I am into wetting and love to watch a man wet himself. I'm also into being called names and being told that you want to *** in me or want to see me *** myself like that gets me sooo fucking wet and Id love to have him hold his hand cuped on my pussy and I have to *** so bad I let go ***ing wile he is rubbing me. I want to be ***ed in and *** while fucking and ***d to *** in public. I also want to have him going down on me wile I am desperate to *** and I explode all over his face. I want to be handled simi roughly no *** but I want to be shoved around and ***d on my knees and bent over for him.......I WANT TO FIND SOMEONE IN THE TULSA AREA THAT WILL EXPLORE MY WATERSPORT FANTASIES WITH ME.

My name is Selina, I’m a very gentle and calm lady, I’m on here looking for a man whom is ready to be loved cared for and treated right and he should be ready to reciprocate that same energy back, kindly feel free to holla back and we got a lot learn about each other

Check out our couples profile Just looking to have a little fun and explore new sexual experiences

I like to long board and do makeup, faceplate, stuff like that. I love to travel I'm looking for friends. I like talking to People and connecting with people.

human version of the 🥺 emoji hi there! i like to think im a sweetheart. first time giving enm a go. i’ll be so upfront i’m kind of high maintenance emotionally. i need to take things slow in every aspect. i also work a lot, sometimes i get days off unless i don’t

I have always kinda circled the lifestyle. I enjoy many facets of the lifestyle, usually in being a pleaser. I do like pics and teasing. I can talk in depth about many things, and having a connection on some level is important before I just mess a round with someone. I dont have a lot of free time so if I give you some of it, respect that. im not actively looking for anything. im trying to relearn myself before I lose myself in another person.

Couple looking to share Wife for the first time. No separate play. We are new to this so may take things slow at first.

**If you are not bisexual and have issues with what gender you put your cock in, don’t message me. Currently looking for a playmate that plays all fields** I am actively living as a kinky bisexual elder goth peacock goddess with a pack of my own. I am a heavy soul. I think my policy is... if you aren’t *** by my presence, you do not live for my prose, and you do not embrace the energy I’m shedding.. then I’m definitely not right for you. I can handle that. I don’t have time to waste on anyone who can’t appreciate a heavy soul. Seek shelter elsewhere. There is a chance connections can be made here. I am attracted to ***py intelligence, and my chosen partners are the same. Smart conversations, nerdy topics, and sometimes just hanging out working on hobbies together is a great way to find those shared tethers. There is space in my life for friends that could potentially be partners. I've experienced a lot sexually, but I need more substance. I am not one to make a one time thing happen, it doesn’t work with my life generally. I’m looking for my kink match. Though I do have a partner who services needs for me as often as he can. He has his own preferences, and would prefer to be my bottom more often than my top. I am Primal. I participate in the takedown. I require a matched mate, and not prey. I burn for this connection, with all the poetry in my heavy soul. Things I'm really not into, but can hang through: outdoorsy stuff, sports, country music. I play video games, watch many different types of shows and movies. I'm very outgoing. I light shows for live events, and I’m an amateur production gremlin by night, business analyst by day. Hopefully that's not too much information at once. Feel free to message away if any of this seems appealing.

here to explore my kinks and find someone who wants to tie me up and use all my toys on me bit of a size queen so I have big dildos into public play, orgasm control/edging, bondage, cnc, erotic massages,and trying new things

hello! I would describe myself as a masochist submissive. I would LOVE to be more into the BDSM scene and I figured this would be a good way to start. I live in Tulsa Oklahoma and I am a full time student at OSU. I am poly and partnered but my partner lives in Colorado and we are not sexual. I am looking for a nesting partner to start and build a life with so yeah. ask me anything! I’m an open book!

I love the dynamics of a D/S relationship. Never really experienced it but I’ve seen it and it’s so fucking beautiful. I’ve never had a Dom cause the real ones are fucking unicorns. I had a mentor for a little over 2 years. It wasn’t anything sexual I looked at it as a challenge cause I was raised a brat and loved being called out on my shit and punished. I wanted someone to put me in my place when I ask for it. He taught me a lot about self worth and how to decipher between a real Dom and a poser and so much more. So you little wannabe Doms that think you can tell me what to do etc etc without ever meeting or talking me ya don’t waste my time. Being a real true Dom is earned and for those of you that think subs are weak move one. We are the ones that actually hold the power. So far this site has been more like entertainment a joke something to do when I’m bored or need a few laughs. I challenge one you “ Doms “ to prove me wrong. I’m loosing hope 🤟

Masks excite me 🤤 Patient men are hot 🔥 You can't punish what you can't catch 😏 ✨️ Tatted & Pierced Domiants with bikes to the front of the line !! ✨️ 👸 Why is it so hard for a naughty bratty princess to find her king daddy ? 🤴 I'm not looking for ANYTHING discrete , I'm a Princess that should be shown off so why hide me ? Hmm what else ? oh ! ive dealt with a fake ass, narcissistic, man child of a " Dom " before so I will call you out on your B.S. quickly 😘 ♡Read this before messaging me♡ ♡ What a Daddy is to me♡ A safe place to soften. Someone whose presence allows me to put down the armor and not always be the strong, guarded, independent one. A leader, not a dictator. I want someone who can take the lead without needing to control every aspect of me. Leadership is something I choose to give, not something they are entitled to. Someone emotionally safe. I need to know that vulnerability won't be punished, mocked, weaponized, or ignored. ♡Consistent.♡ Words matter, but patterns matter more. I need someone whose actions consistently match what they say. Protective without being possessive. Someone who cares about my wellbeing, notices when something is wrong, and wants to help keep me safe—without treating me like property outside the boundaries we've mutually chosen. Attentive. Someone who notices the little things. My mood changing. When I'm quieter than usual. When I'm overwhelmed. When I'm pretending I'm fine. Someone who checks in instead of assuming. Especially when something feels different between us. A grounding presence. When my emotions get big, I don't necessarily need someone to fix them. I need someone who can stay steady while I experience them. Someone who can handle my bratty side without losing sight of my soft side. My defiance isn't the entirety of me. Sometimes the brat is armor, play, affection, or a test of whether you're still there. Someone who understands that surrender requires trust. Submission isn't something they take from me. It's something I give because I trust them enough to do so. Someone who earns authority. A title doesn't automatically make someone dominant. Their behavior, integrity, consistency, and ability to care for me are what make me want to follow them. Someone who can say no. A Dominant who is afraid to disappoint me isn't actually leading me. I want someone capable of holding boundaries even when I'm pushing against them. Someone who can receive my no. My submission doesn't erase my autonomy. Consent remains mine. Someone who corrects without humiliating. If I've crossed a boundary or genuinely fucked up, I want accountability—not cruelty. Someone who can apologize. Dominance doesn't make someone infallible. I need a person who can say, “I was wrong,” without their authority collapsing. Someone who repairs. Conflict isn't necessarily what scares me. Unresolved disconnection is. I need someone willing to come back, talk, listen, and reconnect. Someone who communicates proactively. I don't expect constant access or attention. But if circumstances change, I value being told rather than left guessing where I stand. Someone who makes me feel chosen. Not through constant reassurance or grand gestures, but through deliberate actions that communicate: I see you. I want you here. You matter to me. Someone who takes responsibility for the dynamic they've agreed to lead. If they want the authority of being my Daddy/Dominant, I need them to understand that authority comes with responsibility. Someone who wants to know me outside of the dynamic. I'm a whole person before I'm a submissive/brat/partner. Someone who respects my independence. I want to be cared for, not managed. Someone who encourages growth rather than dependence. I want a Dominant who makes me feel stronger, safer, and more myself—not smaller. Someone who can hold both my chaos and my tenderness. I can be ridiculous, mouthy, emotional, stubborn, affectionate, ***, and intensely independent—all in the same damn afternoon. 😂 Someone I can trust with the parts of me I don't hand to everyone. The deeper the submission, the deeper the trust required. Someone who understands that aftercare isn't only physical. Emotional reassurance, reconnection, affection, checking in, and making sure we're okay afterward can matter just as much. Someone who understands that dominance exists because there is consent beneath it. The power exchange is meaningful precisely because I am choosing to participate. And perhaps the biggest one: A Daddy/Dominant, to me, is someone who makes me feel safe enough to surrender without ever making me feel like I have to surrender myself.

Hello I'm 40 bi bbw divorced I'm shy, akward overthinker when i love I love with all I got and loyal to a fault I’m looking for a SOFT DOM, but more importantly, I’m looking for a genuinely good man who wants to build a real connection with me. ❤️ I need someone who is patient, loving, caring, loyal, and trustworthy. Reassurance is a big thing for me—I need it often, and I want someone who understands that instead of making me feel like I’m “too much.” I want a man who makes me feel safe, wanted, valued, and secure. For me, being a Dom isn’t just about being in control. It’s about trust, communication, patience, consistency, protection, affection, and knowing when I need reassurance or comfort. I want someone confident enough to lead but gentle enough to listen. And I want the everyday stuff too. ❤️ I want someone who would happily stay home with me playing video games, cuddling, laughing, and being silly just as much as he’d go out with me, make memories, or take some sexy pictures together. 😏📸 Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner, a best friend, and a soft Dom all wrapped into one. Someone I can trust completely, be my goofy awkward self around, and feel comfortable letting my guard down with. Take care of my heart, and I’ll give you mine. 💜

Push me, pull me, pin me, smack me. I’m not fragile. Would love to find someone with real primal energy. My heart is a lesbian, but the rest of me enjoys all kinds of kinky people. Largely uninterested in heavy emotional entanglements currently or any 24/7 dynamics. Open to physical, friendship, or whatever else flows naturally. Say hi if you’re in Tulsa 🙃 I can’t host or travel. —- Empújame, sujétame, dame. No soy frágil. Busco a alguien con energía primal de verdad. Mi corazón es lesbiana, pero disfruto de todo tipo de gente kinky. No busco nada emocionalmente pesado, pero estoy abierta a lo físico, la amistad, o lo que fluya.

Still looking for a REAL DD/Dom that is wanting a long term relationship. Someone that is patient and willing to teach and help me explore & experiences different things to find my liked and dislikes. I have some minimal experience as a Sub and have had a long distance Daddy ( more of just a friendship than a DD/lg dynamic).

Demi-sexual panromantic nerd looking for someone to explore my bi-curiosity with. I'm not great at casual intimacy, so if you want a casual hookup im not your gal. FWB might be on the table but I am a commitment girlie. I love d&d, a handful of video games, and snuggling during movie marathons. I will never turn down a trip to a zoo or museum (especially ones with cool rocks or dinosaurs) and can be lured from my introvert cave with the promise of snacks. I am very bad at telling the difference between flirting and being nice so feel free to be blunt if I don't seem to catch the difference ;)

First and foremost I'm a sapiosexual and enjoy an interesting conversation, I'm also a brat through and through, but overall fairly submissive. I like to wrestle around and enjoy being ***d (enough to feel pressure, but not enough to cut off the airway), and CNC to a certain degree, but I'm also kool with just deep conversations all night. Huge cat person and I love to PnP. I'm not into just cybersex or cyber talk so I'm not going to fantasize you so you can get your jollies off then ghost me, nor do I believe in one night stands, I'm looking for something fairly regular. I'm really easy going and easy to fall in love with. Just shoot me a message and we can see how it goes. I promise I don't bite.....much

Hot,wet and ready to go. I'm looking for someone who's near me that has their own place or are willing to get a room near me during the day.

Greetings and welcome to the Inne. I have been disabled since 2010. I am tired of living that lifestyle so I decided to create my own world. Hi I am an author. You have stumbled into my weigh station where I learn and test ideas and boundaries and what makes ppl tick so my books hit closer to home and my audience actually feels seen. And I figure I might learn a lot about myself in the mean time... I am however currently taking applications for my archdemon with angel eyes if you you think this may be you please converse, enjoy the atmosphere if you do choose to engage you are consenting to your energy becoming part of the lore that will be the Inne. I am excited. let's do this ....

I am a submissive to the highest quality. The BDSM lifestyle is real to me and not a fantasy. Boundaries, respect, and real connection are what I want. Crucial for any relationship. I am always interested in getting to know Dominants in the Lifestyle. Actual Dominants. I like to chat intelligently about the Lifestyle and learn and help others learn. You may DM me if you’d like to talk more about dynamics and perhaps create a friendship. If you’re outside of the ages 38-46, I’m not interested. thank you! please respect my wishes. I am not into being someone’s unicorn nor one night stand. please do not approach me asking for one time hook ups. I enjoy friendship, connection, and deep conversation. communication is 100% important to me. Honesty, sense of humor, intelligence, and attraction are very close behind. 420 friendly, love board games-dancing-movies-traveling **Desires and Fantasies** To have a Dominant who focuses on my pleasure and is less sadistic and more of a Daddy. This is not role play to me. I love to be kinky and live in the Lifestyle when I can, unless working or in public.

I am a leader by nature but when it comes to the bedroom I like to follow… with some resistance. I might submit, I might not In my down time I work two jobs, in a grad program and hang out with my dog.

I’m open to new experiences with in a limit. ask and if I don’t know I’m willing to learn to see if it’s something I like or would like. I’m super sweet but don’t take kindly to being jerked around. be open and honest with your intentions or don’t bother. I like to get to know a person it establishes trust and understanding. if that’s to much for you then I’m not the one.

sub female seeking an alpha male, seriously i'm a kinky little girl. while I was married for 26 years I knew I wanted to submit to my partner in the bedroom. my late husband didn't have dominant in him. I am single now and looking for a dominant boyfriend.

Hey, hope you’re doing well. I haven’t been in the scene in a long time. I’m someone who knows what I want, and I firmly believe in consent and communication. I’m not a teacher and I’m not here to introduce new people into the scene. I’m here testing the waters and seeing if I can form a lasting connection with someone who wants to just love life with me. I really want someone to decorate for the holidays with, and maybe tie up and experiment/explore darker interests on the weekends.

My name is Selina, I’m a very gentle and calm lady, I’m on here looking for a man whom is ready to be loved cared for and treated right and he should be ready to reciprocate that same energy back, kindly feel free to holla back and we got a lot learn about each other

I am into wetting and love to watch a man wet himself. I'm also into being called names and being told that you want to *** in me or want to see me *** myself like that gets me sooo fucking wet and Id love to have him hold his hand cuped on my pussy and I have to *** so bad I let go ***ing wile he is rubbing me. I want to be ***ed in and *** while fucking and ***d to *** in public. I also want to have him going down on me wile I am desperate to *** and I explode all over his face. I want to be handled simi roughly no *** but I want to be shoved around and ***d on my knees and bent over for him.......I WANT TO FIND SOMEONE IN THE TULSA AREA THAT WILL EXPLORE MY WATERSPORT FANTASIES WITH ME.

Check out our couples profile Just looking to have a little fun and explore new sexual experiences

hey hey everyone... been into the lifestyle for about 5 years now. naturally submissive... looking to find LTR, but I'll see what happens... if you want to see pics, prove to be your real and you, then you may see 👀

Hello, (we) my daddy and myself are looking for a kinky lady that would like to have some fun together. We play together,weekends only. We both work during the week, and he lives out of town, and I live in town. If you wanna chat. You know what to do! Smile beautiful people!

I have always kinda circled the lifestyle. I enjoy many facets of the lifestyle, usually in being a pleaser. I do like pics and teasing. I can talk in depth about many things, and having a connection on some level is important before I just mess a round with someone. I dont have a lot of free time so if I give you some of it, respect that. im not actively looking for anything. im trying to relearn myself before I lose myself in another person.

here to explore my kinks and find someone who wants to tie me up and use all my toys on me bit of a size queen so I have big dildos into public play, orgasm control/edging, bondage, cnc, erotic massages,and trying new things

I'm an outdoors person and I like to play pool and drink a beer, I love to cook and am damned good at it! pretty sufficient to take care of myself just having a really rough time financially right now, I was working up to 1200 hours per pay period, forklift operator, and then I started getting sick. I was just diagnosed with breastfeeding cancer and put on medical leave from my job and am am just trying to get by

Couple looking to share Wife for the first time. No separate play. We are new to this so may take things slow at first.

human version of the 🥺 emoji hi there! i like to think im a sweetheart. first time giving enm a go. i’ll be so upfront i’m kind of high maintenance emotionally. i need to take things slow in every aspect. i also work a lot, sometimes i get days off unless i don’t

Hot,wet and ready to go. I'm looking for someone who's near me that has their own place or are willing to get a room near me during the day.

Hey, hope you’re doing well. I haven’t been in the scene in a long time. I’m someone who knows what I want, and I firmly believe in consent and communication. I’m not a teacher and I’m not here to introduce new people into the scene. I’m here testing the waters and seeing if I can form a lasting connection with someone who wants to just love life with me. I really want someone to decorate for the holidays with, and maybe tie up and experiment/explore darker interests on the weekends.

We’re a playful couple with a little curiosity and a lot of chemistry looking to meet a girl who knows how to have a good time. We’re here to flirt, explore, and see what happens when the right three people click. No pressure, no expectations, and definitely no need to rush anything. We like a little mystery, a little tension, and letting the vibe speak for itself. If you can make us both smile… you might just have our attention. 😉

I am exploring myself again. I know who I used to be but would like to dive into different parts, as I feel they have shifted over time. I have a history in the lifestyle and community, so I expect the respect and level of consideration that would be present at any public event. I am Poly and currently in an anchor partnership. My partner is aware that I am on here and there is no need for secrets on my end. I don't have a lot of precursory requirements really. I have plenty of experience in the community, so i would like someone who is confident in their own experience. I love exploring new things, but I am not here to teach anyone how to be a Kinkster Typically, I am a switch with a heavy submissive lean. I don't bow unless I want to, and I can fight for a long time, so be ready to impress me with your dominance, or enjoy the banter and battle to show me who is going to be on top. Looking for someone willing to meet publicly, talk kink, and see how we feel about one another. No immediate sex, and no automatic roles or dynamics until those ideas are discussed. On the human side of things: I don't drink coffee I AM a big foodie and love cooking or trying new things I like tangible art Hiking when it is cool is amazing, 75 and below please on the thermometer I like wierd, obscure, niche and personalized hobbies

Im a plus sized woman on a journey to better health. Having weight loss surgery very soon. I am a very sexual, very open minded person. I love to please and be pleased. I love giving and recieving ***, Giving or recieving spankings, love anal, multiple partners, would love to go to conventions, private parties, meet singers, be a third. Right now id love tonjust find a local guy thats into doing me in front of my husband , even letting him join in possibly even on you. I have a pup that I might be willing to share with the right person, they like to be shamed and used thoroughly. Looking for friends with benefits, possible *** wife, more pups and just new experiences!

looking for something committed with a dom. I am not fully sure what I am looking for with or beyond that. I would love to have more friends with the same interests as well

heyyy 22yr old bi woman looking to explore with another woman. married but he encouraged me to explore and wants me to get pleased with a woman. I’m shy at first but can definitely come out of my shell. maybe scissor me and see what happens

Hello I'm 40 bi bbw divorced I'm shy, akward overthinker when i love I love with all I got and loyal to a fault I’m looking for a SOFT DOM, but more importantly, I’m looking for a genuinely good man who wants to build a real connection with me. ❤️ I need someone who is patient, loving, caring, loyal, and trustworthy. Reassurance is a big thing for me—I need it often, and I want someone who understands that instead of making me feel like I’m “too much.” I want a man who makes me feel safe, wanted, valued, and secure. For me, being a Dom isn’t just about being in control. It’s about trust, communication, patience, consistency, protection, affection, and knowing when I need reassurance or comfort. I want someone confident enough to lead but gentle enough to listen. And I want the everyday stuff too. ❤️ I want someone who would happily stay home with me playing video games, cuddling, laughing, and being silly just as much as he’d go out with me, make memories, or take some sexy pictures together. 😏📸 Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner, a best friend, and a soft Dom all wrapped into one. Someone I can trust completely, be my goofy awkward self around, and feel comfortable letting my guard down with. Take care of my heart, and I’ll give you mine. 💜

Looking for someone who can become a consistent kink play partner. I’m on the s side of the slash and want a D type who can offer fun scenes, but isn’t looking for a full on dynamic. You MUST have a consent framework that you practice from. If you don’t know what that sentence means, move along. Double kudos for you if you’re vetted at a local dungeon. Let’s chat and see if our kinks align :) Things that fill my heart: plants, day drives, conversation that flows naturally, Shibari (switch, but I’m full up on bottoms and would very excited to get some time to bottom), hanging in the kitchen while someone cooks a good meal, gardening, and watching the birds at the bird feeder - what can I say? You hit 30 and suddenly become hyperaware of cool birds. Leftist, atheist. We will not vibe if you’re anywhere on the conservative spectrum. ACAB, BLM, free Palestine, and fuck capitalism.

Couple here, happily together and both bisexual, looking to explore and have some fun... We’re open to connecting with both men and women, but the key is that we’re a package deal, so the attention and energy should be for both of us, not just one. We’re especially interested in someone who’s comfortable being with a bi couple and open-minded about our chosen dynamic: Mutual Fun. We would consider a swinging couple but would prefer to swap the same gender. M on M 👬 and F on F 👭 For me, I’m new to girl-on-girl experiences and excited to explore that side, with my man close by enjoying the moment too. (Would like to start slow on this one as it's new for us..) 🫂👭 For him, he'll suck you off if you promise to rail him like a pony. I enjoy watching or diving in too 🙈✨ If you’re not genuinely interested in engaging with both of us, this probably isn't a good fit... no hard feelings, just keeping things real. 🙌🏻

i want to be the perfect switch, teach me i am eager to always learn in the bedroom and in the blue/ white collar realm, i am constantly hungry for knew knowledge…. I always, want to be good at everything i do… ✨✨✨✨💙my biggest weakness innocent, Muscular looking men💙✨✨✨✨

Fun and outspoken strong independent woman. I know who I am and I don't water myself down or switch up. ever. solid and good hearted. I am in an UNFUCKWITHABLE relationship with my man and in December, we will celebrate 4 years together. Small detail, my Daddy has been incarcerated 2.5 years, and I'm riding it out with him. We have an understanding that I can do as I please, with no repricussions in his absence. we have rules, I abide by them. he is due to come home March 2nd, 2028. I'm strictly looking for activity partners and friendships. I honestly entertain women much more in his absence,as we are both more comfortable with it that way, however, for a man to be able to grab my attention, I am looking for someone above average. anything under 8in, respectfully, I'm just not interested. if I took on an activity partner, I'd like to be able to build repore between us and partner for activities occasionally. I won't get clingy, I'm not moving in with you, I have my own apartment, FRIENDSHIP WITH ACTIVITY PARTNER ACCESS, NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATONSHIP. If u think u can handle the fact that I already have a Daddy, so never will ever call someone else Daddy...

Just a classy bi lady looking for friends and fun. Want to know something? Just ask! I’m an open book. Married to an awesome, supportive guy who knows I’m on here. Kind, clean, and drama free. Let’s chat!