Find kinky women in New Jersey

I'm a laid-back down to earth earth-beautiful dominatrix looking to explore my sexuality more have a little fun and meet some new people I'm not in the mood for a for liars or people that want to play games or other doms. I'm looking for Subs that I can put under my spell and have them commit to my every command
Female (29) Boonton, New Jersey
Do you want to find out more about the wild fantasies that live in your mind? Do you long for the sensation of donning silky underwear and stockings and letting your inner slut loose? Do you enjoy traditional CP, where you are placed over my knee and repeatedly beaten with one of my straight canes? Or are you bold enough to test out my vast array of electric?
Female (34) North Bergen, New Jersey
Bisexual/demisexual brunette submissive new to the BDSM world looking for new friends, teachers, playmates, dom(me)s and hopefully a relationship! Introverted, bookish, and geeky - I could definitely use someone (or several someones) to show me the ins and outs of the lifestyle and how to relax and let loose. Starting a new job in DC while living in NOVA as of June 2024!
Female (35) Medford, New Jersey
F19 central NJ looking for friends and fwb 18-22. I’m a switch sub lean looking for a switch or dom. Also looking for a cg or flip :3. Bisexual male lean. ✨ DNI over 22 years old.
Shy, curious, nosey, likes to push some buttons, kitty who loves to be spoiled. New to the bdsm world, have a little bit of background but eager to learn.
Female (44) Clinton, New Jersey
BBW. I am ready to experiment with sex. find a master near me. want to learn about being a slave. finding what works for me. I want lots of toys. limited time when I come to play.
Female (21) Camden, New Jersey
I'm looking to explore in a safe place with a partner that is considerate of me as I will be of them. Friends that can be more. I'm always down for fun.
Female (43) Weehawken, New Jersey
Hey, a sub looking for an experienced dom for a stable dom-sub relationship. Based on NYC. My dream is to find a dom to be my husband/life partner, be his good girl and slave while we stay together, also share the joy as a normal couple. I know it’s difficult, so it’s just a dream. let’s start from knowing each other:) Not a fast food person. be Clean, safe, and respectful. Connection and aftercare are everything
Female (26) Weehawken, New Jersey
I'm just getting back into the community after awhile so I'm just testing my limits and exploring again. I do have a couple of kinks/ fantasies I'd like to try at least once. Kinks; anal, hair pulling, choking, cnc, some bondage, rigging( receiving), and there are others I'm sure :)
Female (20) Old Bridge, New Jersey
I'm always up for making friends of all kinds no matter your inclination or preferences. But please hear me when I say I am only LOOKING FOR FRIENDS! I don't do random hookups and you can't convince me you're what I've been missing in life. If you are a genuine and intelligent person I'd love to get to know you, for now as friends or maybe to attend future events with. When my partner and I reach the stage where we want a 3rd we will post it, until then I'm only looking for friends with kinky minds. Hope all of your days are amazing!
Female (34) Hamilton, New Jersey
Dom looking for a sub. You like the way I look? Spoil me ! I deserve it. I don’t match energy, I surpass it. You treat me good I’ll treat you better.
Female (26) Fords, New Jersey
Hi, I’m a masochistic submissive. I definitely have a bratty side. If you think you can handle me, shoot me a message! I don’t bite (but you can ?) I am looking for WOMEN ONLY right now. Thank you for understanding and respecting that.
Female (23) Cherry Hill, New Jersey
hey I’m looking for a dom that’s not gonna put up with my crap one that will get me to drink my water and one that will get loud with me when I refuse to eat for two days
Female (26) Alpha, New Jersey
I am very faithful, responsible and caring lady and I know that my future man will feel nice with me. I am very sociable and can find an approach to different people. I am ready to support my soulmate in all spheres of his life.
Female (39) Logan Township, New Jersey
I am 100% into Femdom. Love to have my pussy devoured. I may or may not return the favor. Depends on the connection. Enter at your own risk. NO SERIAL KILLERS ALLOWED️️️️
Female (43) Clementon, New Jersey
Hi there! I'm a Capricorn that clawed her way up from the depths of Hell 29 years ago and have decided to seek individuals that share the same interests as I do. I love all things spooky and weird, am more of a serial-killer-documentary-and-chill-type of entity, and read books at an alarmingly fast rate. I support pro-choice, BLM, LGBTQIA+, and believe that sex work is real work. If any of that is not something you support, you can move right along! :) I recently graduated college and work as a registered dental hygienist when I'm not making sacrifices to the Old Gods on Thursday nights. I also have a dark sense of humour and love to torment my friends with awful Dad jokes. Some of my hobbies include cosplay, collecting shiny rocks, and reading tarot cards. (I have other hobbies too, but these are by far the most interesting ones.) I've been a lurker in the kink community for a few years. Due to college, I haven't actually been involved with the kink community in my area or have done any actual exploring. Since I'm finished with college, I figured I'd give this site a shot to see if I could make any connections here or find local events! I'm happy to make friendships if nothing more comes from it, but I would like to find that *_special connection_* with someone that is as weird as I am. I'm looking for a Dom/Domme that is more of a brat tamer with a sadistic streak; one that would whisper sweet nothings in my ear while pulling my hair. Bonus points if they're into wearing masks. ;) Message me if you ever want to visit haunted locations and maybe make some sinful memories there~!
Female (30) Bridgewater, New Jersey
I am very independent, strong, confident and know what I want. I lead in my personal and professional life. I’m hard working, kind and passionate. I choose to submit to my Dom. I choose to freely give control to my Dom, if he proves himself worthy of my submission.
Female (39) Bradley Beach, New Jersey
Here to chat and make some big dick friends. Things that I'm into,big dicks, bdsm, nipple clamps, restraints...spankings...oh n I do have a Daddy. Not into swapping pics sorry, but injoy the view. Kisses
Female (41) Cherry Hill, New Jersey
Hey there. I’m Persephone, and I can be your dream or your nightmare. I am currently in a poly relationship with a dom. I’m a bisexual BBW sub living not too far from the Princeton area and I am always open to finding kinky friends for conversation and advice swapping. If you’d like to just chat, feel free to reach out! I love fellow kinksters. I have Kik and Snapchat as well if that’s easier for you. Things I like: oral, humiliation, praise, threesome, con non-con, tied up, sub-trance play, daddy/princess (within reason I don’t like acting like an actual child), monster/non-monster, dildos, bad dragon dildos, vibrators, double penetration, forced orgasm, demon/cultist, gentlemen in the streets monster in the sheets, sex in rooms other than a bedroom, spanking, paddles, flogging, riding crops as punishment, impregnation fantasies, alien abduction or monster abduction fantasies, dungeons and dragons monsters being put to other use Etc. I’m sure you follow me. Bonus points if you’re actually a Non Human Intelligence (NHI) living amongst humans trying to fit in. If you’re actually my “Hades”… I welcome the game of you seducing me in your free time from Council duties. ;)
Female (32) Princeton, New Jersey
I really want someone who let me sit on their face and eat up my ass n pussy and I love having both my titties sucked at once so if you have a friend cool. not much else tho not tryna fuck unless you’re more than 8 inches. be willing to drive I’m not going in ya house
Female (23) Roselle, New Jersey
Hello everyone, I am now on here but bdsm community if I am vague in my answer then it means, I will not answer you and you need to stop that line of questioning **Desires and Fantasies** I like like some pain with my play, and will tease you untill you want to fuck me. My limit is a lot of blood
***I am married. Looking to also add girl in bedroom in future with hubby if interested. Currently being DISCREET.*** I'm looking for a controlling dominate man/woman to give me a rough, fun time. Make me your helpless victim. I love and get off on pain. ❤️‍??? Discreetly. ? I want a guy/girl with piercings and tattoos. I love a guy with a little freak and bad in them. ❤️‍??? ? Ladies. I need a goth mommy who wants to spoil me and be my best friend. Benefits included. ?
Female (32) Clementon, New Jersey
So let’s see.... Excuse my vagueness, but I will be blunt and say I prefer to remain somewhat anonymous when on the web. (I find contradictory terms are often much more relatable to each other then they first appear... sort of like BDSM.) All that being said, here is a little bit about me: I am a 5ft tall, rather tiny person. Don’t underestimate me, though. I’m all muscle and not afraid to use it. I believe in getting to know a person before committing to a relationship, and personally find that intelligence is just as important as good looks. I identify as female, and have the corresponding parts, but my preferred pronouns are She/They. I am most attracted to women, but I don’t discriminate against any alternate genders. If you’re the right person, then you’re the right person. As of right now, I identify as a Self-Collared Switch and am exploring my Alpha Wolf Pet side. When taking on a Dominant role, I prefer the title Dom over Domme, and like to be addressed as Sir. I am a beginner when it comes to the world of BDSM, though I am wholeheartedly interested in the lifestyle. I am hesitant to enter a committed relationship, but I am still looking for connections and friends in the BDSM and Kink community. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Voyeur 97% Experimentalist 90% Pet 90% Sadist 85% Brat 84% Primal (Hunter) 83% Masochist 80% Exhibitionist 80% Rigger 79% Primal (Prey) 75% Submissive 75% Dominant 67% Non-monogamist 61% Brat tamer 58% Rope bunny 44% Owner 35% Master/Mistress 29% Degrader 29% Slave 26% Vanilla 24% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer
Female (19) Jersey City, New Jersey
Fit and petite mistress looking for slaves and pets. Subscribe free to my new OF @jerseyshoremistress and message me with what you would like to see your mistress doing ?
Female (41) Asbury Park, New Jersey

New members in New Jersey

Do you want to find out more about the wild fantasies that live in your mind? Do you long for the sensation of donning silky underwear and stockings and letting your inner slut loose? Do you enjoy traditional CP, where you are placed over my knee and repeatedly beaten with one of my straight canes? Or are you bold enough to test out my vast array of electric?
Female (34) North Bergen, New Jersey
BBW. I am ready to experiment with sex. find a master near me. want to learn about being a slave. finding what works for me. I want lots of toys. limited time when I come to play.
Female (21) Camden, New Jersey
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Female (29) Jersey City, New Jersey
I'm always up for making friends of all kinds no matter your inclination or preferences. But please hear me when I say I am only LOOKING FOR FRIENDS! I don't do random hookups and you can't convince me you're what I've been missing in life. If you are a genuine and intelligent person I'd love to get to know you, for now as friends or maybe to attend future events with. When my partner and I reach the stage where we want a 3rd we will post it, until then I'm only looking for friends with kinky minds. Hope all of your days are amazing!
Female (34) Hamilton, New Jersey
hey I’m looking for a dom that’s not gonna put up with my crap one that will get me to drink my water and one that will get loud with me when I refuse to eat for two days
Female (26) Alpha, New Jersey
Hey, a sub looking for an experienced dom for a stable dom-sub relationship. Based on NYC. My dream is to find a dom to be my husband/life partner, be his good girl and slave while we stay together, also share the joy as a normal couple. I know it’s difficult, so it’s just a dream. let’s start from knowing each other:) Not a fast food person. be Clean, safe, and respectful. Connection and aftercare are everything
Female (26) Weehawken, New Jersey
***I am married. Looking to also add girl in bedroom in future with hubby if interested. Currently being DISCREET.*** I'm looking for a controlling dominate man/woman to give me a rough, fun time. Make me your helpless victim. I love and get off on pain. ❤️‍??? Discreetly. ? I want a guy/girl with piercings and tattoos. I love a guy with a little freak and bad in them. ❤️‍??? ? Ladies. I need a goth mommy who wants to spoil me and be my best friend. Benefits included. ?
Female (32) Clementon, New Jersey
I am very independent, strong, confident and know what I want. I lead in my personal and professional life. I’m hard working, kind and passionate. I choose to submit to my Dom. I choose to freely give control to my Dom, if he proves himself worthy of my submission.
Female (39) Bradley Beach, New Jersey
I really want someone who let me sit on their face and eat up my ass n pussy and I love having both my titties sucked at once so if you have a friend cool. not much else tho not tryna fuck unless you’re more than 8 inches. be willing to drive I’m not going in ya house
Female (23) Roselle, New Jersey
Looking to explore my wild side. Into trying almost anything. Very clear if something is off limits but there’s more out there than I know about so hard to say up front.
Female (41) Branchville, New Jersey
I'm just getting back into the community after awhile so I'm just testing my limits and exploring again. I do have a couple of kinks/ fantasies I'd like to try at least once. Kinks; anal, hair pulling, choking, cnc, some bondage, rigging( receiving), and there are others I'm sure :)
Female (20) Old Bridge, New Jersey
I am 100% into Femdom. Love to have my pussy devoured. I may or may not return the favor. Depends on the connection. Enter at your own risk. NO SERIAL KILLERS ALLOWED️️️️
Female (43) Clementon, New Jersey
Dom looking for a sub. You like the way I look? Spoil me ! I deserve it. I don’t match energy, I surpass it. You treat me good I’ll treat you better.
Female (26) Fords, New Jersey
I'm young fit slim & lookin for trim. My goal is to find what makes her clit tingle.
Female (38) Camden, New Jersey
I am very faithful, responsible and caring lady and I know that my future man will feel nice with me. I am very sociable and can find an approach to different people. I am ready to support my soulmate in all spheres of his life.
Female (39) Logan Township, New Jersey
I'm a laid-back down to earth earth-beautiful dominatrix looking to explore my sexuality more have a little fun and meet some new people I'm not in the mood for a for liars or people that want to play games or other doms. I'm looking for Subs that I can put under my spell and have them commit to my every command
Female (29) Boonton, New Jersey
Hi there! I'm a Capricorn that clawed her way up from the depths of Hell 29 years ago and have decided to seek individuals that share the same interests as I do. I love all things spooky and weird, am more of a serial-killer-documentary-and-chill-type of entity, and read books at an alarmingly fast rate. I support pro-choice, BLM, LGBTQIA+, and believe that sex work is real work. If any of that is not something you support, you can move right along! :) I recently graduated college and work as a registered dental hygienist when I'm not making sacrifices to the Old Gods on Thursday nights. I also have a dark sense of humour and love to torment my friends with awful Dad jokes. Some of my hobbies include cosplay, collecting shiny rocks, and reading tarot cards. (I have other hobbies too, but these are by far the most interesting ones.) I've been a lurker in the kink community for a few years. Due to college, I haven't actually been involved with the kink community in my area or have done any actual exploring. Since I'm finished with college, I figured I'd give this site a shot to see if I could make any connections here or find local events! I'm happy to make friendships if nothing more comes from it, but I would like to find that *_special connection_* with someone that is as weird as I am. I'm looking for a Dom/Domme that is more of a brat tamer with a sadistic streak; one that would whisper sweet nothings in my ear while pulling my hair. Bonus points if they're into wearing masks. ;) Message me if you ever want to visit haunted locations and maybe make some sinful memories there~!
Female (30) Bridgewater, New Jersey
Shy, curious, nosey, likes to push some buttons, kitty who loves to be spoiled. New to the bdsm world, have a little bit of background but eager to learn.
Female (44) Clinton, New Jersey
F19 central NJ looking for friends and fwb 18-22. I’m a switch sub lean looking for a switch or dom. Also looking for a cg or flip :3. Bisexual male lean. ✨ DNI over 22 years old.
Fit and petite mistress looking for slaves and pets. Subscribe free to my new OF @jerseyshoremistress and message me with what you would like to see your mistress doing ?
Female (41) Asbury Park, New Jersey
Many females undecided out there who are looking to have fun and train for the submissive pleasures. Someone who wants to engage in a FFM too. I'm looking for a little that wants to have fun learn from me, a mommy dom Its all about the pleasure of sex.
Female (49) Westville, New Jersey
Hi, I’m a masochistic submissive. I definitely have a bratty side. If you think you can handle me, shoot me a message! I don’t bite (but you can ?) I am looking for WOMEN ONLY right now. Thank you for understanding and respecting that.
Female (23) Cherry Hill, New Jersey
Here to chat and make some big dick friends. Things that I'm into,big dicks, bdsm, nipple clamps, restraints...spankings...oh n I do have a Daddy. Not into swapping pics sorry, but injoy the view. Kisses
Female (41) Cherry Hill, New Jersey
Hey there. I’m Persephone, and I can be your dream or your nightmare. I am currently in a poly relationship with a dom. I’m a bisexual BBW sub living not too far from the Princeton area and I am always open to finding kinky friends for conversation and advice swapping. If you’d like to just chat, feel free to reach out! I love fellow kinksters. I have Kik and Snapchat as well if that’s easier for you. Things I like: oral, humiliation, praise, threesome, con non-con, tied up, sub-trance play, daddy/princess (within reason I don’t like acting like an actual child), monster/non-monster, dildos, bad dragon dildos, vibrators, double penetration, forced orgasm, demon/cultist, gentlemen in the streets monster in the sheets, sex in rooms other than a bedroom, spanking, paddles, flogging, riding crops as punishment, impregnation fantasies, alien abduction or monster abduction fantasies, dungeons and dragons monsters being put to other use Etc. I’m sure you follow me. Bonus points if you’re actually a Non Human Intelligence (NHI) living amongst humans trying to fit in. If you’re actually my “Hades”… I welcome the game of you seducing me in your free time from Council duties. ;)
Female (32) Princeton, New Jersey

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