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Stay at home working mom. Booktok/ nerdy girl. Extreme introvert, so here I am. Midnight ballerina at secrets in Jacksonville, NC🤭 oh if you’re just looking to get laid don’t message me, I’m here to find my Daddy to my babygirl
Swinging little Brat who’s looking for a single male to add to my relationship, or another like minded couple with me and the hubs. Experienced in the pineapple lifestyle, and could provide a GFE if requested. Priority given to those with the blessed fruit. In other words, if the gun you’re slinging is smaller than your iPhone, no offense, keep scrolling.
I am very into Nipple play/stimulation/ANR/Nipple Worship and would say that's my top kink. Next would be mutual masturbation, then a little bit if voyeur/exhibitionism. I like to play in public like at the beach, in a parking lot, side of the road etc. I don't like being blindfolded or tied up, but I'll gladly do those to you. I have interests in a lot of areas so feel free to ask about things you'd like to try.
Not interested in long distance/online relationships.
50 yr old fit married woman looking for discreet BDSM play. Adopted the Hotwife Lifestyle a little over 2 1/2yrs ago. My husband was after me since turning 42 to play with other men while he watches.
I am a fun time because I am! Music, art, museums, dress up, dress down- I AM HERE FOR IT! Normally, I put myself in the leadership or Dominate position. I want to be in a sub/soft role for a change.
I’m clean and sober and am looking for someone to have fun with in a safe, sane manner. Currently interested in the art of shibari and would like to find someone who wants to further their practice.
(I am looking for something long-term and possibly serious depending on if we click or more so want to just make genuine friends)
I live in the US, but I like saying, I live in other places to meet more people, i’m not into yelling, leashes, or making anyone beg unless they really want to. My dominance is quiet, intentional, and rooted in connection
And I don’t wanna see
I like being in control, but I care more about emotional chemistry than titles.
i am currently in North Carolina, I just love meeting people from all over the world 💕
LONG-TERM ONLY
I’m a creative, curious, and affectionate person who loves good conversation, meaningful connections, and collecting experiences.
I’m Sapiosexual and demisexual, so sexual attraction does not really turn on for me unless I feel emotionally connected, safe, and genuinely close to someone as well as someone that can mentally stimulate me with wit and deep conversation. I’m not trying to be difficult or play games, that’s just how my body works. If you rush me or pressure me, it makes me less attracted, not more.
I’m someone who feels deeply and invests deeply. I value honesty, consistency, emotional intelligence, and people who are comfortable being themselves. I have a strong personality, a soft heart, and a tendency to get excited about learning new things, planning my next adventure, or getting lost in a conversation that lasts for hours.
I love storytelling, travel, culture, good conversation, and people who aren’t afraid to be themselves.
I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with someone I can laugh with, flirt with, talk to for hours, travel with, and make memories with. Emotional connection is important to me, but so is physical chemistry. I want both. I believe the best relationships have friendship, attraction, trust, affection, and desire all working together.
If we click, you’ll want to listen to me without me having to say much. That’s the kind of energy I move with.
I don’t fit in a box and I’m not gonna try. If you feel pulled toward me, say something that sounds like you. I don’t need perfect, I need real.
🍓 About Me 🍓
Curvy, cozy, and a little bit sleepy 🧸
I’m soft in most places (especially the ones that wiggle) and I might forget the rules unless they’re written in pink glitter or whispered very sternly 🥺
Still figuring things out. I’m not brand new, just… not broken in yet. I know what makes me blush. I just haven’t done it yet (or maybe I have, once or twice… in my daydreams… teehee)
I’m sweet, slow, and better with structure tell me what to do, and I’ll try so hard to do it right (even if I get distracted by snacks, sparkles, or naps).
Praise me when I’m good. Gently tease me when I’m not. I might pout, but it just means I want attention 💗
🍓 Looking For 🍓
Someone patient, warm, and firm enough to make me sit up straight when I start to melt.
Please be kind with your voice and steady with your hands. I respond best to soft praise, structured tasks, and the kind of discipline that still feels like being loved.
A little brat-tamer, a little princess-trainer. I want to be kept. Helped. Tended to.
Bonus if you like thighs, sleepy service girls, or need a lapful of squishy devotion, or a pillow I’m very soft🥺
I’m most drawn to men who carry strength in their presence tall, broad, grounded. I love rough hands with gentle intent, voices that rumble when they speak, and the kind of body that makes me feel small and safe just by standing near it. A well-kept beard, a steady touch, and a little extra size everywhere certainly doesn’t hurt… 🥺
🍓 Likes & Curiosities 🍓
• Daily rituals (especially if I forget~)
• Submitting slowly, sweetly, with guidance
• Being told how pretty I look in lingerie I forgot I owned
• Spankies that feel like affection 💞
• Collars, bedtime, service tasks, body worship (yes mine 🥺)
• Snuggling under strict rules
If your profile has no writing, no personality, and just a bunch of titles, I won’t reply. I’m not looking for a role—I’m looking for a person. If you don’t know the difference, we’re not a match.
❌ I’m not here for hookups. If you’re looking for no strings, look somewhere else I come with ribbons.
I’m a submissive kitten-princess with a lot to give, but only to someone who wants to keep me.
I don’t submit casually. I submit completely. To the right man.
If you’re not ready to own what you claim, don’t try to touch it. 🐾
Mel 🌱
God ***ing
Girls Girl🥰
Radical Acceptance 2026😌
Shared custody of one.
No drama- ***: vflm_x
Passport ready🌏
Bachelor’s in Human Services
Sapiosexual & Demisexual
Genuine, blunt, self-aware, & quiet.
Secure Attachment- I require experienced DOMINANCE (it’s a lifestyle)& acts of service ♥️
A bit about me
a very busy mom ^-^ and they always come first. Im home body but i do enjoy going out sometimes. I spend most of my time listening to music ^-^ i love music ♡. Metal, Spanish, Edm, & indie. I also like food 😋 Sushi 🍣& Mexican 🌮. 420 friendly :) coffee 🤤.
***gram- mami_loba_
***- ***tedwolf
I am 100% new to this. I have no experience with BDSM at all. I recently have been thinking about trying it but want someone I can trust. I’m a straight girl looking for a straight man.
I’m not here to rush or entertain surface-level dynamics. I’m here to observe and choose carefully.
I’m open to a connection that can grow into a D/s dynamic, with a man who understands his place in a submissive role.
I value submission, but only when it’s grounded, intentional, and backed by self-discipline.
I also carry a submissive side—but that is not accessible without trust, consistency, and time. It’s built, not imagined.
(At this stage, I’m not offering that part of me. I’m watching who can show up with the right energy first.)
I respect men who are already working on themselves—who can face their own patterns and move with intention.
Non-negotiables:
• Unverified → ignored
• Sexual opening messages → blocked immediately
If you understand that submission is a choice—and you can embody it without needing validation
Speak accordingly. 👠
I'm a free spirit looking for a partner who is dependable, communicates well, is a strong leader, & makes me feel emotionally safe.
Just your local horror-obsessed, motorcycle riding, goth cryptid.
Childfree, monogamous, and searching for something real.
Teach me something you're passionate about. Show me all the good hiking spots. Cheesy jokes welcomed!
Mainly just interested in some fun on top or bottom in my personal dungeon. Lots of kinks that I enjoy and a preference for military. What can I say, I love seeing someone hot in uniform. I am poly and have a partner but we date and meet up with others separately.
I'm open minded and ready to try new things....I like what I like in the beginning but am really interested in trying out new ways non penetration wise to get off together anyone can do penetration let's try something different .... in search of a pleasure dom ideally.....
I'm here to make friends and network! Looking for like minded people to share knowledge and hang out. Newly discovered Little Auralist with Bratty tendencies.
Pansexual. Mom of a *** who lives with me every other week. Interested in fun, also open to something more serious if it happens naturally.
Kenna 💕
Kenna take control for a little while… so you don’t have to?
With me, you get to step out of your head and into the moment. I take the lead, guide the energy, and create an experience where you can fully relax and just feel.
A little escape… a lot of attention… and a build-up that keeps you coming back for more 😏
Careful… once you let go with me, it’s hard to forget
Looking for someone to guide me and give me structure in life. I like being given rules and discipline when I am out of line. I am a people pleaser and like to be called a good girl, but I can also be bratty and stubborn
I'm a thick woman with pretty feet. I love to be spoiled and get off on being someone's kink!
I’m xayla ?I’m a switch, currently have one partner ❤️❤️just down for friends or weird stuff 😂warning I’m very much a succubus?, also come spoil me
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rope bottom
switch: impact, violet wand, tens, wax, edge play, es&m, bondage
only being able to change the name once per year is fucking dumb.
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Stay at home working mom. Booktok/ nerdy girl. Extreme introvert, so here I am. Midnight ballerina at secrets in Jacksonville, NC🤭 oh if you’re just looking to get laid don’t message me, I’m here to find my Daddy to my babygirl
rope bottom
switch: impact, violet wand, tens, wax, edge play, es&m, bondage
only being able to change the name once per year is fucking dumb.
fetlife
I'm here to make friends and network! Looking for like minded people to share knowledge and hang out. Newly discovered Little Auralist with Bratty tendencies.
I'm a free spirit looking for a partner who is dependable, communicates well, is a strong leader, & makes me feel emotionally safe.
Just your local horror-obsessed, motorcycle riding, goth cryptid.
Childfree, monogamous, and searching for something real.
Teach me something you're passionate about. Show me all the good hiking spots. Cheesy jokes welcomed!
Mel 🌱
God ***ing
Girls Girl🥰
Radical Acceptance 2026😌
Shared custody of one.
No drama- ***: vflm_x
Passport ready🌏
Bachelor’s in Human Services
Sapiosexual & Demisexual
Genuine, blunt, self-aware, & quiet.
Secure Attachment- I require experienced DOMINANCE (it’s a lifestyle)& acts of service ♥️
Pansexual. Mom of a *** who lives with me every other week. Interested in fun, also open to something more serious if it happens naturally.
I am a fun time because I am! Music, art, museums, dress up, dress down- I AM HERE FOR IT! Normally, I put myself in the leadership or Dominate position. I want to be in a sub/soft role for a change.
Kenna 💕
Kenna take control for a little while… so you don’t have to?
With me, you get to step out of your head and into the moment. I take the lead, guide the energy, and create an experience where you can fully relax and just feel.
A little escape… a lot of attention… and a build-up that keeps you coming back for more 😏
Careful… once you let go with me, it’s hard to forget
I'm a thick woman with pretty feet. I love to be spoiled and get off on being someone's kink!
(I am looking for something long-term and possibly serious depending on if we click or more so want to just make genuine friends)
I live in the US, but I like saying, I live in other places to meet more people, i’m not into yelling, leashes, or making anyone beg unless they really want to. My dominance is quiet, intentional, and rooted in connection
And I don’t wanna see
I like being in control, but I care more about emotional chemistry than titles.
i am currently in North Carolina, I just love meeting people from all over the world 💕
LONG-TERM ONLY
I’m a creative, curious, and affectionate person who loves good conversation, meaningful connections, and collecting experiences.
I’m Sapiosexual and demisexual, so sexual attraction does not really turn on for me unless I feel emotionally connected, safe, and genuinely close to someone as well as someone that can mentally stimulate me with wit and deep conversation. I’m not trying to be difficult or play games, that’s just how my body works. If you rush me or pressure me, it makes me less attracted, not more.
I’m someone who feels deeply and invests deeply. I value honesty, consistency, emotional intelligence, and people who are comfortable being themselves. I have a strong personality, a soft heart, and a tendency to get excited about learning new things, planning my next adventure, or getting lost in a conversation that lasts for hours.
I love storytelling, travel, culture, good conversation, and people who aren’t afraid to be themselves.
I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with someone I can laugh with, flirt with, talk to for hours, travel with, and make memories with. Emotional connection is important to me, but so is physical chemistry. I want both. I believe the best relationships have friendship, attraction, trust, affection, and desire all working together.
If we click, you’ll want to listen to me without me having to say much. That’s the kind of energy I move with.
I don’t fit in a box and I’m not gonna try. If you feel pulled toward me, say something that sounds like you. I don’t need perfect, I need real.
A bit about me
a very busy mom ^-^ and they always come first. Im home body but i do enjoy going out sometimes. I spend most of my time listening to music ^-^ i love music ♡. Metal, Spanish, Edm, & indie. I also like food 😋 Sushi 🍣& Mexican 🌮. 420 friendly :) coffee 🤤.
***gram- mami_loba_
***- ***tedwolf
Looking for someone to guide me and give me structure in life. I like being given rules and discipline when I am out of line. I am a people pleaser and like to be called a good girl, but I can also be bratty and stubborn
I am 100% new to this. I have no experience with BDSM at all. I recently have been thinking about trying it but want someone I can trust. I’m a straight girl looking for a straight man.
🍓 About Me 🍓
Curvy, cozy, and a little bit sleepy 🧸
I’m soft in most places (especially the ones that wiggle) and I might forget the rules unless they’re written in pink glitter or whispered very sternly 🥺
Still figuring things out. I’m not brand new, just… not broken in yet. I know what makes me blush. I just haven’t done it yet (or maybe I have, once or twice… in my daydreams… teehee)
I’m sweet, slow, and better with structure tell me what to do, and I’ll try so hard to do it right (even if I get distracted by snacks, sparkles, or naps).
Praise me when I’m good. Gently tease me when I’m not. I might pout, but it just means I want attention 💗
🍓 Looking For 🍓
Someone patient, warm, and firm enough to make me sit up straight when I start to melt.
Please be kind with your voice and steady with your hands. I respond best to soft praise, structured tasks, and the kind of discipline that still feels like being loved.
A little brat-tamer, a little princess-trainer. I want to be kept. Helped. Tended to.
Bonus if you like thighs, sleepy service girls, or need a lapful of squishy devotion, or a pillow I’m very soft🥺
I’m most drawn to men who carry strength in their presence tall, broad, grounded. I love rough hands with gentle intent, voices that rumble when they speak, and the kind of body that makes me feel small and safe just by standing near it. A well-kept beard, a steady touch, and a little extra size everywhere certainly doesn’t hurt… 🥺
🍓 Likes & Curiosities 🍓
• Daily rituals (especially if I forget~)
• Submitting slowly, sweetly, with guidance
• Being told how pretty I look in lingerie I forgot I owned
• Spankies that feel like affection 💞
• Collars, bedtime, service tasks, body worship (yes mine 🥺)
• Snuggling under strict rules
If your profile has no writing, no personality, and just a bunch of titles, I won’t reply. I’m not looking for a role—I’m looking for a person. If you don’t know the difference, we’re not a match.
❌ I’m not here for hookups. If you’re looking for no strings, look somewhere else I come with ribbons.
I’m a submissive kitten-princess with a lot to give, but only to someone who wants to keep me.
I don’t submit casually. I submit completely. To the right man.
If you’re not ready to own what you claim, don’t try to touch it. 🐾
I’m clean and sober and am looking for someone to have fun with in a safe, sane manner. Currently interested in the art of shibari and would like to find someone who wants to further their practice.
I’m not here to rush or entertain surface-level dynamics. I’m here to observe and choose carefully.
I’m open to a connection that can grow into a D/s dynamic, with a man who understands his place in a submissive role.
I value submission, but only when it’s grounded, intentional, and backed by self-discipline.
I also carry a submissive side—but that is not accessible without trust, consistency, and time. It’s built, not imagined.
(At this stage, I’m not offering that part of me. I’m watching who can show up with the right energy first.)
I respect men who are already working on themselves—who can face their own patterns and move with intention.
Non-negotiables:
• Unverified → ignored
• Sexual opening messages → blocked immediately
If you understand that submission is a choice—and you can embody it without needing validation
Speak accordingly. 👠
I'm open minded and ready to try new things....I like what I like in the beginning but am really interested in trying out new ways non penetration wise to get off together anyone can do penetration let's try something different .... in search of a pleasure dom ideally.....
Mainly just interested in some fun on top or bottom in my personal dungeon. Lots of kinks that I enjoy and a preference for military. What can I say, I love seeing someone hot in uniform. I am poly and have a partner but we date and meet up with others separately.
50 yr old fit married woman looking for discreet BDSM play. Adopted the Hotwife Lifestyle a little over 2 1/2yrs ago. My husband was after me since turning 42 to play with other men while he watches.
I’m xayla ?I’m a switch, currently have one partner ❤️❤️just down for friends or weird stuff 😂warning I’m very much a succubus?, also come spoil me
?
Swinging little Brat who’s looking for a single male to add to my relationship, or another like minded couple with me and the hubs. Experienced in the pineapple lifestyle, and could provide a GFE if requested. Priority given to those with the blessed fruit. In other words, if the gun you’re slinging is smaller than your iPhone, no offense, keep scrolling.
I am very into Nipple play/stimulation/ANR/Nipple Worship and would say that's my top kink. Next would be mutual masturbation, then a little bit if voyeur/exhibitionism. I like to play in public like at the beach, in a parking lot, side of the road etc. I don't like being blindfolded or tied up, but I'll gladly do those to you. I have interests in a lot of areas so feel free to ask about things you'd like to try.
Not interested in long distance/online relationships.
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