Find kinky women in Rochester

I have to put this first as none of you know how to read what i wrote below. NO ONE LINE MESSAGES! I will delete it. There, that's better. :) You may call me Madam Chrissy. I am a force to be reckoned with. Captivating & frightening with an intensity that resonates so strongly that it fills every space I enter. I expect your complete obedience as you suffer through your ordeal to prove your worthiness to serve me. As Queen of a local dungeon, your time spent with me will not be a session, it will be an "Experience". With over 10 years of practicing BDSM, you will be in very skilled and capable hands as you receive your punishments. From flogging, to whips, cbt, and more. Your experience will be customized to fulfill your deepest darkest fantasies. Fully negotiated, and consensual adult fantasy fulfilment and role play. Non sexual PROFESSIONAL domination. I will not respond to one line messages. If you are contacting me, tell me something about yourself and why you are contacting me, otherwise I am just going to delete it. I look forward to hearing from you. **Desires and Fantasies** 1. No one line messages 2. If you WANT something from me, you WILL be GIVING something TO me!! 3. I am not your honey, baby, doll, dear, or any other term of endearment. You will address me as Madam, Mistress, Ma'am or Miss. 4. I do not want to see your dick. I could care less about it. 5. FETISH FANTASY fulfillment only. No sex. 6. Ask politely how you can get my KIK name for virtual domination. 7. I am not doing endless chats or email that amount to nothing. I am a very busy Mistress. Tell me right away what you are seeking. 8. I am not here for a relationship. I am a Professional Dominant. If you are messaging me, that is what you seek, either virtually or in person., so get right to it!! Just remember....this all for fun and entertainment.
Female (54) Rochester, New York
I am a widowed white BBW that is looking to for a man that worships breasts!! I adore my DD's to be fondled and suckled for hours. There is nothing more comforting to my sensitive nipples then to be given attention. And to the right man am even willing to induce lactation.I do not find this a fetish even though society does. It is natural and nurturing. Please let me know if this is something that interest you.
Female (52) Rochester, New York
I have been exploring different kinks and want to try them irl. Open to new experiences. Come say hi! **Desires and Fantasies** a guy desperate to pee, begging for permission to go. until he wets himself crying guy wearing diapers and using them, abdl age play orgasm denial
Female (30) Rochester, New York
I am a naturally dominant, rare female INTJ - its not a game or a role. I am used to getting my way and get confused if someone makes any demands of me. People have always dropped everything to be of service to me. From getting me the perfect cup of coffee to moving my entire house, even the most alpha of men are surprised to find themselves volunteering to take care of things for me. Maybe its because I am smart, ambitious, low maintenance, easy to please, appreciative, and aware that my strengths are also my faults. I'm demisexual, sapiosexual, and I am not in a rush. I am starting to explore shibari (rigger) - the perfect combination between math, art, and sensuality. About me: Entrepreneur, divorced, no kids, love animals (I have 2 small dogs) and skiing, learning to play guitar, almost always online looking up whatever I don't know. Moved to Rochester just before the pandemic hit so its been a rough start here. Ready to mingle.
Female (49) Rochester, New York
hello everyone. i’m a submissive, brat, and a little. i’m not very experienced with the BDSM community mostly bc i can’t ever find people who want to try things with me. i’m open to pretty much anything! i love the idea of not having any control for what happens in the bedroom.
Female (24) Rochester, New York
*I am taken by my wife who is also my Gentle Domme *Polyam/ENM *Pagan *Demisexual *Autistic and ADHD *Loves to travel *Witchy/metaphysics I'm looking for new kink positive connections to share about experiences and give insight!
Female (31) Rochester, New York
submissive brat looking to have depraved conversations. I love ropes and toys and a bit of a fight, even if I act like I don’t like it ;) I’m not looking to meet up, I’m not looking for anything in real life, I just like to dirty talk with rough strangers
Female (30) Rochester, New York
Hot wife looking for someone to play with. Hubby enjoys me coming home dirty with a video for him to watch. This is not a cuckold relationship! My husband is a stag. Do not confuse his kink of sharing me as I am not being pleasured at home!
Female (42) Rochester, New York
My birthday is July 24 not 23 idk why it keeps doing that I'm looking for friends I'm new to this experience just friends and learn I'm a switch I can be friendly but aggressive please don't use me as meat just because I'm a switch I'm just here for friends only not here for relationship I'm just here for friends and explore my kink and learn again I will say again I am very cold hearted and rude if you don't respect my wishes or limits or anything I will not hesitate to block I'm just here for Friends
Female (29) Rochester, New York
Daddy, is that you? Your little girl is waiting to be played with and spoiled… Attracting a long term, romantic and playful connection.
Female (23) Rochester, New York
24 college student love books , coffee and videogames if you only have one pic or non im not talking to you
Female (24) Rochester, New York
5’3” Somewhat bratty, not looking to be tamed Size queen (in training, I’m realizing my eyes are bigger than my…) Sub leaning, enjoy domming sometimes BUT Only once I’ve gotten to know you and I’ve seen that you actually listen to me Looking for: MF MFM group, train, role play Enjoy: Teasing Groping Maintenance spanking Praise Biting Public play Direct and clear communication Attention, lots and lots of attention For D/S relationships specifically, looking for a caring daddy dom not a cold sadistic master Princess>slave Ways to turn me on: Reciprocate emotionally and physically (cunnilingus, and for more than 10 seconds) Respect boundaries Don’t make excuses Good attitude and humility Empathy, reliability, honesty Facial hair, shaved business Dislikes: Slapping Spitting Hard choking Anal Throating Swallowing Humiliation Degradation Don’t try to actually harm me Pet like behavior Being told to cum on command Avoid: bitch, cum-(slut, dumpster, etc), whore Please don’t save loads for me No sleepovers Non-negotiable: Must meet in public initially and use condoms I don’t exchange numbers until Ive met someone in person Single, kind, mature men only Don’t have snap, Kik or anything else If you ask for me to make an exception “just for you”, I will stop responding Must wash hands, brush teeth and shower before hand Can share G rated pics, the rest is only shown in person Prefer ongoing arrangements, not just passing through town, or only available once a month
Female (37) Rochester, New York
I am an 18 year old trans girl. I want to have some fun with people!
Female (18) Rochester, New York
poly little,pup,maso,sub looking for play partners and new dynamics love coloring, camping, and bluey
Female (24) Rochester, New York
27 | western ny | queer | poly & partnered ✨ i am *not* looking for: -immediately explicit dms or unsolicited pics -long distance/cyber ✨ i *am* looking for: -play partners who are willing to spend time getting to know each other & building trust first -safety first (testing, using protection, no sharing toys) -learning more about the local bdsm/kink/fetish scene -exploring bondage, rope play, cnc, impact play, roleplay ✨ hard limits: -substance use before or during play -any bodily fluids (particularly for safety reasons, but definitely no scat/watersports) -intense impact or extreme pain -lasting marks, visible bruises or hickies, etc. -race play -humiliation ✨ soft limits: -degredation (nothing appearance-related) -D/s -pain or impact to intimate/sensitive areas -sexual bodily fluid contact, oral contact
Female (27) Rochester, New York
New, but not totally new to BDSM. Kinda bratty when I'm ready, but also very sweet. masochist who evjoys being on the receiving end of a good spanking. Apart from kink, I'm a classically trained musician and massive nerd (i watch a lot of star trek and love some good anime). you can find me writing music or fanfiction, rewatching star trek or reading a book.
Female (26) Rochester, New York
| Dominatrix | Anime & Cosplay lover ??‍???‍♀️ | The Senual Sadist ?| Degrading men day by day ??
Female (28) Rochester, New York
new here, excuse me while I take time to set up my profile. looking to be a submissive little slut for the right dom
Female (32) Rochester, New York
Hi! I’m looking for something that could turn into a ltr. Someone who’s obviously into the same kinks, but we also get along in the vanilla areas of life too. I want someone who’s more than just a play partner.
Female (38) Rochester, New York
I am dominant Swinger by nature, but I can play many roles, intelligent woman, looking to have fun and seeing where it goes.
Female (39) Rochester, New York
I'm a 22 year old single mom to a 1 year old. I love nature and being outside, I'm a submissive, I value trust and an emotional connection before any thing sexual happens. I'm trying to find my ride or die
Female (22) Rochester, New York
I’m on a journey to explore the depths of BDSM relationships. For me, it's not just about the physical aspects; it's about trust, communication, and mutual understanding. I seek a partner who shares my enthusiasm for safe, sane, and consensual exploration. Someone who values open communication, respects boundaries, and understands the importance of aftercare. Together, we'll embark on a journey of self-discovery, pushing boundaries, and creating a space where we can both thrive emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Female (21) Rochester, New York
IF YOU MESSAGE SOMEONE AND THEN DELETE YOUR PROFILE, THEY CANT READ OR RESPOND TO YOUR MESSAGES. IF YOU CAN'T OWN UP TO YOUR KINKS DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I'm Pro-human rights and equality for all. I'm a full-time mom who is polyamorous. I'm demisexual and really need to know someone before I'm willing to sleep with them and require full panel STD testing before intimacy occurs or is even a thought. I'm super nerdy and mostly a homebody. I don't do NSA! if that is all you are interested in, kindly find someone else to flirt with. Also, not interested in having my time wasted or being lied to. So, if you are usually a flake, kindly find someone else to chat up. I don't have time for bullshit. I also don't have time to help anyone commit adultery. If you are only looking for sexual relationships, I'm not the one for you. I'm demisexual and require a connection before anything intimate is even on the table. Also just because it says I'm looking for friends, that doesn't mean friends with benefits. I'm only looking for submissives, slaves, pets, and toys. I am willing to chat with fellow Doms and Dommes as friends, however.
Female (36) Rochester, New York
Howdy~ I'm ilia (eye-lee-ah) I really want to explore more kinks. I'm pretty new to a lot, but I'm very curious. I am in a relationship, but we practice ENM. I'm super creative. I love doing art, anything beauty related, sewing, dancing, and singing. I also love video games and anime. I'm an open book so feel free to message me~
Female (26) Rochester, New York

New members in Rochester

I am a widowed white BBW that is looking to for a man that worships breasts!! I adore my DD's to be fondled and suckled for hours. There is nothing more comforting to my sensitive nipples then to be given attention. And to the right man am even willing to induce lactation.I do not find this a fetish even though society does. It is natural and nurturing. Please let me know if this is something that interest you.
Female (52) Rochester, New York
I am a naturally dominant, rare female INTJ - its not a game or a role. I am used to getting my way and get confused if someone makes any demands of me. People have always dropped everything to be of service to me. From getting me the perfect cup of coffee to moving my entire house, even the most alpha of men are surprised to find themselves volunteering to take care of things for me. Maybe its because I am smart, ambitious, low maintenance, easy to please, appreciative, and aware that my strengths are also my faults. I'm demisexual, sapiosexual, and I am not in a rush. I am starting to explore shibari (rigger) - the perfect combination between math, art, and sensuality. About me: Entrepreneur, divorced, no kids, love animals (I have 2 small dogs) and skiing, learning to play guitar, almost always online looking up whatever I don't know. Moved to Rochester just before the pandemic hit so its been a rough start here. Ready to mingle.
Female (49) Rochester, New York
I have been exploring different kinks and want to try them irl. Open to new experiences. Come say hi! **Desires and Fantasies** a guy desperate to pee, begging for permission to go. until he wets himself crying guy wearing diapers and using them, abdl age play orgasm denial
Female (30) Rochester, New York
I have to put this first as none of you know how to read what i wrote below. NO ONE LINE MESSAGES! I will delete it. There, that's better. :) You may call me Madam Chrissy. I am a force to be reckoned with. Captivating & frightening with an intensity that resonates so strongly that it fills every space I enter. I expect your complete obedience as you suffer through your ordeal to prove your worthiness to serve me. As Queen of a local dungeon, your time spent with me will not be a session, it will be an "Experience". With over 10 years of practicing BDSM, you will be in very skilled and capable hands as you receive your punishments. From flogging, to whips, cbt, and more. Your experience will be customized to fulfill your deepest darkest fantasies. Fully negotiated, and consensual adult fantasy fulfilment and role play. Non sexual PROFESSIONAL domination. I will not respond to one line messages. If you are contacting me, tell me something about yourself and why you are contacting me, otherwise I am just going to delete it. I look forward to hearing from you. **Desires and Fantasies** 1. No one line messages 2. If you WANT something from me, you WILL be GIVING something TO me!! 3. I am not your honey, baby, doll, dear, or any other term of endearment. You will address me as Madam, Mistress, Ma'am or Miss. 4. I do not want to see your dick. I could care less about it. 5. FETISH FANTASY fulfillment only. No sex. 6. Ask politely how you can get my KIK name for virtual domination. 7. I am not doing endless chats or email that amount to nothing. I am a very busy Mistress. Tell me right away what you are seeking. 8. I am not here for a relationship. I am a Professional Dominant. If you are messaging me, that is what you seek, either virtually or in person., so get right to it!! Just remember....this all for fun and entertainment.
Female (54) Rochester, New York
Howdy~ I'm ilia (eye-lee-ah) I really want to explore more kinks. I'm pretty new to a lot, but I'm very curious. I am in a relationship, but we practice ENM. I'm super creative. I love doing art, anything beauty related, sewing, dancing, and singing. I also love video games and anime. I'm an open book so feel free to message me~
Female (26) Rochester, New York
hello everyone. i’m a submissive, brat, and a little. i’m not very experienced with the BDSM community mostly bc i can’t ever find people who want to try things with me. i’m open to pretty much anything! i love the idea of not having any control for what happens in the bedroom.
Female (24) Rochester, New York
24 college student love books , coffee and videogames if you only have one pic or non im not talking to you
Female (24) Rochester, New York
I’m on a journey to explore the depths of BDSM relationships. For me, it's not just about the physical aspects; it's about trust, communication, and mutual understanding. I seek a partner who shares my enthusiasm for safe, sane, and consensual exploration. Someone who values open communication, respects boundaries, and understands the importance of aftercare. Together, we'll embark on a journey of self-discovery, pushing boundaries, and creating a space where we can both thrive emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Female (21) Rochester, New York
I am an 18 year old trans girl. I want to have some fun with people!
Female (18) Rochester, New York
IF YOU MESSAGE SOMEONE AND THEN DELETE YOUR PROFILE, THEY CANT READ OR RESPOND TO YOUR MESSAGES. IF YOU CAN'T OWN UP TO YOUR KINKS DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I'm Pro-human rights and equality for all. I'm a full-time mom who is polyamorous. I'm demisexual and really need to know someone before I'm willing to sleep with them and require full panel STD testing before intimacy occurs or is even a thought. I'm super nerdy and mostly a homebody. I don't do NSA! if that is all you are interested in, kindly find someone else to flirt with. Also, not interested in having my time wasted or being lied to. So, if you are usually a flake, kindly find someone else to chat up. I don't have time for bullshit. I also don't have time to help anyone commit adultery. If you are only looking for sexual relationships, I'm not the one for you. I'm demisexual and require a connection before anything intimate is even on the table. Also just because it says I'm looking for friends, that doesn't mean friends with benefits. I'm only looking for submissives, slaves, pets, and toys. I am willing to chat with fellow Doms and Dommes as friends, however.
Female (36) Rochester, New York
poly little,pup,maso,sub looking for play partners and new dynamics love coloring, camping, and bluey
Female (24) Rochester, New York
new here, excuse me while I take time to set up my profile. looking to be a submissive little slut for the right dom
Female (32) Rochester, New York
I am dominant Swinger by nature, but I can play many roles, intelligent woman, looking to have fun and seeing where it goes.
Female (39) Rochester, New York
I'm a 22 year old single mom to a 1 year old. I love nature and being outside, I'm a submissive, I value trust and an emotional connection before any thing sexual happens. I'm trying to find my ride or die
Female (22) Rochester, New York
Hi! I’m looking for something that could turn into a ltr. Someone who’s obviously into the same kinks, but we also get along in the vanilla areas of life too. I want someone who’s more than just a play partner.
Female (38) Rochester, New York
Looking to connect with like minded people. I’d be happy to share personal details about myself through a free flowing chat, rather than list it in a box. I do not like when people immediately try to jump into roles when first messaging me. I want to build into that dynamic not ambush into it. If you can’t exercise some patience and control please opt to not message me. I prefer older men, no offense but there’s just no point in messaging me if you’re younger than me. I won’t be into it. So health conscious I am one of those who still demands std testing prior to play. Don’t waste my time or yours if you are not mature enough to comply. Bonus points if you’re a Virgo.
Female (36) Rochester, New York
5’3” Somewhat bratty, not looking to be tamed Size queen (in training, I’m realizing my eyes are bigger than my…) Sub leaning, enjoy domming sometimes BUT Only once I’ve gotten to know you and I’ve seen that you actually listen to me Looking for: MF MFM group, train, role play Enjoy: Teasing Groping Maintenance spanking Praise Biting Public play Direct and clear communication Attention, lots and lots of attention For D/S relationships specifically, looking for a caring daddy dom not a cold sadistic master Princess>slave Ways to turn me on: Reciprocate emotionally and physically (cunnilingus, and for more than 10 seconds) Respect boundaries Don’t make excuses Good attitude and humility Empathy, reliability, honesty Facial hair, shaved business Dislikes: Slapping Spitting Hard choking Anal Throating Swallowing Humiliation Degradation Don’t try to actually harm me Pet like behavior Being told to cum on command Avoid: bitch, cum-(slut, dumpster, etc), whore Please don’t save loads for me No sleepovers Non-negotiable: Must meet in public initially and use condoms I don’t exchange numbers until Ive met someone in person Single, kind, mature men only Don’t have snap, Kik or anything else If you ask for me to make an exception “just for you”, I will stop responding Must wash hands, brush teeth and shower before hand Can share G rated pics, the rest is only shown in person Prefer ongoing arrangements, not just passing through town, or only available once a month
Female (37) Rochester, New York
submissive brat looking to have depraved conversations. I love ropes and toys and a bit of a fight, even if I act like I don’t like it ;) I’m not looking to meet up, I’m not looking for anything in real life, I just like to dirty talk with rough strangers
Female (30) Rochester, New York
| Dominatrix | Anime & Cosplay lover ??‍???‍♀️ | The Senual Sadist ?| Degrading men day by day ??
Female (28) Rochester, New York
Daddy, is that you? Your little girl is waiting to be played with and spoiled… Attracting a long term, romantic and playful connection.
Female (23) Rochester, New York
27 | western ny | queer | poly & partnered ✨ i am *not* looking for: -immediately explicit dms or unsolicited pics -long distance/cyber ✨ i *am* looking for: -play partners who are willing to spend time getting to know each other & building trust first -safety first (testing, using protection, no sharing toys) -learning more about the local bdsm/kink/fetish scene -exploring bondage, rope play, cnc, impact play, roleplay ✨ hard limits: -substance use before or during play -any bodily fluids (particularly for safety reasons, but definitely no scat/watersports) -intense impact or extreme pain -lasting marks, visible bruises or hickies, etc. -race play -humiliation ✨ soft limits: -degredation (nothing appearance-related) -D/s -pain or impact to intimate/sensitive areas -sexual bodily fluid contact, oral contact
Female (27) Rochester, New York
New, but not totally new to BDSM. Kinda bratty when I'm ready, but also very sweet. masochist who evjoys being on the receiving end of a good spanking. Apart from kink, I'm a classically trained musician and massive nerd (i watch a lot of star trek and love some good anime). you can find me writing music or fanfiction, rewatching star trek or reading a book.
Female (26) Rochester, New York
*I am taken by my wife who is also my Gentle Domme *Polyam/ENM *Pagan *Demisexual *Autistic and ADHD *Loves to travel *Witchy/metaphysics I'm looking for new kink positive connections to share about experiences and give insight!
Female (31) Rochester, New York
My birthday is July 24 not 23 idk why it keeps doing that I'm looking for friends I'm new to this experience just friends and learn I'm a switch I can be friendly but aggressive please don't use me as meat just because I'm a switch I'm just here for friends only not here for relationship I'm just here for friends and explore my kink and learn again I will say again I am very cold hearted and rude if you don't respect my wishes or limits or anything I will not hesitate to block I'm just here for Friends
Female (29) Rochester, New York

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