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All my life I've been skipped over because most women don't want the nice guy. In the past I thought about trying to be the guy with the big ego to get the girl but that's not me. I'm Kind and honest and I just want to make the person I'm with happy. My desires are always second and before accepting the fact that I need a kink friendly relationship I believed myself to be more dominant but I was a service top that bottomed from the top. I would base what I would do in bed by feeding off of the emotion of my partner. If I'm doing something right I feel it. The feeling of a woman orgasming with my face between her legs while her back arches is my bliss.

I'm relatively new to kink but I am not new to my desires. I would joke around with past girlfriends and tell them that I'd be their sex slave to make up for whatever simple mistake I made and they always ignored as a joke but the idea of giving up all control and being seen as an object that is meant to please the woman I care about is very exciting.

I've hidden my desires for so long never willing to tell the women I loved about the wild sex fantasies I have. I would never tell a vanilla girlfriend that I would enjoy being bound, gagged and then pegged because they wouldn't understand. I only want to feel loved and accepted. They say nice guys finish last and they aren't wrong because I will please you in bed until you are done with me. I'm willing to explore and learn.