I am looking for a Dom for an actual D/s dynamic. I require all the letters to be happy. BD, Ds, and SM. I don't have any kids and can't have any, but it's ok if you do ❤️ ~*~ Consent is important and if you fantasy push, I will block you expeditiously ❤️ first message I read on here is "can I cum between your toes, respectfully" and that is a wild opener. This profile is so very long, so pick *something*, talk to me like we are both humans, and start a real conversation. I swear the bar is in hell. ~*~ Who I am: A lot of work went into who I am and I can honestly say that I love who I am. I tend to always find myself in leadership positions outside of romantic relationships/BDSM dynamics. Usually because I'm the first one who steps up to try to facilitate order from chaos or fix problems or stand up for people who need an advocate. I genuinely believe that diverse teams are the best teams. We should all be meeting others who come from different backgrounds/who do not look like us with curiosity and appreciation for the exposure to new cultures and ways of thinking. I love to learn, read, garden (actual gardening, not 420😂), and generally find joy where I can. I also enjoy games [board, card, or video (cozy or horror)], manga/anime (mostly slice of life), stand-up comedy, drag brunch 💅🏼, and cuddling while watching movies. ~*~ What excites me: power exchange, being bound and blindfolded, receiving ***, wearing bodysuits and corsets, floating in subspace, ethical bratting/the consequences of my own actions. The very best though is that feeling when you lock eyes and the dynamic just clicks into place effortlessly. ~*~ What I'm here to explore: I love trying new things, but I'm looking for my person (or people if a closed couple or polycule, but I am immunocompromised so it must be closed). I want a committed relationship with someone who genuinely cares about me as a person and allows me to also care about them. I'm not just looking for kinky sex (though I thoroughly enjoy it). I want the intimacy of a D/s relationship that is unique to that dynamic. I want to invest in and build trust with someone who wants to do the same with me. I want to get to know you and make sure your needs are also being met. Also, I would really like to try out being a rope bunny 🪢 ~*~ Disclaimer: My body is difficult to live in. I have chronic *** and fatigue, Temu connective tissue (adding "blue" to the traffic light system for "I'm green, but my shoulder/hip/floating rib is red" and repositioning), and they haven't quite figured out how to manage me yet medically. So while I absolutely love adrenaline and going on adventures, I need them to be accessible. I *can* walk and move around the house without assistance, but I have a handicap parking placard for high ***/fatigue days and mobility aids for longer distance walking. My hiking and solo kayaking days are sadly over, but I can still jump out of airplanes, hang glide, and be a happy backpack (helmet required though because with my shitty luck I wouldn't die in a crash, but just get horribly mangled and I'd like to at least still be able to read and communicate 😂). I'm in the process of doing medical retirement from my high power career before I transition to a job that works better with my mind and body's needs. I am also going through a divorce 🎉 while living in the same house as my wife (we were always platonic), so I am searching for a new place to live and am unable to host. I'm very much hoping to have it finalized and be in my own place by December. ~*~ "So you're going through 4+ of the most stressful situations a human can go through all at the same time?" Yes. Yes I am and thank fuck for dogs and having a great sense of humor because what the actual fuck. ~*~ It didn't give me the zodiac sign option, but I know enough about zodiac signs to know I am an on the Aries side of the Aries-Taurus cusp. No, I don't know what that says about me, but there it is if it is important to you.

let’s be friends who pretend we’re not catching feelings very outgoing and social always up for new experiences looking for dominant women with good energy 4/20 friendly

I am looking for a Dom for an actual D/s dynamic. I require all the letters to be happy. BD, Ds, and SM. I don't have any kids and can't have any, but it's ok if you do ❤️ ~*~ Consent is important and if you fantasy push, I will block you expeditiously ❤️ first message I read on here is "can I cum between your toes, respectfully" and that is a wild opener. This profile is so very long, so pick *something*, talk to me like we are both humans, and start a real conversation. I swear the bar is in hell. ~*~ Who I am: A lot of work went into who I am and I can honestly say that I love who I am. I tend to always find myself in leadership positions outside of romantic relationships/BDSM dynamics. Usually because I'm the first one who steps up to try to facilitate order from chaos or fix problems or stand up for people who need an advocate. I genuinely believe that diverse teams are the best teams. We should all be meeting others who come from different backgrounds/who do not look like us with curiosity and appreciation for the exposure to new cultures and ways of thinking. I love to learn, read, garden (actual gardening, not 420😂), and generally find joy where I can. I also enjoy games [board, card, or video (cozy or horror)], manga/anime (mostly slice of life), stand-up comedy, drag brunch 💅🏼, and cuddling while watching movies. ~*~ What excites me: power exchange, being bound and blindfolded, receiving ***, wearing bodysuits and corsets, floating in subspace, ethical bratting/the consequences of my own actions. The very best though is that feeling when you lock eyes and the dynamic just clicks into place effortlessly. ~*~ What I'm here to explore: I love trying new things, but I'm looking for my person (or people if a closed couple or polycule, but I am immunocompromised so it must be closed). I want a committed relationship with someone who genuinely cares about me as a person and allows me to also care about them. I'm not just looking for kinky sex (though I thoroughly enjoy it). I want the intimacy of a D/s relationship that is unique to that dynamic. I want to invest in and build trust with someone who wants to do the same with me. I want to get to know you and make sure your needs are also being met. Also, I would really like to try out being a rope bunny 🪢 ~*~ Disclaimer: My body is difficult to live in. I have chronic *** and fatigue, Temu connective tissue (adding "blue" to the traffic light system for "I'm green, but my shoulder/hip/floating rib is red" and repositioning), and they haven't quite figured out how to manage me yet medically. So while I absolutely love adrenaline and going on adventures, I need them to be accessible. I *can* walk and move around the house without assistance, but I have a handicap parking placard for high ***/fatigue days and mobility aids for longer distance walking. My hiking and solo kayaking days are sadly over, but I can still jump out of airplanes, hang glide, and be a happy backpack (helmet required though because with my shitty luck I wouldn't die in a crash, but just get horribly mangled and I'd like to at least still be able to read and communicate 😂). I'm in the process of doing medical retirement from my high power career before I transition to a job that works better with my mind and body's needs. I am also going through a divorce 🎉 while living in the same house as my wife (we were always platonic), so I am searching for a new place to live and am unable to host. I'm very much hoping to have it finalized and be in my own place by December. ~*~ "So you're going through 4+ of the most stressful situations a human can go through all at the same time?" Yes. Yes I am and thank fuck for dogs and having a great sense of humor because what the actual fuck. ~*~ It didn't give me the zodiac sign option, but I know enough about zodiac signs to know I am an on the Aries side of the Aries-Taurus cusp. No, I don't know what that says about me, but there it is if it is important to you.

let’s be friends who pretend we’re not catching feelings very outgoing and social always up for new experiences looking for dominant women with good energy 4/20 friendly