BDSM Dating in Joliet
BDSM dating on Fetish.com
Kinky Ads in Joliet
Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this somewhat long post. I am attempting to establish minimum compatibility prior to spending an extensive amount of time chatting. your honesty with yourself, who you are, and what you want is paramount.
My ultimate goal is to find a partner in life with whom I can be Myself without ***. My descriptions and requirements below are in many cases goals, though they need to be acceptable to you as anything said or written is considered an acknowledgement and soft-commitment; honesty and transparency are important to Me.
Obviously, there will be discussions surrounding basic life goals and desires as well as the items below, so don't get scared away thinking you and your feelings are not being considered. Part of being a Daddy is concern for My girl and her well being.
you will use My use of capitalization in written communications.
The lists below are in no particular order, hence bullets, not numbers, mostly just a stream of consciousness.
I very much look forward to starting a dialogue with you, so reach out soon.
About Me
I am an Owner/Daddy who has had one submissive 30 years ago and the same one again recently for a total of about 2 years. That relationship is completely over now.
The hiatus between was when I pushed the kinkier side of Me down and lived a vanilla life. I am at the point I no longer want to ignore my kinks and fetishes and I would like to have another sub/slave with a cervix to join Me.
• I have a low body count and prefer you to have the same, if possible, though this is not a hard requirement. Corrupting you is one of my fetishes.
• I want to create a relationship of trust and safety where we both can express our desires without judgement.
• Assuming compatibility, marriage is possible/probable though regardless you will be collared.
• I have an extensive list of kinks and fetishes, some of which may be considered extreme.
• I have sadistic tendencies.
• I am well educated.
• I have a felony conviction for negligent homicide as part of a traffic collision. No *** or alcohol were involved.
• I am white.
• I have a penis about 80% of average.
• I am currently overweight (200 lb), though I am working to improve Myself. My goal is 150 to 160 lb.
• My known limits are no *** or *** play.
About you
• you may have *** from previous relationship(s).
• you are open to being pregnant (once again) as I would like to have a child. This is not a hard requirement as long as you are accept another carrying the child.
• your commitment to me will be unshakeable regardless of our activities.
• you will put Me before yourself.
• you will never lie or deceive Me in any way as this would erode and/or threaten the safe environment.
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have my kinks and fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• you understand that I will most likely be open to or already have any fetish or kink you desire.
• your kinks/fetishes may concern or scare you because you *** the repercussions (not a requirement) as getting you to do those things is part of my desire. The safe environment I am seeking to build should help assuage many of your concerns.
o you will perform My fetishes and kinks even when they are not fully your own.
o you will be having sex with women. Whether you enjoy it to start is not relevant, though you will be expected to obey and participate enthusiastically.
• you will be expected to address Me as Sir at most times. Other pet names are acceptable as long as they are respectful.
• you will be collared once compatibility and long-term commitment has been established.
• you have masochistic tendencies.
• you swallow.
• you may be given an SLRN (this can be discussed).
• you will keep a tidy house and provide healthy meals (similar to TradWife).
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• Preferably, you are similar to Me in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
BDSM Play Partner · 25 - 50 years · 5 km
No drama. Get our needs, get kinky get on with life.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 65 km
Need someone to make me feel good. Bend me over your lap and spank me. Want a little car play wanna ride you while u smack this ass. Love kissing while riding. I’ve been a bad girl 😫
NSA · 18 - 66 years · 370 km
I would love to meet a short and sweet girl who’s very obedient. I love all races but specifically attracted to Latinas and Asian women. Let’s mix cultures and have fun doing it 😜😁😈 open to different experiences.
Munch Buddy · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Looking for partners that in joy being corrected in creative ways.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 120 km
Hi looking for new friend
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 215 km
Would love to be bent over something or someone’s lap and pants pulled down rough and spanked. would love marks on my body and dominated so bad until i beg for you to stop, love being fing^red. Would love if you grab a friend and both of you tear me up
Munch Buddy · 18 - 52 years · 80 km
Looking for an fuck fest tonight 779 378 0052 hit us couple
Kinky Date · 100 km
Looking for a Black man that commands his space and likes Black women. Not into ***.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Must have previous experience with impact and/or rope.
Must be willing and able to provide three references OR have an in depth history (including photos) on fetlife where I can see your previous experience
Prefer to meet someone at a dungeon our first few times playing to establish trust and comfort before opening the door to private play
I practice RACK and the stoplight system. Consent is queen 🙏🏻
Must be located in Chicago or willing to travel here.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I rly want as many ppl as possible to give me birthday spankings with implements of my choosing 🥹 while I play with my pussy and make myself cum!!!!! Then mandatory cuddles after. Hmu
Kinky Date · 28 - 80 years · 25 km
Women who want control men with fantasy and kinks couple to use me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 35 years · 25 km
I need attention. This is a LIFE or DEATH situation 🙏🏻 please dont let me die 😔
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
im 18M Hyde Park Chicago. I love pleasuring women use me however u want
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Someone who’s looking to have fun …. No strings attached
NSA · 24 - 45 years · 160 km
Leaves falling from the trees 🌳
Cuddle weather for cold nights
New to the BDSM
Looking for those people 👀 who want to try also
NSA · 18 - 65 years · 100 km

I’m here looking for open-minded woman that love to have fun go out on date you know have a very kinky Side
NSA · 35 - 55 years · 150 km
Search kinksters for BDSM dating in Joliet
BDSM dating in Joliet
Discover thousands of fetishists looking for BDSM dating in Joliet. Find like-minded kinksters or place your own kinky personal ad! Interested in finding munches or fetish clubs near you? Sign up for free and get an overview of all BDSM community events on Fetish.com.
Discover thousands of fetishists looking for BDSM dating in Joliet. Find like-minded kinksters or place your own kinky personal ad! Interested in finding munches or fetish clubs near you? Sign up for free and get an overview of all BDSM community events on Fetish.com.