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I'm looking for kinky experiences with females or couples... ideally a sub, but happy to see how it goes as I can switch if the circumstances are right too.
I like to chat and get together socially at first where possible, as mental connection and attraction is even more important than a physical one. I’m both sapiosexual and noetisexual.
BDSM Play Partner · 33 - 63 years · 75 km
Looking for a good time some good fun. My tongue is 😍. I’m into a lot of things I’d like to explore.
Kinky Date · 20 - 71 years · 25 km
Anyone interested in some fun?...
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 5 km
Dom Master seeking subs
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 68 years · 25 km
Get invited to lots of places, but I don’t like going alone and the people I know I’m not sure they’ll be up for it it
NSA · 18 - 36 years · 160 km

I’m just gonna be honest I’m really looking for someone who wants to make me into the best most extreme dark sick fantasy goth freak ever and then I’ll be your own little whore to pimp out to pay for my transformation into a sick freak of nature who is going to let anyone who makes me into their own monster freak ink my body and pierce my skin with the heaviest metal
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Hi, I am new to this platform and currently looking for sub/brat for fun. I am not looking for LTR. I am new to this as well so I am just exploring my new side. Also, anyone knows about any dungeon event or anything let me know. I would love to attend the event as I havent attended any yet.😈
BDSM Play Partner · 25 - 35 years · 25 km

After a fun submissive female in good shape and open minded aka ready to meet to explore kink in person not online chitchat, get in touch for fun, laughs and sweet release ;-p
Be fun and in shape or willing to do what it takes to get fit.
London/Uk > worldwide
Be ready to meet to play not just "talk then maybe" timewasting crap;-p
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 40 years
I love giving oral more than anything, I’m just looking for someone to eat out or suck off as many times as they want until they are satisfied. Don’t even need reciprocate if you don’t wana, I just love doing it :)
I’ve had a lot of practice so I like to think I’m quite good at it too haha
NSA · 18 - 40 years · 70 km
A day of being bound any way you wish, and left to wriggle. Plenty bdsm furniture in a clean safe environment. Dates variable.
BDSM Play Partner · 26 - 60 years · 85 km
Humans are creatures of comfort and familiarity.
I see you. The married woman browsing this app, dreaming of what could have been. The younger woman desperately seeking acceptance and acknowledgment in an ever growing world of options. The lonely woman pretending to be content living alone and having meaningless flings to fill the void.
Each story is different but tragically the same.
You lack the willpower to leave your narcissistic partner. You lack the courage to begin a journey if the path isn't already known. Day and night, you dream of the perfect partner, a Dominant that fits all of your criteria, to swoop in and rescue you from monotony.
Be honest with yourself. If happiness requires sacrifice, are you willing to take the step? Trust your instinct. Your heart knows what you want.
You just need to have faith in it. You are the reason you are searching. You are the reason you are lonely. You allow distance to hinder your happiness, yet planes exist. You allow your beliefs to cement your feet, yet don't take the time to understand another's.
A BDSM, D/s, DDIg, M/s dynamic is substantially more difficult than a vanilla relationship. Why make it more difficult with excuses. Trusting another enough to be completely *** is one of the most difficult things you can do.
Women/woman/girls, let your heart escape mediocrity. You only have a brief moment of existence on this ball of earth and water. Will you look back and smile at the life you had because you took a chance at happiness?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
I need a submissive girl who is a independent interesting person outside of our 'play'. I don't need any 24/7 domination. Not so much into a *** just for *** - but I would like to experiment. My fantasy in rich - let's try a lot of things together!
Kinky Date · 18 - 45 years · 75 km
Will be finishing work at 2 if anyone is about for some fun! Happy to share my face pictures if you request!
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km

You are in the right place! I live and breathe shibari since I make my living selling rope, teaching and doing shows/related projects. You can see some of my tutorials here: https://bdsm-training-school.fetish.com/courses/shibari-the-easy-way
Recently, amicably out of a 9 year relationship. Currently, looking to see what comes my way whether it be Miss Right or just Miss Right now.
In short, I'm a dirty old (gentleman) with a penchant for younger ladies who appreciate such things. Vintage but surprisingly good condition and in full working order. Sense of humour, often dark and inappropriate. Largely functional brain. I speak my mind and don't shy away from controversy...or is that just Foot in Mouth Disease? I don't do drama, so don't have an ex who won't talk to me.
No bigots prejudiced against the usual things or political views, Brexit or Covid...
BDSM Play Partner · 5 km
I have been single for 6 years now I am looking and open to all .. would like to find FWB
I need companionship intimacy closeness..
But also looking for love..
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 470 km
Girls my age porfavor
Kinky Date · 18 - 30 years · 5 km
Anyone uo for having some fun tonight essex area
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
If you are interested please text me because I cannot see any likes and I’m looking for someone preferably dominant
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
Desperate for a dom women, limited limits feel free to message
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 51 years · 50 km
Won't let me upload pics
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
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