Kinky women in Wales

I am a Dominant who thrives on control, passion, and the intoxicating surrender of a willing submissive. Attractive, confident, and unapologetically commanding, I don’t roleplay dominance, I embody it. What I seek is a real exchange of power, where my slut offers complete submission and I take absolute control, mind, body, and desire. My nurturing side exists, but it is woven with sadism, discipline, and the thrill of ownership. I crave obedience, service, and devotion that goes beyond words, rituals, kneeling, offering yourself entirely at my feet. I want a submissive who finds pleasure in restraint, freedom in protocol, and arousal in punishment, knowing that every moan, every mark, every surrender is mine to claim. This is not casual play. With me, you will live in a constant state of belonging, collared, controlled, and utterly owned as my devoted slut.

A captivating and confident Mistress, she exudes both elegance and warmth. Beneath her commanding presence lies a heart that desires depth, loyalty, and lasting connection. She believes in a relationship built on trust, devotion, and shared growth, where submission is cherished and intimacy is deeply nurtured. With a soft touch and a knowing gaze, she draws her submissive into a world where romance and discipline blend seamlessly. Enchanting yet grounded, she seeks not just obedience, but companionship, an enduring bond that unfolds over time. For the right submissive, she offers more than guidance, she offers a home for the heart.

Well, hello there and welcome. You've found my profile. Please read to the end before you message me! I'm a plus-size 35 year old, alternative girl. Im a little, and I'm very accepting about my kinky self. I am loud and bubbly. I have tattoos and piercings. Love to read (mainly smut 😅) and also love music/singing and watching tv series/movies. I'm obsessed with vampires, Ddlg smut (even the mafia daddy kind ;) and DDlg asmr. I have a big heart and a cheery, but dark personality. I am single since separating from my marriage. I am a mother, so my priority will always be my ***. I'm very submissive and can be quite the brat, but I haven't yet found the right person who can tame my brattiness. I thrive with routine, rules, and specific boundaries. I love to regress into my little headspace. When im in that headspace, I can be cute and a bit sassy. I love to play, colour, and watch cartoons when deep in the headspace. I also love going out spending time outdoors and snuggling whilst watching movies/tv series with snacks and cuddling my stuffy 🧸. Love listening to the rain, wind and thunder when laying down in bed or on the sofa as I find it very the***utic. My favourite time of the year is Autumn/Fall🍂 and Halloween 🎃. Im more of the night owl 🦉 than an early bird 🐦 I am happy to chat with people and make new acquaintances. Open meet new people and also find that Daddy dom who can handle me brattiness, tame me and put me in my place when needed (if the opportunity presents itself and the chemistry is there of course ;)) A Daddy dom that instills rules and boundaries. Gives consequences for disobedience and gives praises/rewards for good behaviour. Doesn't shy away from my brattiness but faces it head on and corrects it. Is happy to call me princess, little one, baby girl, etc. Someone who can care for me and cherish me when i regress during my little headspace and doesn't take advantage. Also, someone who doesn't mind that I have responsibilities to my *** and doesn't shy away because of that. **If once you've read my bio, you're happy and accepting of all said about, please feel free to message me. However, if you can't, then please politely move on as I don't want us to waste time for no reason**

I’m an easy going person, pretty laid back, really. Want to explore and enjoy some adventure, kinks and boundaries . I love a challenge. What will you come up with for me?

I am still in the beginning stages of self discovery and as a naturally anxious person I may not respond to messages until I feel comfortable enough to do so. Sorry. Though i do appreciate the sentiment. Curious explorer of kink. Relatively new to the scene and looking to learn and find my place within it. Looking to explore everything to do with rope next :3 **Desires and Fantasies** My dream is to be owned by a creative. Being transformed into a work of art to be appreciated at their leisure. This could be through rope, wax, restraints, or various other forms of positioning. I want to be the cathartic project that someone pours their emotions into. Offering a place of comfort and safety for us both. My happy place tends to line up with when i feel the safest. I like small spaces (cubbys), sensery deprivation, along with sensery play (temperature, texture, variety). (Why is the word s e n s o r y blocked??) However, I also enjoy: impact play (flogger, spanking, paddle), bondage, nipple clamps, hair pulling, and some aspects of primal (though I have yet to explore this fully). I am keen to experiment and further my understanding of myself and my interests.

To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.

Curious about the lifestyle, have always wanted to be tied up by someone I trust, but have always been in pretty vanilla relationships/partners. Want to find someone I can experiment with. **Desires and Fantasies** Tied up, blind folded, totally giving myself up! No *** though!

COUPLED (engaged) We’re looking for other fun people to go out on dates with, go for drinks and potentially engage in partner swaps dependant on chemistry. Not looking for anything long term so would be low commitment and NSA. Friends are just fine too 😁

As a warning!!! No one is to take my pictures without my consent, if found in any site affiliated outside this site. I will take action against those who took my picture without consent as well as the site that has my pictures. Also if you want to talk to me you can come over to the chat group, I'm harmless I just prefer to be in chat group as I get to know peoples actual personalities there. Don't be shy join in for the laughs we have. It's good fun...

Looking to explore my submissive side a bit more. I'm a bit shy at first, but once you get me talking I don't shut up. I'm a massive people pleaser. I'm still figuring out what I like/don't like so I'm well up for some new experiences and experimenting

Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.

Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.

Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.

I DO NOT DO ONLINE PLAY CAN YOU STOP ASKING!! Hello there. .............. I'm Midnight/ Dragonfly. I don't give my actual name out to just anyone, the right to learn it must be earnt ............... First and foremost I'm autistic, so don't take it personally if I don't ask you questions, I'm terrible at it. If I'm not interested or comfortable with the conversation I will say so, if it doesn't change or goes back to that subject don't be suprised if I don't reply. Most the time if I respond with an emoji it's because I don't know how to reply, gone shy, or possibly feeling awkward. I can also take a few days if not longer to reply due to being overwhelmed or burntout. ............. WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ...................... Not actively looking for anything just taking things as they come, if Im comfortable with you, you'll know either the conversation flows and bounces back and forth, or I get super shy because I feel comfortable enough to not put on a front, but still very curious as to where it will go. If I'm not comfortable then the interest in talking is pretty obvious But I will say it here, I do NOT want relationships, and never will, that won't ever change! I am free to see more than 1 person at a time, if it's not for you please don't waste my time. Gotta get me comfortable to go for coffee before I decide if it goes any further. CAN'T HOST ............ ROLES ............ I'm a switch but lean mostly towards submissive than dominant. My domme side is rare to come out, to many "subs" wasted her time and now it takes alot more to get her to want to come out and play. My submissive side has a few different ranges, never know which one you'll get till you start chatting with me and get me comfortable enough to draw it out. But also be respectful that I do not want to be called any honorifics or pet names untill anything is communicated on and I've consented to such names .............. GAMING .............. Platforms are xbox, switch and pc, current played games: -Baulders gate 3 -Eso -Fallout 76 -Minecraft -Stardew valley -Disney dreamlight valley -Battlefront 2 -Trove -Mario kart -GTA -Supraland -Pikmin -Mario games -Sonic games -Sims 4 -R.E.P.O. -Schedule I -Buckshot Roulette ............. Not your avarage mother, my childs furry with four paws a tail and barks. His names Falkor ( if you know, then I'm sure we'll get along) .............. LIKES -Baulders gate 3 -Hazbin hotel -Starwars -Lord of the rings -Fable -Elder scrolls -True*** -The never ending story -Labyrinth -American horror story -Fallout -Mario -Sonic -Good Omens -Dogs (keep it pg 13 or i will hunt you down) -Food ( mostly Asian cuisine and steak) -Sleep -Reading ( mostly fanfics ?) -Quiet nature time (Woods, waterfalls, beach ect.) -Musky candles ( can't get enough!) -420 -Ghost ................ DISLIKES ............... -Unsolicited pics -Shit -*** -*** ( tho that's depends how it's come about... ) -Racists -Cum in my mouth -Entitled fucks -Spiders -Fake people ------------ WHEN MESSAGING ME! ----------- DO'S ------------ -Be respectful -Have a bio -Have some pictures ( and not just dicks) -Have at least a few kinks listed -Be patient -Be understanding -Talk about common interests or kinks ............ DON'TS ............ -Be a twat (pretty simple but some fail) -Expect anything from me. -Question me on my autism or anything else I suffer from ( it's tiring repeating myself) -Send pics ( unless I green lit it or its of adorable ***s) -Act like the app is solely for hookups ( it's a community first) -Use honorific or pet names ( unless green lit by me) -Tell me what you want to do to me ( unless green lit by me) -Cross boundries. -Ask what my kinks are ( most are listed, if there's a kink not listed that you'd like to know if I like or not, ask that) -Ask what I'm looking for, it's clear as day! -Don't ask anyone I know to message me to talk to you ............. HARD LIMITS ............. -*** -*** -Vomit ............. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 100% Rope bunny 98% Degradee 96% Submissive 90% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Pet 80% Switch 80% Non-monogamist 79% Rigger 77% Brat 76% Slave 70% Voyeur 68% Dominant 68% Sadist 65% Exhibitionist 64% Degrader 62% Boy/Girl 61% Brat tamer 47% Master/Mistress 27% Primal (Hunter) 23% Owner 23% Daddy/Mommy 16% Vanilla If by the way you message it shows you haven't taken the time to read my bio, I may just not reply ??‍♀️ sorry not sorry

I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiments when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like the country's peace, I like the metropolis' noise. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh.

hi, I'm easy going and open minded. fairly new to all this too. I'm a switch but prefer to be dominated. would prefer a long term as feel safer like that. would be only sexually dominated, not a 24/7 lifestyle. I also want to visit clubs to investigate !!! i have lots of tatts, love ***s,have house and car( when the ***y thing works). im fully independent. but would like a partner in crime for lots of laughs and travel as well as a steamy bedroom. would like try playing with a lady if the right one came along, solo or as a couple. I'm not a unicorn just bi curious.

I have now relocated to back to the U.K. with my work ✨❤️❤️ I never have engaged in hookups or ONS and never will. As a Demisexual, if I do not feel any sexual attraction or desire without developing a mental connection and trust with an aligned minded man first. I am just wired like that, and I mean no disrespect or displeasure. And it’s certainly not personal No matter how physically beautiful you are, please don’t be offended by my not engaging with you if I cannot connect with you as a person first and build that connection. Yep. It’s is a me , not a YOU thing, but truthful 🙄 My sexual desire is wired this way. Sooo I have a super toxbox, and a vivid range of skills and my boundless imagination to stay healthy, happy and fulfilled when ownerless. I love my work and my continuous academic studies to further my career. Outside of work, I love exercise, particularly outdoors as I live in a rural area where it’s so beautiful, and I feel most happy under the sun and in the elements. Yoga, hiking, and swimming are my favourite exercises, but I also love the challenge of weight training in the gym, as when you’re a little shortie like me, 5’’3 and half, it’s good to feel strong. Lovely to meet everyone and I genuinely hope that you find everything you need and want as you richly deserve it xx

I’m into men, women and couples! Invite me into a third and il be your gal😉 Treat me well and il be the best you’ve met 😇 Don’t just message me and be straight up “I wanna fuck you” as that’s boring. Be original🤣 I’m a Chubby gal with tattoos x

I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty

Hello! I'd like to start off by saying that if you aren't local to me then I won't answer. I don't do LDR or online. It may seem rude but I don't have time to tell everyone why I won't be conversing with them. As you can tell I'm a very upfront no bullshit kind of person. Despite that I am a submissive and I am looking for my Dom. Ideally a Dominant sadist with a Daddy Dom side for when my little wants to come out. I am fine with play partners if that's all you're looking for but I would like to find MY Dom. I do have some experience as a Sub, having done impact play and light restraints before but I would love to broaden my horizons and try new things safely with the right person. I like conversation and getting to know people, vanilla and kink. I love reading, my ***s and I do have an artistic side when the mood strikes. I'm an undiagnosed autistic with hEDS so I do have a few quirks.

Im still new to all this, I want to meet a nice but strict daddy who will give me set rules and care about me, I am a bit of a brat but let’s be honest with a few warnings I’ll be good as gold. I have a lot of kinks and not many limits, if you're interested hit me up!

Not looking for a daddy No picture due to work - paramedic Never on here so if you wanna know something *** Have fun flirting x

I’m new here love some kinky fun looking to have some fun with another couple or women my bf is on here we have a couple account which he’s talk on for us give me a message if interested in playing 💦

I’m an ambitious and irreverent submissive woman searching for a wickedly sharp, but gentle Dom for a long term relationship. I'm neurospicy and looking to find likeminded people. Nothing beats the serenity of wholly submitting to a person that I love and trust. I’m on the hunt for dark humour, in-jokes and shared experiences. Ideally I’d like to progress our relationship to a wide array of interesting minor sex injuries to spice up my week. I’d love for you to have hobbies that you’re passionate about, and to listen to me raving about mine with a similar enthusiasm. I’m an unashamed nerd that spends a lot of time outside. I enjoy hiking, climbing, films, and gaming, though science will always be my first love. **I am child free. I don't hate ***, I just don't plan to have any.**

Im still new to all this, I want to meet a nice but strict daddy who will give me set rules and care about me, I am a bit of a brat but let’s be honest with a few warnings I’ll be good as gold. I have a lot of kinks and not many limits, if you're interested hit me up!

I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiments when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like the country's peace, I like the metropolis' noise. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh.

Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.

hi, I'm easy going and open minded. fairly new to all this too. I'm a switch but prefer to be dominated. would prefer a long term as feel safer like that. would be only sexually dominated, not a 24/7 lifestyle. I also want to visit clubs to investigate !!! i have lots of tatts, love ***s,have house and car( when the ***y thing works). im fully independent. but would like a partner in crime for lots of laughs and travel as well as a steamy bedroom. would like try playing with a lady if the right one came along, solo or as a couple. I'm not a unicorn just bi curious.

Well, hello there and welcome. You've found my profile. Please read to the end before you message me! I'm a plus-size 35 year old, alternative girl. Im a little, and I'm very accepting about my kinky self. I am loud and bubbly. I have tattoos and piercings. Love to read (mainly smut 😅) and also love music/singing and watching tv series/movies. I'm obsessed with vampires, Ddlg smut (even the mafia daddy kind ;) and DDlg asmr. I have a big heart and a cheery, but dark personality. I am single since separating from my marriage. I am a mother, so my priority will always be my ***. I'm very submissive and can be quite the brat, but I haven't yet found the right person who can tame my brattiness. I thrive with routine, rules, and specific boundaries. I love to regress into my little headspace. When im in that headspace, I can be cute and a bit sassy. I love to play, colour, and watch cartoons when deep in the headspace. I also love going out spending time outdoors and snuggling whilst watching movies/tv series with snacks and cuddling my stuffy 🧸. Love listening to the rain, wind and thunder when laying down in bed or on the sofa as I find it very the***utic. My favourite time of the year is Autumn/Fall🍂 and Halloween 🎃. Im more of the night owl 🦉 than an early bird 🐦 I am happy to chat with people and make new acquaintances. Open meet new people and also find that Daddy dom who can handle me brattiness, tame me and put me in my place when needed (if the opportunity presents itself and the chemistry is there of course ;)) A Daddy dom that instills rules and boundaries. Gives consequences for disobedience and gives praises/rewards for good behaviour. Doesn't shy away from my brattiness but faces it head on and corrects it. Is happy to call me princess, little one, baby girl, etc. Someone who can care for me and cherish me when i regress during my little headspace and doesn't take advantage. Also, someone who doesn't mind that I have responsibilities to my *** and doesn't shy away because of that. **If once you've read my bio, you're happy and accepting of all said about, please feel free to message me. However, if you can't, then please politely move on as I don't want us to waste time for no reason**

I am a Dominant who thrives on control, passion, and the intoxicating surrender of a willing submissive. Attractive, confident, and unapologetically commanding, I don’t roleplay dominance, I embody it. What I seek is a real exchange of power, where my slut offers complete submission and I take absolute control, mind, body, and desire. My nurturing side exists, but it is woven with sadism, discipline, and the thrill of ownership. I crave obedience, service, and devotion that goes beyond words, rituals, kneeling, offering yourself entirely at my feet. I want a submissive who finds pleasure in restraint, freedom in protocol, and arousal in punishment, knowing that every moan, every mark, every surrender is mine to claim. This is not casual play. With me, you will live in a constant state of belonging, collared, controlled, and utterly owned as my devoted slut.

A captivating and confident Mistress, she exudes both elegance and warmth. Beneath her commanding presence lies a heart that desires depth, loyalty, and lasting connection. She believes in a relationship built on trust, devotion, and shared growth, where submission is cherished and intimacy is deeply nurtured. With a soft touch and a knowing gaze, she draws her submissive into a world where romance and discipline blend seamlessly. Enchanting yet grounded, she seeks not just obedience, but companionship, an enduring bond that unfolds over time. For the right submissive, she offers more than guidance, she offers a home for the heart.

I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty

I have now relocated to back to the U.K. with my work ✨❤️❤️ I never have engaged in hookups or ONS and never will. As a Demisexual, if I do not feel any sexual attraction or desire without developing a mental connection and trust with an aligned minded man first. I am just wired like that, and I mean no disrespect or displeasure. And it’s certainly not personal No matter how physically beautiful you are, please don’t be offended by my not engaging with you if I cannot connect with you as a person first and build that connection. Yep. It’s is a me , not a YOU thing, but truthful 🙄 My sexual desire is wired this way. Sooo I have a super toxbox, and a vivid range of skills and my boundless imagination to stay healthy, happy and fulfilled when ownerless. I love my work and my continuous academic studies to further my career. Outside of work, I love exercise, particularly outdoors as I live in a rural area where it’s so beautiful, and I feel most happy under the sun and in the elements. Yoga, hiking, and swimming are my favourite exercises, but I also love the challenge of weight training in the gym, as when you’re a little shortie like me, 5’’3 and half, it’s good to feel strong. Lovely to meet everyone and I genuinely hope that you find everything you need and want as you richly deserve it xx

I’m new here love some kinky fun looking to have some fun with another couple or women my bf is on here we have a couple account which he’s talk on for us give me a message if interested in playing 💦

Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.

I’m an ambitious and irreverent submissive woman searching for a wickedly sharp, but gentle Dom for a long term relationship. I'm neurospicy and looking to find likeminded people. Nothing beats the serenity of wholly submitting to a person that I love and trust. I’m on the hunt for dark humour, in-jokes and shared experiences. Ideally I’d like to progress our relationship to a wide array of interesting minor sex injuries to spice up my week. I’d love for you to have hobbies that you’re passionate about, and to listen to me raving about mine with a similar enthusiasm. I’m an unashamed nerd that spends a lot of time outside. I enjoy hiking, climbing, films, and gaming, though science will always be my first love. **I am child free. I don't hate ***, I just don't plan to have any.**

I’m an easy going person, pretty laid back, really. Want to explore and enjoy some adventure, kinks and boundaries . I love a challenge. What will you come up with for me?

COUPLED (engaged) We’re looking for other fun people to go out on dates with, go for drinks and potentially engage in partner swaps dependant on chemistry. Not looking for anything long term so would be low commitment and NSA. Friends are just fine too 😁

I’m into men, women and couples! Invite me into a third and il be your gal😉 Treat me well and il be the best you’ve met 😇 Don’t just message me and be straight up “I wanna fuck you” as that’s boring. Be original🤣 I’m a Chubby gal with tattoos x

Looking to explore my submissive side a bit more. I'm a bit shy at first, but once you get me talking I don't shut up. I'm a massive people pleaser. I'm still figuring out what I like/don't like so I'm well up for some new experiences and experimenting

Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.

Not looking for a daddy No picture due to work - paramedic Never on here so if you wanna know something *** Have fun flirting x

To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.

Hello! I'd like to start off by saying that if you aren't local to me then I won't answer. I don't do LDR or online. It may seem rude but I don't have time to tell everyone why I won't be conversing with them. As you can tell I'm a very upfront no bullshit kind of person. Despite that I am a submissive and I am looking for my Dom. Ideally a Dominant sadist with a Daddy Dom side for when my little wants to come out. I am fine with play partners if that's all you're looking for but I would like to find MY Dom. I do have some experience as a Sub, having done impact play and light restraints before but I would love to broaden my horizons and try new things safely with the right person. I like conversation and getting to know people, vanilla and kink. I love reading, my ***s and I do have an artistic side when the mood strikes. I'm an undiagnosed autistic with hEDS so I do have a few quirks.

I am still in the beginning stages of self discovery and as a naturally anxious person I may not respond to messages until I feel comfortable enough to do so. Sorry. Though i do appreciate the sentiment. Curious explorer of kink. Relatively new to the scene and looking to learn and find my place within it. Looking to explore everything to do with rope next :3 **Desires and Fantasies** My dream is to be owned by a creative. Being transformed into a work of art to be appreciated at their leisure. This could be through rope, wax, restraints, or various other forms of positioning. I want to be the cathartic project that someone pours their emotions into. Offering a place of comfort and safety for us both. My happy place tends to line up with when i feel the safest. I like small spaces (cubbys), sensery deprivation, along with sensery play (temperature, texture, variety). (Why is the word s e n s o r y blocked??) However, I also enjoy: impact play (flogger, spanking, paddle), bondage, nipple clamps, hair pulling, and some aspects of primal (though I have yet to explore this fully). I am keen to experiment and further my understanding of myself and my interests.

I DO NOT DO ONLINE PLAY CAN YOU STOP ASKING!! Hello there. .............. I'm Midnight/ Dragonfly. I don't give my actual name out to just anyone, the right to learn it must be earnt ............... First and foremost I'm autistic, so don't take it personally if I don't ask you questions, I'm terrible at it. If I'm not interested or comfortable with the conversation I will say so, if it doesn't change or goes back to that subject don't be suprised if I don't reply. Most the time if I respond with an emoji it's because I don't know how to reply, gone shy, or possibly feeling awkward. I can also take a few days if not longer to reply due to being overwhelmed or burntout. ............. WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ...................... Not actively looking for anything just taking things as they come, if Im comfortable with you, you'll know either the conversation flows and bounces back and forth, or I get super shy because I feel comfortable enough to not put on a front, but still very curious as to where it will go. If I'm not comfortable then the interest in talking is pretty obvious But I will say it here, I do NOT want relationships, and never will, that won't ever change! I am free to see more than 1 person at a time, if it's not for you please don't waste my time. Gotta get me comfortable to go for coffee before I decide if it goes any further. CAN'T HOST ............ ROLES ............ I'm a switch but lean mostly towards submissive than dominant. My domme side is rare to come out, to many "subs" wasted her time and now it takes alot more to get her to want to come out and play. My submissive side has a few different ranges, never know which one you'll get till you start chatting with me and get me comfortable enough to draw it out. But also be respectful that I do not want to be called any honorifics or pet names untill anything is communicated on and I've consented to such names .............. GAMING .............. Platforms are xbox, switch and pc, current played games: -Baulders gate 3 -Eso -Fallout 76 -Minecraft -Stardew valley -Disney dreamlight valley -Battlefront 2 -Trove -Mario kart -GTA -Supraland -Pikmin -Mario games -Sonic games -Sims 4 -R.E.P.O. -Schedule I -Buckshot Roulette ............. Not your avarage mother, my childs furry with four paws a tail and barks. His names Falkor ( if you know, then I'm sure we'll get along) .............. LIKES -Baulders gate 3 -Hazbin hotel -Starwars -Lord of the rings -Fable -Elder scrolls -True*** -The never ending story -Labyrinth -American horror story -Fallout -Mario -Sonic -Good Omens -Dogs (keep it pg 13 or i will hunt you down) -Food ( mostly Asian cuisine and steak) -Sleep -Reading ( mostly fanfics ?) -Quiet nature time (Woods, waterfalls, beach ect.) -Musky candles ( can't get enough!) -420 -Ghost ................ DISLIKES ............... -Unsolicited pics -Shit -*** -*** ( tho that's depends how it's come about... ) -Racists -Cum in my mouth -Entitled fucks -Spiders -Fake people ------------ WHEN MESSAGING ME! ----------- DO'S ------------ -Be respectful -Have a bio -Have some pictures ( and not just dicks) -Have at least a few kinks listed -Be patient -Be understanding -Talk about common interests or kinks ............ DON'TS ............ -Be a twat (pretty simple but some fail) -Expect anything from me. -Question me on my autism or anything else I suffer from ( it's tiring repeating myself) -Send pics ( unless I green lit it or its of adorable ***s) -Act like the app is solely for hookups ( it's a community first) -Use honorific or pet names ( unless green lit by me) -Tell me what you want to do to me ( unless green lit by me) -Cross boundries. -Ask what my kinks are ( most are listed, if there's a kink not listed that you'd like to know if I like or not, ask that) -Ask what I'm looking for, it's clear as day! -Don't ask anyone I know to message me to talk to you ............. HARD LIMITS ............. -*** -*** -Vomit ............. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 100% Rope bunny 98% Degradee 96% Submissive 90% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Pet 80% Switch 80% Non-monogamist 79% Rigger 77% Brat 76% Slave 70% Voyeur 68% Dominant 68% Sadist 65% Exhibitionist 64% Degrader 62% Boy/Girl 61% Brat tamer 47% Master/Mistress 27% Primal (Hunter) 23% Owner 23% Daddy/Mommy 16% Vanilla If by the way you message it shows you haven't taken the time to read my bio, I may just not reply ??‍♀️ sorry not sorry

As a warning!!! No one is to take my pictures without my consent, if found in any site affiliated outside this site. I will take action against those who took my picture without consent as well as the site that has my pictures. Also if you want to talk to me you can come over to the chat group, I'm harmless I just prefer to be in chat group as I get to know peoples actual personalities there. Don't be shy join in for the laughs we have. It's good fun...

Curious about the lifestyle, have always wanted to be tied up by someone I trust, but have always been in pretty vanilla relationships/partners. Want to find someone I can experiment with. **Desires and Fantasies** Tied up, blind folded, totally giving myself up! No *** though!