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Single male 27 looking to bend to another’s will. Open to new experiences.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 55 km
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
Looking for someone who likes being cummed on (face, tits, anywhere really). NOT LOOKING TO CUM INSIDE. Must be someone who is discreet, patient, and open-minded. Prefer ladies with curves but non-judgemental. When responding please be polite and kin (this is a new world to me)
NSA · 30 - 55 years · 45 km
Seeking fun, deviant professional couples, men or trans for new adventures and clean kinky fun! Love spontaneous meet ups, cocktails, discreet nights, clubs and events! Don't be shy, cum say hi!
NSA · 30 - 60 years · 70 km
Haven’t in weeks hmu for nsa all ages welcome
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 45 km
Need someone that I could use and *** 😇
Kinky Date · 18 - 56 years · 40 km
I'm looking for a female partner that likes butt fun
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 23 years · 50 km
learn about being a good owner, that is. If you’re interested, and fancy me of all people for some strange reason, go ahead and reach out.
Kinky Date · 18 - 24 years · 100 km
Are you a sub or little? Are you looking for a long-term relationship with the type of daddy who'll support you, guide you, and make incessant dadjokes? Well look no further! 😁
I'm looking for a meaningful long-term relationship. Obviously, with our subset of interests, this isn't easy to find, so hopefully this ad catches your attention. I'm hoping to find a girl in the US, ages 22ish to 30ish, who wants something serious, monogamous, and kinky. Long-distance isn't great, but if we communicate about it upfront, maybe we can make it work.
There's more about me on my page, but for now, suffice it to say, I'm a dork in grad school for a promising career. I'm a nerd but I stay fit, and I'm big on emotional intelligence and open communication.
If this sounds at all appealing, please reach out! Tell me about yourself! Let's defy the odds and start a relationship that's as much about a shared connection as it is about shared kinks. Hope to hear from you soon! :)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 32 years · 500 km
Up early and bored. Who wants to play?
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Please be local.
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 245 km
I’ll smoke u out then eat u out. Open crib tonight
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I’m looking for a submissive female. Someone who’s curiosity is compatible with mine. Experienced females are welcome. Outside of playtime I am respectful.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Need a little or cum dump could develop into something long term possibly
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 240 km
Who’s free today ? 👀😏
Munch Buddy · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I wonna meet whoever wonna meet me - FREEWORLD
Kinky Date · 18 - 53 years · 5 km
Are you curious about being tied up? Do you wonder what it would be like to give in to the urges you don’t tell anyone about? Are you a good girl who does what she is told? Tell me how far you want to go and I’ll take you there.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 42 years · 25 km
👀 teach me😈⛓️
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Dm me if you’re interested at all in meeting up! Im open to anything but we can talk more in dms if interested
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 40 km
Not every house has room for a dollhouse.
I’m seeking an experienced Dom or Domme who values D/s as a relationship, not simply a scene. Someone who enjoys guidance, consistency, trust, and building something that extends beyond the bedroom.
If your first thought is “play,” we’re probably looking for different things.
If your first thought is “partnership,” “leadership,” and “earning trust,” I’d love to hear from you.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
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