Birmingham Fetish Weekend 2026 Nov 13-15 #3DAYS4EVENTS1WEEKEND Welcome to Birmingham Fetish Weekend, a three-day celebration of our vibrant Midlands kink community, set within the iconic and fully accessible LGBTQIA+ venues. TICKETS https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/bfw-2026-nov-13-15-tickets-1976885361332 CONTACT BHAMFETISHWKEND@*** https://www.instagram.com/birminghamfetishweekend/ https://www.birminghamfetishweekend.com/

It's a bi-monthly gathering of newbie and experienced, riggers and bunnies, tops and bottoms, and the just plain curious among you. Come along and share your love and knowledge of rope be it Shibari, kinbaku, suspension,damsel in distress, predicament bondage, partials, western, or fusion. Hemp, synth, nylon, poly, cotton, jute or coconut and everything else in between. Whatever your bondage style, you're sure to find someone who shares your passion. You can Top, bottom, tie, chat, share, teach, learn, have a brew (and sometimes we have cake!), and most importantly have a whole lot of fun. Your evening will be hosted by experienced Tops and bottoms who live and love rope! We're there to try to ensure YOU get the most out of YOUR evening. We offer meet n greets, safety info, and our endless enthusiasm for all things ropey.

Is there something that you have always wanted to try but did not have enough willing helpers to make it happen? Do you have a partner with a fantasy you would love to help them fulfil, but have never been able to get those 6 female subs and a wet cabbage together in the same place? Do you just love helping others realise their dreams? If you answered Yes to any of the above, Centre of Attention is for you.

Spanks-a-lot is run every 3 months in Purgatory at Xtasia. For spanking enthusiasts, we welcome in Spankers and Spankee's. With or without a play partner, you're welcome to attend. If without we'll try hard to hook you up with someone. Flirts bar for the social side of things, evening meals and drinkies, and Purgatory for the play side. Running from 8pm to 2am. Each event we have a theme, which gives those who wish a change to dress in an appropriate style. Past examples include Schoolroom, Secretary and Boss, 1950s, 1960s Summer of love, Priests, Monks and Nuns and Sci-Fi. The theme often influences the music played too and some of the games. Dressing to theme is completely optional, but many find it gives a nice inclusive feeling and a good way to start conversations with strangers.

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females, (or those that like to take on this role) can relax in a friendly atmosphere, socialising with likeminded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 2pm until 8pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is regarded as something special and the perfect place for Dominant Females and their submissives to gather, socialise and play.

Is there something that you have always wanted to try but did not have enough willing helpers to make it happen? Do you have a partner with a fantasy you would love to help them fulfil, but have never been able to get those 6 female subs and a wet cabbage together in the same place? Do you just love helping others realise their dreams? If you answered Yes to any of the above, Centre of Attention is for you.

Spanks-a-lot is run every 3 months in Purgatory at Xtasia. For spanking enthusiasts, we welcome in Spankers and Spankee's. With or without a play partner, you're welcome to attend. If without we'll try hard to hook you up with someone. Flirts bar for the social side of things, evening meals and drinkies, and Purgatory for the play side. Running from 8pm to 2am. Each event we have a theme, which gives those who wish a change to dress in an appropriate style. Past examples include Schoolroom, Secretary and Boss, 1950s, 1960s Summer of love, Priests, Monks and Nuns and Sci-Fi. The theme often influences the music played too and some of the games. Dressing to theme is completely optional, but many find it gives a nice inclusive feeling and a good way to start conversations with strangers.

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females, (or those that like to take on this role) can relax in a friendly atmosphere, socialising with likeminded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 2pm until 8pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is regarded as something special and the perfect place for Dominant Females and their submissives to gather, socialise and play.

A mainstream BDSM party suited to both experienced kinksters and "newbies" of all persuasions. The focus is on BDSM Play and a culture of best practice, as well as providing a short (newbie) intro talk on a particular topic at each event. The aim is one of encouraging play using good equipment in a safety-minded environment, alongside relaxed social areas for conversation and making friends.

A mainstream BDSM party suited to both experienced kinksters and "newbies" of all persuasions. The focus is on BDSM Play and a culture of best practice, as well as providing a short (newbie) intro talk on a particular topic at each event. The aim is one of encouraging play using good equipment in a safety-minded environment, alongside relaxed social areas for conversation and making friends.