BDSM Winter Haven

56 active kinksters in Winter Haven

I have a bet going with my social media followers. I maintain that kinky guys are the absolute worst, the bottom of the barrel, when it comes to online dating; that they don't read the profiles, they can't follow simple instructions, they can't help themselves and absolutely HAVE to comment even when not invited, and they violate boundaries left and right by not only refusing to treat people as they ask to be treated, but by doing exactly the things people say that they don't want to have done.

All of which, of course, is the exact opposite of what BDSM stands for. Which means that, if I am correct, most kinky men should not be trusted to be play partners.

I bet my social media followers that 90% or more of the messages I get here will be from men who claim to want some kind of BDSM in their relationships but can't or won't do even the bare minimum required for a BDSM relationship - listen to the prospective partner and respect boundaries - and who will come along and kinksplain #NotAllKinksters to me.

You can help me win this bet by being one of those assholes and contact me without reading the profile or by doing the opposite of what I talk about in my profile or by explaining to me in great detail how Not All Kinksters are like this, or you can prove me wrong by either a) not contacting me at all if you can't or won't do it appropriately or b) being a decent human being when you send your first message.

So, which will it be?

Easiest fucking bet ever. All it requires is anyone not shutting the fuck up and moving along.

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I'm going to make a youtube video entitled

"Shit ALL men say"

and it will consist only of the phrase ""but not all men say that-!!"

And then I'll wait for men to stare at their keyboards in utter distress as they contemplate the paradox of their intense desire and desperation to inform me that not all men say that.

I will break them.

[image of PowerPuff Girls villains HIM and Mojo Jojo crying with pride and happiness saying]
-That's the evilist thing I can imagine.

I am not looking for a kink partner, I am looking for someone who is kinky for a special concept project and I will block anyone who does not read the profile and respond appropriately.

I need someone who is an experienced lead partner dancer - what style you currently dance doesn't matter, but a willingness to learn blues, bachata sensual, and Argentine Tango is required. I do need an experienced dancer, though, because we will be learning some things together and I am not able to teach dance, lead & follow, or connection from the beginning for this project. Also, some comfort with performance is necessary.

You should also be comfortable taking the "top" role in at least one of the following and willing to learn the rest: impact play, restraint, aggressive play, non-consent play, wrestling.

This partner must be willing to commit to attending a variety of workshops with me as a partner, including dance workshops whether either of us knows that style of dance or not, and kink workshops. The purpose is to build our rapport as project partners in addition to learning any new skills necessary (lots of dance classes require the participants to switch partners throughout the class, but I want a dedicated partner for these classes).

I am not looking for a personal dom, but I will accept collaboration with the right partner. We also do not need to be romantic, sexual, or play partners, just comfortable enough to demo / perform together the project I have in mind. I am open to another type of relationship forming if it fits us, but that's a secondary option that I will consider after we have met and started building this project partnership, which is my primary goal.

If our chemistry and compatibility is good, I am also interested in building dance relationships in addition to this project, so an interest in any other style of dance is good for this too. I do lindy, blues, East Coast Swing, bachata, salsa, foxtrot, waltz, hustle, and I have at least tried almost all other partner dance styles out there.

I would like to meet with people and dance with them to see if we have any floor chemistry. If we do, then I will discuss the details of the project.

If you are interested in a project involving dance and kink, you are a dance lead, and you are a kinky top/switch, please contact me either here, on any social media platform where you see my name (I go by Joreth or Joreth Innkeeper everywhere), or hit me up in person if you see me at an event.

If you are just a dancer interested in meeting other dancers for social dancing, also feel free to contact me.