BDSM Dating in Brisbane

Dom for 5+ years. I value consent, communication, and trust above all else—without them, there’s no dynamic worth having. I lean toward a strict, controlling style: hair pulling, throat squeezing, spanking, pinning. But it’s never just about the physical—dominating the mind is where real submission deepens.

Aftercare isn’t optional. It’s the space where we reconnect, reflect, and make sure we both feel safe and seen. I use the colour system (green/yellow/red) because your voice matters, always—even when you're surrendering control.

If you’re my sub, I’ll guide you, challenge you, and care for you. Submission isn’t just about teasing—it’s choosing to let go, to trust, to follow. Obedience, structure, vulnerability—these aren’t weaknesses, they’re power. And I respect that deeply.

Mainly here for fun, but open to whatever grows from connection. Let’s talk limits, not just kinks.