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This is all very spur of the moment, and likely not entirely healthy on my part to be upfront, but here I am. I can't say I have a specific aim other than pushing myself out of my comfort zone.
I've just started here and I'm swamped with messages so I'm probably going to take a while to get back to anyone, please don't take delays personally. There is still the part of me that hopes the site just nukes my profile so that I can go back to normality.
I'm trying to be confrontational with myself and aspects of my personality that I should maybe explore. I don't believe kink should always be emotionally pretty, and I guess this is me putting that theory to the test.
The vast majority of my history has been on the Domme side, but I guess I'm trying to rule that out a bit for a while. I guess stubborn pride makes much of it difficult to put into coherent words, even in my own head. Yay.
I've put "degradee" as my role specifically because it is difficult to stomach or acknowledge. I'm seemingly a bit more kink-based than sex-based compared to some of you, though I get that the lines naturally blur.
And yes, I know I say "I guess" a lot.
NOT INTERESTED IN BOYS IN THEIR 20S OR 30S! PLEASE SAVE YOURSELF THE TIME AND DON'T BOTHER MESSAGING ME!
I'm exploring and learning at the moment to possibly bring fantasy into reality. I'm submissive by nature and love a dominant alpha male personality.
Here for a good time, not a long time! 🥵💦 Pull my hair, spank my phat ass and suck/lick on my big rack, *** me lightly, eat my phat ass and watch my small pretty pink pussy cream or squirt. The choice is yours!
I'm looking for someone that I'm not sure may even exist. I'm an ambitious woman who is sure of what I want out of life. I'm looking for a challenger. someone who is looking at more than what's on the surface. an intelligent, confident, and sure male that is looking for something he can only feel in his gut. I'm not perfect. I'm a creative soul with imperfections meant only for the right one and I'm honest. I'm not for everyone.
I'm a dominant woman who takes pride in training loyal subs not just in obedience, but in understanding what it truly means to serve, to please, and to live the alternative BDSM lifestyle with intention and respect. I enjoy pegging, pussy worshipping, foot worshipping, and so much more.
Other kinks I love exploring with my subs include orgasm control, chastity play, sensual teasing and denial, body worship beyond just feet, service submission domestic and personal, leather and latex worship, light impact play, blindfolded sensory play, collar and leash training, verbal *** in a caring framework, and devotion rituals that remind you who's in charge.
These are just a few of the many ways I enjoy shaping a loyal sub. And with you, l'd want to explore gently at first, then deeper as trust grows. If that sounds like something your soul is yearning for, please chat back. Once we connect, I'll share my photos with you.
I love hard and fast and *** I'm down for anything and I mean ANYTHING I'm willing to do WHATEVER to please you just tell me. just wanna have fun and play. I love to do whatever it takes to make you feel good I love men and woman I cant wait to get to know new people 😈💋
_**Madame • Mistress • Mommy**_
**Seeking a Domestic Pleasure Sub/Switch/ FWB **
I am seeking a single male sub or switch, age **28–45**, who is respectful, dependable, service-oriented, and interested in building a consistent, meaningful dynamic.
By “**domestic,**” I mean more than play. I am looking for someone who enjoys being useful through housekeeping, organizing, errands, and other agreed-upon acts of service. Ideally, we would spend time together once or twice a week, creating a connection built on trust, structure, obedience, affection, and intensity.
The **Good Boy** I’m Looking For
Single and not partnered
Local to Washington, DC, or able to travel reliably
Kind, mature, emotionally grounded, and communicative
Naturally submissive or a respectful switch
A little masochistic and genuinely interested in discipline
Eager to please, learn, serve, and grow
Comfortable meeting publicly first
Current STI testing with documentation
Interested in consistency, not a quick hookup
**My Style**
I am nurturing, firm, playful, attentive, and deeply drawn to the balance between tenderness and control.
I enjoy rewarding a good boy just as much as I enjoy correcting one. Obedience, effort, attentiveness, and good behavior deserve praise, affection, pleasure, and thoughtful rewards. Bratty or disobedient behavior may earn a more intense response.
**My interests include:**
Power exchange and domestic service
Praise, rewards, and pleasure for obedience
Spanking and impact play
Binding and consensual restraint
Intense edging and controlled sexual ***
Verbal dominance and dirty talk
Discipline, punishment, structure, and accountability
Roleplay and carefully negotiated CNC
Aftercare, affection, reassurance, and emotional check-ins
I am looking for someone who wants to feel safe enough to surrender, valued enough to serve, and challenged enough to grow.
**What Matters to Me**
Consent, communication, health, honesty, safewords, and clearly discussed boundaries are essential. I believe the strongest dynamics are built through listening, trust, mutual care, and understanding what makes each person feel fulfilled.
I am not interested in dominant egos or someone arriving with rigid ideas about what a Mistress, Madame, or Mommy should be. I want fertile soil where trust, chemistry, obedience, and intimacy can naturally grow.
I am 5'11", voluptuous/yummy, warm, direct, affectionate, and intense. I am looking for a good boy who understands that service can be intimate, discipline can be loving, and obedience can be very well rewarded.
Updated paperwork is required. Tested 09/09/2026.
I’m shy and quiet at first, but I can be a chatterbox when I get to know you! I’m passionate about all things nerdy, history, and education.
I love museums, playing video games, and spending time with my creative passions. I’d love to share those passions with you and learn about yours. 💕
I’m a lifestyle-kinkster with way too many kinks! :) (impact play, electric play, rope bondage, orgasm control, mental control, as in hypnosis, to name a few.)
I’m looking to meet other kinky folks, to chat kink, go to events with, engage in some play, and see where it goes. EXPERIENCED Doms/Dommes ONLY.
I repeat, I’m looking for EXPERIENCED Doms/Dommes ONLY.
I love going on epic walks — asking me to go for a walk wins you more points than asking me out for drinks!
Tell me about your favorite video games. (Talk FromSoft to me, baby!)
Fully vaccinated and 5x boosted. Solo poly.
GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUNDS 💋
let’s share orgasms
I’ll be a good girl if you make me see that nut 🤤
YESSSS send me diccc pics daddy
Goddess first, Switch second. I live to serve, be served, please and be pleased, and I have come to share that gift with a select few who appreciate it. If being at all in service of the woman you're with offends you, that's okay, someone else is a better match.
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Simp for me, obsess over me, prioritize me and I shall please you beyond your wildest measure.
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Let's talk, establish a connection and take it from there. I enjoy one on one play as well as sex clubs, parties and exhibition. I'm interested in a sustainable, positive and healthy connection, not just checking things off my list below, or off yours (but we can and should do that too).
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Educated & intelligent, I can tolerate being uneducated, but cannot tolerate the unintelligent.
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My interests, comments and writings will tell you more for you lurkers out there.
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And if you want to hear from me, message me. A bunch of likes and crushes are cute, but if you're too scared to message me first you aren't ready to Dom me or be Dommed by Me.
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I host play parties in the DMV and Baltimore areas. Find me on *** and nearly every platform under this name.
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As a sub my top 5 kinks are:
Daddy Dom little girl
Princess by day, slut by night
Assisted Bulimia 😜 (throating until puking up meals)
CNC
Gangbangs
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Honorable mentions (what I truly can't live without, in no order)
Throat/skull fucking
Anal
Cock worship
Goddess worship / Praise
Free Use
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As a Domme I enjoy (but don't require of all subs)
Pegging
Bisexual threesomes
CNC
Service play
*** & ***
Impact
Free Use
Chastity
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Honorable mentions (can't live without)
Goddess worship
Pussy worship
Sensual touch
***d Orgasm
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100% Primal (Prey)
100% Switch
94% Experimentalist
94% Submissive
86% Rope bunny
84% Master/Mistress
81% Dominant
74% Owner
73% Degrader
71% Rigger
66% Voyeur
66% Slave
58% Non-monogamist
49% Brat tamer
49% Daddy/Mommy
43% Sadist
42% Primal (Hunter)
42% Brat
37% Exhibitionist
36% Degradee
35% Vanilla
29% Pet
24% Little
9% Masochist
3% Ageplayer
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
Hi there, I’m Sunflower. I am greener than a green bean when it comes to kink. I want to absorb as much as I can about this world. Eventually I’m seeking a strong dominant man I can trust wholeheartedly. Someone who will have patience and show me the ropes. I might have a little bit of a rebellious side... 🙃
Vanilla me:
love to cook, I am an Executive Pastry Chef.
* Road trips, I’ve been to all six states... The northeast is still on my list
* crochet, not very good at it, but i do make a mean blanket! 😆
* Bowling, I am on a bowling league, and I do look like I’ve probably Bowl a 300 with all the balls and gear I have. However, I’m shooting about a 120 right now. I’m just there for fun and to meet new people.
* of course I love movies and music/concerts. But then again, who doesn’t
Kinky me:
You can find me on the 😈 life site under same name to view all of my likes and curiosities.
I have my ideas of what I might like to try, my previous exes have been whiter and more vanilla than milk! 😆 I have been “shamed” for wanting to try basic kinky things in the bedroom. I have worked up the courage to start to explore this world
My first experience in the kink world, would probably be when I was younger and watched a movie. I definitely should not have been watching... I went to Catholic school for nine years, so when on HBO a movie came on “exit to Eden“ I thought it was a story about the garden. Boy was I wrong however I did still watch it, and it definitely piqued my interest. I would love to be able to find that movie on DVD. What was your first introduction into this world?
** if you are just going to blindly friend or follow me... Then it will be denied. I want to actually have a conversation with somebody before just being another profile added. We are all adults, send a message and let’s have a conversation of some form. And Please the love of God, more than just “hey”
No men, please, I'm gay openly. I repeat, not looking for a man or couples respectfully! I'm just looking to meet some nice ladies that 420 friendly and kinky, so tou understand my language. I don't drink or drive🤗.
Dont message me if you are thousands of miles away i dont want online.
Im open to meetups, FWB, casual dating.
if you arent able to host dont message. i cant host at the moment.
I like risky/public stuff; woods, car, park at night.
i’m a 4’10 pink princess 🎀
I want a daddy 🥺 so here’s my requirements
have to spoil me doesn’t have to be crazy but I’m a spoiled princess
-required to plan dates and bring flowers
-can’t be controlling or harm me .
- must be nice to me and honest
- required to have impeccable hygiene sexual and physical
- be emotionally stable and respectful
📍DC (I travel for work so if I’m far away, that’s why)
Experienced on both sides of the slash. Currently a slave only owned by my Master but always looking for my own little submissive (who would only be owned by me). If you’re a lost little girl looking for a Mommy, send me a message. Not currently looking for male subs (sorry, boys).
I do have a kink for older men, preferably well endowed, so I am in the market for NSA arrangements with 55+ guys.
Lesbian girl looking to eat pussy, scissor, and just do girly things with a fellow pussylover😋💕 I'm very, very kinky and love to dirty talk!! I'm a switch and love degrading talk, bondage, edging, and Mommy Dom, among other things! Let's play😋 My only limits are ***/vomit. NO men - you'll be blocked 😔
sub looking dominant dadddy. no games no bullshit no pen pals straight up no chaser and you're not serious and interested my interest matched with yours non-negotiable
I am a fun, chill type woman who love to have fun 😜😈 I'm just finding out how much I actually love sex and now I'm just open to having fun I love to be domineering but I also LOVE BEING DOMINATED😜😈 I don't do video chats but I'm down for getting to know someone having fun sending nudes and flirting 😜 looking for a side boyfriend if it gets to that but if not that's cool too I am married and yes he knows I'm on here but he doesn't know who I talk to or what I talk about so I'm definitely on the low here 👌🏾😜😈🤫
Mostly submissive, very occasionally bossy ;)
Into older men, MFM and fantasties about a gangbang.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Affectionate domination, praise/being called a good girl, breeding, playing in public.
And I lovvve comments on my pictures ☺️
***gram: kemi__morii
➡️ https://lnk.bio/***
Very Dominant, Love to be in “Control” .. Looking for someone who, Can be very “Submissive” & Loves being Degraded & Beatings. Very Into “Candle” Wax hot …
You must Love being Tied Up as Well, another Fetish” of Mine,
much more..
I do “Travel” & Can Travel… (Mobile)
Xoxoxo 💋
i’m a cute spoiled brat ♡ i like using men as my little piggy banks and going shopping 🍬i love pink bows, pretty clothes, expensive bags, cute shoes, and getting everything my little heart desires because why would i settle for less when i deserve the whole pink princess treatment? 🍭🛍️
Hellooo 👋
I’m looking for a switch, mostly. I’m not trying to Dom all the time, although I do lean that way
I’m quite funny. Albeit a little sarcastic, but I’m pretty so let it slide. If you make me laugh, that’s an immediate +10.
I physically CANNOT do random hookups. I will simply combust. It doesn’t have to be a full-blown relationship, but I do need to actually get to know you first. Ideally, that eventually leads to something IRL.
SFW: I read a lot (obviously, how every young lady discovers she’s kinky), museums, pottery, anime, ***s of all kinds, and generally anything that gives me an excuse to be curious about something.
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This is all very spur of the moment, and likely not entirely healthy on my part to be upfront, but here I am. I can't say I have a specific aim other than pushing myself out of my comfort zone.
I've just started here and I'm swamped with messages so I'm probably going to take a while to get back to anyone, please don't take delays personally. There is still the part of me that hopes the site just nukes my profile so that I can go back to normality.
I'm trying to be confrontational with myself and aspects of my personality that I should maybe explore. I don't believe kink should always be emotionally pretty, and I guess this is me putting that theory to the test.
The vast majority of my history has been on the Domme side, but I guess I'm trying to rule that out a bit for a while. I guess stubborn pride makes much of it difficult to put into coherent words, even in my own head. Yay.
I've put "degradee" as my role specifically because it is difficult to stomach or acknowledge. I'm seemingly a bit more kink-based than sex-based compared to some of you, though I get that the lines naturally blur.
And yes, I know I say "I guess" a lot.
I'm a dominant woman who takes pride in training loyal subs not just in obedience, but in understanding what it truly means to serve, to please, and to live the alternative BDSM lifestyle with intention and respect. I enjoy pegging, pussy worshipping, foot worshipping, and so much more.
Other kinks I love exploring with my subs include orgasm control, chastity play, sensual teasing and denial, body worship beyond just feet, service submission domestic and personal, leather and latex worship, light impact play, blindfolded sensory play, collar and leash training, verbal *** in a caring framework, and devotion rituals that remind you who's in charge.
These are just a few of the many ways I enjoy shaping a loyal sub. And with you, l'd want to explore gently at first, then deeper as trust grows. If that sounds like something your soul is yearning for, please chat back. Once we connect, I'll share my photos with you.
Here for a good time, not a long time! 🥵💦 Pull my hair, spank my phat ass and suck/lick on my big rack, *** me lightly, eat my phat ass and watch my small pretty pink pussy cream or squirt. The choice is yours!
NOT INTERESTED IN BOYS IN THEIR 20S OR 30S! PLEASE SAVE YOURSELF THE TIME AND DON'T BOTHER MESSAGING ME!
I'm exploring and learning at the moment to possibly bring fantasy into reality. I'm submissive by nature and love a dominant alpha male personality.
I'm looking for someone that I'm not sure may even exist. I'm an ambitious woman who is sure of what I want out of life. I'm looking for a challenger. someone who is looking at more than what's on the surface. an intelligent, confident, and sure male that is looking for something he can only feel in his gut. I'm not perfect. I'm a creative soul with imperfections meant only for the right one and I'm honest. I'm not for everyone.
GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUNDS 💋
let’s share orgasms
I’ll be a good girl if you make me see that nut 🤤
YESSSS send me diccc pics daddy
i’m a cute spoiled brat ♡ i like using men as my little piggy banks and going shopping 🍬i love pink bows, pretty clothes, expensive bags, cute shoes, and getting everything my little heart desires because why would i settle for less when i deserve the whole pink princess treatment? 🍭🛍️
Well well well….look at what I’ve found. Wonder what I will discover down this rabbit hole…
💕A sweetheart who knows what she wants💕
💋Good boys be aware: If you are just looking for a long distance connection- the name of the game is different. I don’t do pen pals for free.
I love hard and fast and *** I'm down for anything and I mean ANYTHING I'm willing to do WHATEVER to please you just tell me. just wanna have fun and play. I love to do whatever it takes to make you feel good I love men and woman I cant wait to get to know new people 😈💋
hi, I’m Angie. 24 and new to the lifestyle. I’m definitely a brat(what can I say I like being spanked) and a bit of a slave(something about being owned fills exhilarating) I’m looking for new friends and a Dom who I can give full control to preferably a ltr/ dynamic. would love to be collared eventually. I love to cook and bake(be my test subject😂) sleep, play video games, and read. more of an introvert, but definitely willing to meet new people.
Hi there, I’m Sunflower. I am greener than a green bean when it comes to kink. I want to absorb as much as I can about this world. Eventually I’m seeking a strong dominant man I can trust wholeheartedly. Someone who will have patience and show me the ropes. I might have a little bit of a rebellious side... 🙃
Vanilla me:
love to cook, I am an Executive Pastry Chef.
* Road trips, I’ve been to all six states... The northeast is still on my list
* crochet, not very good at it, but i do make a mean blanket! 😆
* Bowling, I am on a bowling league, and I do look like I’ve probably Bowl a 300 with all the balls and gear I have. However, I’m shooting about a 120 right now. I’m just there for fun and to meet new people.
* of course I love movies and music/concerts. But then again, who doesn’t
Kinky me:
You can find me on the 😈 life site under same name to view all of my likes and curiosities.
I have my ideas of what I might like to try, my previous exes have been whiter and more vanilla than milk! 😆 I have been “shamed” for wanting to try basic kinky things in the bedroom. I have worked up the courage to start to explore this world
My first experience in the kink world, would probably be when I was younger and watched a movie. I definitely should not have been watching... I went to Catholic school for nine years, so when on HBO a movie came on “exit to Eden“ I thought it was a story about the garden. Boy was I wrong however I did still watch it, and it definitely piqued my interest. I would love to be able to find that movie on DVD. What was your first introduction into this world?
** if you are just going to blindly friend or follow me... Then it will be denied. I want to actually have a conversation with somebody before just being another profile added. We are all adults, send a message and let’s have a conversation of some form. And Please the love of God, more than just “hey”
I’m mainly lowkey and prefer slower connections, because comfortability is key. I’m open & honest.
I’m bi & do prefer women over men.
I am looking for a good loving and caring man who will treat me with love and care and will always be there for me thing good and bad times and will always be honest with me and no t shy to tell me things about him and am not looking for seconds love but love which last forever more till death do us all apart.
Hellooo 👋
I’m looking for a switch, mostly. I’m not trying to Dom all the time, although I do lean that way
I’m quite funny. Albeit a little sarcastic, but I’m pretty so let it slide. If you make me laugh, that’s an immediate +10.
I physically CANNOT do random hookups. I will simply combust. It doesn’t have to be a full-blown relationship, but I do need to actually get to know you first. Ideally, that eventually leads to something IRL.
SFW: I read a lot (obviously, how every young lady discovers she’s kinky), museums, pottery, anime, ***s of all kinds, and generally anything that gives me an excuse to be curious about something.
We’re a Scorpio ♏️ + Cancer ♋️ couple looking for a woman who can genuinely match our energy. We’re big on loyalty, affection, good conversations, laughter, quality time, and undeniable chemistry.
We’re both drinking and 4/20 friendly 🌿🥂, open-minded, adventurous, and definitely on the freakier side 😏 so sexual chemistry matters to us just as much as emotional connection.
We’d love to find someone we can genuinely vibe with, whether it starts as friendship, dating, fun, or naturally grows into something deeper. No pressure and no forcing anything, just good energy, honesty, communication, attraction, and seeing where things go.
DMV/Maryland preferred. Come with good vibes, an open mind, and be ready to have some fun with a Scorpio + Cancer who both know how to keep things interesting. 💋🖤
Newbie. Maybe I’ve watched 50 shades of Gray and got lost. I’m intrigued by BDSM. I may have been introduced to it via a commercial film, but it seems to have triggered a desire for a deep connection that has often been missing from my previous experiences. I’m here to explore that.
…but I have NO idea what I’m doing atm, so I’ll remain a curious shadow for now—until I feel it’s safe to come out.
looking for someone fun, someone who likes to spoil ands knows when to shut up and listen or just please me. I can be submissive, only if you treat me right
offer to pay for my meal or nails, your choice
Hello and welcome to my profile!
A bit about me...
NB Fem (She/They)
Currently in a committed relationship and am here with the consent of my partner, to embrace my more lifestyle oriented side and approach this community with respect and safety.
When not kinky I enjoy...
Arts and crafts
-Crocheting
-***ting
Gaming
-TTRPG
-Video Games (PC, Switch)
-Board Games
Anime and Cartoons
Music
-I really enjoy EDM and would like to learn more about the rave scene as well
What I'm looking for in terms of Community...
I am open to finding a community of people with similar vanilla interests. I am open to making friends and potentially finding a mentor as well.
What I'm looking for in terms of Kink Exploration...
Pet Play
Cage and Confinement
D/s
-To name a few. I'm open to discussing this deeper during a conversation if interested
PS:
My birthday is coming up soon, would love to organize a birthday scene!
Lesbian girl looking to eat pussy, scissor, and just do girly things with a fellow pussylover😋💕 I'm very, very kinky and love to dirty talk!! I'm a switch and love degrading talk, bondage, edging, and Mommy Dom, among other things! Let's play😋 My only limits are ***/vomit. NO men - you'll be blocked 😔
sub looking dominant dadddy. no games no bullshit no pen pals straight up no chaser and you're not serious and interested my interest matched with yours non-negotiable
Looking for a loving older dom. mommy with soft boob 🙂 or a woman my age fem looking or like fem/mas. (Any race)
Men I’m looking for a kind bi or pan twinky sub. man with tattoos dark hair long or wavy that will let me peg them (Hispanic, Asian or Caucasian)
I don’t mind texting and you can ask me questions to help you get off with limits we will LARPING nothing.
Or we can become friends and just talk
Hey there handsome,
I am a loving Goddess, determined to find a loyal worshipper, ready to submit to my every will. I want you to bend for me. I want you to live in between pleasure and *** and wonder if this is a fantasy or real life.
now that you have found a goddess in real life, how would you please me? How would you show you love and admiration for a BBW like me?
If I’m satisfied, I can take you to the moon and back. A night with me is what dreams are made of.
Now that we are a bit more acquainted, put your big boy panties on and tell me exactly what I want to hear. I’ll be waiting 💋
PS: sugar daddies and pay pigs are welcome! my time, my pics/vids are not free💋
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