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I believe, that man and woman in couple should be a little similar one to another. I am not about appearance of course and even not about interests and hobbies, but about life position and rhythm. The main is not who you are or who I am but how this will work in combination. I think, that kindness and openness is important, loyalty and understanding.I thrive on variety, excitement and adventure.I also like to experience new cultures, try new foods and take travel excursions.I think relationships are built on affection, trust and communication, so that's why these qualities are a priority to me.
Experienced, respectful, and drama-free. I appreciate clear communication, mutual respect, and enthusiastic consent. Looking to meet like-minded people who enjoy exploring their interests while keeping things honest, safe, and enjoyable. Chemistry matters as much as compatibility.
I don't know what I'm looking for anymore. think we'll vibe? message and we will find out. into anyone and almost all kinks. I'm a switch but tend to lean domme.
I'm super creative and love making things and building things. I love all ***s but especially cats.
I do wanna keep everything online. I don't meet up in person.
Unapologetic, commanding, and fiercely elegant, I am the architect of your submission. I don’t seek control, I claim it. Guided by psychological depth and impeccable poise, I craft bespoke domains where boundaries are respected, but limits are pushed. Whether you require cold, corporate discipline, exquisite psychological ***, or the heavy stillness of absolute obedience, your compliance is my canvas. Step into my orbit only if you are ready to surrender the burden of control. Lesser minds play at dominance, I embody it. Approach with absolute transparency, unwavering respect, and a willingness to be entirely undone. Your redefinition begins now.
I'm bi and a switch😋( I'm mostly a subby😉) I'm most defently a book girlly📚📚 (like a lady I read my smut) I me love a good old fashion hand necklace anytime the're the best accessory 🤭 I don't mind playing or more 😋 send a message and I might just reply but be RESPECTFUL about it 😉
ps I most defently have a weakness for voice notes 🥴
and I do smoke(and I get quite bratty and sassy when I do😝😉)
Lead me with intention, offer guidance without judgment, know when to be firm, when to be gentle and when to offer reassurance.
Praise means a lot to me. I want to feel seen, valued, encouraged and appreciated. Very drawn to confidence, authority, patience & genuine affection 💕
I'm a very quiet but assertive person,I like what I like and don't like to be challenged about it.Im looking for someone who will wow me with their tongue skills!
Ps don't pm me about "us" and you're not in chicago
Scorpio Domme. Into VH 👄 and BDSM 🔗 instruction. Want to eventually participate in some local events. I've recently been indulging in the instruction of male subs who have certain unconventional sexual proclivities *virtually. It's been very exhilarating.
She/Her/Hers
fun 💟💜
I'm me nice to meet you
my limits are yuck things
🤮 💩 🩸 etc also I don't peg or do anything to men's butts
have a good day
im so dominant in the rest of the world id like to give up the reigns for once. if ur not local, please drive. very 420 friendly, but bonus points for 710 😉
New here. Curious. Still figuring out what I like. Communication and consent are my biggest turn-ons. Ask me anything.
swf 52 yr old bbw and 💯 spankee. I have also been described as a brat. smart sassy sexy.
looking for a disciplinarian for regular spankings. ultimate goal is to find someone that loves spanking me as much I love being spanked.
kink is my love language and only interested in in person play. Not interested in pic exchange or cyber sex. no, I won't change my mind.
I am interested in spicy connections and in real life gentleman doms.
I will never play with Christian nationalists, MAGA, or ICE supporters. don't bother you will be blocked. NO misogynists, NO narcissists, NO homophobes or transphobes, NO racists or ignorant bigots. stupidity and ignorance is not a valid excuse. Get! Go! Shoo!
not much of a talker so I don't talk and or text much but I will post and if something catch me eye then I might text back. I'm easy going, fun, gamer, I'm also very competitive, flute player and I always say never question a flute player, I'm mentally broken, I've been ***d mentally and physically, I honestly don't know what my kinks are cause I don't tell know what kinks are honestly so people will have to teach me and I'm a fast learner. I'm a loveable and kind person and I put anyone before I take care of myself
I am a woman who sparkles with a variety of interests and hobbies. I am dreamy and romantic, with a soul that craves beauty in every aspect of life. My heart is open to adventure, love and sincere passion. My spirit knows no bounds when it comes to sports and an active lifestyle. From yoga classes and swimming to exciting mountain hikes, I find joy and harmony in movement and communication with nature. Traveling expands my horizons, allowing me to absorb the cultures of the world, their culinary delicacies, and discover new places that enrich my soul. Learning languages for me is a bridge to the global community, an opportunity to communicate and interact with people from different parts of the world. On this dating site, I am looking for a partner who can share my hobbies, understand my dreams and create a life full of love, mutual understanding and harmony with me. A man who values a life full of passion,
What I'm seeking:
Quality over quantity
Those who are single or in open or poly relationships - must be able to be seen in public with me.
A "-ship" (friend-, relation-, situation-, etc) based on honesty, trust, respect, mutual attraction, and a good connection.
A true Dom - my submission is earned by someone who makes me feel safe, a strong, caring, intelligent, and true leader who can recognize that I'm a fairly strong and independent woman who wants to submit to the right person.
Someone who can stimulate my mind.
Someone with a sense of humor and who enjoys laughing and having fun.
Someone close enough in distance so we can see each other in person sometimes. I'm willing to travel some but expect that you would be too.
If you're into sports, that's a bonus.
About me:
I'm married, but we're open, and we both date and only play with others.
I enjoy sports (Chicago teams and international competitions such as the Olympics and World Cup).
I enjoy crafting, reading, movies, socializing, live music and theater, lots of things.
I crave positive attention and have a praise kink - open to *** once I'm comfortable enough with someone.
Of course, I enjoy sex, but, let's be honest, that's not terribly hard to get, so I'm not looking for ons or repeat nsa encounters
TMI maybe - I've had somewhat extensive surgeries on my upper body, so do expect scars, but don't expect nipples.
I'm not a "mommy" or even much of a switch.
I'm not a masochist, slave, or pet. At least, I haven't been yet.
I'm open to different levels of ENM, or possibly monogamy, but communication and agreement with my partner(s) will determine what works for us.
Interested or have questions? Feel free to message.
I’m happily owned by my Master. 🥰
happy with my FWB 😘
NOT INTERESTED IN ANY MAN!!!
Maybe interested in a fem, but my current relationships have my full focus.
🚫Republicans/Bigots/Facists/Smokers need not apply.
(sorry smokers it's the smell)🚭
💖If you’re INTERESTED in me MESSAGE or CRUSH me to get my attention. I can’t see likes anymore.
Getting amicably divorced and should be legally single before Christmas.
I’M LOOKING FOR…
Friends and connections.
Safe, Sane, Consensual, communication, and transparency are required.
I’m open to monogamy, polyamory, or other relationship types if discussed.
PANSEXUAL
Everyone's gender identity/genitals is fine with me
SWITCH
I want to be in control sometimes and others I want to give up my control to you
Willing to try new things at least once and more if I like it.
hobbies: gaming, D&D, tabletop games, baking, crafts, watercolor ***ting, and writing.
no cybersex. no hookups. I can't drive so you have to come to me. over 35 only.
I'm a non-monogamous, submissive-leaning switch with a serious weakness for confident, experienced Doms or Pleasure Doms who know how to take control without needing to shout about it. I like a Dom who can get inside my head, make me squirm, make me laugh… and occasionally make me forget what the fuck I was saying.
I LOVE being spanked. I love impact play, anticipation, teasing, the psychological side of submission, and that delicious little space where trust, control, and pleasure all collide. I'm not looking for someone who just wants to slap a label on themselves and call it dominance. I want presence. Confidence. Patience. Someone who understands that good dominance is as much about knowing when to push as it is knowing when to hold me afterward.
I'm kinky as hell, curious as hell, and absolutely not interested in pretending otherwise.
At home, I'm with Wolf, my wonderful submissive. He's my person and the man who knows the woman underneath all the chaos. Our dynamic is ours, and I'm not looking to replace him.
What I am looking for is a pleasure-focused Dom who understands that I'm submissive-leaning, but very much still a switch. Someone who enjoys exploring power exchange with a woman who has a personality roughly equivalent to a lit match in a fireworks factory.
I want chemistry.
I want banter.
I want tension.
I want someone who can make me feel safe enough to surrender control while still treating me like an intelligent, opinionated, occasionally feral human being.
If you're looking for a quiet little submissive who waits patiently in the corner, sweetheart… you have absolutely wandered into the wrong profile.
If your penis is your entire personality ... I'm not your girl.
But ... If you're a confident Dominant who enjoys a woman with a wicked mouth, a mischievous streak, a love of impact play, and enough personality to keep you on your toes…
Well.
Come say hello.
Hi there. I'm Mandi. I am 35, tall (6'3") and curvy. I am looking for no strings, discreet fun with dominant men (21-45) in the Roscoe, IL area. I am strictly Submissive. Message me if you'd like to know more. **NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE PLAY**
Always under construction 🏗 🚧
parent first and foremost.
little to middle.
loves: power exchange, stuffies, rope and bondage, rough play, loving and possessive ***, sensual/soft impact, true crime/supernatural, Disney, good food and 420.
looking for like minded friends and lovers.
I'm in an open marriage, I'm looking to have fun , explore new things, and have sex isn't this what it's all about?
Experienced lifestyle Femdom and sensual sadist devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. Exclusively interested in D/s power exchange dynamics and FLRs with submissives in the Chicago and surrounding area who are serious about the lifestyle.
Beyond, I’m a post punk/new wave/metal/industrial/EBM enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films.
Needy, nerdy, and curvy
Just looking for fun, flirty banter. Not really looking for more.
Be respectful and message me like I’m an actual person. Jesus Christ
Not on as much. Getting to messages when I can. Not ignoring you 💗
Experienced, confident, and deeply passionate about BDSM. I value obedience, loyalty, and mutual respect. Skilled in roleplay, bondage, and worship, I thrive on power exchange, pushing boundaries, and creating intense, unforgettable experiences.
Hi I’m a pretty athletic girl exploring some new-ish desires. I stay on the dl so I don’t feel comfy posting pictures here but I’m not a scammer or anything just private. Looking for a muncher
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I believe, that man and woman in couple should be a little similar one to another. I am not about appearance of course and even not about interests and hobbies, but about life position and rhythm. The main is not who you are or who I am but how this will work in combination. I think, that kindness and openness is important, loyalty and understanding.I thrive on variety, excitement and adventure.I also like to experience new cultures, try new foods and take travel excursions.I think relationships are built on affection, trust and communication, so that's why these qualities are a priority to me.
Lead me with intention, offer guidance without judgment, know when to be firm, when to be gentle and when to offer reassurance.
Praise means a lot to me. I want to feel seen, valued, encouraged and appreciated. Very drawn to confidence, authority, patience & genuine affection 💕
I'm a very quiet but assertive person,I like what I like and don't like to be challenged about it.Im looking for someone who will wow me with their tongue skills!
Ps don't pm me about "us" and you're not in chicago
I have this image, I dress and look innocent, an at sometimes act innocent, but I’m really not innocent. I want to be able to not think or have to make any decisions
Hi I’m a pretty athletic girl exploring some new-ish desires. I stay on the dl so I don’t feel comfy posting pictures here but I’m not a scammer or anything just private. Looking for a muncher
I’m 5’2 brown skin thick and juicy looking for someone. I can have fun with try new things. We have great sex, someone who know how to treat a lady confident and open about what they want.
Here to learn, lurk, connect, and see what I like.
I am a woman who sparkles with a variety of interests and hobbies. I am dreamy and romantic, with a soul that craves beauty in every aspect of life. My heart is open to adventure, love and sincere passion. My spirit knows no bounds when it comes to sports and an active lifestyle. From yoga classes and swimming to exciting mountain hikes, I find joy and harmony in movement and communication with nature. Traveling expands my horizons, allowing me to absorb the cultures of the world, their culinary delicacies, and discover new places that enrich my soul. Learning languages for me is a bridge to the global community, an opportunity to communicate and interact with people from different parts of the world. On this dating site, I am looking for a partner who can share my hobbies, understand my dreams and create a life full of love, mutual understanding and harmony with me. A man who values a life full of passion,
I’m a naturally dominant woman who knows exactly what she wants. I don’t chase. I don’t beg. I don’t negotiate my standards. I command and the right submissive understands that my attention is earned.
I'm a cheerful and vibrant girl who loves life's little pleasures. I enjoy a good walk, sharing conversations with good company, and discovering new places. I'm looking for someone genuine to share moments with and create lasting memories.
✨️ Before you message, just know I only do virtual ✨️ Im Lilly, 27. I'm here to explore all the things, especially ***me ✨️ tributes get you the most attention 😘 looking for a foot slave to treat me as the goddess I am ✨️
I may seem simple and quiet, but I have a soft touch and a way of making people melt without even trying. If you’re curious how that feels, send me a message
Heyy, im Kai 21f! Im looking for irl bdsm friend, more F than M, im interested into try new things. Im new to all of bdsm!!
My ideal fantasy rn is, having whoever is my dom wear a scream mask or some scary or even a motorcycle helmet on and fuck me and control me while you wear it.
All of this is discreet so I am only sharing certain pics, and when and where im able to meet up and such.
😘😘
New here. Curious. Still figuring out what I like. Communication and consent are my biggest turn-ons. Ask me anything.
swf 52 yr old bbw and 💯 spankee. I have also been described as a brat. smart sassy sexy.
looking for a disciplinarian for regular spankings. ultimate goal is to find someone that loves spanking me as much I love being spanked.
kink is my love language and only interested in in person play. Not interested in pic exchange or cyber sex. no, I won't change my mind.
I am interested in spicy connections and in real life gentleman doms.
I will never play with Christian nationalists, MAGA, or ICE supporters. don't bother you will be blocked. NO misogynists, NO narcissists, NO homophobes or transphobes, NO racists or ignorant bigots. stupidity and ignorance is not a valid excuse. Get! Go! Shoo!
Very politically minded, very left, yes it matters to me
In a polyamorous relationship. Currently unable to meet up due to life circumstances.
If this is all ok, I’m happy to chat, but I might be slow to respond
I’m happily owned by my Master. 🥰
happy with my FWB 😘
NOT INTERESTED IN ANY MAN!!!
Maybe interested in a fem, but my current relationships have my full focus.
🚫Republicans/Bigots/Facists/Smokers need not apply.
(sorry smokers it's the smell)🚭
💖If you’re INTERESTED in me MESSAGE or CRUSH me to get my attention. I can’t see likes anymore.
Getting amicably divorced and should be legally single before Christmas.
I’M LOOKING FOR…
Friends and connections.
Safe, Sane, Consensual, communication, and transparency are required.
I’m open to monogamy, polyamory, or other relationship types if discussed.
PANSEXUAL
Everyone's gender identity/genitals is fine with me
SWITCH
I want to be in control sometimes and others I want to give up my control to you
Willing to try new things at least once and more if I like it.
hobbies: gaming, D&D, tabletop games, baking, crafts, watercolor ***ting, and writing.
I’m a well experienced dominant mistress who is on the lookout for a loyal and obedient sub who is keen to learn and serve me.
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
I'm a warm, caring, and affectionate person who values honesty, loyalty, and good communication. I enjoy meaningful conversations, laughter, and getting to know someone on a deeper level. I believe the best relationships are built on trust, respect, and genuine friendship.
I'm looking for a confident, supportive, and emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is interested in building a real connection. I'm drawn to someone who enjoys taking care of his partner, values consistency, and appreciates mutual affection and effort. In the kink world, I'm still learning and exploring, but I'm most interested in dynamics that involve trust, communication, intimacy, and a strong emotional bond.
Experienced lifestyle Femdom and sensual sadist devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. Exclusively interested in D/s power exchange dynamics and FLRs with submissives in the Chicago and surrounding area who are serious about the lifestyle.
Beyond, I’m a post punk/new wave/metal/industrial/EBM enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films.
HI there im a potty training little with a big personality who likes movies, games,dnd and exploring im also a demisexual or ace
please message me about anything but don't throw sex at me first thing
im also a deer type
I believe true dominance is earned through trust, consistency, and mutual respect not demanded. I enjoy leading with confidence, structure, and control while expecting honesty, communication, and genuine submission in return, a submissive who make's mistress tribute available
I appreciate a submissive who is attentive, respectful, emotionally intelligent, and eager to grow. Whether you're experienced or new, what matters most is your willingness to learn, follow direction, and prove your devotion through actions rather than empty words.
If you seek a Mistress who values discipline, loyalty, and meaningful power exchange over fantasy alone, then you may have my attention. Impress me with your manners, patience, and consistency.
meet people, learn more about me, make friends have fun and enjoy life
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