Hello! I'm Vera, a romance author in ***. I'm looking for a LOCAL ongoing companion/submissive to spend time with. I'm fond of 'golden retriever' types, kindness, humor, and intelligence. Excellent hygiene and grammar also hit high on my list! I'm gentle and easygoing as a general vibe, but I do not suffer fools or boundry-pushers gladly. I enjoy cooking/baking, gardening, & reading.
I'm Demisexual, which means that 🚩Overt, aggressive sexual approaches are a HUGE turnoff 🚩If you feel the urge to open a conversation with unwanted commentary on my body or by awkwardly dumping your kinks in a stranger's lap like an unsocialized weirdo, save us both the time and move on. If your cock size is in anywhere your bio (including pics), we're not going to vibe. (No, I don't care or want to hear how big /small it is. Seriously.) A human connection is necessary WELL before a physical one for me, and that's non-negotiable. Hanging > Banging.
Finally, to quote Kat Blaque, "I don't share my body with men that aren't willing to politically defend it" - right wingers and Trumpers are a hard no. I'm also VEHEMENTLY anti generative AI, so if you're a fan, see yourself out.
-Pan, Poly & Partnered (married to an asexual man)
-Sex positive once I know/trust someone, but I take things slow and I'm NOT looking for ONS/FWB/Hookups/Online/Nudes/Sexting/Long Distance etc.
-5'10 & 240.
-I make my own *** - don't need yours! 💵
-STI negative & tested (I expect the same)
-I'm a Soft Domme (aka I'm not a submissive)
-Pagan, liberal/leftist
-No smokers - I'm not 420 or cig friendly 🚫🍃🚭
-Lover of dry, dark humor and absurdity
-🔎 on SC for YourFaeQueen 😉
Kink is not a requirement for connection, but if/when it comes up, my personal desires run towards thoughtful service submissives - I like doors held, chairs pulled out for me, belongings carried, tea or coffee prepared. I love massages, charcuterie, and a quiet and graceful reverance eager to be of use. If your heart yearns to serve and you'd like to bask in the shining glow of well-earned praise, let's talk.
(If, on the other hand, 'submission' is the coin you're hoping to impatiently shove in the kink dispenser until sex falls out, please pass on by - we're looking for different things.)