honestly just on here to find someone to use me🙈 I am happily engaged, no we aren't poly, but we both like the idea of someone else using me, he gets videos of it or joins in 🤭 I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DOM/SUB RELATIONSHIP NOR AM I LOOKING TO BE OWNED. this is strictly sex

I am a hard working single mama of 2. im am always having to be in charge. I just want to be told what to do sometimes 😉

• ♡ • ( ) .. .✦ no long distance !! nerdy dad bods to the front!! .✦ hello!! my name is dez, i'm 21 and so funny it's ridiculous. ins: dezpocalypse !! .✦ i'm polyam! i have a boyfriend of four years! .✦ tickling + bdsm fanatic .✦ my favorite things in the WORLD: project sekai, vocaloid, american dad, nintendo + sega games (ask me my mario kart main)

Happily married but a polyamorous swinger. Open to most things and experimenting. Message me to find out more about my username ;)

Cliff notes for those who don't read bios... Respect given is respect returned. I will hurt feelings if you don't come to me with respect. Boundaries, limits, safety, education, trust, communication are important to me, start a conversation with any of those instead of pics of your junk. I lean right so PLEASE just scroll instead of debating me. Be cool and I'm a happy go lucky lass. Class, sass or trash, what you get is what you give to me... For those that READ bios, cool, ty for visiting. I'm recently retired from uncle sugar, single and empty nester so...I am looking at all my avenues for what's next. lol I believe in the big dude upstairs (surprised?) and yeah, I'm letting him guide my ship here until I find a place I belong (I have my own house in TN but it's not "home" anymore). I am a hippy conservative but again, respect given is respect received (I am well aware I'm a pariah in some circles but ok). I'm serious about my values and I don't do bs, drama, or cults. BDSM is more mental and emotional for me than it is sexual. I am a big sapiophile (google before you judge, 😉). I am very experienced in non-sexual bdsm but little application with intimacy. Intimacy is precious to me so...what can ya do... I am not a casual girl, so gents, please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I'm a monogamous lass who wants that one epic connection that is cosmic. See...hippy like, huh, lol. I am an unnatural Dominant...life/career created this side of me but that's not my heart nor is it part of what I feel is natural. Men lead, women follow is what i believe but that's for me personally. Yeah, there's that hope that there's a special gent out there that can understand this and engage my very deep suby side with patience. Vulnerability is very hard for me in general (I am such a damn softie) but for me, that belongs to the mythical "Him" to unlock. Sounds romantic, huh...hehehe. Cross your fingers for me...this dating world sucks.. About the mythical him...slightly older gent, intelligent, challenging, good heart...piercing eyes *swoons* 😅 Ok, wow, about got all heated there...😁. That's about it, stay blessed yall! PS...I am a creator so yes, I made my corsets, cilice, glove

Professional Femme Dominatrix. Mistress of Mystery. Will keep you on your toes, And put you in your place - All at the same time😏👠💋

I'm here for interesting people more than interesting kinks. I love the conversations that start with philosophy, wander through history, somehow end up discussing monsters, medieval manuscripts, automation, or why bats are unfairly maligned—and then continue over coffee or at 2 a.m. because neither of us noticed the time. By day I build systems and solve complicated problems. I genuinely enjoy making impossible workflows suddenly make sense. Outside of work you'll usually find me somewhere between making art, singing, reading, or falling down another research rabbit hole for absolutely no reason. I'm polyamorous and value honesty, curiosity, and kindness. Chemistry matters, but so does friendship. I appreciate people who communicate well, know themselves (or are actively figuring it out), and aren't afraid to be a little weird. A few things I tend to appreciate: • Clever conversations • Competence (it's attractive) • Playfulness • Emotional intelligence • People who can laugh at themselves • Creative minds • Good aftercare—for scenes, conversations, and life in general. If we end up talking more about books, architecture, bats, or obscure historical trivia than kink... honestly, that's probably a good sign. Come say hi. Tell me about something you're passionate about.

Happily married but a polyamorous swinger. Open to most things and experimenting. Message me to find out more about my username ;)

I am a hard working single mama of 2. im am always having to be in charge. I just want to be told what to do sometimes 😉

I'm here for interesting people more than interesting kinks. I love the conversations that start with philosophy, wander through history, somehow end up discussing monsters, medieval manuscripts, automation, or why bats are unfairly maligned—and then continue over coffee or at 2 a.m. because neither of us noticed the time. By day I build systems and solve complicated problems. I genuinely enjoy making impossible workflows suddenly make sense. Outside of work you'll usually find me somewhere between making art, singing, reading, or falling down another research rabbit hole for absolutely no reason. I'm polyamorous and value honesty, curiosity, and kindness. Chemistry matters, but so does friendship. I appreciate people who communicate well, know themselves (or are actively figuring it out), and aren't afraid to be a little weird. A few things I tend to appreciate: • Clever conversations • Competence (it's attractive) • Playfulness • Emotional intelligence • People who can laugh at themselves • Creative minds • Good aftercare—for scenes, conversations, and life in general. If we end up talking more about books, architecture, bats, or obscure historical trivia than kink... honestly, that's probably a good sign. Come say hi. Tell me about something you're passionate about.

Professional Femme Dominatrix. Mistress of Mystery. Will keep you on your toes, And put you in your place - All at the same time😏👠💋

Cliff notes for those who don't read bios... Respect given is respect returned. I will hurt feelings if you don't come to me with respect. Boundaries, limits, safety, education, trust, communication are important to me, start a conversation with any of those instead of pics of your junk. I lean right so PLEASE just scroll instead of debating me. Be cool and I'm a happy go lucky lass. Class, sass or trash, what you get is what you give to me... For those that READ bios, cool, ty for visiting. I'm recently retired from uncle sugar, single and empty nester so...I am looking at all my avenues for what's next. lol I believe in the big dude upstairs (surprised?) and yeah, I'm letting him guide my ship here until I find a place I belong (I have my own house in TN but it's not "home" anymore). I am a hippy conservative but again, respect given is respect received (I am well aware I'm a pariah in some circles but ok). I'm serious about my values and I don't do bs, drama, or cults. BDSM is more mental and emotional for me than it is sexual. I am a big sapiophile (google before you judge, 😉). I am very experienced in non-sexual bdsm but little application with intimacy. Intimacy is precious to me so...what can ya do... I am not a casual girl, so gents, please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I'm a monogamous lass who wants that one epic connection that is cosmic. See...hippy like, huh, lol. I am an unnatural Dominant...life/career created this side of me but that's not my heart nor is it part of what I feel is natural. Men lead, women follow is what i believe but that's for me personally. Yeah, there's that hope that there's a special gent out there that can understand this and engage my very deep suby side with patience. Vulnerability is very hard for me in general (I am such a damn softie) but for me, that belongs to the mythical "Him" to unlock. Sounds romantic, huh...hehehe. Cross your fingers for me...this dating world sucks.. About the mythical him...slightly older gent, intelligent, challenging, good heart...piercing eyes *swoons* 😅 Ok, wow, about got all heated there...😁. That's about it, stay blessed yall! PS...I am a creator so yes, I made my corsets, cilice, glove

honestly just on here to find someone to use me🙈 I am happily engaged, no we aren't poly, but we both like the idea of someone else using me, he gets videos of it or joins in 🤭 I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DOM/SUB RELATIONSHIP NOR AM I LOOKING TO BE OWNED. this is strictly sex

• ♡ • ( ) .. .✦ no long distance !! nerdy dad bods to the front!! .✦ hello!! my name is dez, i'm 21 and so funny it's ridiculous. ins: dezpocalypse !! .✦ i'm polyam! i have a boyfriend of four years! .✦ tickling + bdsm fanatic .✦ my favorite things in the WORLD: project sekai, vocaloid, american dad, nintendo + sega games (ask me my mario kart main)