BDSM Play Partner18 to 27 years ● 25km around UK, Stafford one year ago

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 57, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) *** of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless emails and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 62 years ● 100km around UK, Wolverhampton 4 months ago

I'm a sane, decent, caring Dom who loves submissive women, slim or slimmish, who can orgasm, or get damned close, through nipple and breast play, whilst tied up. which is not to say any of your other erogenous zones would be neglected, nor does it preclude a hard fucking, either. But breasts and nipples are my joy and focus, so would be a key component of your experience of sexual stimulation and ecstasy.

Although I'm a Dom, you'd not have to do much to please me, I'm quite undemanding in that respect. In fact, you'd be recipient of a lot of pleasure, tied up, , being used by me.

I can crank up the intensity if your limits allow, specifically through whipping your
body, but this is not essential. In any case, I respect all limits, no exceptions, and am leery of even stretching a sub's personal limits, because that sounds like a recipe for ignoring them, which is not how I roll.

I'm a nurse and have a caring streak, so you'd be a well cared for sub and slave, or prisoner if you prefer that dynamic. I don't mean financially, alas (I mentioned i'm a nurse, right? :P ). But you'd feel safe.

Some subs prefer to take on a Master/slave role, and others prefer to assume the role of a prisoner. There's a subtle difference between the two roles which I'd be happy to explore with you.

I'd love an LTR but that is not a requirement.

Outside of bdsm kink I'm a sane, intelligent sensitive guy, confident but caring, cultured, witty and fun.

I go to the gym three times a week, cycle and walk rather than drive, love the outdoors, museums, art, poetry, documentaries rather than drama . That said, I love high quality drama, and am geeky enough to have loved Netflix's Arcane, and I love Lords of the Rings films and art work.

My favourite poets are Larkin, Wordsworth and Elliot, but my favourite poem of all time is "somewhere I have never travelled, gladly beyond" by EE Cummings. Do yourself a favour and read it. Its the most astonishing love poem I've ever read and has haunted me for 20 years.

But hey, wait a minute, this is a BDSM ad. I got distracted - if you're an attractive slim woman, submissive who wants to be tied up and used, whipped, and taken to orgasm by nipple and breast play - contact me! :)

BDSM Play Partner18 to 42 years ● 25km around UK, Birmingham one year ago

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