ello there! while I'm on the fetlife site, I hard this place isn't too bad either xD lots of info in the kinky confessions!
Not interested in looking for anything casual or short-term. A long-term play partner would be nice, but just looking for something long-term in general now.
✨️~~Vanilla me~~✨️
A lover of cats, books (have enough now to have a personal library), tiny cocktail sausages (the food), desserts, writing, and gaming! I've recently got my own place, so really enjoying decorating and the whole interior design thing.
I adore learning new things, people, and random subjects. I like listening to what excites people, or what they're passionate about.
I love my metal and rock music. Trying to get out to more gigs. Most recent gig I went to, I saw Frozen Soul, the Black Dahlia ***, and Heaven Shall Burn. Been to download a few times over the last few years too!
Theatre and comedy shows are good too, and I want to see more of those now.
As I can't drive and have often been stuck in unemployment, I'm used to doing a lot of free things like taking a nice walk, or going to a cafe. While I can be a cheap date, I also want to go places and do things. If you love an art gallery, let's go! If you wanna do some falconry...hi yes. throw axes? sure! Pool or snooker...or even TIME CRISIS 2??? Would love to play that again!
I'm a gamer with a preference for cosy building-style/survival games. I like getting to express my creativity these days, but a good story-driven game also makes me happy. Shooters don't appeal to me, unless they have unlimited ammo. Otherwise find me building the Port City of Wettenpussah with a thriving fish industry in cities skylines 2. I do have a variety of consoles as well, and while I have fallen off the pokemon love, I Will Battle You and Will Win.
I enjoy psychology, philosophy, and generally left-leaning. I like talking about politics and problems in society. I will stare at you blankly if you ask me about stuff like love island. I care a HELL of a lot about disability and mental health, and sometimes talking to me can be like having a brick thrown at your face with how blunt I can be. While that could be the audhd (waiting for assessments for both), I'm doing my best.
I'm sight impaired, highly independent, and learning that people can be nice and not expect anything in return. While I understand and appreciate the love language of giving/doing without expecting anything, I also need to be able to do the same back/do some things on my own. I can ask for help okay, and will if I need it, but when you're coddled a whole lot and people make decisions on your behalf/for your good, it's natural to guard yourself. more so when it's used against you like they've done you a favour (that was never asked for).
I'm also just a bit honest and direct xD I know I'm not everyone's cuppa tea, and this isn't the best "sales pitch", but at least I'm being myself lol
🔥🔥Kinky me~💦💦
When it comes to kink, it's something I've had a fondness for, for 20 years.
My biggest thing is power play dynamics. I'm a brat for the fun and chaos of it all. Don't confuse me for a little that wants some daddy to spank me or make me suck his dick as "punishment", cause I have an oral fixation so that's a win for me.
knife play (no ***/marks/branding), negotiated dubious or cnc scenes, play fighting, and a bit of a sadomasochist are all good, but talk to me for more info.
would love to explore more pet and Primal play.
respect is earned. You earn my submission and respect. it is never a given in the bedroom.