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***PLEASE take the time to learn : - What BDSM is - The role of a DOM not the label and the role as a NOUN not a verb - The responsibility of the Role - What a D/s PE relationship is and what it requires if both Dom and sub I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS , bedroom Doms, online or cybersex, couples or women . DEMIsexual /SAPIOsexual LOOKING FOR: connection in a D/s 24/7 power exchange relationship with an EXPERIENCED , (Preferably a Daddy) DOM age 38-60. Long distance is ok but must be financially stable to visit often. Open to learning and experiencing new things, what can you teach me Daddy? *Manipulation doesn’t harbor trust , it will get you ghosted follow me on Fetlife Lovlee-lala
Female (50) Indianapolis, Indiana
am emotional and impulsive at times, as any other woman, but at the same time I am sensual, passionate and romantic. I believe that I am a smart and intelligent woman, who has a great taste in music. People say that it is interesting to talk to me, to discuss different topics. I am a good friend. And I am looking for a chemistry with someone fun, honest who wants to explore with me to be with.. Hope my name on here helps in reaching out..
Female (37) Indianapolis, Indiana
***HAPPILY MARRIED ONLY MESSAGE IF YOURE A WOMAN AND HONESTLY COMFORTABLE HAVING FUN ALL 3 of us together! I will direct you to his profile name if you ask me for it np is Chey.30 or Curtislee1229 My name is Cheyenne 28 yrs, his name is CJ 30 years. We’re honestly just looking to get to know someone and if the vibe is right then we meet up and have fun!
Female (29) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m the kind of person who finds beauty in both the big adventures and the quiet moments. Optimistic, affectionate, and always up for a good laugh or a meaningful conversation. When I feel a little lonely, there’s nothing better than sinking into my Jacuzzi with a glass of wine in hand, the warm water soothing away the day while my mind wanders through life’s wonders. It’s my favorite way to reset and dream about what’s next. I love good food, great company, spontaneous road trips, and cozy nights in. Looking for someone who appreciates both deep talks and easy silences someone to share bubbles, laughter, and maybe a few new favorite moments with. I can’t text much on here, so if you’re interested, send your info where I can reach you privately and we can get to know each other better. ❤️
Female (50) Indianapolis, Indiana
Hello dear am a woman who easily accepts changes ' and looks at 'If you're searching for a good woman to share a quality fun time with then you are at the right profile text me or send me friend requests I’m providing you with, info gomaszita55at ge male com or 540584-9409
Female (38) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am sexy, confident and strong. I know what i like and I will not only ask for it, but I'll beg too! id prefer to be a sub, but im willing to be a dom once i feel comfortable with my dom. i am always in control so letting go and following the commands of someone else is what i prefer. A fire, a drink and some kink...but doesn't have to be that way all the time. Vanilla is good too!
Female (53) Indianapolis, Indiana
I crave someone that knows how to intellectually speak before sexually. I am very much so dominant but I crave to be submissive for someone that deserves it .
Female (26) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am a kind and loyal woman with an open mind and a warm heart. I always try to support people close to me, and I am ready to help when someone needs care or understanding. I believe in honesty, sincerity, and simple human kindness. I work as a massage therapist, and I truly love my job because it allows me to help people relax, feel better, and restore their inner balance. I enjoy creating comfort, warmth, and positive energy around me. I am feminine, caring, and romantic inside - I still dream about deep feelings, gentle moments, and a relationship filled with tenderness. I like meaningful conversations, smiles, and cozy evenings. I value trust, loyalty, and emotional closeness. I am serious about love, but I also keep a playful spark, because I believe a happy relationship should be full of warmth, passion, and mutual inspiration. I am looking for a kind, open-minded man with a sincere heart. It is important for me that he is honest, loyal, and understanding. I want someone who respects feelings, values trust, and knows how to build a strong connection step by step. I appreciate a man who keeps his word and who will never betray. I dream about a partner who is caring, attentive, and ready to share both happy moments and everyday life. Someone who can laugh, talk, support, and also be romantic when the moment is right. For me, the most important things are sincerity, stability, and emotional closeness. I want to build a relationship based on respect, trust, and mutual warmth.
Female (42) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m new here, and I’m still relatively new to exploring this side of myself. In real life, it’s been incredibly difficult to find a Dominant who truly inspires trust, has experience, and has the presence to genuinely take control of me. I’m not looking for someone who simply calls themselves a Dom—I’m looking for someone who understands BDSM, values consent, respects boundaries, and knows how to build a healthy power exchange. I’m also drawn to someone who’s classy, well-mannered, emotionally mature, and confident without needing to prove it. Intelligence, discretion, and good conversation are just as attractive to me as chemistry. That’s why I decided to join FetLife. Maybe this is where I’ll finally find that connection. If you message me, please be respectful. I’d rather get to know someone first and see if there’s real compatibility before anything else.
Female (39) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m a nerdy intellectual with a commanding edge and a taste for nights that stroke both mind and body. I crave deep conversations that sharpen the intellect and awaken the senses, and I’m not afraid to lead the way when the moment calls for it. I want a partner who wants to lose themselves in music, mystery, and movement; whether that’s sweating through a sweaty concert pit, dancing close in the dark, or letting the night take us where our chemistry leads. I’m drawn to moments of intense connection, clear communication, and decisive, confident energy. ENM is my compass, and consent guides every invitation. I value honesty, safety, and mutual respect as the foundation for exploration. I’m looking for partners who appreciate a dominant vibe, brat-tinged play, tease-and-denial, and controlled, consensual power dynamics that stay within agreed boundaries. If you’re curious about exploring intensity with care, we’ll likely click. To start, tell me a concert memory that made your pulse race, a boundary you’re excited to explore, or a fantasy you’d like to discuss in a safe, upfront way. If the night calls, I’ll lead with confidence and listen with intent.
Female (25) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship.I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I would also like to find a like minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.
Female (40) Indianapolis, Indiana
If you know me from my work, do us both a favor and hit the minus. I’ll do the same. Don’t make it weirder. Divorced, child free cis-woman interested in having healthy and consensual experiences. At 5’10”, I’m tall and thick. I am open to a lot of experiences. No interests in republicans or maga. I can be fairly introverted when first meeting. It’s not you. It’s totally me. 😁 once I’m comfortable, I can be rather silly. The more genuine and silly you are, the quicker I am. Being a bit of a nerd, I have taken a BDSM interests quiz. My top 10: switch, sub, rigger, bunny, dom, voyeur, experimentalist, non-monogamy, and vanilla. I don’t have a lot of experience but I have a lot of enthusiasm. I am also exploring poly. My sexuality exists somewhere on the bi/pan spectrum. It’s another area that I am lacking in experience but I’m very excited to explore. I’m a sucker for kissing, cuddling, and open communication. Generally my type seems to be nerdy creatives and femmes I’m too intimidated to approach. 😆
Female (39) Indianapolis, Indiana
Im very outdoorsy, I love hiking and camping and all that! I’m a bit shy at first and I haven’t been in a relationship in a few years so I’m nervous stepping back into something, serious or not. I want someone to take the lead.
Female (27) Indianapolis, Indiana
Absolutely NO hookups. Friendship and emotional connection come first. Expect a lengthy vetting process at a pace and in a manner that is comfortable for me. 💕meow 💕
Female (55) Indianapolis, Indiana
we have kids and He's works in construction Monday-Friday so we are busy. We're happily married been married 9years together 14years (husband 32). We are looking for friends and fun (long term not a one night stand type of thing) 😉 we're into a lot of different things so we are very open. I may be a bit of a brat but don't let that fool you I'm a switch as well 😏 if you have any questions feel free to ask I'm an open book. read our rules (My husband does have access to this account and will be on here too)
Female (30) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m shy, and a little awkward in person. I love being submissive, age play, water sports a little , some cnc…more
Female (25) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am soft smiles and good morning sunrises, with a cup of really good coffee. Deep conversations, inspired action, going out dancing, and staying in cozy. I work hard and play hard. I love fiercely, and tenderly. Loyal, and honest, whether anyone is watching, or not. The roughness of life has polished me, and made me stronger.
Female (38) Indianapolis, Indiana
Submissive with ♂️ Dominant with ♀️ Switch for ⚧️ I'm a nympho who needs consistency in her life. I'm low-key a mop fr. I'm hard to get, honestly. So come with some confidence. But ntm confidence. Sub-leaning switch. I just power trip if you let me on top. . 7-8 inches, please. I wanna get wrecked. .
Female (22) Indianapolis, Indiana
knife play 🤷🏼‍♀️ water sports not into meeting in person... unless you are intriguing enough. I read sooooo much smut... so I have high expectations. I'm bored with being the dominant one and want someone to handle me 🤷🏼‍♀️
Female (32) Indianapolis, Indiana
Just a nerdy girl looking for something consistent and fun. Anime and baking = 🖤 Dog mom Gym but def won’t say no to tacos or cake 💁🏽‍♀️ Thick girlie and confident A tad anti social but most don’t even notice Dark humor is chef kiss Bully and compliment me just enough and I might have to keep you for myself 😂 jk kinda… impact and breath play are my favorites. very much a sub leaning towards brat. in need of being spoiled. moved to Indy a few months ago and need a consistent kink partner. Test frequently FDT - no seriously, no maga weirdos!
Female (33) Indianapolis, Indiana
Here to find a long term dominant or switch partner who shares my kinks and interests, or is willing to explore with me, within a real relationship 💚💚💚 I love to read, crochet, ***t, listen to music, and be out in nature. Let's go get boba and listen to each other rant about our specials interests (P.s. Mine include but are not limited to: EPIC the musical, Supernatural, The Marauders, and Greek mythology) I identify as queer 🏳️‍🌈 and strictly date women and nonbinary folk ☺️ For anything on the kink side of things you wanna know, you're welcome to ask if you can't find it in my profile! I do not respond if you are... -Over 50 miles away -Under the age of 22 or over the age of 32 -MAGA, pro Israel, against boycotting, etc.
Female (24) Indianapolis, Indiana
hiiiii im subbarbiee, but you can call me Bri. I’ve been on fetlife for about 7 years but decided to turn to the app to hopefully fulfill some specific fantasies of mine. i am looking for 2 BI MEN for a spicy MMF threesome. (don’t message me if you’re just looking to play alone) also ALWAYS in search of hot kinky girls as i am VERY bisexual and women leaning. i am a switch, and love lending helping hands to daddy’s 🥰
Female (27) Indianapolis, Indiana
just looking for some girls to hang out and smoke with, maybe couples, but absolutely no solo guys. hit me up if you wanna talk, if we vibe we can snap.
Female (23) Indianapolis, Indiana
hello hi Im looking for fun, adventure, and discovery. Please dont bully me in a mask, I'll cum very hard 😔
Female (25) Indianapolis, Indiana

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am emotional and impulsive at times, as any other woman, but at the same time I am sensual, passionate and romantic. I believe that I am a smart and intelligent woman, who has a great taste in music. People say that it is interesting to talk to me, to discuss different topics. I am a good friend. And I am looking for a chemistry with someone fun, honest who wants to explore with me to be with.. Hope my name on here helps in reaching out..
Female (37) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m the kind of person who finds beauty in both the big adventures and the quiet moments. Optimistic, affectionate, and always up for a good laugh or a meaningful conversation. When I feel a little lonely, there’s nothing better than sinking into my Jacuzzi with a glass of wine in hand, the warm water soothing away the day while my mind wanders through life’s wonders. It’s my favorite way to reset and dream about what’s next. I love good food, great company, spontaneous road trips, and cozy nights in. Looking for someone who appreciates both deep talks and easy silences someone to share bubbles, laughter, and maybe a few new favorite moments with. I can’t text much on here, so if you’re interested, send your info where I can reach you privately and we can get to know each other better. ❤️
Female (50) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am a kind and loyal woman with an open mind and a warm heart. I always try to support people close to me, and I am ready to help when someone needs care or understanding. I believe in honesty, sincerity, and simple human kindness. I work as a massage therapist, and I truly love my job because it allows me to help people relax, feel better, and restore their inner balance. I enjoy creating comfort, warmth, and positive energy around me. I am feminine, caring, and romantic inside - I still dream about deep feelings, gentle moments, and a relationship filled with tenderness. I like meaningful conversations, smiles, and cozy evenings. I value trust, loyalty, and emotional closeness. I am serious about love, but I also keep a playful spark, because I believe a happy relationship should be full of warmth, passion, and mutual inspiration. I am looking for a kind, open-minded man with a sincere heart. It is important for me that he is honest, loyal, and understanding. I want someone who respects feelings, values trust, and knows how to build a strong connection step by step. I appreciate a man who keeps his word and who will never betray. I dream about a partner who is caring, attentive, and ready to share both happy moments and everyday life. Someone who can laugh, talk, support, and also be romantic when the moment is right. For me, the most important things are sincerity, stability, and emotional closeness. I want to build a relationship based on respect, trust, and mutual warmth.
Female (42) Indianapolis, Indiana
***HAPPILY MARRIED ONLY MESSAGE IF YOURE A WOMAN AND HONESTLY COMFORTABLE HAVING FUN ALL 3 of us together! I will direct you to his profile name if you ask me for it np is Chey.30 or Curtislee1229 My name is Cheyenne 28 yrs, his name is CJ 30 years. We’re honestly just looking to get to know someone and if the vibe is right then we meet up and have fun!
Female (29) Indianapolis, Indiana
***PLEASE take the time to learn : - What BDSM is - The role of a DOM not the label and the role as a NOUN not a verb - The responsibility of the Role - What a D/s PE relationship is and what it requires if both Dom and sub I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS , bedroom Doms, online or cybersex, couples or women . DEMIsexual /SAPIOsexual LOOKING FOR: connection in a D/s 24/7 power exchange relationship with an EXPERIENCED , (Preferably a Daddy) DOM age 38-60. Long distance is ok but must be financially stable to visit often. Open to learning and experiencing new things, what can you teach me Daddy? *Manipulation doesn’t harbor trust , it will get you ghosted follow me on Fetlife Lovlee-lala
Female (50) Indianapolis, Indiana
Hello dear am a woman who easily accepts changes ' and looks at 'If you're searching for a good woman to share a quality fun time with then you are at the right profile text me or send me friend requests I’m providing you with, info gomaszita55at ge male com or 540584-9409
Female (38) Indianapolis, Indiana
I crave someone that knows how to intellectually speak before sexually. I am very much so dominant but I crave to be submissive for someone that deserves it .
Female (26) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am sexy, confident and strong. I know what i like and I will not only ask for it, but I'll beg too! id prefer to be a sub, but im willing to be a dom once i feel comfortable with my dom. i am always in control so letting go and following the commands of someone else is what i prefer. A fire, a drink and some kink...but doesn't have to be that way all the time. Vanilla is good too!
Female (53) Indianapolis, Indiana
Just a nerdy girl looking for something consistent and fun. Anime and baking = 🖤 Dog mom Gym but def won’t say no to tacos or cake 💁🏽‍♀️ Thick girlie and confident A tad anti social but most don’t even notice Dark humor is chef kiss Bully and compliment me just enough and I might have to keep you for myself 😂 jk kinda… impact and breath play are my favorites. very much a sub leaning towards brat. in need of being spoiled. moved to Indy a few months ago and need a consistent kink partner. Test frequently FDT - no seriously, no maga weirdos!
Female (33) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m new here, and I’m still relatively new to exploring this side of myself. In real life, it’s been incredibly difficult to find a Dominant who truly inspires trust, has experience, and has the presence to genuinely take control of me. I’m not looking for someone who simply calls themselves a Dom—I’m looking for someone who understands BDSM, values consent, respects boundaries, and knows how to build a healthy power exchange. I’m also drawn to someone who’s classy, well-mannered, emotionally mature, and confident without needing to prove it. Intelligence, discretion, and good conversation are just as attractive to me as chemistry. That’s why I decided to join FetLife. Maybe this is where I’ll finally find that connection. If you message me, please be respectful. I’d rather get to know someone first and see if there’s real compatibility before anything else.
Female (39) Indianapolis, Indiana
we have kids and He's works in construction Monday-Friday so we are busy. We're happily married been married 9years together 14years (husband 32). We are looking for friends and fun (long term not a one night stand type of thing) 😉 we're into a lot of different things so we are very open. I may be a bit of a brat but don't let that fool you I'm a switch as well 😏 if you have any questions feel free to ask I'm an open book. read our rules (My husband does have access to this account and will be on here too)
Female (30) Indianapolis, Indiana
In tune, communicative and generous giver. Student of pleasure, I aim to please.
Female (37) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship.I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I would also like to find a like minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.
Female (40) Indianapolis, Indiana
You like what you see? Fuck you, pay me. It would be an honor to be my baby boy. I’ll put you in your place and you’ll enjoy it. Release that stress and show me your submission.
Female (27) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am sensitive, outgoing, patient, and an excellent communicator. I think communication is so critical to the success of a good friendship and even more so to the well being of a serious relationship.
Female (53) Indianapolis, Indiana
On your knees. Pay attention. I’m Dee. You’ll address me as Mistress or Mistress Dee only. I’m a ✨Married✨ Psychological Dominant with a particular interest in obsession, worship, obedience, emotional surrender, servitude, and seeing grown men on their knees 🧎🏾‍♂️ I deal in power dynamics, NOT SEX. My kinks are vast but ultimately all based in control / power. Your Willing surrender is my biggest kink 😇 Yes I offer Session$ ————————————————- Foot worship and reverence-based sessions. Sissification Obedience Training Sensory Deprivation Chasity Training Impact play Restraints and/or other negotiated activities. Praise/***/*** Tease/Denial Pegging JOI / CEI / Orgasm control I run a tight ship. Approach with intention😌 420 friendly.
Female (31) Indianapolis, Indiana
Playful submissive looking for her Dominant. I get excited by clear rules, firm guidance, and being called a good girl after I please. Come show me how you lead.
Female (32) Indianapolis, Indiana
will am about I a.m 5/4 in half I am brown skin I have a fat ass I have big Tittes I lover and not a fighter but will if I have to I will but I am coo as person as long they let me be I love Laughing and making others Laugh I am pretty funny
Female (46) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m a nerdy intellectual with a commanding edge and a taste for nights that stroke both mind and body. I crave deep conversations that sharpen the intellect and awaken the senses, and I’m not afraid to lead the way when the moment calls for it. I want a partner who wants to lose themselves in music, mystery, and movement; whether that’s sweating through a sweaty concert pit, dancing close in the dark, or letting the night take us where our chemistry leads. I’m drawn to moments of intense connection, clear communication, and decisive, confident energy. ENM is my compass, and consent guides every invitation. I value honesty, safety, and mutual respect as the foundation for exploration. I’m looking for partners who appreciate a dominant vibe, brat-tinged play, tease-and-denial, and controlled, consensual power dynamics that stay within agreed boundaries. If you’re curious about exploring intensity with care, we’ll likely click. To start, tell me a concert memory that made your pulse race, a boundary you’re excited to explore, or a fantasy you’d like to discuss in a safe, upfront way. If the night calls, I’ll lead with confidence and listen with intent.
Female (25) Indianapolis, Indiana
I'm kind, enjoy art, humor and nature. Not interested in men.women only please.
Female (52) Indianapolis, Indiana
I make content 🤪 but I also like to have fun🥰 currently in an open relationship on X, IG : SOULxEATERxo I respond FASTEST on X , not used to this app lol
Female (28) Indianapolis, Indiana
A little self awareness, I'm likely too much effort, I'm ok with that I don't do casual anything most chalant mother fucker you may ever meet I'm fat( not thick, I look like unbaked bread when I sit down, my dude, fat). Looking for consistency Not looking for hookups ️ or FWB I'm happily annoying, highly intelligent &convinced of my worth. I like attention & enthusiasm let's be ✨️obsessed✨️ with each other I love me some nerds😁 POLY AND PARTNERED Compersion is a must intrested in soft domme activities, inexperienced, willing to be approached about it respectfully I prefer those who enjoy service and look for praise, reward, and affection over ***, ***, or *** On a sidequest for a bf for me &my bf🐲🐉💜( like a real bf not a play partner or hookup) vanilla things I like reading, crafts, and being a professional tagger alonger to support my friends in their shenanigans
Female (39) Indianapolis, Indiana
I’m a very good girl…most of the time.
Female (29) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am soft smiles and good morning sunrises, with a cup of really good coffee. Deep conversations, inspired action, going out dancing, and staying in cozy. I work hard and play hard. I love fiercely, and tenderly. Loyal, and honest, whether anyone is watching, or not. The roughness of life has polished me, and made me stronger.
Female (38) Indianapolis, Indiana

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