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If your idea of a good night involves taking your time and being polite, I’m probably not for you. I want 🔥, heavy momentum: pinned to the wall, loud breathing, and skin slick with sweat until neither of us can walk straight.
Safe, sane, and fully consensual—but once the door locks, I don't hold back, and I expect you not to either. Say hello if you’re tired of playing safe.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Some relax with chamomile tea. You prefer blindfolds, silk ropes, and the slow bite of a glass flogger dancing down your back. Soak the sheets before you surrender. Upgrade from makeshift neckties to real restraint and raw sensation. Come for the thrill; stay for the impact.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Very into cigar and cigarette smoking men. A huge fetish of mine, kneeling before you while you blow that smoke in my face. Train it to serve and worship the way you want Sir.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 60 years · 40 km
Anyone local and local to get eaten? And have a great time
Kinky Date · 31 - 80 years · 25 km
Very open minded, loyal and curious. Ideally looking for Hotwife type relationships.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I'm looking for a woman who needs someone to eat their pussy and ass on a regular basis and loves a nice long dick grinding their cervix time to time.Haven't found what I'm looking for on here yet it would be nice if I do.lmao
Munch Buddy · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I want to get tied up and have my pussy played with and ***d to cum over & over and u n ur friends fucking my pussy one right after the other (at least 3) filling me up and forcing me to keep cuming at the same time! Who can make that happen tonight? 🥵🫦😘
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
I am submissive bottom that love to watch couples , gay or straight have sex , I might dibble dabble with the female if yall want , but I love eating 🍑 !
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Here to ruin our sleep schedule
NSA · 20 - 80 years · 40 km

I seek submissive(s) who need a stern spanking and desire to be put in their place. You will bow down and do as told or be punished as I see fit. So if you dare crawl to me, expect no mercy unless you beg and cry. You come to me, I never go to you. The location shall be discuss and be to my liking.
Dom/me Session · 40 - 75 years · 75 km
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
Looking for a hot sexy crazy cool bottom ts woman I could enjoy
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I want to pound someone raw or rubber and throat daddy's dick
Older woman welcome to a young thick dick
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 10 km
Open to ***s and *** play…. And more.
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 165 km

What I’m looking for: I’ve been looking for a sub for a while now, and I’m hoping to find someone local. If you’ve been a sub before, that’s great! If not don’t let that stop you from reaching out; I would be happy to help you explore and learn more about kink. Chemistry and connection is far more important than experience. My preference is for someone in the 5 boroughs or nearby in Jersey, and PA though I can do something a little further out, if there are possibilities to meet. Age range, I don’t really have one, just above 18. Please.
NSA · 19 - 54 years · 50 km
I love long sessions and making my partner finish as many times as possible. Let's explore eachother you set the pace and I'll do my best to keep going till you're completely satisfied
NSA · 18 - 46 years · 60 km
I'm an open book all women are welcome
Kinky Date · 18 - 30 years · 500 km
Single male 27 looking to bend to another’s will. Open to new experiences.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 55 km
If you’re a clean black older man in the Bronx ny or don’t mind driving pls hmu. Im struggling to get my black kings.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 80 years · 25 km
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Discover thousands of fetishists looking for BDSM dating in Astoria. Find like-minded kinksters or place your own kinky personal ad! Interested in finding munches or fetish clubs near you? Sign up for free and get an overview of all BDSM community events on Fetish.com.