A profile is very much a first impression, and shows the care with which you present yourself. I do not accept friend requests on this site. Seeking: (you should be) • male • ages 35 - 65 • DD/lg dynamics, but I’m not a little • Polyamorous • willing and able to attending events • understand SSC and RACK principles • good communication skills • maturity and willing to continue growing • have available time everyday to communicate - I thrive on regular check-ins NOT looking for: • married men having an affair - just No. • mentoring or teaching anyone • fragile egos • M/s dynamics • online only, role playing • people who can’t handle someone neurospicy BDSM is so much more than just sex to me, and I’m more interested in the dynamics/kink than sex. I am polyamorous, please do not contact me if you are not open to poly. I am looking for long-term partners, someone to stand shoulder to shoulder with in the vanilla world, but is dominant when it comes to intimacy. I have explored a range of dynamics and DD/lg is where I feel most comfortable, when someone nurtures and supports me rather than being commanded or controlled. I’m interested in partnerships, not servitude. I am not sexually dominant, but I am also not at all submissive in the vanilla world. If I defer to my partner, it is because I choose not because it is required of me, but in bed I absolute want someone who can be in control. I am open to meeting people who are at a distance as I am willing to travel. Relocation is a possibility but I would want to build a life somewhere new with someone rather than trying to fit myself into their life. I identify as varying flavors of asexual. I must build a connection and trust with a potential partner mentally and emotionally before my libido wants to even look at them. please respect this. My kink interests include: shibari, bondage, dollification, rubber encasement, mind control, and DD/lg dynamics, to name a few. I like to describe myself as a feral housewife, curvy, neurodivergent weirdo, geek with a passion for creating and building. My vanilla interests range from homesteading & kitchen experiments, to photography & travel. I believe in community, education, and continued self improvement. I tend to be rather cerebral, and need people who match my energy and curiosity.

A profile is very much a first impression, and shows the care with which you present yourself. I do not accept friend requests on this site. Seeking: (you should be) • male • ages 35 - 65 • DD/lg dynamics, but I’m not a little • Polyamorous • willing and able to attending events • understand SSC and RACK principles • good communication skills • maturity and willing to continue growing • have available time everyday to communicate - I thrive on regular check-ins NOT looking for: • married men having an affair - just No. • mentoring or teaching anyone • fragile egos • M/s dynamics • online only, role playing • people who can’t handle someone neurospicy BDSM is so much more than just sex to me, and I’m more interested in the dynamics/kink than sex. I am polyamorous, please do not contact me if you are not open to poly. I am looking for long-term partners, someone to stand shoulder to shoulder with in the vanilla world, but is dominant when it comes to intimacy. I have explored a range of dynamics and DD/lg is where I feel most comfortable, when someone nurtures and supports me rather than being commanded or controlled. I’m interested in partnerships, not servitude. I am not sexually dominant, but I am also not at all submissive in the vanilla world. If I defer to my partner, it is because I choose not because it is required of me, but in bed I absolute want someone who can be in control. I am open to meeting people who are at a distance as I am willing to travel. Relocation is a possibility but I would want to build a life somewhere new with someone rather than trying to fit myself into their life. I identify as varying flavors of asexual. I must build a connection and trust with a potential partner mentally and emotionally before my libido wants to even look at them. please respect this. My kink interests include: shibari, bondage, dollification, rubber encasement, mind control, and DD/lg dynamics, to name a few. I like to describe myself as a feral housewife, curvy, neurodivergent weirdo, geek with a passion for creating and building. My vanilla interests range from homesteading & kitchen experiments, to photography & travel. I believe in community, education, and continued self improvement. I tend to be rather cerebral, and need people who match my energy and curiosity.