WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR
I am looking for someone interested in a RELATIONSHIP (Not FWB, play partner, or a situationship). You are no exception to this. If you are, I will reach out to you, not the other way around. I am sensual and attentive, need stimulating conversation, and am about mutual respect and trust. I am a true Switch. I am very comfortable in both sub and domme roles and believe that experience makes me a better partner. I am strong and a boss when I need to be but can turn that off and be the soft, attentive, loving woman who wants to please her partner. I seek someone who is confident, sensitive, and chivalrous,; a gentleman who treats me like the queen that I am. I hope to find my person in the lifestyle as I have realized it is important to me. I am also someone who has NEVER cheated on a partner. I am serious about meeting in person and phone/video chatting and looking for the same.
ABOUT ME
A mind connection is important to me and need that before a sexual connection can occur. So if you contact me coming at me from a sexual standpoint, you will completely turn me off and I most likely will not want to talk to you or get to know you. I don't look anywhere near my age 57 (more like my early 40s and have young energy). I'm in the gym regularly for my physical and mental health. I'm 5'2" and currently a size 10 and I am natural everywhere... there are no fillers here! I am an outgoing introvert and need alone time to recharge my batteries.
SOME INTERESTS
*fitness *music *cooking
*travel *movies *social outings
*culture *stimulating conversation
*dancing *different food experiences *music
LOCATION:
I am in North NJ. I am interested in meeting people in North NJ, South Westchester County, Rockland County NY, and NYC.
I am open to all races, but keep it moving if you are into race play. I am also open to men in their 30s to early 60s. If you are in your 30s, you better have your shit together. I'm all fine with heteroflexible but need to know what that means to you.....
WHAT I EXPECT
Properly introduce yourself
Respond with what you think we have in common, NOT me doing shit to or you doing shit to me..... in other words, connect non-sexually. I am interested in WHO YOU ARE AND WHY YOU ARE INTERESTED IN GETTING TO KNOW WHO I AM.
If you are unwilling or unprepared to video chat and arrange to meet in person within a week of steady communication, move on
WARNING
Please don't think my purpose of being here is to provide you with pictures, videos for you to jerk off to, endless communication to get off to, etc. I am about IRL meeting. If you are looking to take communication off of this platform, be prepared to meet in person in the very near future and a video chat along with a picture that is YOU (This is about MY SAFETY). If your profile and about are barren and location is vague, please be prepared to write a very descriptive message . Friend or gallery requests without prior communication will also be ignored. Not being respectful and playing games will get you blocked :-) I'm not interested in being some virtual emotional support *** or be the fix to your loneliness. Get a therapist and work on yourself :-) Also, if you think that leading with sex will get my attention, you are sadly mistaken. I am interested in WHO YOU ARE AND WHY YOU ARE INTERESTED IN GETTING TO KNOW WHO I AM. This being a kink site is irreverent....I still expect to be approached and treated with respect. The benefit of being here is that you don't have to guess if we are into the same things behind closed doors. I don't fuck and figure out the other stuff later, so if that is what you are expecting, please move on.....
You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile, information, pictures, or other material posted on this site or any of its associated sites in any form or forum (this also includes, but is not limited to, advertisements, studies, or projects of any kind). If you do so, I will consider it a *** of my privacy and will pursue legal action against you.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
93% Voyeur
93% Switch
85% Exhibitionist
82% Experimentalist
76% Rigger
72% Rope bunny
71% Submissive
68% Dominant
68% Non-monogamist
59% Vanilla
57% Brat
57% Brat tamer
44% Master/Mistress
27% Primal (Prey)
25% Daddy/Mommy
25% Slave
20% Degrader
20% Owner
17% Sadist
16% Masochist
15% Ageplayer
8% Primal (Hunter)
4% Pet
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl