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MistressEvaLordes
MistressEvaLordes
Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
SonyaSexyStuff
S************f
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
CheshireXD
C********D
Your friendly neighborhood raccoon 5’2/98lbs/Brat/sub Kinda busy with school stuff now Plz don’t call me pet names you haven’t earned permission to use :3
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
PolyEntrepreneurMama
P******************a
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina
LolaBunny24-7
L***********7
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
BBWattnseek
B*********k
I have been looking for a partner to have control over me for a while. I love to be spanked. I want to be given tasks and disciplined and rewarded. I love being told that I am a good girl and knowing that my partner is also looking out for my wellbeing.
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
lyssaart
l******t
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
brattybec_
b********_
bratty bottom, apparently queer solo poly/RA looking for single & group play, but nothing super hierarchical at the time. always down for friends/fwbs!
Female (27) Durham, North Carolina
rosie_18
r******8
I am looking for a daddy dom. Someone that will take care of me when I’m in little space, but someone that will also dominate me in the bedroom.
Female (18) Durham, North Carolina
Rafbluegirl
R*********l
I'm a queer female looking for other queer females or nonbinary Afab humans. It is my preference in my sexuality. So cis men need not apply. You must be older than 35 to even spark my interest. I am not nor will ever be your sugar momma. Why is queer dating so hard? let's have a conversation, meet up and see if we have chemistry for friendships and maybe more. I am new to kink, be gentle ? ?
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina
EllieHeartz
E*********z
Recently was introduced into Dom Daddy / Brat Sub world and it lit a fire under me. But, I need a good emotional connection and need tenderness at the same time emotionally. Seeking a long term Dom Daddy.
Female (31) Durham, North Carolina

New members in Durham

MistressEvaLordes
MistressEvaLordes
Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
lyssaart
l******t
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
SonyaSexyStuff
S************f
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
LolaBunny24-7
L***********7
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
PolyEntrepreneurMama
P******************a
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
Rafbluegirl
R*********l
I'm a queer female looking for other queer females or nonbinary Afab humans. It is my preference in my sexuality. So cis men need not apply. You must be older than 35 to even spark my interest. I am not nor will ever be your sugar momma. Why is queer dating so hard? let's have a conversation, meet up and see if we have chemistry for friendships and maybe more. I am new to kink, be gentle ? ?
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina
brattybec_
b********_
bratty bottom, apparently queer solo poly/RA looking for single & group play, but nothing super hierarchical at the time. always down for friends/fwbs!
Female (27) Durham, North Carolina
EllieHeartz
E*********z
Recently was introduced into Dom Daddy / Brat Sub world and it lit a fire under me. But, I need a good emotional connection and need tenderness at the same time emotionally. Seeking a long term Dom Daddy.
Female (31) Durham, North Carolina
CheshireXD
C********D
Your friendly neighborhood raccoon 5’2/98lbs/Brat/sub Kinda busy with school stuff now Plz don’t call me pet names you haven’t earned permission to use :3
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
rosie_18
r******8
I am looking for a daddy dom. Someone that will take care of me when I’m in little space, but someone that will also dominate me in the bedroom.
Female (18) Durham, North Carolina
BBWattnseek
B*********k
I have been looking for a partner to have control over me for a while. I love to be spanked. I want to be given tasks and disciplined and rewarded. I love being told that I am a good girl and knowing that my partner is also looking out for my wellbeing.
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina

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anlmbrt
Chat

I'm need someone to play with
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Antonino ● 27.04.2024 - 28.04.2024
AriaFlamor
Lovely Ladies

Oh I how I crave the touch and feel of a woman. My body yearns for that which I never truly was able to experience without judgement or a profiting eye. Only a woman knows what another woman truly needs to experience basic sexual satisfaction...
Munch Buddy ● 5km around USA, Merrillville ● one hour ago
tucson366
Who’s up rn👀

who’s awake i could use someone to chat with;)
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Tucson ● one hour ago
elizabeth-8860
Mistress

a good and a loyal sub or slave who is ready to obey and serve me with everything he /she has including his/her earnings and make the mistress happy always ,
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 5km around USA, Whiteville ● 2 hours ago
sleepydaemon
Kinky Couple Searching for Controlling Domme

We’re a sub/dom couple looking to grow our experience with a power-hungry domme. I’m looking to dominate my partner and need help training him to be a slave.

Tell me in exquisite detail exactly what you want me to do to him.

Mostly looking for online at first, but open to in-person with the right dynamic and build up of the relationship.
BDSM Play Partner ● 36 to 60 years ● 500km around USA, Seattle ● 28.04.2024 - 01.05.2024
san-francisco32336
Down to have fun today

Anyone around San Francisco ready to meet up right now for some scxual fun please dm
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 190km around USA, San Francisco ● 3 hours ago
kittylova
New to being a little girl and looking for a careg

Wanting to explore it and build trust and affection along the way. Would like to build a real relationship.
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 32 years ● 500km around USA, Columbus ● 3 hours ago
los-angeles34522
Horny for my master

A master to obey
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Los Angeles ● 3 hours ago
Jasminthebbw
Would my latest outfit get your attention ???

If I went out to the club and wearing my outfit I just posted would you stare at me ? Lmk or any comments are welcome !
Kinky Date ● 5km around USA, Vallejo ● 4 hours ago
san-francisco32336
Done with celibacy

Anyone around the area down to meet up tonight and have fun, chat me I’ve been s8x starved, tired already
NSA ● 18 to 60 years ● 165km around USA, San Francisco ● 5 hours ago
princessdarling011
Looking for a good boy to make all mine

Looking for someone to treat me like a princess and be absolutely obsessed and in awe of me someone sweet and romantic but obviously kinky when needed
Kinky Date ● 18 to 26 years ● 500km around USA, Boston ● 28.04.2024 - 30.04.2024
tucson366
LADIES WYA

girls in tucson hmu let’s have fun
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA, Tucson ● 6 hours ago
Mayby
Looking for matches ☺️

Hello! I’m searching for someone or a couple who’s willing to go out on a fun date if you’re in the Naples/Fort Myers/Estero area or around, shoot me a message. I’m looking for someone who matches my kinks and is willing to take it slow and get to know eachother, and go on dates and such! Mainly searching for a relationship or something!
Please look at my profile for more info!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 210km around USA, Fort Myers ● 26.04.2024 - 21.05.2024
CumCanvas
Looking for someone close by to jack off

I want to put on a show for my husband, so I could really use someone to show up for this gloryhole in my living room. Ideally you have a heavy load and a very thick member. Gonna be around 8 or 9 pm. Hit me up! I don't bite. Hard.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 130km around USA, Flint ● 6 hours ago
Barbariannnn
To my fellow AZ people

Arizona? Phoenix, Tempe, Mesa! I know you can hear me Preferably age 27+ lol

I want you
💜
Please have me on my knees- shaking, begging, total slip-n-slide
Please use me however you please 🙏🏾
You have been warned
🤷🏾‍♀️🥵
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 80 years ● 45km around USA, Phoenix ● 6 hours ago
moth_to_the_
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Any tall(>185cm), clean shaved guys?
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 39 years ● 500km around UK, London ● 7 hours ago
curlyheadedchick
Sub looking for dom, maybe an LTR

hiii! I'm looking for anyone who'd be interested in getting to know each other and possibly date after a while! I'm a submissive through and through and I absolutely love pleasing my daddy. I can be bratty so always stay on your toes ;)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 150km around Canada, Gravenhurst ● 9 hours ago
SLCMDMm
Babygirl shared with other doms

Any British dom white/black wanna share me around?
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 405km around UK, London ● 10 hours ago
subjay98
Just a kinky sub looking for someone to match her

I'd love to find somebody that's open to everything or willing to teach me things they know.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 22 to 37 years ● 500km around USA, Leavenworth ● 11 hours ago
Saucy_girl
Message me

Interested in someone who is loyal and loves to have sex.
Kinky Date ● 5km around USA, Pretty Praire ● 14 hours ago
Vanirae
BBC kings

BBC 👑 to the front.
High drive and high stamina QOS here.
Kinky Date ● 27 to 56 years ● 65km around USA, Vista ● 16 hours ago
wetpussy1111
Mommy is horny

Mmmm mommy is sooo horny a wants to make her good little boys peepee grow
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