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I'm primarily a submissive but do enjoy a bit of a switch up sometimes.. I like taller men and OLDER than me please! πŸ˜… No age limit 😏 Curvy with big boobs and tiny feet and hands βœ‹οΈπŸ˜… Enjoy all sorts of play including CNC, rope play and would love to be a real unicorn! Couples apply within 😏 I'm quite fussy so if I stop replying, or don't reply at all.. I'm not interested. Love to be adored, fucked senseless and please.. watching and making you cum is my aim πŸ˜‰ 😘 😏
Female (35) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Quick Version * Ethically non-monogamous. * Demisexual, switch. * No hook-ups, hotels, or car meets. * Connection, consent, chemistry first. * Active lifestyle, gym, walks, being outdoors, swimming and hiking. * Regular testing & honesty matter. * FL = Twisted-Raven - feel free to follow or reach but I don't usually accept friends requests on there. --- What I’m Looking For People I can actually do life with, events, gym sessions, long walks, getting out and about. I don't cope well being caged indoors. I’m open to friends, event partners, something that grows into FWB, or a primary partner, but it has to start with genuine connection and that takes time. I need someone whose energy matches mine. If you love staying active, getting outside, and pushing yourself a bit, then I'm def interested. If your ideal day is mostly indoors or you avoid effort, we’re definitely not a good fit. I will take a walk in the woods or a deadlift over a takeaway, movie or gaming any day. Sorry, but it's ok to have preferences and those are mine. --- Lifestyle The gym isn’t a phase for me, it’s part of how I look after myself, physically (working progress) and mentally. It means a lot to me and I will not give it up. Same with getting out for walks and fresh air. I’m not looking for someone to drag along, or someone who’ll discourage it. I want someone who wants to be there too. --- Real Life My life isn’t conventional in any sense, my mum and ***, live with me and I’m a full-time carer to my disabled child. That means time, energy, and logistics can make meets difficult and meeting outside of events isn’t always simple or doable. My family aren't supportive in the sense they will look after my kids while I meet folks so the preference for meets at events are the easiest way to do that. I’m open minded, but also realistic. If you need something spontaneous and easy, I’m probably not a good fit. I'm also not into discreet meets, your partner(s) must be aware of your online and offline activities and encourage it. If you’re patient, understanding, and can work with me instead of against me, then we'll see how we get along over chats and then eventually meets, if it's possible. --- Boundaries No unsolicited NSFW photos in my inbox. No copy-paste or ai messages. Respect and patience go a long way No kink dispenser requests. --- Health Last test: January 2026 all clear I expect the same level of care and honesty, will test again when I'm active. --- Kink me I like my kink slow, deliberate, and a little dangerous. I’m a switch with a sharp Domme edge. I choose when to submit, if you're patient enough to earn my trust and respect, which that seems to be a quality lacking in a lot of people these days. I have bratty tenancies but it's not a dominant part of who I am, that is more when I'm comfortable and more relaxed around someone, time is a big factor with that. Play is about tension, consent, and teasing the edges of control, not checklists and unconsented demands. Wit, curiosity, and a willingness to meet me halfway is the way to go.
Female (40) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
31 years.,.. apparently the bdsm test has me down for a typical switch, not going to deny that I like a dominant male but also like to take charge on occasion new here so feel free to message il perv over your profile and maybe message but also open to receiving those messages
Female (32) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (26) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I’m a 19 year old submissive who sometimes goes into little space but I have my bratty moments, I’m a lot to handle, also recently discovered I’m into pet play so that’s something aha 🀭
Female (19) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
new to the scene I’m looking for a Dom that is will in to help me learn and explore if this isn’t you then please don’t message me I’m can’t be doing with time wasting. I don’t no my limits yet which is why I would like to explore with a Dom that would like to help a newbie if you are just looking for a hook up I’m not the person if you would like to talk drop me a message
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
if you want to know anything just ask me. its just like that, only looking for certain people
Female (34) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Inexperienced but Looking for a connection! Can't see likes! Soft masc Neurodivergant Golden retriever INFP Kinks: mommy dom, dom/sub, mdlg, praise, petplay, medplay, Roleplay, cnc, ***ing, bdsm, restraints, gags, blindfolds, collars and leashes, pinning, latex/gloves, masked women, Strap on penetration, fingering, finger sucking, aftercare, wholesome, gentle/soft sex, some rough sex, consent checks, massage, a bit of tickling, nurturing, reassurance, possessiveness.
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
ok here goes be warned for an introvert im kinda free flowing when i write… im bk with a new maturation version of the old me i guess, a little one more experienced more awake than ever. hybrid submissive in my bdsm journey. a pleasant balance of all things cute,naughty and nice with a tendency to brat for good measure an also attention i know i deserve. experiences ive had some pretty mediocre at best dynamics and ive had one that will be almost impossible to match dynamic nether the less im still here still searching for that one rare but sweet dynamic that has it all. a deep, consensual nurturing DDLG with a magical connection. a little one needs a confident guiding hand a nurturing nature and a protective primal instinct in his lead. i can be playful and sweet crave affection and attention emotionally honest. i find peace and freedom in little space take great comfort in my little accessories, enjoy soft routines with praise and rewards with an attitude that may need some correction from time to time. ok that concludes what i am here for here is what I’m not here for so hopefully you got this far cause if i see messages in my inbox that relate to these il no you didn’t bother to read or respect my wishes. I’m not here to rate your dick pics, to be paid to peg you, to dominate you , watch you cum unless i asked for it.or be degraded unless you already own me. hard limits first as its easier than my ever growing kink list. ***, vomit, electro, needles, permanent scaring, extreme sadism. kinks… impact play restraints eg rope,tape,cuffs,tie wraps, chains edging rimming ***d orgasm breath play exhabitionist voyerism breeding *** anal oral toys lingerie age play spitting eye contact watersports is a new interest keen to explore. cnc a dynamic goal only in a well established dynamic.
Female (42) Barnsley, South Yorkshire

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I'm primarily a submissive but do enjoy a bit of a switch up sometimes.. I like taller men and OLDER than me please! πŸ˜… No age limit 😏 Curvy with big boobs and tiny feet and hands βœ‹οΈπŸ˜… Enjoy all sorts of play including CNC, rope play and would love to be a real unicorn! Couples apply within 😏 I'm quite fussy so if I stop replying, or don't reply at all.. I'm not interested. Love to be adored, fucked senseless and please.. watching and making you cum is my aim πŸ˜‰ 😘 😏
Female (35) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I’m a 19 year old submissive who sometimes goes into little space but I have my bratty moments, I’m a lot to handle, also recently discovered I’m into pet play so that’s something aha 🀭
Female (19) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Inexperienced but Looking for a connection! Can't see likes! Soft masc Neurodivergant Golden retriever INFP Kinks: mommy dom, dom/sub, mdlg, praise, petplay, medplay, Roleplay, cnc, ***ing, bdsm, restraints, gags, blindfolds, collars and leashes, pinning, latex/gloves, masked women, Strap on penetration, fingering, finger sucking, aftercare, wholesome, gentle/soft sex, some rough sex, consent checks, massage, a bit of tickling, nurturing, reassurance, possessiveness.
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (26) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
if you want to know anything just ask me. its just like that, only looking for certain people
Female (34) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
new to the scene I’m looking for a Dom that is will in to help me learn and explore if this isn’t you then please don’t message me I’m can’t be doing with time wasting. I don’t no my limits yet which is why I would like to explore with a Dom that would like to help a newbie if you are just looking for a hook up I’m not the person if you would like to talk drop me a message
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
ok here goes be warned for an introvert im kinda free flowing when i write… im bk with a new maturation version of the old me i guess, a little one more experienced more awake than ever. hybrid submissive in my bdsm journey. a pleasant balance of all things cute,naughty and nice with a tendency to brat for good measure an also attention i know i deserve. experiences ive had some pretty mediocre at best dynamics and ive had one that will be almost impossible to match dynamic nether the less im still here still searching for that one rare but sweet dynamic that has it all. a deep, consensual nurturing DDLG with a magical connection. a little one needs a confident guiding hand a nurturing nature and a protective primal instinct in his lead. i can be playful and sweet crave affection and attention emotionally honest. i find peace and freedom in little space take great comfort in my little accessories, enjoy soft routines with praise and rewards with an attitude that may need some correction from time to time. ok that concludes what i am here for here is what I’m not here for so hopefully you got this far cause if i see messages in my inbox that relate to these il no you didn’t bother to read or respect my wishes. I’m not here to rate your dick pics, to be paid to peg you, to dominate you , watch you cum unless i asked for it.or be degraded unless you already own me. hard limits first as its easier than my ever growing kink list. ***, vomit, electro, needles, permanent scaring, extreme sadism. kinks… impact play restraints eg rope,tape,cuffs,tie wraps, chains edging rimming ***d orgasm breath play exhabitionist voyerism breeding *** anal oral toys lingerie age play spitting eye contact watersports is a new interest keen to explore. cnc a dynamic goal only in a well established dynamic.
Female (42) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Quick Version * Ethically non-monogamous. * Demisexual, switch. * No hook-ups, hotels, or car meets. * Connection, consent, chemistry first. * Active lifestyle, gym, walks, being outdoors, swimming and hiking. * Regular testing & honesty matter. * FL = Twisted-Raven - feel free to follow or reach but I don't usually accept friends requests on there. --- What I’m Looking For People I can actually do life with, events, gym sessions, long walks, getting out and about. I don't cope well being caged indoors. I’m open to friends, event partners, something that grows into FWB, or a primary partner, but it has to start with genuine connection and that takes time. I need someone whose energy matches mine. If you love staying active, getting outside, and pushing yourself a bit, then I'm def interested. If your ideal day is mostly indoors or you avoid effort, we’re definitely not a good fit. I will take a walk in the woods or a deadlift over a takeaway, movie or gaming any day. Sorry, but it's ok to have preferences and those are mine. --- Lifestyle The gym isn’t a phase for me, it’s part of how I look after myself, physically (working progress) and mentally. It means a lot to me and I will not give it up. Same with getting out for walks and fresh air. I’m not looking for someone to drag along, or someone who’ll discourage it. I want someone who wants to be there too. --- Real Life My life isn’t conventional in any sense, my mum and ***, live with me and I’m a full-time carer to my disabled child. That means time, energy, and logistics can make meets difficult and meeting outside of events isn’t always simple or doable. My family aren't supportive in the sense they will look after my kids while I meet folks so the preference for meets at events are the easiest way to do that. I’m open minded, but also realistic. If you need something spontaneous and easy, I’m probably not a good fit. I'm also not into discreet meets, your partner(s) must be aware of your online and offline activities and encourage it. If you’re patient, understanding, and can work with me instead of against me, then we'll see how we get along over chats and then eventually meets, if it's possible. --- Boundaries No unsolicited NSFW photos in my inbox. No copy-paste or ai messages. Respect and patience go a long way No kink dispenser requests. --- Health Last test: January 2026 all clear I expect the same level of care and honesty, will test again when I'm active. --- Kink me I like my kink slow, deliberate, and a little dangerous. I’m a switch with a sharp Domme edge. I choose when to submit, if you're patient enough to earn my trust and respect, which that seems to be a quality lacking in a lot of people these days. I have bratty tenancies but it's not a dominant part of who I am, that is more when I'm comfortable and more relaxed around someone, time is a big factor with that. Play is about tension, consent, and teasing the edges of control, not checklists and unconsented demands. Wit, curiosity, and a willingness to meet me halfway is the way to go.
Female (40) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
31 years.,.. apparently the bdsm test has me down for a typical switch, not going to deny that I like a dominant male but also like to take charge on occasion new here so feel free to message il perv over your profile and maybe message but also open to receiving those messages
Female (32) Barnsley, South Yorkshire

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