Married. Open/ENM/polyamorous and we are dating/exploring separately. I might be too sweet for this site haha I dont do hook ups or ONS. Connection and respect is important. I do have some kinks I'm into and want to explore more but are not expected. if you dont want to get to know me as a person along with the fun things then I'm not your girl. Be honest, be kind and be genuine.
I would like someone who is within 10 years of my age, unpartnered, and within an hours drive of me (Oneida, NY).
Casual and couples aren't really my vibe.
I'm a forensic Social Worker by day and multifaceted kinkster by night. I also balance my vanilla life of being a mom, running my house and my various vanilla interests- kayaking, hiking, reading, crafts, fixing stuff, true crime, and going to concerts when I can. I'm empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and able to communicate well (it all comes with the job) and I would like someone who is also somewhat polished in these areas.
I would love someone to kayak and hike with, who enjoys my (literally) insane work stories, and who doesn't mind that I have witchy and spooky decor. A concert buddy would also be great.
My ideal would be a someone interested in a monogamish relationship, long-term, with some sort of D/s dynamic. I tend to lean more Dominant in relationship dynamics, switch in play, and am a bit more subby during bedroom activities. I have been both a collared sub and a Domme in relationships. I am well versed and enjoy many types of play.
I'm a sucker for muscles, tattoos and piercings. I'm trying to find someone who matches or compliments my weird.
I plan to retire in the Adirondacks eventually... maybe you want to join me?
In a perfect world- there is an attractive, high valued, confident man looking at this. My dom King desires a Queen and is capable of disciplining her when she is feeling bratty. He isn't afraid of CNC and knows how to tie a perfect knot π₯΅. If you're him don't hesitate, I'm waiting π
In this life- I'm looking for someone who enjoys dominating with praise, restraints, whips, hot oil candles, toys, a hand around my neck and a firm pull on the roots of my hair. I am open to more, I love a nice D and have no issues being a freak. A relationship isn't out of the picture but it's not a requirement. However, I do prefer to go out prior to heading to the bedroom.
In your life- all I will say is if you're having a hard time finding a match, whatever the reason, and you want something, don't be shy! Perhaps we can meet in the middle π
In a perfect world- there is an attractive, high valued, confident man looking at this. My dom King desires a Queen and is capable of disciplining her when she is feeling bratty. He isn't afraid of CNC and knows how to tie a perfect knot π₯΅. If you're him don't hesitate, I'm waiting π
In this life- I'm looking for someone who enjoys dominating with praise, restraints, whips, hot oil candles, toys, a hand around my neck and a firm pull on the roots of my hair. I am open to more, I love a nice D and have no issues being a freak. A relationship isn't out of the picture but it's not a requirement. However, I do prefer to go out prior to heading to the bedroom.
In your life- all I will say is if you're having a hard time finding a match, whatever the reason, and you want something, don't be shy! Perhaps we can meet in the middle π
I would like someone who is within 10 years of my age, unpartnered, and within an hours drive of me (Oneida, NY).
Casual and couples aren't really my vibe.
I'm a forensic Social Worker by day and multifaceted kinkster by night. I also balance my vanilla life of being a mom, running my house and my various vanilla interests- kayaking, hiking, reading, crafts, fixing stuff, true crime, and going to concerts when I can. I'm empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and able to communicate well (it all comes with the job) and I would like someone who is also somewhat polished in these areas.
I would love someone to kayak and hike with, who enjoys my (literally) insane work stories, and who doesn't mind that I have witchy and spooky decor. A concert buddy would also be great.
My ideal would be a someone interested in a monogamish relationship, long-term, with some sort of D/s dynamic. I tend to lean more Dominant in relationship dynamics, switch in play, and am a bit more subby during bedroom activities. I have been both a collared sub and a Domme in relationships. I am well versed and enjoy many types of play.
I'm a sucker for muscles, tattoos and piercings. I'm trying to find someone who matches or compliments my weird.
I plan to retire in the Adirondacks eventually... maybe you want to join me?
Married. Open/ENM/polyamorous and we are dating/exploring separately. I might be too sweet for this site haha I dont do hook ups or ONS. Connection and respect is important. I do have some kinks I'm into and want to explore more but are not expected. if you dont want to get to know me as a person along with the fun things then I'm not your girl. Be honest, be kind and be genuine.
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