Kinky Date in Maple Valley

I am 57/m/Washington State. I love stronger females and muscles.

I was married to a top mtf pre op trans for 5 years before she passed. Been looking for that connection ever since. I was her house husband. Meaning i took care of the house and her needs. Im a total bottom but will top if it rises. Just looking for that kind of live again.
Im ddfree last tested 08 2025. Im caring kind a great kisser and cuddly teddy bear and a wonderful cook.

I have a very specific, obscure fixation on tummyaches, and caregiving a person who has one.

Been living in deep shame about it, but maybe there’s someone out there who will be non-judgmental- maybe even willing to safely explore this.

Looking for others who experience this, or kinks with enough overlap that we may have something in common (possible examples: belly rubs, feeding, hiccups, vore or inflation fantasy)

I'm looking for friends or a friend who wants to not only do kinky stuff but also enjoys outdoor things. Off-roading, camping, fishing, hiking as well as all of the other things we joined this all for. I'm game for a one time thing, but someone I can connect with and have adventures with would be the ultimate goal.