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No age, race or body type hang ups here. Seeking a Dominant man to give control to. In person eventually is the goal, but talking/video/messaging would be cool , too. Open to all kinds of experiences here.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 120 km
Into cnc, pegging/prostate play, and more!
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 60 km
Looking for a M-F morning/daytime play partner, ladies in the Richmond Va area hmu
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Hello I’m looking for a best friend to get to know and eventually own as my sub if you love praises and wanna feel owned I’m your guy I’m looking for a short skinny and cute white or Asian girl who likes fairly tall and big guys please understand that this isn’t strictly a sexual relationship I’m looking for a actual connection
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 35 years · 500 km
Looking to sext a little and do a little pic exchange with a freaky couple preferably one with a d/s dynamic . DM me ❤️🔥
BDSM Play Partner · 25 - 46 years · 500 km
An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.
We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.
Structure & Energy
Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions
Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries
A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual
Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately
During the Scene
I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:
-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control
-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded
-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction
My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:
-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)
-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits
-Verbal *** and *** that rein***s her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)
-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance
Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.
Care & After
Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved
Emotional check-ins and accountability
Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate
What Matters Most
We are looking for someone who understands that:
CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license
Consent is ongoing and revocable
*** is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless
Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect
Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.
Please read our bio before sending me a DM
BDSM Play Partner · 29 - 59 years · 140 km
Looking for a soft dom
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 35 years · 25 km
Looking for brat tamer/pleasure dom
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 25 km
Some who shares my bdsm and loves anime and watching movies and loves cuddling please text me at 804 731 4739
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 39 years · 25 km
Im 19, 4’11, laid-back, playful, and looking to meet a guy in his 20s–30s with good energy. I like music, drinks, smoking, and nights that turn into mornings.
I’ll be staying in an Airbnb for 9 days at the end of April, and I’d love to meet someone fun to spend some time with. Chill, talk, maybe a little trouble if we vibe.
If you’re attractive, chill, and know how to treat a girl right… say hi.
BDSM Play Partner · 21 - 39 years · 255 km
I want to try rope bunny and wax play along with my CNC kink with someone who’s willing to do that with me
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 27 years · 165 km
Pretty much what the titles says, I’m looking for a new submissive in the nearby area. Nothing requiring hard commitment, but we’ll see where things lead. Preferably around my age, and a size queen.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 190 km
Looking for someone online or ip to control me and push me father than ever before into submission and feminization. I have reasonable limits but I'm looking for someone who enjoys being a soft dom or caretaker. Controlling yet kind. And I'd love to build this into something long term if it goes well. Message me, love yas.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
19M submissive, I’m looking to be bisexually dominated by a couple. I’ve been wanting to experience it and i haven’t before, this would be my first time ever doing anything kinky related..
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 280 km
Hmu if u wanna chat
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
Honestly been bored all week but ik I should be doing something this weekend so I thought I’d try my luck to get a lil play session in for the weekend.
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 33 years · 25 km
Need someone to help me cum it’s throbbing so much
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
I’m throbbing
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 80 years · 500 km
anyone wanna make me wet?
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 495 km
Looking for a casual experience, not a pillow princess but can be. Just left a bad relationship looking to blow off steam. 420 friendly neg for everything
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 29 years · 50 km
I’m super interested in the mental and emotional aspects of bdsm — the tension of a d/s dynamic and getting comfortable with non-s3xual scenes first!!!!! It’s super important to me to get to trust anyone before being intimate and trying some scenes that aren’t physical at first. Def open to more physicality as I get to know people but I want to try some scenes that are just about the power dynamic 😋 I’m a switch, sadomasochist, experimentalist, and love rp and cyber <3
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 25 km
I’m new to the app and fet lifestyle in general, would love to chat with people more experienced, anyone interested in helping me learn and explore. Sub, pup, hella queer, WLW :)
BDSM Play Partner · 18 - 50 years · 80 km
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