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Hi there new on here looking for someone to talk too and see where these goes
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 175 km

I am looking for a submissive man for household, pampering and intimate service. If you are interested in a relationship, you must:
be willing and able to come to my area on a regular basis
( one night a weekend or 1-2 weekends a month),
not be married or otherwise attached, i am 420 friendly.
be interested in a dating/romantic D/s relationship, including "vanilla" activities, and
have a true desire to please. This means that pleasing a woman is what really gets you off, more than anything that she could do to you. If my search resonates with yours. dm
BDSM Play Partner · 25 - 55 years · 5 km
As long as I have a face, you have a place to sit.
Looking for any F doms who want to sit on me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 210 km
Who is out there?
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I’m open to all kinds of experiences though the only thing is that I have a strong preference in terms of appearance. Height doesn’t matter to me but you gotta look good. That’s all
Kinky Date · 18 - 30 years · 75 km
Need someone laid back, spontaneous and want to have some fun
Kinky Date · 18 - 80 years · 165 km
Looking for someone to go out with? Maybe grab a drink and see where it goes. NJ/NYC area
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 220 km
I’ve been on the search for a minute to get me a good fart session, have some experience but i’m trying to find someone who does it for the fetish. Big girls step right up i’m a chubby admirer to the core! I’m looking to worship from head to toe, and take some sweaty stinky farts. :3 I stay in Jersey but am willing to travel to NYC, hit me up if you’re interested. (Feet too!) I’m in dire need of a good soft dom abusing me with farts, you definitely won’t even smell it i’m that good <3
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
A beautiful girl
NSA · 18 - 33 years · 25 km
What are yall getting into?
NSA · 25 - 51 years · 65 km
I love long sessions and making my partner finish as many times as possible. Let's explore eachother you set the pace and I'll do my best to keep going till you're completely satisfied
NSA · 18 - 46 years · 60 km
I'm an open book all women are welcome
Kinky Date · 18 - 30 years · 500 km
Single male 27 looking to bend to another’s will. Open to new experiences.
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 55 km
Here to ruin our sleep schedule
NSA · 20 - 80 years · 40 km

I seek submissive(s) who need a stern spanking and desire to be put in their place. You will bow down and do as told or be punished as I see fit. So if you dare crawl to me, expect no mercy unless you beg and cry. You come to me, I never go to you. The location shall be discuss and be to my liking.
Dom/me Session · 40 - 75 years · 75 km
I am submissive bottom that love to watch couples , gay or straight have sex , I might dibble dabble with the female if yall want , but I love eating 🍑 !
NSA · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
I want to get tied up and have my pussy played with and ***d to cum over & over and u n ur friends fucking my pussy one right after the other (at least 3) filling me up and forcing me to keep cuming at the same time! Who can make that happen tonight? 🥵🫦😘
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
• *** play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
• ***s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 30 years
M4F if you are interested in having someone to experiment and play with then I’m ur guy, I’m looking for someone who’s open and just likes to have fun but is also a good person to be around
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Would love to care for a little I’m M4F very caring and loving, I am also emotionally intelligent so I won’t have a problem with picking up on som of ur signs
BDSM/Fetish Family · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
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