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I’m someone who truly values honesty, kindness, and a good heart. I love travelling, discovering new places, and creating memories that last a lifetime. I enjoy cooking, sharing quality time with loved ones, and having deep, meaningful conversations. I have a lot of respect for gentlemen who are caring and sincere. But I can’t stand dishonesty or people who only see me for my looks—I’m all about real, genuine connections.
Female (41) New Haven, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. With that being said I am not looking for any companionship as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
I am a very gentle and kind person, always ready to support and help in a difficult situation. My heart is filled with compassion and caring for others, so I always try to be there when someone needs support. I love hugs, it is a very significant manifestation of love and intimacy for me. I am always fascinated by the opportunity to discover new places, get to know different cultures, not a paid member be smart about my username and add g mailll lets try this so I dream of joint trips with a loved one that will create special memories.
Female (56) Waterbury, Connecticut
I am looking for an online dom. I’m very new to it and want to explore it more. I am married but that is ending soon(very complicated). I use telegram to communicate only pm if interested
Female (33) Wallingford, Connecticut
Looking for that special man who enjoys the outdoor activities, conversation, spending time with one another, who is honest and sincere, and appreciates the simple pleasures of life.
Female (52) New Haven, Connecticut
I love making out. I love foreplay. If a man can kiss me and caress me just right I could come very close to having an orgasm. I absolutely love sex. I am very passionate and playful. I am very flexible.I am also a squirter.
Female (52) Middletown, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
I’m someone who believes in the power of faith, love, and the little moments that make life beautiful. I’m passionate about connecting deeply with others, whether through meaningful conversations, shared laughter, or simply being there for each other. I enjoy spending time with loved ones, exploring new places, and making the most of every day. I value kindness, loyalty, and genuine connections. I’m always striving to grow as a person, and I appreciate someone who shares the same mindset of self-improvement, faith, and positivity. Life’s challenges are easier to face when you have someone by your side who believes in the same things you do.
Female (41) Hartford, Connecticut
"Although I am willing to communicate with you, I hope to get to know you better before we meet. After all, there are too many uncertainties in the online world, and I prefer to build on sincerity.
Female (36) Coventry, Connecticut
Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
Soft heart, sharper mind. Lover of teasing, subtle dominance, and playful tension. I’m not here for chaos — just exploring, connecting, and seeing where chemistry flows. Maybe a few new friendships? I love anime and video games ✨ DON’T FEEL ENTITLED, your not ✨
Female (24) New Haven, Connecticut
heavily into femdom/findom. Ideally would want a more long term relationship based on mutual trust. Giod open communication is very important to me. Pretty open to a lot of kinks.
Female (20) New Haven, Connecticut
I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I require a sexual empath. just because I seem like a slut, doesn’t mean I want to be treated like one by complete strangers. Show some respect for yourself and make a good impression. if your “introductory conversation” is something that was lead with the wrong head, just consider yourself to be ignored.
Female (41) Portland, Connecticut
petite chocolate Barbie into indie music more so on the alternative side when it comes to my personality I’m very submissive and love to try new things and people
Female (31) Hartford, Connecticut
Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (22) Ansonia, Connecticut
Hi all, I’m new to this. Looking to explore my limits and meet new people. Hopefully the community is welcoming and the people I meet will help to open up my own possibilities.
Female (40) Derby, Connecticut
on here because of preferences I have within a safe loving relationship- my standards for being treated respectfully don’t disappear bc I have sexual preferences, nor does it mean I sleep with guys casually.
Female (31) Deep River, Connecticut
🔆 If you love a loyal, affectionate, touchy girl, you’ve come to the right place ☺️🔆 🔆Wrap your hand around my throat, pull me close against you, slap my ass, kiss me, look deep into my eyes and tell me I’m beautiful ☺️☺️🙈🙈 dark romance ❤️ 🔆 🔆 I love Zodiac Signs so I know a way into each signs heart and maybe even mind, weaknesses too ☺️ 🔆 Confident, Dominant, Flirty Men are my Weakness I have a soft spot for Fire Signs ❤️ ️I do not send nudes or release my private photos so your imagination will be the only thing you have to use 😁️
Female (26) Newington, Connecticut
heyyy hellooo up here 👋 I. AM. NOT. A. 🦄 Very Demisexual with a touch of androsexual huge sapiosexual. A little old Fashioned Alpha Sub Waiting for a Worthy Owner who loves rope. Looking to give my submission to someone one of a kind, an experienced rigger that isn't afraid of an alpha female. A gentleman that takes things slow. The ideal person will know what he likes, be confident. Cuffs and other restraints aren't the same as a love for rope... You should love rope as much as me. I'm looking for a mutual shared kink. 🪢 🪢 🪢 I won't respect you unless you challenge me. If you don't have time to tame a shrew then I'm probably not for you. Strict, serious, with a pinch of sadistic *** giving. Maybe you get a little excited when I start to cry? I want more than just sex. I want consistency. I'm not here for your work trip night cap. currently a doll sitting on a shelf. Need that one-of-a-kind connection. A real D/s dynamic. Mold me, make me the best version of myself. Imprint on me, make me yours. I want to earn it when you say good girl. Not a quitter, the harder the challenge the happier I will be when I finally get your praise. Only tied up 8 times. I still have that new car smell. Warning you I will run if: You're crude, out of the gate telling me all the nasty things you want to do to me. Nothing hotter than a man with restraint and respect. When I look into your eyes and I can tell you want me but you make me wait. Not looking for a one-night stand, thanks. Not looking for penpals, as I need firm physical guidance to be trained. Sorry you 20 somethings so pretty to look at, but really, I'm a woman with life experience.. Currently practicing ENM. I have a submissive partner. Don't understand? it's cool to ask me about our dynamic. *Not interested in having another submissive partner. please stop asking.
Female (37) Middletown, Connecticut

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Soft heart, sharper mind. Lover of teasing, subtle dominance, and playful tension. I’m not here for chaos — just exploring, connecting, and seeing where chemistry flows. Maybe a few new friendships? I love anime and video games ✨ DON’T FEEL ENTITLED, your not ✨
Female (24) New Haven, Connecticut
I’m someone who truly values honesty, kindness, and a good heart. I love travelling, discovering new places, and creating memories that last a lifetime. I enjoy cooking, sharing quality time with loved ones, and having deep, meaningful conversations. I have a lot of respect for gentlemen who are caring and sincere. But I can’t stand dishonesty or people who only see me for my looks—I’m all about real, genuine connections.
Female (41) New Haven, Connecticut
I am a very gentle and kind person, always ready to support and help in a difficult situation. My heart is filled with compassion and caring for others, so I always try to be there when someone needs support. I love hugs, it is a very significant manifestation of love and intimacy for me. I am always fascinated by the opportunity to discover new places, get to know different cultures, not a paid member be smart about my username and add g mailll lets try this so I dream of joint trips with a loved one that will create special memories.
Female (56) Waterbury, Connecticut
I love making out. I love foreplay. If a man can kiss me and caress me just right I could come very close to having an orgasm. I absolutely love sex. I am very passionate and playful. I am very flexible.I am also a squirter.
Female (52) Middletown, Connecticut
I am looking for an online dom. I’m very new to it and want to explore it more. I am married but that is ending soon(very complicated). I use telegram to communicate only pm if interested
Female (33) Wallingford, Connecticut
Hi all, I’m new to this. Looking to explore my limits and meet new people. Hopefully the community is welcoming and the people I meet will help to open up my own possibilities.
Female (40) Derby, Connecticut
Looking for that special man who enjoys the outdoor activities, conversation, spending time with one another, who is honest and sincere, and appreciates the simple pleasures of life.
Female (52) New Haven, Connecticut
"Although I am willing to communicate with you, I hope to get to know you better before we meet. After all, there are too many uncertainties in the online world, and I prefer to build on sincerity.
Female (36) Coventry, Connecticut
I’m someone who believes in the power of faith, love, and the little moments that make life beautiful. I’m passionate about connecting deeply with others, whether through meaningful conversations, shared laughter, or simply being there for each other. I enjoy spending time with loved ones, exploring new places, and making the most of every day. I value kindness, loyalty, and genuine connections. I’m always striving to grow as a person, and I appreciate someone who shares the same mindset of self-improvement, faith, and positivity. Life’s challenges are easier to face when you have someone by your side who believes in the same things you do.
Female (41) Hartford, Connecticut
Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I require a sexual empath. just because I seem like a slut, doesn’t mean I want to be treated like one by complete strangers. Show some respect for yourself and make a good impression. if your “introductory conversation” is something that was lead with the wrong head, just consider yourself to be ignored.
Female (41) Portland, Connecticut
petite chocolate Barbie into indie music more so on the alternative side when it comes to my personality I’m very submissive and love to try new things and people
Female (31) Hartford, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
heavily into femdom/findom. Ideally would want a more long term relationship based on mutual trust. Giod open communication is very important to me. Pretty open to a lot of kinks.
Female (20) New Haven, Connecticut
Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (22) Ansonia, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. With that being said I am not looking for any companionship as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
If I can find a Domme Mommy, that'd be fucking awesome because my last relationship sucked and I really need someone who'd actually give really great head XDDDDD Very much looking for someone to be my Sugar Daddy. A plus if you know how to munch on carpets. I'm willing to try new stuff as long as we talk about it first. Kinda looking for a fuck buddy, but also a serious LTR girlfriend. I'm mostly talkative, but also quite reserved when it comes to revealing myself. I do want to get to know you and you me but I have a bit of a confidence issue.. but who cares, right? no one reads the about me's lol If you read this far, add me on FetLife @MieMar
Female (27) New Haven, Connecticut
🔆 If you love a loyal, affectionate, touchy girl, you’ve come to the right place ☺️🔆 🔆Wrap your hand around my throat, pull me close against you, slap my ass, kiss me, look deep into my eyes and tell me I’m beautiful ☺️☺️🙈🙈 dark romance ❤️ 🔆 🔆 I love Zodiac Signs so I know a way into each signs heart and maybe even mind, weaknesses too ☺️ 🔆 Confident, Dominant, Flirty Men are my Weakness I have a soft spot for Fire Signs ❤️ ️I do not send nudes or release my private photos so your imagination will be the only thing you have to use 😁️
Female (26) Newington, Connecticut
we are 2 kinky friends who need a daddy or mommy!!! we are good little girls ;) don’t be boring and don’t waste our time, tell us why you are worth being our dom we are tired of fake doms, and no pictures and no only sexual
Female (18) Hartford, Connecticut

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