I am in an ENM relationship with my fiance. We recently opened it up for the time being (closes October of 2027) and I am looking for my all day texting buddy who wants to take things slow and get to know each other before we get sexual. Let's see where things go! _Seeking: Distraction. I want an all day texting buddy I can eventually do things with. must be able to talk most of the day to count. _Warning: I have a conversation kink. Foreplay for me is being asked questions and remembered. I’m a princess, not a drive-thru. I want to be courted, spoiled, and known before I’m touched._ _The Rule: 3 real conversations on 3 different days. Zero sexual talk, pics, calls, or meets until then. Consider it a vibe check for your self-control and respect. Pass it, and I’m yours to spoil._ _I want a Dom who leads with curiosity, not commands. You think the sexiest thing you can do is make me feel safe enough to melt. Aftercare starts at “hello.”_ _Green flags: You ask about my day and actually listen. You can explain D/s without mentioning sex. You understand “princess” means “protected + cherished,” not “property.”_ _Hard limit: If you bring up sex in the first 3 convos, I vanish like Cinderella at midnight. No glass slipper, no second chance._ _Your opening line can’t be “hey.” Try this: What’s something you’re nerdy about that has nothing to do with kink? Or: What’s one thing that makes you feel really cherished?_

I am in an ENM relationship with my fiance. We recently opened it up for the time being (closes October of 2027) and I am looking for my all day texting buddy who wants to take things slow and get to know each other before we get sexual. Let's see where things go! _Seeking: Distraction. I want an all day texting buddy I can eventually do things with. must be able to talk most of the day to count. _Warning: I have a conversation kink. Foreplay for me is being asked questions and remembered. I’m a princess, not a drive-thru. I want to be courted, spoiled, and known before I’m touched._ _The Rule: 3 real conversations on 3 different days. Zero sexual talk, pics, calls, or meets until then. Consider it a vibe check for your self-control and respect. Pass it, and I’m yours to spoil._ _I want a Dom who leads with curiosity, not commands. You think the sexiest thing you can do is make me feel safe enough to melt. Aftercare starts at “hello.”_ _Green flags: You ask about my day and actually listen. You can explain D/s without mentioning sex. You understand “princess” means “protected + cherished,” not “property.”_ _Hard limit: If you bring up sex in the first 3 convos, I vanish like Cinderella at midnight. No glass slipper, no second chance._ _Your opening line can’t be “hey.” Try this: What’s something you’re nerdy about that has nothing to do with kink? Or: What’s one thing that makes you feel really cherished?_