Male (38) Single
Looking for a switch
I'm looking for a long term D/s dynamic with someone who is interested in a serious relationship. Prefer someone with some shared vanilla interests in addition to the kinky ones. I don't expect anyone to submit right away, I expect to talk, build rapport and trust. If/when you do submit I want it to be because you respect me enough and know me enough to have decided that I'm someone safe, capable, and healthy for you.
I identify as a switch, which by itself doesn’t help define me except that I have a variety of tastes. So here’s a little more. I have a submissive and masochistic side but I haven't always been able to let myself be. There may be times when I can't let myself be those things but they are part of who I am. I may have a submissive side but that doesn’t mean I will submit to you. While I do submit that doesn’t mean I don't enjoy taking control, causing you and pleasure. I get off, getting you off. I very much enjoy mixed in with pleasure. Am not a fan of orgasm denial for long periods during sessions but will happily accept restrictions on orgasms / masturbating between sessions.
My likes include: spanking, ***, whipping, bondage, sensory play etc. I am inclined to try most things at least once.
The rest of me is into Sci-Fi fantasy movies/games, dance/rock music. Love learning and if somebody offers to teach me something I’m hooked.
