INTRODUCTION - I’m not interested in hook ups, FWB/NSA, casual kink scene play, etc. I’m looking to find a long term D/s dynamic relationship, preferably with a Daddy Dom, Soft Dom type being that I’m a submissive, good girl, princess type. I have absolutely no interest in any poly situation, couples or attached men. Nor do I want a Dom who wants to have play sessions or scenes with other people outside our dynamic. I am looking for a monogamous 1 on 1 LTR. If you live more than 2.5 hrs away from me please dont bother trying to message me for a possible relationship. I have absolutely no interest in pursuing anything long distance, its not something I can mentally or emotionally handle. Also, I NEVER rush to meet anyone, if you cant respect that, then dont bother messaging me. If you are interested in me PLEASE DO NOT send me a sexualized message as your first introduction to me...be more respectful.
ABOUT ME - I am a BBW, 5 foot, 220 lbs, short red hair, green eyes. While I am looking for a D/s dynamic, I am also looking for a regular full on romantic relationship as well. I do not want just a Dom partner to play, I want a significant other who is also my Dom, to be with in a long term relationship that includes a D/s dynamic. I am looking for that deep connection to pursue a LTR with someone who is kinky and dominant. Ideally looking for someone within 10+/- years of my age and within 2-2.5 hrs of me.
I had a mostly vanilla sex life through my 20s. Started to explore some kinky stuff in my mid 20s but just got into the lifestyle exploring as a sub on and off over the past 6yrs. So my experience of being a submissive is not vast but I am willing to continue learning and growing. Most of my submissive experience has been through short term learning/exploring with Doms, casual scene play or FWB Doms, mainly bedroom submission, along with everything I have researched a lot on my own. I have not had a long term live in D/s dynamic yet. My experience as a submissive in a D/s dynamic is limited with 2 short term dynamics. The following list is most my top/favorite interests-kinks that I enjoy. The top 2 are absolute must haves for me in a dynamic relationship. I have had to remove several kinks from my list due to my worsening IBS and my IC.
MY MAIN KINK INTERESTS
1. Bondage/restraints - Only thing to take into consideration is positioning as to not aggravate my neck or back pain.
2. Forced Orgasms and Edging
3. Impact Play - Thuddy impact like spanking, flogging, paddling
4. Toys - Penetrative toys will now require lots of lube and not used roughly due to my IC.
5. Wax play
MY IDEAL PERSON - I am looking for long term D/s dynamic relationship. I want a Dom who is ready and looking to settle down. A Daddy Dom or Soft Dom type. You need to be understanding of and willing to work around my chronic pain issues (neck, upper back and lower back 24-7). Ideally Im into someone age 10+/- my age. if you are older than that then you are too close to my fathers age and thats too weird for me and a turn off. I dont do well with long distance relationships so ideally within 2-2.5 hrs would be best. Im looking to connect with someone on the deepest of levels while we explore our deepest desires together. I want a loving relationship where we will be devoted to each other. A relationship based and built on trust, honesty, respect, loyalty and open communication. As a submissive, I yearn to serve and please my Dom. In return I seek guidance, protection, support and a deep inner strength to lean on and training as needed. I want someone I can completely submit to, giving all of my mind, heart, body and soul to, knowing that in giving up full control my hard limits will always be respected never broken or forcefully taken away as a punishment. I need someone who believes in aftercare for me, just as I believe aftercare is important for you, someone who will never punish me because Im having a bad day health wise. I like things like being given a list each day of tasks I should try to complete as tolerated, with reminders to take time for myself to rest and relax. I like the day to day guidance and structure. If you dont respect hard limits/boundaries, I wont waste my time with you. I’m not interested in anyone who is young enough to be my child, nor am I interested in anyone who is old enough to be my father. Please respect my age preferences. If you’re messaging me and live several hundred or thousands of miles from me…I’m not responding back sorry.
