Im a pretty normal girl on the outside, many would be surprised at what goes on in my head. I am open to conversations, a pretty open book! I value honesty and respect! this is core in the dom/sub dynamic and i can generally tell within the first couple days talking how to assess this. the search for the right partner particularly in this dynamic is not easy (for both parties). I need a particular dom who knows how to handle my bratty side as I am a independent woman but in the bedroom or alone, I generally crave for him to take control and push my vulnerabilities. I am shy, so needing someone who can bring out my inner sub with ease. I am not looking for TPE! if this is what you are wanting please do not ask. I do have 3 kids so don't expect a model body or anything after I had to have surgery. though after the divorce I want to make it a fresh start and start to take care of myself for once after all these years. don't worry I have always had my curves even when I was 130. I also have hearing aids (i function just fine unless you have a thick accent) so if you are uncomfortable with that please disregard my profile (but hey, it'd make it easier for sensory deprivation play right?) 😊 Im NOT into anything involving *** that results in *** or permanent marks or hardcore ***, age play, toilet play, incest. Shibari can be incredibly sensual and is the most recent interest I have found! Best to describe me so far as I know myself: A break me bratty masochist sub. looking for ages 36-48 yrs old ideally. willing to go a couple years over/under if we click right! if you ask me to use ***. im not going to. I don't use that. I use only *** outside this chat and that's generally to verify you are who you are. = Results from bdsmtest.org = 100% Rope bunny 99% Submissive 79% Brat 72% Vanilla 68% Experimentalist 53% Non-monogamist 43% Masochist 35% Voyeur 34% Primal (Prey) 31% Exhibitionist 30% Slave 19% Switch 10% Degradee 5% Pet 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl

Please just talk to me like a normal person. Kat is not looking for: - One night stands - Cybersex - Long distance relationship I live in Columbus and I recently splitt up with my partner of 10 years who is a woman. I have a partner an hour away who is a trans man. I'm looking for a man, woman, or couple to date. Nothing extremely serious, but something where we have a really good connection and it's ongoing. Consent, negotiation, safe play, STI checks, and aftercare are all important to me.

Somewhere between innocent and a terrible idea. 💜

My therapist has to talk to your therapist before you sleep over Going back to school, getting back into swimming, and loving the snow ❄️ My partner is going to be a parent come February 🥰 but I'll be living separate, so that'd only come up if things get serious Would love to one day have another 24/7 submissive, but want things to develop naturally ❤️ Trans so please don't be weird

I’m a confident, open-minded woman who loves exploring my desires, embracing new experiences, and connecting with people who value honesty, respect, and good communication. I enjoy a little adventure, playful chemistry, and discovering what makes each connection unique. I believe in consent, boundaries, and making sure everyone feels comfortable. Here to explore, have fun, and see where the chemistry takes us. 😉🔥

Hi there! I am a bit a newer to all of this. But I am a mostly a lee (switch depending on the dynamic) trying to explore more opportunities for tickling, bondage and stuff like that. I would love to get to know oeopke first before diving into all that. I live talking about spirituality concepts, Disney, video games, art and more!

Im a pretty normal girl on the outside, many would be surprised at what goes on in my head. I am open to conversations, a pretty open book! I value honesty and respect! this is core in the dom/sub dynamic and i can generally tell within the first couple days talking how to assess this. the search for the right partner particularly in this dynamic is not easy (for both parties). I need a particular dom who knows how to handle my bratty side as I am a independent woman but in the bedroom or alone, I generally crave for him to take control and push my vulnerabilities. I am shy, so needing someone who can bring out my inner sub with ease. I am not looking for TPE! if this is what you are wanting please do not ask. I do have 3 kids so don't expect a model body or anything after I had to have surgery. though after the divorce I want to make it a fresh start and start to take care of myself for once after all these years. don't worry I have always had my curves even when I was 130. I also have hearing aids (i function just fine unless you have a thick accent) so if you are uncomfortable with that please disregard my profile (but hey, it'd make it easier for sensory deprivation play right?) 😊 Im NOT into anything involving *** that results in *** or permanent marks or hardcore ***, age play, toilet play, incest. Shibari can be incredibly sensual and is the most recent interest I have found! Best to describe me so far as I know myself: A break me bratty masochist sub. looking for ages 36-48 yrs old ideally. willing to go a couple years over/under if we click right! if you ask me to use ***. im not going to. I don't use that. I use only *** outside this chat and that's generally to verify you are who you are. = Results from bdsmtest.org = 100% Rope bunny 99% Submissive 79% Brat 72% Vanilla 68% Experimentalist 53% Non-monogamist 43% Masochist 35% Voyeur 34% Primal (Prey) 31% Exhibitionist 30% Slave 19% Switch 10% Degradee 5% Pet 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl

I’m a confident, open-minded woman who loves exploring my desires, embracing new experiences, and connecting with people who value honesty, respect, and good communication. I enjoy a little adventure, playful chemistry, and discovering what makes each connection unique. I believe in consent, boundaries, and making sure everyone feels comfortable. Here to explore, have fun, and see where the chemistry takes us. 😉🔥

Somewhere between innocent and a terrible idea. 💜

Please just talk to me like a normal person. Kat is not looking for: - One night stands - Cybersex - Long distance relationship I live in Columbus and I recently splitt up with my partner of 10 years who is a woman. I have a partner an hour away who is a trans man. I'm looking for a man, woman, or couple to date. Nothing extremely serious, but something where we have a really good connection and it's ongoing. Consent, negotiation, safe play, STI checks, and aftercare are all important to me.

Hi there! I am a bit a newer to all of this. But I am a mostly a lee (switch depending on the dynamic) trying to explore more opportunities for tickling, bondage and stuff like that. I would love to get to know oeopke first before diving into all that. I live talking about spirituality concepts, Disney, video games, art and more!

My therapist has to talk to your therapist before you sleep over Going back to school, getting back into swimming, and loving the snow ❄️ My partner is going to be a parent come February 🥰 but I'll be living separate, so that'd only come up if things get serious Would love to one day have another 24/7 submissive, but want things to develop naturally ❤️ Trans so please don't be weird