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BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
How is everyone is doing tonight
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
In North San Juan or the river
Kinky Date · 18 - 61 years · 25 km
Hey, anybody in the San Fernando Valley area wanna come to a party? Hang out has fun. Hit me up.
Kinky Date · 18 - 52 years · 70 km
Let me know
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Hi there. I’m a Switch still exploring this world—it might be my first time trying. I’m looking for a partner who’s gentle, safe, and trustworthy.
I’m interested in light BDSM and curious about the tension between control and surrender. I enjoy soft breath play, restraints, verbal guidance, and gentle ***.
I don’t accept sharp objects or intense ***, and I care deeply about communication and clear boundaries.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 30 years · 475 km
Located in the Fair Oaks area and available for the night for a play date. Cannot host but can make mutual arrangements. Message fast before your time runs out.
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 65 km
I would like to meet someone who think they be perfect for me in my BDSM life
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 30 years · 80 km

i need someone now to sex me and i want us to spend a good time in a hotel today
BDSM Play Partner · 50 - 80 years · 500 km
I’m an artist who would love to draw someone with any fetishwear or bondage if their choice.
Kinky Date · 18 - 25 years · 55 km
You are a quirky elven woman, who runs the local inn and tavern with your cuckold husband. A slim elven man, with narrow facial features and a shapely butt, and an impulse to sweep the floors, wash the dishes, and make the beds the moment you order him to. His obedient nature keeps your life comfortable, and swatting that peach-shaped posterior to remind him of his place isn't unpleasant. Still, his typical forest elf aversion towards anything unorthodox or unfamiliar can be frustrating. After all, you grew up in a group of bandits, who searched strange lands for fortune and adventure making the quiet lifestyle of the forest elves comforting yet completely unexciting, and you don't hope to change their traditional ways. Getting the town to accept you, despite your skin color it was already like pulling teeth. (When I conceptualized this prompt as a short story, I envisioned her as a dark elf, but we can work with any other fantasy race.)
One day, a snowstorm rips through your village, throwing down snow that hardens into arcs valleys, and hills of frozen white desert. By night, the fierce winds calm to a gentle whisper. Fluffy white pebbles descend, padding the icy surface of the already existing snow.
You finish fixing the sign for your inn, and see movement beyond the tree line that borders the town from the forest. You squint for a better look. Your eyes widen, when the blurred features of their green skin and their towering broad brick wall bodies come into focus. Orcs! Your heart races. Terror sends you reaching and clutching for a sword that isn't there. Why are they here? Have they come to burn down your village, and take what you have? *** dissipates when their leader, Martock, does something unexpected. He winks, playfully. At you. You turn to the side, hiding the smile that curls your lips as you blush. You even giggle. You can't help yourself. It would be one thing if these beasts had the round grotesque drooling faces in the stories you've heard since you were little. Most of them have sharp jawlines, kissable lips, and striking eyes that boast confidence.
The Orcs sc*** their boots clean, before entering your tavern. Your husband cowers behind the bar. The patrons stare, expecting chaos, but instead of trashing the place, the Orcs buy drinks. They laugh and sing merrily. A rowdy yet laid-back attitude contrasts against the elven customs, you've sadly become used to. Their camaraderie reminds you of your days as a bandit.
An orc woman(who doesn't have to be in the RP, depending on your orientation.) approaches you. She doesn't look brutish or mean like elven stories and art depict orc women to be. In fact, she has skin soft enough and curves voluptuous enough, to make any human or elven woman jealous. She invites you to the table of the Orcs. Knowing this soft-spoken woman with a harmonious voice, pouty lips, and an adorably shy demeanor is comfortable around these men, makes you feel at ease.
Upon joining the Orcs, they regale you with tall tales of adventure, they make you laugh, and before you know it, Martock charms you into sitting in his lap. His trouser-clad cock throbs against your ass cheeks.
Intimidated by the Orcs, your husband tries to get your attention, but the conversation and merriment are impenetrable, so he just ends up raising his finger and repeating your name like a meek little moron.
After laughing and flirting for a while, you tell your husband he's going to have to sleep alone tonight and lead the orc studs into a room of beds in rows of four. There, the Orcs let their monster-sized dicks breathe. Terrified elves pretend to be asleep, watching you strangle their cock meat with your soft lips in the corner of their eyes. The room fills with manly groans as their dicks grow stiff and ready to fuck you.
All plot, setting, and character ideas are flexible and free for discussion in DMs.
Relevant Kinks: I love gangbang, cuckold ***, physical strength comparison, sensory play, small penis ***, and femdom. Perhaps if we keep the story going we can delve into chastity, ***, temperature play, pegging, feminization, and maybe even cuckqueen *** as well. I'm into all kinds of Kinks and open to many more. My limits are on my profile.
BDSM Play Partner · 24 - 60 years · 500 km
Anyone down?
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 34 years · 500 km
Heyy let’s make good vibes and have some fun. Add my snap if you’re interested I can’t see likes.
Club Buddy · 18 - 80 years · 165 km
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Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 500 km

Send me a message if you're interested in sexting trading or anything as such, I am open to a lot of things
Dom/me Session · 18 - 35 years · 500 km
Im looking for my babygirl, im a nice daddy but I will spank your bare little ass, but afterwards I will kiss it and make it better
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 30 years · 115 km
Looking for a girl down for a FFM threesome with me and my guy friend :)
Kinky Date · 18 - 45 years · 80 km
Someone who’s down to meet and please each other
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 280 km
Looking to get into detailed Roleplay pretty open to suggetions lets see 👀
Kinky Date · 5 km
Need me a girl who can cut hair good while also liking to be filled and spanked.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I want to meet couples who like to have fun and are really freaky
Kinky Date · 30 - 51 years · 80 km
We are an easy going, open minded, middle aged couple in very good physical shape, looking with exceptional hygiene & recent clean/clear STI tests, looking to experiment for the first time w/ an unattached female. Some of the kinks we’re interested in exploring… “shibari” “restraint/edging” “role play” “light spanking” “king/queen cuckolding” “erotic touching” “gummies/psychedelics” “dominant/submissive” “anal play” “toys” “sensual massage” and of course “3-way”.
We prefer to host and insist on recent clean STI docs (everyone wins) as well as an open attitude to clear set boundaries for unicorn adventure. He: is 5’11” 175lbs athletic body w/ brown hair/eyes She: 5.9” 175lbs curvy body w/ brown hair/eyes.
Due to this being our first rodeo, please don’t be offended or take it personally, if we don’t get back to you right away or select you. We want this exciting experience to be as fun, free and well matched energies w/ the just the right gal, who’s down to play w/ a cool, chill & mature couple. Thanks! :)
Kinky Date · 18 - 40 years · 90 km
September 2025
NSA · 18 - 50 years · 25 km
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