Not looking for a dom, looking for friends, Subs (or sub-leaning switch more leaning towards fem), also not looking for ageplay atm as i already have a little.

Here seeking people to talk to and explore with, I am very new to all of this and have minimal experience. Enjoy being controlled and humiliated and put in bondage. I am hoping to find someone that isn't going to rush me into anything and would be willing to be patient with me and talk and actually get to know one another.

Currently with a cuck. Down to talk about anything ask me anything you want to know. Open to roleplay and sexting or talking about your fantasies. Message me with no limits. I'll fuck you and your friends

I am a creative artist. For me, kink/BDSM is about creative power exchange dynamics. It is more energetic and spiritual than just physical. I describe myself as a sub who sometimes has bratty and naughty edges. I can sound dominant sometimes, tender and *** sometimes. Would love to meet a woman who is comfortable with leadership and being in a dominant role. Someone with whom I can trust and surrender. Someone who combines both the feminine and masculine in her character.

Hi, I’m Anna, a curious and open minded submissive exploring the kink world. While I have some experience, I’m always eager to learn and grow. I’m drawn to power exchange, impact play and so on. But above all, I value, trust, communication, and mutual respect.

I’ll be honest I’m a pricess and I need someone to take care of me. I need someone to tell me what to do and rein me in a bit when Im not following the rules

I’m a deep thinker, especially when it comes to philosophy, psychology, and religion. I enjoy meaningful conversations and friendships where people can challenge and expand each other’s perspectives. Professionally, I work at the intersection of art and technology. Here, I’m hoping to connect with someone who has experience with BDSM, or who has deep thoughts about its psychological, relational, or philosophical dimensions.

Would like to explore more on what’s out there. 1.) haven’t tried anything but have a lot of fantasies. 2.) a little insecure, so would love someone who can put me in my place. 3.) open to anything, but do have some limits. So ask me!

**Notes:** I am not looking for a Dom/Sub/Top/Bottom etc or any kink/sexual relations with anyone. I am not a content creator. If you want to get to know me on any form or level. I hang out in the chat rooms.

New here curious in the truest sense. Leaning more towards connecting with WOMEN on here with the exception of a few males. I get bored easily and take lengthy breaks from here I’m fascinated by people: how they think, what draws them in, and what’s happening beneath the surface. I enjoy conversations with both men and women, especially when they drift into imagination, fantasy, and the unspoken. I’m intrigued by what people picture in their minds while they’re talking, when there kissing, when there touching themselves watching what they watch, who they imagine, what traits they’re projecting, and what stories are quietly unfolding. I’m particularly drawn to the deeper layers: desires people hesitate to name, curiosities they’re unsure how to voice, and thoughts that feel safer to explore in conversation than anywhere else. I value openness, nuance, and the kind of dialogue with strangers on here where honesty feels possible without pressure and maybe clarity will arise for you. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something from me too. I’m also very good at offering a female perspective especially when it comes to understanding women. I’m keen on unpacking behaviors, dynamics, and emotional undercurrents, and I’m often told I’m good at explaining why people respond the way they do, particularly in relational and sexual contexts. I’m open to exploring the sexual side of your world the world your scared to share publicly and privately through conversation and shared curiosity, the porn you watch.. If you’re comfortable, I enjoy being sent photos or videos and talking about what they stir up for you. What draws you in? Do they remind you of someone specific, or embody a dynamic you crave? Is there a sense of submission, control, or vulnerability that resonates in yourself, or in the same or opposite sex? I’m interested not just in the image, but in what it unlocks. Same sex porn? Send me what got you off, tell me about why it makes you zing. Or do you simply watch just for a quick release, when you’re stressed or feeling lonely, I like to talk about it and maybe, get off reading your words. I enjoy erotic content and fantasy, but I’m intentional about it mindful of how it can affect connection and relationships, so I keep it in balance. But I wan to know what makes you feel those tingles, I want to see what you see. But only if you ask first. Maybe you’ll get a video I’ve watched and ask you to record something for me, to know what i watch got you there I come from a long-term relationship background and I’m approaching this space thoughtfully. Right now, I’m here to explore, read profiles, understand different perspectives, and gather inspiration for myself and for the way people express desire and identity. No photos for now conversation first. I like knowing that you’re not imagining me exactly. Curiosity, consent, and presence matter more to me than rushing anything.

Hi! In a longterm partnership (M/F) who appreciate fun friends who we can flirt and fool around with as a pair. We are not super into one-time hook-ups and would much rather connect with someone who wants to hang out first and see if the vibe feels fun for everyone before moving into something sexual. No relationship pressure- we are both more interested in a casual fwb situation with someone we can also be friends with. Women or non-binary folks only please ❤️🌈

Back here on a whim (sigh...), with a bit more privacy due to occupation reasons (face photos hidden, but will show upon earned request). Returning with the same desire for a genuine connection, whether with new friends or my ideal submissive romantic partner. - I can appreciate a well-mannered compliment, but I am unimpressed by low-effort flirtatious one-liners or desperate pleas for attention; you will not get a response that way (or worse - I block you) - I only want to converse with people who send intelligible and thoughtful messages and who truly want to have a proper conversation and get to know me and vice versa. - I value kindness, compassion, and equal rights for everyone. If those do not sound like something you care about - do not talk to me. What I’m looking for: - In general: Connecting with people that have similar interests where we can learn something from each other and/or just share interesting stories and experiences. - Friends! Especially femmes and queers - Holding out hope for a female-led relationship with a submissive who wants to commit for the long haul (monogamy); I am attracted to those who are understanding, intelligent, have something going for them in life, is fit and cares about health and wellness, and share similar vanilla hobbies and interests. NOT interested in: - Cheaters (your partner will find out, and leave your sorry ass) - Unintelligent people - Frivolous flirtation - “Casual” & “NSA” (It's not in me; I love emotions and a real connection) - Dominant people hitting on me (I am not a sub) - Getting involved with EnM people (friendly conversation is fine, just not my cup of tea to do anything with you) Kinky me: - I identify as a firm Domme (or Mistress when earned) that gets a kick out of inflicting *** on my partner, both physically (sadism) and mentally and emotionally (***). I am also fond of bondage, but I’m still fairly new at restraining with rope; I’ve mainly dabbled with cuffs, bed restraints, and tape but would love to learn shibari. I also love being worshipped just as much as I love a partner that wants to have my needs met first (as much as I want). Vanilla me: - I’ve been told I’m a soft-spoken sweetie with a sentimental heart—and I’d say they’re right! I care deeply about the people in my life and take pride in being considered one of the most thoughtful people they have gotten to know. I love to love, and I love being loved. As for my interests, they stem from all things artsy and geeky; I enjoy movies, shows, books, collectibles, fashion, music, and anything quirky I must do a deep dive on YouTube one late evening. - If the above resonates with you, chat me up with something interesting and I may respond. Sincerely, Divine Darling (Username is the same as FetLife handle if you want to check that out)

sweet mix of shy n kinkyyy, bicep biter a switch bc dominant women make me nervous but submissive women make me feel more dom 🙂‍↕️ I’m comfortable taking the lead sometimes but mainly comfortable being a lil brat sub i will probably be a bit ashamed that we met on this app as this is my secret side ehehe. but I’m always working/travelling so I don’t have much time to meet people. i’m new here and just thought it would be fun. I have roomates so I can rarely host! let’s grab a drink, call me a good girl, grab my legs and let’s see where it goes consent is major! gotta feel safe no experience in group sex yettt but been dreaming about finding a good setting for it since forever so if ever there’s an occasion… i’ll jump on it i get lost in messages + I prioritize ppl I have a good connection with + shorter distance :-) stop harassing me pls

Down to Earth, girl next door Also, please only msg me if you live in my city, not looking for "pen pals " I will only meet someone in person first BTW, make that clear

Dominatrix looking for a loyal boy to play with. must be comfortable agreeing to MY terms and conditions. I enjoy sharing porn videos of my interests as long as parties consent to the content before it’s shared. Y’all married people stay tf away I ain’t tryna have drama

Switchy sadomasochist, very open minded, a smart ass and a yapper. I do as I please unless I allow you to direct me. I tend to be dominant in life and in the bedroom unless there is someone who can do what is needed better than me (hasn’t happened yet) so don’t anticipate me bending to your will easily. I do what I want, with who I want, when I want. Long list of kinks and an equally long list of ones I still want to try. Not looking for random hookups, one night stands or anything of that nature. I’m seeking experiences, connection and exploration. I’m open to friends, play partners, lovers and anything in between. Fetlife account is under the same username Located in the lower mainland Other interests include: general shenanigans, tomfoolery and clowning around No face on here for work reasons https://bdsmtest.org/r/LuV29KDQ 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 100% Sadist 100% Switch 100% Degrader 96% Experimentalist 94% Rigger 93% Dominant 93% Brat tamer 92% Voyeur 90% Brat 89% Owner 78% Rope bunny 77% Master/Mistress 75% Submissive 74% Primal (Hunter) 70% Daddy/Mommy 64% Primal (Prey) 64% Non-monogamist 56% Exhibitionist 47% Little 36% Pet 8% Vanilla 4% Slave 0% Ageplayer

Fem part of the couple account exploring cyberfun, exhibitionism / voyeurism and are fairly new to LS. mostly here for the opportunity to learn about kink and bdsm, Lobby banter, and making new connections/friends. Strongly focused on the community safety and authenticity of the members we interact with. not interested in single men, please don’t waste your time. here to explore the lifestyle at a very gradual pace and only involving F and intellectual couples. up for some private cyber fun with other couples or ladies only

**NO SINGLE MEN** Single. I like girly girls and manly men. Sucker for a guy with facial hair and a girl with curves. I like to watch as well. I’m not a total newbie at this but also not very experienced! Curious about being subject of pleasure doms. non-smoker, vaccinated, tested, no drama, looking for same. I don’t host. Would prefer local’ish for ongoing fun. Not looking for relationship labels

Happily partnered, polyamorous, geeky introvert with a big heart. Five foot nuthin' and curvy. Leftist, feminist, queer, kinky, and GGG. Primarily here looking for a Daddy Dom 📍 BASED IN VANCOUVER AND LOOKING FOR LOCAL ONLY

Experienced sub looking for a Dom whose kinks align. I am married. My husband knows but does not play. fwb only. I love enjoy lots of kissing, touch, bondage, rope, edge and impact play. I'm open to experimenting. Intense ***, biologicals and *** are not my kinks. Being able to please my Dom is a must.

Sub leaning switch looking for a Dom, just trying to rediscover what I enjoy with fun, like minded people. Open to exploring most things provided proper boundaries are established, open communication and consent are key. Poly and married to my amazing husband, we live together but play separately, and hosting can be complicated. We are not looking for unicorns/ thirds/cucks. Working remotely up north until October so meet ups in general are quite impossible. I'm generally an open book so feel free to ask whatever, respectfully of course.

Enjoying this side of life with my partner and meeting like-minded people along the way. 🖤 Open to women and couples (FF, MFF, MFMF). We’re all about good vibes, natural chemistry, sensuality, and a little kink. With respect and clear boundaries. No single men, please. Let’s connect and see where the vibe takes us. 😈

⚠️NOT A BLONDE ANYMORE I HAVE DARK BROWN HAIR JUST NO PICS⚠️ (I’ll probably go back to blonde soon I miss it already) ⚠️NO NO NO NUDES⚠️ I’m a good girl who love to bake and give you all the love you need, I like to think of myself more of a lap dog or service dog, I’ll bake for you and cook dinner! I’m not against sexual stuff but I would rather more mundane dominate stuff sometimes I’m more interested in lifestyle and 24/7 dom and sub dynamics

I’m a deep thinker, especially when it comes to philosophy, psychology, and religion. I enjoy meaningful conversations and friendships where people can challenge and expand each other’s perspectives. Professionally, I work at the intersection of art and technology. Here, I’m hoping to connect with someone who has experience with BDSM, or who has deep thoughts about its psychological, relational, or philosophical dimensions.

I am a creative artist. For me, kink/BDSM is about creative power exchange dynamics. It is more energetic and spiritual than just physical. I describe myself as a sub who sometimes has bratty and naughty edges. I can sound dominant sometimes, tender and *** sometimes. Would love to meet a woman who is comfortable with leadership and being in a dominant role. Someone with whom I can trust and surrender. Someone who combines both the feminine and masculine in her character.

I’ll be honest I’m a pricess and I need someone to take care of me. I need someone to tell me what to do and rein me in a bit when Im not following the rules

Currently with a cuck. Down to talk about anything ask me anything you want to know. Open to roleplay and sexting or talking about your fantasies. Message me with no limits. I'll fuck you and your friends

Would like to explore more on what’s out there. 1.) haven’t tried anything but have a lot of fantasies. 2.) a little insecure, so would love someone who can put me in my place. 3.) open to anything, but do have some limits. So ask me!

Here seeking people to talk to and explore with, I am very new to all of this and have minimal experience. Enjoy being controlled and humiliated and put in bondage. I am hoping to find someone that isn't going to rush me into anything and would be willing to be patient with me and talk and actually get to know one another.

Not looking for a dom, looking for friends, Subs (or sub-leaning switch more leaning towards fem), also not looking for ageplay atm as i already have a little.

Hi, I’m Anna, a curious and open minded submissive exploring the kink world. While I have some experience, I’m always eager to learn and grow. I’m drawn to power exchange, impact play and so on. But above all, I value, trust, communication, and mutual respect.

New here curious in the truest sense. Leaning more towards connecting with WOMEN on here with the exception of a few males. I get bored easily and take lengthy breaks from here I’m fascinated by people: how they think, what draws them in, and what’s happening beneath the surface. I enjoy conversations with both men and women, especially when they drift into imagination, fantasy, and the unspoken. I’m intrigued by what people picture in their minds while they’re talking, when there kissing, when there touching themselves watching what they watch, who they imagine, what traits they’re projecting, and what stories are quietly unfolding. I’m particularly drawn to the deeper layers: desires people hesitate to name, curiosities they’re unsure how to voice, and thoughts that feel safer to explore in conversation than anywhere else. I value openness, nuance, and the kind of dialogue with strangers on here where honesty feels possible without pressure and maybe clarity will arise for you. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something from me too. I’m also very good at offering a female perspective especially when it comes to understanding women. I’m keen on unpacking behaviors, dynamics, and emotional undercurrents, and I’m often told I’m good at explaining why people respond the way they do, particularly in relational and sexual contexts. I’m open to exploring the sexual side of your world the world your scared to share publicly and privately through conversation and shared curiosity, the porn you watch.. If you’re comfortable, I enjoy being sent photos or videos and talking about what they stir up for you. What draws you in? Do they remind you of someone specific, or embody a dynamic you crave? Is there a sense of submission, control, or vulnerability that resonates in yourself, or in the same or opposite sex? I’m interested not just in the image, but in what it unlocks. Same sex porn? Send me what got you off, tell me about why it makes you zing. Or do you simply watch just for a quick release, when you’re stressed or feeling lonely, I like to talk about it and maybe, get off reading your words. I enjoy erotic content and fantasy, but I’m intentional about it mindful of how it can affect connection and relationships, so I keep it in balance. But I wan to know what makes you feel those tingles, I want to see what you see. But only if you ask first. Maybe you’ll get a video I’ve watched and ask you to record something for me, to know what i watch got you there I come from a long-term relationship background and I’m approaching this space thoughtfully. Right now, I’m here to explore, read profiles, understand different perspectives, and gather inspiration for myself and for the way people express desire and identity. No photos for now conversation first. I like knowing that you’re not imagining me exactly. Curiosity, consent, and presence matter more to me than rushing anything.

**Notes:** I am not looking for a Dom/Sub/Top/Bottom etc or any kink/sexual relations with anyone. I am not a content creator. If you want to get to know me on any form or level. I hang out in the chat rooms.

Back here on a whim (sigh...), with a bit more privacy due to occupation reasons (face photos hidden, but will show upon earned request). Returning with the same desire for a genuine connection, whether with new friends or my ideal submissive romantic partner. - I can appreciate a well-mannered compliment, but I am unimpressed by low-effort flirtatious one-liners or desperate pleas for attention; you will not get a response that way (or worse - I block you) - I only want to converse with people who send intelligible and thoughtful messages and who truly want to have a proper conversation and get to know me and vice versa. - I value kindness, compassion, and equal rights for everyone. If those do not sound like something you care about - do not talk to me. What I’m looking for: - In general: Connecting with people that have similar interests where we can learn something from each other and/or just share interesting stories and experiences. - Friends! Especially femmes and queers - Holding out hope for a female-led relationship with a submissive who wants to commit for the long haul (monogamy); I am attracted to those who are understanding, intelligent, have something going for them in life, is fit and cares about health and wellness, and share similar vanilla hobbies and interests. NOT interested in: - Cheaters (your partner will find out, and leave your sorry ass) - Unintelligent people - Frivolous flirtation - “Casual” & “NSA” (It's not in me; I love emotions and a real connection) - Dominant people hitting on me (I am not a sub) - Getting involved with EnM people (friendly conversation is fine, just not my cup of tea to do anything with you) Kinky me: - I identify as a firm Domme (or Mistress when earned) that gets a kick out of inflicting *** on my partner, both physically (sadism) and mentally and emotionally (***). I am also fond of bondage, but I’m still fairly new at restraining with rope; I’ve mainly dabbled with cuffs, bed restraints, and tape but would love to learn shibari. I also love being worshipped just as much as I love a partner that wants to have my needs met first (as much as I want). Vanilla me: - I’ve been told I’m a soft-spoken sweetie with a sentimental heart—and I’d say they’re right! I care deeply about the people in my life and take pride in being considered one of the most thoughtful people they have gotten to know. I love to love, and I love being loved. As for my interests, they stem from all things artsy and geeky; I enjoy movies, shows, books, collectibles, fashion, music, and anything quirky I must do a deep dive on YouTube one late evening. - If the above resonates with you, chat me up with something interesting and I may respond. Sincerely, Divine Darling (Username is the same as FetLife handle if you want to check that out)

Hi! In a longterm partnership (M/F) who appreciate fun friends who we can flirt and fool around with as a pair. We are not super into one-time hook-ups and would much rather connect with someone who wants to hang out first and see if the vibe feels fun for everyone before moving into something sexual. No relationship pressure- we are both more interested in a casual fwb situation with someone we can also be friends with. Women or non-binary folks only please ❤️🌈

Sensual sub looking for LTR with Doms or DaddyDom types (not Masters) who are into romance, intellectual conversations, control and impact play. Yes I have pictures.

"I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul." —Pablo Neruda

We're a MF couple who likes to laugh, explore, and keep things easy. No drama, no strings. We're looking for someone fun to connect with, on the same page about keeping things casual. A little about us: She’s a PhD student who likes knitting, baking bread, and the occasional poetry. He’s a diver, motorcyle rider, and excellent margarita maker who likes homemade pesto pasta, sleeping in on Sundays, and beers with his friends. We value good communication, mutual respect, and knowing what everyone wants going in. If you're easygoing, drama-free, and looking for the same kind of fun please say hi. 😉 *Joint Account, Not interested in couples

I’m here to explore, try things I haven’t tried before, and have very fun experiences with people I genuinely have chemistry with. I like confidence, affection and a little (maybe a lot) of dominance 😈

I’m a very kinky easygoing open minded girl. I’m on this site because I enjoy bdsm and want to experience it and learn more. I get a super high from it and also need aftercare to come down. I want to live the lifestyle..

Newly out of a LTR. Feeling a little nervous about getting back out there Perhaps there's a Dom/me who could help reintroduce me to ropes, impact play (I love being marked up), wax, and subspace?

Accomplished, independent, curious; and considerably more adventurous than I probably look. For me, chemistry starts in the mind. I like witty banter, intelligent conversation, confidence without arrogance, and the delicious tension of letting something develop rather than rushing to the obvious. I'm a service-oriented, sub-leaning switch, exploring D/s more intentionally. I love giving, pleasing, anticipating, and making the right person feel very well cared for. Trust, emotional intelligence and feeling genuinely valued are what unlock the rest. I'm open to an intimate relationship, something ongoing, or FWB when there's real chemistry. I'm not transactional. I want connection, discretion, laughter, and a brain I can play with. I'm drawn to younger men, but maturity is much sexier than just a number. Lady in the streets. The rest is earned.

⚠️NOT A BLONDE ANYMORE I HAVE DARK BROWN HAIR JUST NO PICS⚠️ (I’ll probably go back to blonde soon I miss it already) ⚠️NO NO NO NUDES⚠️ I’m a good girl who love to bake and give you all the love you need, I like to think of myself more of a lap dog or service dog, I’ll bake for you and cook dinner! I’m not against sexual stuff but I would rather more mundane dominate stuff sometimes I’m more interested in lifestyle and 24/7 dom and sub dynamics

Down to Earth, girl next door Also, please only msg me if you live in my city, not looking for "pen pals " I will only meet someone in person first BTW, make that clear

Tall, shy, and neurodivergent. I am new here and exploring my curiosity for shibari, pet play, and a few other things, at a very slow, deliberate pace. What works for me: Clear, direct communication, patience, and starting with text-only chats to see if we click. What doesn't work: Rush tactics, entitlement, or complaints about your past dating luck. Let’s keep things respectful and transparent.

I am an outgoing and thoughtful person who loves nature and spending time outdoors. I am passionate about cooking, baking, and creating food that brings people together. I enjoy sports, even if I am more of a watcher than a player, and singing is something that centers me. I am a very hard worker and put my whole heart into the things I care about. When I'm passionate about something or someone I show up fully and consistently. I do have a naturally submissive side, but it's something I share only when I feel safe and deeply connected. I'm hoping to meet someone I can truly date and share meaningful time with, someone whose interests align with mine and who enjoys building a connection through shared hobbies and experiences. I'm drawn to a man who can be firm and even a little strict in the right moments, while also showing care, patience, and emotional balance. Confidence is important to me, but personality, communication, and genuine compatibility matter far more than age or appearance.