Would be amazing to have one! :3

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990. I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game. First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered *** tolerance. I don't mind some *** and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline. Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play. For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro ***, being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into ***, cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me. I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed. She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline. I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 53 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990. I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game. First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered *** tolerance. I don't mind some *** and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline. Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play. For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro ***, being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into ***, cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me. I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed. She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline. I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

First off I need a dom. Not someone who will occasionally put me in place but all the time. I’m as bratty as it comes so I’ll challenge almost everything. So if you don’t want a brat or willing to deal with a brat who’ll stubborn I’m not for you I’m open to trying a lot of different things but I’m into choking, rope play, spanking, degrading, and praise If you kabedon me I’ll fall for you

I am looking to meet a dom that likes having her feet worshiped. I’m from Ny but go to school in CT so if anyone in those areas are looking for a sub please reach out.

Got a room if anybody in NYC wants to have some raunchy Rough Sexxx

Dominant fit 6’1 dark curly hair light skinned Dominican.

Hi! I was casually introduced to Little/Middle space and I low key love the idea of someone caring for me, maybe even when I am not remembering to care for myself. I would like to experiment with dynamic. I would love to curl up with a man while in one of my warm onsies and just be safe and not have to take on the world.

Dress me up in your favorite outfit, tie me down, and peg me with your biggest toy. Fist me if you like. Ride my face. I'm just there to please you. If you have a chastity cage, lock me up. I'm just begging to be used to a dominant, controlling mistress

Looking for a sub that would be either just in bedroom or 24/7.

Looking for a generous submissive pig who’s into ***. Being dominated and passed around parties.

Confident Dom who likes to tame brats, but can also hold an intellectually stimulating conversation over dinner

Just a baby girl looking for WLW dynamics! Looking for FWBs, Dommes, Play partners, babysitters, or other femme little who just need a play date to get our little side out! If you’re coupled I have no interest in your man watching us intimately. Ideally I’m looking for people who are comfortable either little space as that’s my main kink. I’m mostly subby but can switch with some coaching. My little space is typical very soft just wants love and cuddles and to watch stupid shows but can be bratty at times, 95% good girl 5% make me 😂 would love a soft but strict mommy who can also help with sub space outside of CGL.

Looking for a woman to become my hotwife and go out and cuck me

Looking for someone who wants to degrade and ruin me

29 year old submissive guy in NYC looking for a dominant woman to train me long term.

Looking to meet men in nyc who enjoy getting their pants and underwear pulled to their ankles and then get spanked bare assed over my knee.

I wanna meet a submissive girl who loves to be tied up and thigh highs wouldn’t hurt

Old pervs who can teach me how to goon

Looking for a sub located in NYC preferably Brooklyn that’s interested in BDSM and is looking for a dom to train her

Ready to fulfill all your needs. I can get nasty if I have to, love when older woman control me and tell me what to do. I can pleasure you lady’s by any means js message me😈😈😈

Just making this add because we’re back on this app and it’s Pride Month so at the least we wanted to wish everyone happy pride! We’re going to be extra gay this month no sugarcoating that so feel free to say hi lol ;3❤️💖

ONLY WOMEN/SAPPHICS*** (must be able to host) i don't have a lot of experience but god do i want to 🥲 i have a pretty high *** tolerance (nothing miraculous though)—i really just want to be relentlessly used. to be honest im autistic and have a few medical conditions that lead me to believe i might not be able to actually O, so the idea of overstimulation is really attractive to me! i'd love to talk limits and interests with any SAPPHICS interested (COUGH COUGH—STRAIGHT MAN: LEAVE ME ALONE)

Looking for a hot older women bonus points if your slightly dominant for a good time message me if you're in NYC