BDSM Dating in Highland Park

So, my experience with bdsm/kink began about 10 years ago, but I had no idea about the community or the lingo around it all. Still not great with the lingo, haha. I have had experience in sexual and non sexual daddy/dom play. I have been involved in a dynamic that came to an end about 6 months ago that involved a lot of rules that came with reward and punishment. As far as my kink, if you would call it that, I get off on everything that comes with me guiding a sub in the exploration of their limits . I love the communication, trust, respect, and space held for one another that is built along the way. I get off on, getting my other of. I try not to put too much expectation on things, but as far as what im looking for, it's definitely something longer term, thats where it's at. Short term, i feel like you can't even scratch the surface. Outside of that, it obviously goes without saying that it is beneficial to both.
Im big on aftercare, and my biggest deal breaker is poor communication. If you're someone who really struggles with talking about what your wants and needs are or you suppress your true feelings, im respectfully, probably not for you 🙂