. Know your etiquette. Bring patience, confidence, and spark, and you’ll find I answer in kind. ---

I started experience with this world about 4 -5 years ago with my husband. Never actually done kinky dating. So my experience is limited. no we have split up, I miss the kink. Im not really looking for one night stands, but rather someone i can build trust with, future regular meet ups and maybe some holidays together. I’m looking for long term relationship, which includes sharing interest in kink, experienced Dom in a bedroom, and caring partner outside of

looking to meet new friends to attend Munches and Learn/ teach me the ropes (pardon the pun) ive always known i had a kinky side but now i want to explore that side of me I won't just give access to my private album to anyone

I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.

Hi, I am a submissive looking for friends in the lifestyle. My Dom has been training me to be his slut so looking for men to join us. He will always be involved and nothing happens without his say so, so no you can't borrow me. I am bi-curious too so looking for a woman to join us (my Dom will be there but not involved with another woman) I do not respond to one line messages and prefer people that can actual have a conversation.

I started experience with this world about 4 -5 years ago with my husband. Never actually done kinky dating. So my experience is limited. no we have split up, I miss the kink. Im not really looking for one night stands, but rather someone i can build trust with, future regular meet ups and maybe some holidays together. I’m looking for long term relationship, which includes sharing interest in kink, experienced Dom in a bedroom, and caring partner outside of

looking to meet new friends to attend Munches and Learn/ teach me the ropes (pardon the pun) ive always known i had a kinky side but now i want to explore that side of me I won't just give access to my private album to anyone

Quick Version for those that like to skim. * Ethically non monogamous. * Demisexual with bite. * Switch, not submissive. * No hook-ups, no hotels, no drives. * Connection, consent, and chemistry first, always. * Test regularly. Speak honestly. Play with intent. * Photos edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed. . . . Sexual Health Screening - 3rd January 2026 (link available for potential meets/play only) Chlamydia - Negative Gonorrhoea - Negative HIV - Negative Syphilis - Negative Get yours at sh.uk - no proof - no play. It's that simple. No excuses. . . . Contact details or meets outside events aren’t impossible, just earned. Most won’t have the patience for that, and that’s fine. Time, trust, and genuine connection open that door. If you’re still here, the full version is below... --- About Me Hi, I’m Rae, or Raven if you like it darker. My world runs on caffeine, chaos, and curiosity. I don’t do sexual talk give me wit, depth, and a reason to stay past the first message. I find calm in motion, open roads, beach walks with the salt wind biting at my skin, and the burn of a good session that leaves muscles humming. I’m happiest where the air feels alive and silence speaks louder than words. --- Kink & Connection I move slow on purpose, deliberately, provocatively. I like tension that lingers, breath that catches, control that feels earned. A bottom leaning switch with a Domme edge sharp enough to draw focus. I don’t submit; I choose when to yield, and that choice is rare. Ethically non-monogamous. Demisexual, greysexual and androsexual. Attraction builds from presence and intent, not pictures or pick up lines. STI/STD Testing, honesty, and consent are the baseline. After that, it’s about rhythm, the kind that can’t be faked. Beneath the armour, connection still wins: patience, wit, and curiosity are the real turn ons. The right person will know how to stoke a slow burn without reaching for the flame too soon. I like voices that stay calm while saying dangerous things, and eye contact that feels like a touch, held just a second too long. --- Boundaries & Etiquette * No hook-ups, no hotels, no car-park meetings. * No unsolicited NSFW content, blocked faster than a plague outbreak. * Don’t dump fetish scripts or copy-pasted fantasies into my inbox. * Contact info isn’t a right; it’s earned through time and trust. * Message filters exist for a reason, you’re not the exception. * I don’t owe attention to anyone. Earn it, or fade quietly. --- A Note to the Submissive Men Most approach like I’m a vending machine for their unmet desires. Don’t. I’m not here to perform, fix, or fill a checklist. If you’re genuinely self aware, respectful, and emotionally grounded, I see you. You’ll still have to prove you’re not like the ones who weren't, blame them for the armour. This isn’t a challenge. It’s a warning label. Read it twice before you step closer. --- Photos & Privacy / In Short My photos are always me, but some are edited for privacy, some tattoos, scars, and identifiers, that are easily seen are removed. Face photos are earned, not freely given. Privacy and safety come first. Nothing fake, just boundaries respected. Be honest. Be intentional. Know your etiquette. Bring patience, confidence, and spark, and you’ll find I answer in kind. ---