My fwb and I are looking for a female to join us

Hello from Washington State! I know this is probably a long shot as there are many other couples looking for their unicorn and many of them far more appealing and baggage free but If you're a female who's looking for a couple please consider hearing me out. We are a couple currently looking for a Miracle Unicorn to enrich our lives and family.

A bit about Him (the male half of the couple):

My husband is a 29 yr old, 6'2'' 250 lb burly biker/lumberjack type of guy with medium tan skin, Tattoos, gorgeous blue/grey eyes, dark brown hair, and a beard! Some of his hobbies include hunting, shooting, camping, Listening to books, and enjoying art. My husband is a very Logical, aloof type of guy who struggles with emotionally connecting and whose ideal life is living in the country where it's quiet and raising a family. On a spicier note, He is an extreme sadist, dominant in every aspect of life, and isn't afraid of trying more extreme kinks like electricity play, Knife play, and breath play, but he's also wicked good with floggers and paddles! He has well over 10 years of kink experience and is Poly (like me).

A bit about Me (the female half of the couple)

I am a 25 yr old Disabled female Housewife/Expecting mother, who is 5'5'' 160 lbs (At the moment it is higher, 190lbs Due to pregnancy) with a Large DD bust, with Strawberry blonde Hair, hazel green eyes, a few tattoos, a few piercings, and pale freckled skin. I will admit I have a lot of scars and some stretchy marks but I see them as a sign of beauty! I have a very emotional, overly nice, squishy soft subby personality type with a hit of witty sarcasticness when I'm feeling sassy! I will fully disclose I come with baggage and struggle heavily with autism and PTSD, as well as Fibromyalgia and scoliosis. My hobbies are wide in variety since with my health I cannot work. In my free time, I enjoy music, networking, drawing, growing plants (veggies not maryjane), messing with AI, makeup, and fashion. I would describe my fashion as a mixture of Fairycore, Granny aesthetic, and pastel manic. My ideal life is a quiet country/farm lifestyle raising my kids. On the sexy side of things i am a masochistic submissive who is into blade play, and breath play and very poly and pansexual! (this whole search for a third was my idea not his lol)

What we are looking for in a unicorn:

What we are looking for is a Non-smoking, Average build, Biological female. Who leans on the Submissive end of the personality spectrum. We would prefer someone right-leaning (politically), with minimal health issues. who is open to a family lifestyle (meaning kids). One of the biggest things is we would hope that our unicorn could help me since my health has made it hard for me to adequately participate in Household chores and has robbed me of the ability to drive and work. I understand this is asking for a lot and is not for everyone and truthfully I don't expect to see this post bring any results for several months but I needed to shoot my shot.

Anyway, if you took the time to read all this I appreciate you. And if this sounds like you please don't hesitate to message me!