Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living alone in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom. (Dominant, yes.....Domineering , no ! )
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. Equally, I am have no qualms if the womanin question knows she wants a serious relationship. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship.
I'm looking for a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative, have presence and I'm attentive, believing in the importance of aftercare. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. It is important to be able to communicate openly and candidly in order to achieve a mutually loving, fulfilling and enduring friendship or relationship.
You may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional Mentor or disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his thirties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.
