I’m looking to start a d/s dynamic with another individual ideally between the ages of 23-38 within a 100 mile radius of me.
My ideal dom is patient, kind, open, trustworthy, dependable, respectful, caring, firm, excels in communication and is self-aware. The two physical attributes that are most important to me is one being stronger than me (I’m not crazy strong or anything) and being taller than me (above 5’3).
In this dynamic, my expectations are as follows:
-A contract
-Journaling
-Clear Expectations
-Rules, Punishments and Rewards
-Punishments and Funishments should never be used interchangeably
-Safe words and actions when gagged
-Respect of one another’s limits
-Aftercare
-Ritual Sp*nkings to rein*** the dynamic
-Previous domming experience or a deep understanding of BD*M
-Honesty when not familiar with a topic (no one is familiar with everything that’s okay but be honest otherwise people get injured)
-Safe, Sane and Consensual (Including not partaking in substances) on top of that your first priority should be my safety
One k*nk I definitely want to delve further into is pet play, which is a non-negotiable for me.
Some kinks I refuse to partake in and is a hard limit for me is Cn*C, f*cal, k*ife/blo*d and v*mit. I’ve tried many things and am open to trying almost everything once.
If you’ve read this and are still interested dm me your thoughts on cheesy bread
Sorry for any confused censored words it wanted me to change it since it was too “spicy”
