Just very very focused woman. Intelligent , funny charismatic, that absolutely loves to please her partner. the right partner . very high drive .

For some women being submissive is pink fuzzy handcuffs, saying, "yes, daddy" , and getting spanked in a school girl outfit from time to time. IM NOT THAT GIRL. Being a submissive woman in my intimate personal life is who I am. I have never been trained. I have never read the "100 ways to be a good girl handbook" I am just naturally submissive in my intimate personal relationships. I believe that for me, allowing my partner to have control in my life, putting my man first, always anticipating his needs and building his happiness, works best for me. I find freedom and happiness in turning over control. I dont want to be in charge all the time. I like having someone else looking out for my best interest and stopping me before I jump off a cliff. I enjoy taking care of my man's needs and making sure that I can be available for him if he needs me for anything. That does not mean Im a doormat or have no opinions. That does not mean that Im going to allow anyone to push me beyond hard limits or run my life into the ground. It does mean that for one very special man, I will give my whole self to his authority and pleasure, all of the time. If you are reading this and this intrigues you, please consider that what I am asking is not free. The man I am looking for read that wondering, "do I have time and commitment to take on that much of a challange? " He was not thinking, "gee, Id love to be treated like a king!" The man I am looking for wants to take care of his sub. He wants to be a major focus in my life. He wants to put in the time an energy into training a new submissive, learning about her, being a part of her life, allowing her to be part of yours. Check-ins, rules and follow through, punishments and rewards, are all essential and take time and commitment. Please notice I have not mentioned sex up to this point. Incredible, amazing, kinky sex is only a portion of what I am asking for. A very big, important, portion of what I am looking for but sex is not the entirety. I am looking for more than sex. I want to build a long term dynamic. I want to gradually release total control to one man that I can trust, love, and respect with all of my being. Nothing is built without trust, love, and respect. If I can not respect you as a man I could never respect you as my Dominant. In my public life, I am ambitious, intelligent, and creative. I am passionate about my opinions and I am not afraid to speak up in situations that warrant it. I have always had to be the boss so I am but that is not who I really am. I really hope that I kept you interested enough to keep reading and that you will message me if you are interested.

I find myself in a period of evolution. Up until this summer I considered myself strictly a pleasure domme. Then I met someone who brought out the brat in me. Since that particular person is unavailable due to distance and capacity I am looking for someone to explore this new dynamic with. My main kink is edging and I enjoy a man with a lot of control over his orgasm. I enjoy testing limits and sometimes denial is more fun than finishing. If 20 minutes is your thing don’t bother to message me, we won’t align. I enjoy estim more than traditional flogging or spanking but I am flexible and curious enough to try new experiences.

Just very very focused woman. Intelligent , funny charismatic, that absolutely loves to please her partner. the right partner . very high drive .

For some women being submissive is pink fuzzy handcuffs, saying, "yes, daddy" , and getting spanked in a school girl outfit from time to time. IM NOT THAT GIRL. Being a submissive woman in my intimate personal life is who I am. I have never been trained. I have never read the "100 ways to be a good girl handbook" I am just naturally submissive in my intimate personal relationships. I believe that for me, allowing my partner to have control in my life, putting my man first, always anticipating his needs and building his happiness, works best for me. I find freedom and happiness in turning over control. I dont want to be in charge all the time. I like having someone else looking out for my best interest and stopping me before I jump off a cliff. I enjoy taking care of my man's needs and making sure that I can be available for him if he needs me for anything. That does not mean Im a doormat or have no opinions. That does not mean that Im going to allow anyone to push me beyond hard limits or run my life into the ground. It does mean that for one very special man, I will give my whole self to his authority and pleasure, all of the time. If you are reading this and this intrigues you, please consider that what I am asking is not free. The man I am looking for read that wondering, "do I have time and commitment to take on that much of a challange? " He was not thinking, "gee, Id love to be treated like a king!" The man I am looking for wants to take care of his sub. He wants to be a major focus in my life. He wants to put in the time an energy into training a new submissive, learning about her, being a part of her life, allowing her to be part of yours. Check-ins, rules and follow through, punishments and rewards, are all essential and take time and commitment. Please notice I have not mentioned sex up to this point. Incredible, amazing, kinky sex is only a portion of what I am asking for. A very big, important, portion of what I am looking for but sex is not the entirety. I am looking for more than sex. I want to build a long term dynamic. I want to gradually release total control to one man that I can trust, love, and respect with all of my being. Nothing is built without trust, love, and respect. If I can not respect you as a man I could never respect you as my Dominant. In my public life, I am ambitious, intelligent, and creative. I am passionate about my opinions and I am not afraid to speak up in situations that warrant it. I have always had to be the boss so I am but that is not who I really am. I really hope that I kept you interested enough to keep reading and that you will message me if you are interested.

I find myself in a period of evolution. Up until this summer I considered myself strictly a pleasure domme. Then I met someone who brought out the brat in me. Since that particular person is unavailable due to distance and capacity I am looking for someone to explore this new dynamic with. My main kink is edging and I enjoy a man with a lot of control over his orgasm. I enjoy testing limits and sometimes denial is more fun than finishing. If 20 minutes is your thing don’t bother to message me, we won’t align. I enjoy estim more than traditional flogging or spanking but I am flexible and curious enough to try new experiences.